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by volleyballguy73 at 6/4/2009 12:51:34 AM

One of my friends posted this on another site and I thought I'd share it. I think I've seen it before, but, since I agree with most of it, it seemed like a good idea.

"Girls need to realize from a guys point of view:

We don't care if you talk to other guys. We don't care if you're friends with other guys. But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off. It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.

We don't care if a guy calls, or texts you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait until the morning.

Also, when we tell you you're pretty/beautiful/gorgeous/cute/stunning, we freaking mean it. Don't tell us we're wrong. We'll stop trying to convince you.

The sexiest thing about a girl is CONFIDENCE.

Yeah, you can quote me.

Don't be mad when we hold the door open. Take Advantage of the mood we’re in.

Let us pay for you! Don’t "feel bad". We enjoy doing it. It's expected. Smile and say "thank you."

Kiss us when no one's watching. If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed.

If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own. We like you for who you are and not what you are. Honestly, I think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pajamas or my t-shirt and boxers, not all dolled up

Don't take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it. Don't get angry easily.

Stop using magazines/media as your bible.

Don't talk about how hot Chris Brown, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us. It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that.

Whatever happened to the word "handsome"/"beautiful"? I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of. On the other hand I’m not saying I wouldn’t like it ether ; )

Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, don’t wait for him to change. Ditch his sorry butt, disgrace to the male population and find someone who will treat you with utter respect; someone who will honor your morals; someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest; someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes; someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel; someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes....and say "I love you” and actually mean it."


6/4/2009 7:38:56 AM

I agree with just about everything your friend said

6/4/2009 9:26:24 AM

i 2nd that

6/4/2009 9:57:46 AM

wheres that man at?? nice,everything a girl wants or me anyways..

6/4/2009 4:56:07 PM

okay - bring it on handsome

6/4/2009 10:30:54 PM

amen brother

6/6/2009 8:18:08 AM

This is well thought out, but it does work both ways, if we are with some guy we don't want you all staring at some girl that decided to wear the shortest skirt they own. It is all about respect for others.

6/13/2009 7:53:58 AM

Absolutely true for both genders. Nice blog and good reminders for all.