| 5/11/2008 9:05:45 PM |
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buckeye08
Columbus, OH
age: 21
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So, I feel as though I have passed a point of no return in the dating world. That point being that I am soon 22 and have never had a boyfriend, or even been on a date. Anymore this seems to be more of a liability when talking to new guys. I am not ashamed as this has been partially due to how I prioritize my life. Relationships have never been the most important thing for me to seek. But I was just curious of others' opinions. Plus, its always reassuring to hear similar stories.
How would you react if at his point in your life, the person you were dating had never been on a date (or done things that often follow a date...hint hint wink wink)?
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| 5/11/2008 9:07:42 PM |
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kgearly1021
Valdosta, GA
age: 48
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The point of no return at 22???????? LOL!
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| 5/11/2008 9:09:46 PM |
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buckeye08
Columbus, OH
age: 21
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alright, that was overly dramatic, but what I meant is that it seems to have become a turn off, where when we were 14, it was cute
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| 5/11/2008 9:12:01 PM |
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kgearly1021
Valdosta, GA
age: 48
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Well you will just have to wait on the right guy. (wink, wink)
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| 5/11/2008 9:14:42 PM |
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buckeye08
Columbus, OH
age: 21
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thank you! 
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| 5/11/2008 9:30:47 PM |
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ccubedccc
Denver, CO
age: 53
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Buckeye, you are probably tired of hearing this, but at 22 you have long dating life ahead of you.
Any guy who judges you because your priorities were not on dating...and the wink, wink stuff is pretty shallow. 
In time (I know that sounds corny), the right guy will appear and will be thrilled to date you. Maybe someone who appreciates a lady who is just getting started in the world of relationships dating and wink, wink.
Don't rush. Don't feel pressured. Accept where you are now, be open to the future and be willing to take baby step risks. 
You have not passed the point of no return, you may just be a flower that is ready to bloom (I know that also sounds corny, but it's true).
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| 5/11/2008 9:32:16 PM |
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dej88
Harrisburg, PA
age: 59
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buckeye, why tell them? They don't need to know everything.
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| 5/11/2008 9:48:09 PM |
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forestrose
Calgary, AB
age: 55
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Once you have had that first date, you can't have it again.
You are in the position of still having it to look forward to - lucky you!
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| 5/11/2008 9:58:36 PM |
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dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 44
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By the looks of your profile I would say that you have been taking care of the important business first. Good on you!
You will find that boyfriends will come and go. But an education is forever.
I don't think you will have any problems finding a good guy. Don't rush it as time is on your side. OH yo be young again! Don't give up the Wink Wink! to anyone. Wait for the right one.
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| 5/11/2008 10:03:56 PM |
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silentsporty
Atlanta, GA
age: 23
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I can understand where you coming from, I never had a girlfriend, although I had been on a few dates. I agree with dutchboy, boyfriends do come and go. But make sure you do keep your head out for the right one, and don't let him slip way. But it is good that you got your priorities straight. Very impressive!
By the way, I love the Ohio State buckeyes. Looking forward to another great run at a national title!
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| 5/12/2008 7:14:48 AM |
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vyper68
Amanda, OH
age: 39
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hi darling. please dont get discouraged. by the way. i am right here in your area. i am 39 and have never dated. now doesnt that seem strange. i hav only had two relationships. one of which was a 17yr marriage. both relationships were ladies that were my friend first. by the time we ever went out as a couple, we were already devoted to eachother. now i am single and dont have a clue what i am doing which often seems to make me a easy target. but my point is that you dont always have to date to meet someone. dont forget to look right under your nose. i wish you the best
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| 5/12/2008 9:06:51 AM |
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miked33
Columbus, OH
age: 33
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i think you should just lay back and relax when you see him youll know and if your ready then go make it happen. i mean he might be closer then you think im also in columbus ohio (hint hint wink wink)
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