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perthsc  new! Last Online: 11/13/2007 8:24:01 AM
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 Location: San Diego, California
 Zip Code: 92101
 Age: 50, Aries
 Height: 6 ft. 0 in.
 Hair, Eyes: Dark Brown, Blue
 Body Type: Athletic
 Ethnicity: White
 Religion: Didn't Say
 Politics: Didn't Say
 Education: Bachelor's Degree
 Income: Didn't Say
 Job: Self-Employed
 Drink: Drink Occasionally
 Smoke: Don't Smoke
 Status: Single
 Have Kids: Yes, not living with me
 Want More: Didn't Say

Personality
This is a test of sorts... no photo, not much background. I'm curious about the responses I'll get before I put myself all the way out there.

I am a good looking guy for my age. And I know this sounds cliche but I am much younger in heart, mind and soul than I am in years. I am creative, intelligent, articulate, outgoing, a comedian and a very fun person to be with. I know how to treat a lady. I know what it means to be committed. And I know what it takes to keep a relationship burning bright. I am passionate, romantic, sensual, sensitive, open and genuine. But I can also be a hard-ass when called for. I am looking for a life long partner, but one who can also handle what comes next.

I also have bipolar disorder. I'm expecting that you might check out at this point (ignorance, fear, bias, stereotype... whatever) but if you are still reading, I am grateful. Bipolar does not = crazy. It's just a bad deal of the cards when God handed out brain chemistry. It's a medical condition and not a psychological defect. It means that sometimes I can be VERY intense, funny, creative, an incredible lover, reckless renegade and absolutely enchanting. But sometimes I also fall into the abyss where depression sweeps me away and I don't communicate at all. Days, weeks... I've had it last for several months at a time. The trick is in finding balance and having dealt with this for quite some time I have finally found that place, both through medication and much self-awareness. It's not perfect but most of the time I'm in a really good place. And through it all I have become a much deeper, wiser and more genuine person than I used to be. So it is both a blessing and a curse. I have been molded by this disorder, but it does not own me.

So here's my experiment. I'd like to know how this up front disclosure affects your interest. I've read a lot and talked to some very good people about this and the concensus is to wait until after finding a connection with someone. At that point there may be ground to listen and understand. Wait too long though and it turns into deceipt...

Thanks for reading. I would love to hear your comments.

Personality Type: Strong Silent Type
Want To Find: A woman ages 37 to 51 to date
I Party: Didn't Say
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I Like:
art, artist, bipolar disorder, blues, classical, crazy, depression, fun, guitar, intelligent, jazz, love, metal, music, musician, outdoors, passion, piano, rock, romance, ski, snowboard
My Discussions:
bipolar but not crazy... (21 replies) 11/10/07
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