| 5/22/2008 7:57:36 AM |
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shorterthanshor
Wauseon, OH
age: 66
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Now, you know it's going to be a tough question if I have the brain cell-----er make that cells working........I'm 66 years old, pretty good looking---although you can't tell by my shadow...LOL ------Are there any honest men in NW Ohio, southern MI, even Indiana??????? They all sound interested, then when we e-mail, talk a few times over the phone, everything seems to be going well, then it stops......I'm not singleing out here, I just wanted to ask the question, are we ALL afraid of a new committment??? When it starts to go that way, I think men and women both get into their UN-comfortable zone asnd just stasrt backing away..........Any comments?????
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| 5/22/2008 8:23:58 AM |
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kidsfirst
Eaton, OH
age: 36
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I completely agree! The ones that I have thought I was making a connection with always disappear. I am beginning to think that true love will never be in the cards for me. Of course, you always have the guys writin that are just wantin a meaningless relationship,and I have even made a friend on here that I care about alot, but we both know that it is strictly a friendship. Problem is, I still want that one man that can turn me inside out. I guess he's just not here...
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| 5/22/2008 8:32:02 AM |
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shorterthanshor
Wauseon, OH
age: 66
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Thank you kids first. I've had my share of the ones that just want sex ,or better yet,how about PHONE SEX????? I guess I'd never heard of that one until someone startet talking to me like that.....I sure hope he felt good------I still like the 100% man with me, not a fantasy....
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| 5/22/2008 8:39:22 AM |
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ihateusernames
Delaware, OH
age: 48
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what you need to keep in mind is you are only seeing a small fraction of the population here - sometimes we need to get out and live life to find it.
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| 5/22/2008 8:48:17 AM |
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kidsfirst
Eaton, OH
age: 36
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I agree about gettin out, but where??? You go to a bar, you find drunks...you go to a bowling alley, you only see people from across the room...you go to church, and get condemned for looking, when you should still be married to your ex...where do you go really, to meet guys nowadays? I jokingly tell my girlfriends that we should start hanging out at Tractor Supply or Auto Zone...
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| 5/22/2008 8:00:56 PM |
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ihateusernames
Delaware, OH
age: 48
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Hey Hey Hey now - don't pick on TSC that be the best store in town!!
Sounds like your attending the wrong service's - I agree on the bars - although I go to hear a band play now and again if there is one I like in the area.
You join things that you enjoy or have always wanted to learn to do
I can honestly say I have no idea what I do want, I did think life would be less complicated by now -  yea - right - but I am not complaining cause really life is good!!- but I do know what I do not want, if that makes any sense - and I am up front about
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| 5/22/2008 8:43:18 PM |
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rudt2005
Camden, OH
age: 46
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hey thats not just a woman problem , we guys have the same problem , where do you go to meet someone , if your looking for a one niter then the bars but a real relationship
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| 5/23/2008 4:28:43 AM |
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chelle45640
Jackson, OH
age: 37
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I agre on the bars ya meet drunks.. and we all have enough headaches in our lives without that one..
As for churches... Well shoot seems their all full of married men...lolol
And for the one commented on Being condemned for Divorce... try a different church, I did and have found a great church family.. ones whose marriede couples I hope have Brothers...lololol
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| 5/23/2008 4:37:14 AM |
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kidsfirst
Eaton, OH
age: 36
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By the way...I am going to be at Johnny's USA in Dayton tonight...There is an awesome band playing, from 9p-2a. It is going to be a blast...Of course it is a bar, but I have invited quite a few, seemingly normal, single friends...Everyone should come...
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| 5/23/2008 4:44:42 AM |
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justmemaree
Queensland
Australia
age: 46
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Australia is a good place to look..............
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| 5/23/2008 4:54:45 AM |
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imagoodone4sure
Xenia, OH
age: 48
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I'm a thinking.... that I will stay single until I reach the golden years, which may not be all that bad. I can do what I want, when I want without having to answer to anyone. I have left my love life, life in general in God's hands and he knows better than I do what it takes to make me truly happy. I have a wonderful large family and we all do things together for which I am truly greatful for. My granddaughter is a blast when I have her. So although I get lonely at times I am truly blessed and can't complain. One day my prince will come....
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| 5/23/2008 5:08:05 AM |
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kidsfirst
Eaton, OH
age: 36
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Australia sounds like fun...unfortunately, I can't make a trip like that right now...lol
And to Imagoodone...one of my friends that is going to be with me tonight would love to meet someone with your outlook on life. He is a very handsome man,too! As soon as I read your comment though, I thought of him...u never know...u should come out with us tonight...
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| 5/23/2008 6:56:25 AM |
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shorterthanshor
Wauseon, OH
age: 66
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O.K..............Went to TSC--------guess what????? I found a lot of women that must have read this page.......Oh well, now about going into the bars-------NOT!!!!!!!! I have a few kids and grand-kids that live here that I would rather not see have coronaries at their young age.I do meet a few men in the grocery stores--------------they really DO need help in finding things.....LOL Hey, if I don't find another man in my life, it's really o.k., I have had a blessed life. Just miss that wonderful companioship that makes a couple.....
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| 5/23/2008 4:23:50 PM |
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ihateusernames
Delaware, OH
age: 48
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a good place to start meeting people that might be really good to meet is in Delaware Ohio on the 14th of June - seriously,
get involved in things that you enjoy - you will meet like minded people - the more you meet the better off you are - even if you do not hit it off with someone - they get to know you - they know people that know other people and the world opens up - just my thoughs
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| 5/24/2008 5:18:45 AM |
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imagoodone4sure
Xenia, OH
age: 48
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Australia sounds like fun...unfortunately, I can't make a trip like that right now...lol
And to Imagoodone...one of my friends that is going to be with me tonight would love to meet someone with your outlook on life. He is a very handsome man,too! As soon as I read your comment though, I thought of him...u never know...u should come out with us tonight...
kidsfirst, I would love to meet someone with the same outlook as myself and I may regret not going out last night but I am rather shy and don't like going to strange (new) places, especially bars all by myself. Let your friend know that I am always ready to read an email and talk to see if things are worth pursuing. Thanks and I do hope you had a blast last night.
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