@ z0ner...*gigglesnort*

I just had a conversation earlier about some females allowing males to think certain things are "ok" from OUR actions by THEIR actions. I just read something that pretty much is what I am referring to: MALE vs. MAN

On a date who opens the door for who? Should a "LADY" open the door for a "MAN"????
In my opinion I feel that a man would not allow this. (that's something a male does) That is nothing to brag about, be impressed by, or be ok with. I was taught that there is only room for 1 darling in a relationship, date, etc. Picking up a tab at times if you are dating someone or in a relationship is quite naturally going to to take place (and only fair, even tough some woman don't believe in that lol) but CHIVALRY ISN'T DEAD therefore we should acknowledge it and practice it in our daily doings. There is nothing wrong with a woman doing certain things for a man but there are unspoken rules and opening a door for a woman is one of them. Lover, brother, stranger, nephew, cousin, or neighbor....you should open the door for a lady. A man is put forth to protect therefore he shouldn't be walking through a door before a woman, walking on the inside of the street, nor getting in a car first. Something pops off and where is he???? Already inside the building or sitting in the car with the door closed. smh smh Ladies please allow a MAN to be a MAN....please allow him to show you the respect that is due. (Which means we need to play our role as well and that is being a LADY/WOMAN) Yes it's 2012 but everything from years ago is NOT out of style or out of the window.

Opinions....Feedback....Thoughts....Experiences....Beliefs. (Please stay on topic)

It shouldn't be that much of a big deal to be a gentleman or a lady. Those who were raised decently do it without thinking about it or bragging about it, it should come naturally, and it's nothing to be impressed by.

I do not see what the big deal is about door opening lately. Here is a little secret: there is a percentage of dudes that only open a door for a woman so he can check out her ass. how's that for chivalry?

Clearly you didn't see the part where I asked please stay on topic and the topic sure isn't a woman telling another woman her role. The topic is would you want a man to open the door for you or not. When I said US women playing our role I was referring to a female acting like she has no class yet demanding a certain type of respect. Please check yourself. Thanks

Chivalry isnt dead... its just that 9 outa 10 women arent worth the effort to be chilvarous for... the average "independent" woman has to wear the pants and will tell a guy he aint $%*! faster than she can blink and has an attitude that says "i can replace you at the drop of a dime, your really just here my amusement till i get tired of you"..or "your not a baller so feel privileged im even talking to you" that doesnt make us want to do nice things for yall...makes us guys be like..well she has 2 perfectly good hands...get ya own doors and stuff and no im not paying...if you want to be treated like a queen, act like one and not just to your man...act like one to everyone... you cant just treat your dude good but treat all his friends and fam and everyone else around you like crap lol...thats not deserving of, "going the extra mile" so to speak

i open doors but i just open doors for everyone b/c its polite and the right thing to do not b/c im trying to be a "gentleman". pick up a tab...ladies...? not in this day and age LMAO. 98% you will have to gas up your car drive across town pick them up open pay for dinner the movie drinks etc etc the drive um back home...man spends 150-200 on date lady keeps all her money got free entertainment, free food, free drinks, chauffeured around and possibly sex(we are all adults here..)that hasent changed. Seems like us guys are still getting a raw bad deal. I dont really see ladies out there approaching guys and treating(birthdays and holidays dont count)and if the do they want to wear the pants....if you they type of woman that has to wear the pants then its your job as the person in that position to open the door...thats all im saying

I do not see what the big deal is about door opening lately. Here is a little secret: there is a percentage of dudes that only open a door for a woman so he can check out her ass. how's that for chivalry?

I open doors for everyone. Man, woman, child. It isn't about being chivalrous, it's about having common courtesy.

I open doors for everyone. Man, woman, child. It isn't about being chivalrous, it's about having common courtesy.

I respect where you are coming from even though I don't agree with the 9 out of 10 percentile lol and a few other things BUT I am glad that you made mention of a female acting a certain way because when I mentioned women playing their role someone proved my point of class and showed their a** totally trying to misconstrue my comment. A female can't expect a man to treat her like a LADY when she's coming across like a hoodrat. However, even though a female may make you feel like they aren't deserving of a kind act, you should NEVER stop being who you are. So if you are indeed a gentleman don't let her personality take you out of character. We are all human and I feel what you're saying. It just irks me when a guy thinks that nonsense is going to fly with EVERY woman he comes across all because he got away with it at some point with other women.

Wow--a snotty nig--r b*tch--how charming. Another dazzling urbanite!!

women are always opening the door for me because my hands are full from CARRYING ALL HER SHIT SHE JUST BOUGHT!