| 11/10/2007 10:23:33 AM |
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perthsc
San Diego, CA
age: 50
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Hi. I'm a pretty cool guy. A real gentleman, part-time bad boy  , and someone who is looking for the real deal. Not just window dressing.
I also have bipolar disorder  and would really appreciate some thoughts on what this means to you in terms of a serious relationship. I'm not going to go into details here... my profile pretty much sums it up. A quick read there and comments here would be deeply appreciated.
Na zdraví
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| 11/10/2007 12:30:30 PM |
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peachess
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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We all have our issues and our flaws, I am sure there are others who are nonjudgemental as I "try" to be...I'd only be concerned if it affected my daily life Or my son. Good Luck in your search.
xoxoPeaches.
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| 11/10/2007 12:35:23 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50
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All I know is that my sister has this title. She now feels she can be a b*tch anytime she wants because she is " bipolar" I have heard this same thing from others with this affliction. Personally, I think " bipolar" is just a name the doctors tag ya with when they do not know what is really wrong.
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| 11/10/2007 12:45:36 PM |
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peachess
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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Wow....How could you say that? That's kinda like saying someone is diabetic cause they are to fat....
xoxoPeaches.
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| 11/10/2007 12:48:27 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50
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peaches.. because it is the words spoken by the ones who have bipolar. Even she, my sister, is not sure that this is what she has. She also feels that the doctors simply gave her this tag because they do not know what is causing her problems. The others that I have talked to feel the same way! Soooooooo... this is not all my opinion.. but those from the plight of bipolar.. and the diabetic thing has no bearing here. My sister would love to find out what is truly wrong with her so she can get off the drugs that makes her a zombie
[Edited 11/10/2007 12:52:23 PM]
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| 11/10/2007 2:42:21 PM |
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goldarnit
Saint Paul, MN
age: 47 online now!
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ya know,i really wouldnt have a problem with it-i just read your profile-you need to quit labeling yourself as crazy-crazy is the person that doesnt try to manage their issues-no matter what they are.i had a full radical hysterectomy 9 yrs.ago-ya know,if i dont take my hormone pill every day..i get crazy-and manage my life around it-took me a long time to adapt-and still have the mood swings every now and then...dont-lower yourself,i have family members who are mentally ill.i wont put a label on them either..i hate labeling....good luck-god speed..and your not....CRAZY!!!!!!!!
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| 11/10/2007 2:45:57 PM |
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stellablue
Saint Louis, MO
age: 49 online now!
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Robin Williams.."Whoa, reality..what a consept!"
For each individual whatever is going on is realitive, and as they grow it changes.
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| 11/10/2007 3:16:54 PM |
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mom1st
York, SC
age: 30
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Bipolar in my opinion is most definately real. My ex had it. Exteme highs and extreme lows, but never in between like others. And the disorder shows very early on in life. I know because my 4 year old has it. Come spend a day in my home, and I will make you a believer. He has been in therapy for about 6 months now. I have decided not to put him on medicine at his age. But I know I will have to eventually. His father and grandmother have it. It is a disturbing disorder, and I feel it can be very hard on the person with it and on their family. I wish you the best, I already have my hands full, I don't believe that I could date anyone with the disorder again. But when you meet that special person, they will love you for who you are, and will be there with you to help you through it.
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| 11/10/2007 3:37:30 PM |
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homegirl1970
Red Creek, NY
age: 37
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BiPolar Disorder is a Chemical Imbalance in your brain...
It doesnt mean youre crazy it just makes you feel that way...
It can be controlled....
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| 11/10/2007 3:57:58 PM |
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elfiegirl
Jacksonville, FL
age: 53
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I agree with most of the others. With a wealth of information out there, and with you being on proper meds...it could still possibly create problems from time to time. BUT
the right person will notice, know how to react, and not add to the problem with
their own outbursts. Remaining calm is their best bet. Having regular discussions
on an regular basis, and maybe a "buzz word" that you both agree upon, could help
as well. As long as you stay conscious of the situation, you may be able to to handle things more successfully. Just my two cents!
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| 11/10/2007 4:13:53 PM |
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perthsc
San Diego, CA
age: 50
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thanks for all your responses. my question has been answered.
i have to say that trublu5ft2' comments in particular were insightful. obviously her depth and breadth of medical knowledge make her an authority on the subject. glad to know that ignorance and bias are dead.
to mom1st. thanks and i wish you the best with your son. medical research on this disorder has made leaps and bounds in understanding over the past decade. hopefully your son will benefit tremendously from that. take care.
have a nice day y'all.
[Edited 11/10/2007 4:26:07 PM]
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| 11/10/2007 4:14:54 PM |
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soultrynights
San Clemente, CA
age: 38
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has anybody seen my fly swater around here ?
[Edited 11/10/2007 4:15:13 PM]
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| 11/10/2007 4:15:53 PM |
bipolar but not crazy... |
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fiddlebritches
Duncan, OK
age: 27
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oh yeah! he is nuttier than a squirrel turd
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| 11/10/2007 4:23:29 PM |
bipolar but not crazy... |
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wolfy9459
Dayton, OH
age: 45
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Well I have major depression recurrent with dysthymic disorder. We are not our diagnosis. We have real chemical imbalances that make us this way. And no it is not a license to act hateful (like a b*tch, ass hole etc.) These things can be controled however we will still have bad days. Keep your chin up look at the good.
Kenny
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| 11/10/2007 4:26:44 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50
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perth.. slack up dude. I didn't say I thought anyone was crazy. I simply stated that my sister has it and SHE believes that the docs gave her that title because they don't honestly know what is wrong with her.
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