| 5/20/2008 5:22:16 PM |
Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? |
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dodgegirl1971
Martinsville, IN
age: 36
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| 1. I think a first date should be am I attracted to this person?. |
| 2. Should anyone be able to expain this it would really help. |
I had a date with a man I met online(different site)about 2 weeks ago. He was pretty nice but all he talked of was sex. I like sex don't get me wrong, I just don't believe in sex on a first second or third date. I was married for 10 years and I had known him since I was 12, but I didn't have sex for at least 2 months. Now it seems everyone I do meet talk of nothing but sex. Is sex that important when your trying to find the right person?
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| 5/20/2008 7:14:04 PM |
Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? |
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lonelyguy2008
Meridian, MS
age: 40
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Sex is very important.
Most guys expect to become intimate by the 3rd date.
If we dont see the affections, we assume youre not feeling what we are and we move on.
Sex on a 1st date, however, is a big no no
Most guys will try 4 it 2 see how loose u are
But, if it happens that soon, there will rarely be a 2nd date
Th 2nd or 3rd date is the norm, these days
[Edited 5/20/2008 7:14:28 PM]
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| 5/21/2008 3:12:27 PM |
Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? |
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crystal_2love
St John, VI
age: 50
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I wasn't quite sure the answers (1 & 2)
I agree that the 3rd date has been kind of a rule of expectations but it should not be a rule etched in stone.
I dated a man for about 3 weeks before I was sexually attracted to him. I continued to date him during the 3 weeks I was able to learn what a genuine hearted man he was. Several times during that dating period he invited my son along and they had wonderful conversation. We began a sexual relationship after 3 wks and only lasted 2 weeks more. He was not what I expected.
I have had a few experiences with the 3rd date expectation. In all honesty, a disaster!
Discovering that the person is a BAD lover after the fact is the deal breaker.
3rd date last date.
My best lover  was a first date and we lasted 5 yrs.
Sex should happen when BOTH people want it. And not just a mercy shag.
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| 5/21/2008 3:15:10 PM |
Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? |
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aka_neo
Marathon, FL
age: 51 online now!
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If the first chat is about sex ,blow him or her a kiss
and move on to the next .
I think I made a rhyme .
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| 5/21/2008 3:21:02 PM |
Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? |
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crystal_2love
St John, VI
age: 50
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I think most people that engage in sexual conversation are trying find out compatibility answers...or they are just shallow and narrow minded.
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| 5/21/2008 8:22:28 PM |
Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? |
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tx38austin
Dallas, TX
age: 38
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You were married to a man for ten years that you waited a whole two months to have sex with?
Now you're concern is that all 'men' want talk about with you is sex? My advice, give them all two months like your first and don't complain!
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| 5/21/2008 8:29:38 PM |
Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? |
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crystal_2love
St John, VI
age: 50
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ok ..I agree. tx38austin has a point.
This does sound very strange.
Did you have sex at 12...2 months after meeting him or waited two months after you married him????
[Edited 5/21/2008 8:32:54 PM]
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| 5/22/2008 12:26:18 PM |
Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? |
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mackyack
Simpsonville, SC
age: 48
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Yes it's a natural thing that a man should want sex from a female at and all meetings until he loses intrest. it,s part of the mating game. men are here just for that nothing else . althought we try to make something different of it even .try very hard to be true and can      
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| 5/22/2008 6:34:08 PM |
Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? |
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njshore1999
Lakewood, NJ
age: 43
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Yes...it's just you....
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| 5/22/2008 7:10:58 PM |
Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? |
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crystal_2love
St John, VI
age: 50
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GAWD! this took all the worry out of getting to know a man..
Just flip out the CC and drop your jeans ladies..
hahahah..desserts on him!
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| 5/22/2008 8:14:32 PM |
Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? |
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maximumsun
Cumming, GA
age: 35
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Every dog knows that you have to get the woman thinking about sex before you get some of it. If the suggestions are subtle flirts, go along with it; may help to really get the juices flowin' for that first encounter. It just doesn't seem natuaral for a guy to start a "conversation" about sex though - sounds piggish.
But on the other hand, maybe you are a little paranoid and are blowing things a little out of proportion. Women do that.
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| 5/22/2008 8:18:06 PM |
Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? |
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maximumsun
Cumming, GA
age: 35
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GAWD! this took all the worry out of getting to know a man..
Just flip out the CC and drop your jeans ladies..
hahahah..desserts on him! |
| 5/22/2008 8:28:47 PM |
Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? |
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homerchey
Silsbee, TX
age: 51
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sex and dating , cannot be serperated . but sex should not dominate the date , as a matter of fact .
it should not considred untill the womam at the least drops hints . when you date someone .
thats just you and your dates time to get to know one another , sex is wonderful but its
not everthing
if you want a good lady , you have to treat her like a lady.
if you dating a lady who just wants to make it with you , they wil;l let you know .
we men have taken a bad rap for years , because some guys are stupid .
i dont party to much anymore , and when i dated and partied , i let the ladys
make the first move , except for minor stull like a samll kiss are holding hands
i learned early , that this is the best way .
iam a blount person , and i say whats son my mond . i nerver was one to tell someone
that i loved them . just to sleep with them .
real men donot have to be crude . to have sex .
well that my thoughts on this
ace
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| 5/22/2008 11:00:33 PM |
Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? |
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pineconenut
Santa Maria, CA
age: 44
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Ace I wish all men were real men like you. You truly have a heart and my respect. I agree that a date does not have to revolve around sex. I think a person should take as much time as they feel they need and if the other person is not willing to wait they are not patient enough to be worth while.
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| 5/22/2008 11:26:17 PM |
Is it just me or does the dating game revolve around sex? |
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homerchey
Silsbee, TX
age: 51
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now i understand , and thanks your a great one
and most men know this , but everone is in such a hurry they miss out , sad isnt it .
the old school , hard it right .
and we blew it ,but its not to late
hugs and thanks
ace
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