| 5/24/2008 3:14:00 PM |
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aguy4agirl
Mentor, OH
age: 46
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Now, you know it's going to be a tough question if I have the brain cell-----er make that cells working........I'm 66 years old, pretty good looking---although you can't tell by my shadow...LOL ------Are there any honest men in NW Ohio, southern MI, even Indiana??????? They all sound interested, then when we e-mail, talk a few times over the phone, everything seems to be going well, then it stops......I'm not singleing out here, I just wanted to ask the question, are we ALL afraid of a new committment??? When it starts to go that way, I think men and women both get into their UN-comfortable zone asnd just stasrt backing away..........Any comments?????
from my personal experiences , i seem to meet who i'm not looking for at the time.
If i have just gotten out of relationship and not ready to get serious again then i meet the sweetest ladies.
When i'm looking for serious long term, i meet someone who is interested in just fun and a good time .
So my comment would be that i have disconnected if i feel i'm getting too close ( or she is) and our goals are not the same .
I admit it is rude and i should have had more class and told the person that we were looking for different things. ( although some people just don't want to take NO for an answer )
I wonder also how cemented we are in our ways also and afraid to bend to much.
Maybe some of us have bent over backwards already and got nothing in return, and we pledge never to go through it again, so we are afraid .
I think also if the other person does back off, stop calling,writing then that tells you pretty much all you need to know.
At very least they (I) (WE) should have the courtesy to tell them straight out.
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| 5/24/2008 5:30:42 PM |
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shorterthanshor
Wauseon, OH
age: 66 online now!
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,That's a great, insightful post.,Aguy4agirl. Thank you all for your posts and advice.
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| 5/26/2008 3:50:23 AM |
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bearcatguy44
Cincinnati, OH
age: 50
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Kidsfirst, Wow I find it hard to believe your having problems finding a guy? Your pic looks Awesome! But I have the same problem meeting women, I don't do the bar thing, And I'm not into games or drama. Seems like the ones I'm interested in always ends up having an ex that don't wanna be an ex, Or someone thats still not over their ex, And some even had guys stalking them! Man just a drama free woman to enjoy being with and being able to show her there are still good guys left that can be trusted. Well Good Luck everyone thats serious about finding that special person.
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| 5/31/2008 12:32:09 AM |
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uvsaturated
Tipp City, OH
age: 39
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I jokingly tell my girlfriends that we should start hanging out at Tractor Supply or Auto Zone...
That would be a turn on for me. Nothing like seeing some women looking at #41 chain or trying to track down the best deal on an alternator.
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| 5/31/2008 5:51:14 AM |
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ihateusernames
Delaware, OH
age: 48
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see some guy's know where to find the right women!!
I bought my new chain saw last year at TSC - my new tractor last year at at the JD dealership and was out buying parts for the carb at Adv Auto just Thursday night - we turned over an engine for the first time that has been about a 3-4 year project now - it is an 89 mustang - built for the stip, going to be sweet!! 
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| 6/3/2008 6:10:21 AM |
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aguy4agirl
Mentor, OH
age: 46
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Thank you "short"
i try to be as honest as possible and sometimes get carried away but emotions can be hard to deal with at times
I think alot of people are afraid to show theirs, especially in here, worried that someone will take it the wrong way but personally i'd rather see that than just a bland response.
Ihun = that's a great idea, go to places that you like (whereever that may be) and look for someone who is interested in things that you are also.(Genreal interests are a good place to start )
I love to walk in the parks and met a very nice lady there once . We met there once a week for a month just to walk and talk, then she just didn't show up anymore .
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| 6/3/2008 9:48:57 AM |
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22br40
Middleport, OH
age: 50
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It takes the spark.....I am not sure what that "spark" is but if it is not there, it ain't gonna happen for ya.
A lot of men (like me) have an intution about being placed way down on the list of who is important to a lady, it is no fun playing second fiddle to cats, dogs, horses, grandkids and little league games. I will never let that happen to me again......
Hope that helps! 
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| 6/3/2008 2:28:19 PM |
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92c4lt1
Toledo, OH
age: 38
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It's certainly hard sometimes to meet people. I guess that's why i'm here. It seems like I meet people the most when i'm not looking. I just try to stay positive, smile, be polite and let things happen.
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