| 8/27/2012 7:38:55 PM |
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cavsfan65
Eastlake, OH
49, joined Apr. 2011
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No
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| 8/27/2012 7:52:50 PM |
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justonce0419
Pompano Beach, FL
22, joined May. 2012
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If that's what things lead to then sure! There's obviously SOME sort of connection between you two if it makes it all the way to that.
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| 8/27/2012 10:20:53 PM |
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keepslowprofile
Moose Lake, MN
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| 8/28/2012 11:45:10 AM |
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msdivax2
Akron, OH
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i think you should do what you feel life too short for a timeline lol
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| 8/28/2012 2:54:21 PM |
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tayjab
Grosse Pointe, MI
60, joined May. 2012
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It would depend on
-- one's sense of propriety
-- one's sense of self-esteem
-- one's sense of morality and/or faith
Personally, I'd say absolutely wrong.
I don't care if we "hit it off" or felt a compelling and intense attraction (mutual or otherwise), I would neither respect myself OR her afterwards if we had given in to that temptation.
There are those who, no doubt, disagree, and they can rationalize it anyway they wish, including "mutual consenting adults" can do whatever they please... or people should "go with the flow" so long as no one else is harmed/injured. That's their prerogative.
Just the same, the fact that one would ASK the question "Is it wrong....?" suggests to me there is at least DOUBT on the part of the OP. Otherwise, the purpose in asking the question is, itself, questioned.
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| 8/28/2012 5:11:08 PM |
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joe68and1
Wichita Falls, TX
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Not as long as we trade out! 
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| 8/29/2012 12:09:56 AM |
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balli4
County Antrim, N. Ireland
United Kingdom
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If she blows him up with semtex yes its very wrong 
[Edited 8/29/2012 12:11:00 AM ]
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| 8/29/2012 2:05:37 AM |
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spiceythang
Fayetteville, NC
36, joined May. 2012
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That's for you two...to deal with
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| 8/29/2012 4:14:39 AM |
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dessmarie
Saint Petersburg, FL
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ask her how many dates she's bin on then you tell me how many weenies touched yours after that blowjob
jokes aside no makes women look bad
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| 8/29/2012 8:11:21 AM |
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jayliel88
Worcester, MA
27, joined Aug. 2012
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If hes going to return the favor why not NJ
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| 8/29/2012 9:03:45 PM |
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beauty324
Westland, MI
55, joined Apr. 2012
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Hell ya U don't know what u might catch And do u respect urself1
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| 8/29/2012 10:43:42 PM |
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drjenniferj
Houston, TX
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Yes that's slutty
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| 8/29/2012 11:11:30 PM |
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mommalove86
Sylmar, CA
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Not only is it wrong but it shows you have zero self respect, which in turn will not make the guy respect you...
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| 8/29/2012 11:54:31 PM |
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grizz90
Houston, TX
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The essence of wrong or right do not apply to this situation due to the fact that sexual actions are seen in various different ways by different people and cultures, but In my own personal opinion, not to be taken is fact or truth, it makes the woman(or man depending on the sexual orientation of the situation) seem easy and leaves no sense of how do you say self respect, also for the man receiving it, it shows he has a lack of respect for you and will most likely not ever respect you in the way a person should respect someone he is dating. Point being you should always wait sometime before entering into any sort of intimate interactions with some whether it is a "Blow Job" or otherwise. Respect one another and appreciate each other beyond what is your bodies and their sexual needs or desires. But then again it also depends on what kind of date this was and what went on during this date.
In conclusion; no one can tell you whether this action is wrong or right it is solely up to you and how it makes you feel. Just be ready for what ever possible consequences may come of it, physical, biological, and/or emotional.
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| 8/30/2012 12:08:52 AM |
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keyboardkat
Oklahoma City, OK
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And I bet most women have done it at least once.
Its not wrong or right ,its a choice.
Some think its a really intimate act,some think its not really sex.
So as long as she brushed her teeth since her last date.....
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| 8/30/2012 12:28:19 AM |
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kingleo20
Houston, TX
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yes it is it would be all the same if a guy did it she would be mad and if u cant make the first date then whats the point of talking
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| 8/30/2012 2:13:15 AM |
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chfm32
Merced, CA
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| 9/1/2012 8:16:44 AM |
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iggy57
Plymouth, MI
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wow!, this may seem strange coming from a guy,
but i wouldn't even let that happen.
A: that says you have absolutely NO self respect or self esteem,
(maybe as a teen years ago), but as an adult? i niether want or
need to get involved with someone like that, and if that's your
mindset, it would be impoosible for me to ever have any respect for you.
and
B: if you're willing to do that to/for me on a first date,
how do i know you didn't 'DO' some other guy the night before,
or the night before that or the night before that? EWWWW!!!
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| 9/1/2012 8:57:30 PM |
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susansheart839
Port Saint Lucie, FL
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yes
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| 9/3/2012 7:20:39 AM |
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stephez
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
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Would let her only if she was married.
Ha Ha just kidding.
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| 9/3/2012 3:32:54 PM |
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exploring72
South Amboy, NJ
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If she blows him up with semtex yes its very wrong
Ok...that is just damn funny.
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| 9/3/2012 7:12:41 PM |
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lyd1000
Van Nuys, CA
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It's not. It's the farthest I'll go on the first date.
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| 9/3/2012 8:04:29 PM |
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pitbozz
Chatsworth, CA
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I don't mind you can do to me whatever you like 
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| 9/3/2012 8:10:18 PM |
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kinglove420
Acworth, GA
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It's not. It's the farthest I'll go on the first date.
Wanna go on a date? 
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| 9/4/2012 10:59:11 PM |
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capl77
Stuttgart, AR
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I am trying but I just can't find a problem with it.
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| 9/5/2012 4:50:15 PM |
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eastcoastrockin
Myrtle Beach, SC
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every girl on here some time or another blew a guy first time with them an that is awsome
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| 9/6/2012 11:47:03 AM |
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rholt7122
Baytown, TX
60, joined Jul. 2011
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NO! It's first date bonding...
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| 9/7/2012 6:33:07 PM |
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call_me_what
El Paso, TX
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I actually encourage it
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| 9/9/2012 4:04:49 AM |
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yankeeman123g
Ashland, KY
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its up to her but is it ok for a man to goo downn on a woman on the frist date????
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| 9/9/2012 8:21:29 AM |
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daisydukegrits
Jacksonville, FL
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Ewwwwww that aint a date, thats a hooker
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| 9/9/2012 6:25:12 PM |
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serenity0803
Rochester, NY
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Nope, not at all see the thing is, if your so into someone you most likely lead towards that anyways, however sex on the first date is definitely not a good sign, but if you perform oral on a guy I don't see it as a bad thing, also depends how much your into the guy, if your extremely into him then go for it! Only do what you feel is right.
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| 9/9/2012 6:25:30 PM |
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steeler_man
West Unity, OH
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No lol
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| 9/10/2012 1:38:26 AM |
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sunluver21
Windham, OH
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We should only judge ourselves, not each other
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| 9/10/2012 10:51:06 AM |
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size17shoes
Massillon, OH
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ummm..yeah that's wrong in so many ways..Where's the self respect? It would different if I were in my 20's because at that age your actions are referred as young and stupid. Now that I have hit 40, if a woman pulled that crap on me , she will be left sitting there all alone because I would leave her there so she can pursue some tail from someone else. I've heard of a first kiss , but going done on a relative stranger? Do what you want it's your life but some men like myself don't live for sex anymore.We are seeking the bigger prize in life.
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| 9/10/2012 11:18:51 AM |
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vicax7
Providence, RI
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soooooo wrong. I bet you 100 bucks there was no second date although he might call you after midnight to hang for a bit...lol.
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| 9/10/2012 11:20:32 AM |
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vicax7
Providence, RI
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why would you even? are you not afraid of STDs and stuff?....its not just wrong....its irresponsible.
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| 9/10/2012 12:29:51 PM |
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angelmcclain
Saginaw, MI
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move the f**k on if she dont want you leave that b*tch alone becouse you is better they that its not your felt that you is sexy dont feel bad of some bullshit you always can get a other girl  
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| 9/10/2012 12:31:06 PM |
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angelmcclain
Saginaw, MI
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girl you is better they me becouse i im
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| 9/10/2012 1:23:59 PM |
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saintnsinner
Riverside, RI
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I believe the girl that wrote this forum probably did it herself and feels guilty after the fact. Cmon who in their right mind would ask a stupid question like that?
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| 9/10/2012 1:32:58 PM |
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saintnsinner
Riverside, RI
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P.s....the girl that posted a reply above me sure needs some serious help with her english and spelling. That's such a turn off.
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| 9/10/2012 2:44:05 PM |
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mice_elf
Portland, IN
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There is no right or wrong answer that will go acrossed the board. This isn't 2+2 where there is one answer. This is a question based on opinion and we are all hopefully smart enough to know that. It's like talking politics or religion just depends on who you are asking and who answers
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| 9/10/2012 3:41:54 PM |
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earthtone99
East Providence, RI
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Love is not about sex. It's love first then sex. If you're already having sex on the first date your not looking for love. And you won't ever find it that way.
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| 9/11/2012 2:41:50 AM |
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rholt7122
Baytown, TX
60, joined Jul. 2011
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NO! It's first date bonding...
Joking!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| 9/11/2012 2:47:21 PM |
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hotstuuf84
Milwaukee, WI
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If they're both feeling a connection and it happens who cares other than the two so why should I.The truth hurts, such is life so make the best of it.
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| 9/11/2012 3:21:01 PM |
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dawgass29
Milwaukee, WI
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I think its only rite fo her to especially if he spebd his money on her
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| 9/11/2012 3:35:37 PM |
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robsteel2010
Milwaukee, WI
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Noooooo sucky sucky
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| 9/11/2012 7:16:49 PM |
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asiania
Milwaukee, WI
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No as long as it something u both want sexy is apart of life and i say do want u want !! As long as u r happy !!!!
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| 9/11/2012 7:59:53 PM |
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bmac1983
East Troy, WI
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I don't think it's wrong to blow a guy on the first date if you 2 are clicking.
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| 9/11/2012 8:40:54 PM |
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penguin_love
Janesville, WI
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Personally all I can think of is ewww... but maybe you are into a more casual thing. Its your body. You decide. Personally I feel you lose respect in situations like this.
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| 9/11/2012 9:15:11 PM |
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bmac1983
East Troy, WI
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I know I would never get a blow job one the first date.
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| 9/11/2012 9:15:34 PM |
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getmybeef
Milwaukee, WI
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i wish someone would blow me 
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| 9/11/2012 10:05:01 PM |
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streets34
Beloit, WI
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Well put. To each their own i say
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| 9/11/2012 10:18:29 PM |
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dion414
Madison, WI
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We are all adults. Nothing is wrong with that.
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| 9/11/2012 10:22:22 PM |
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alleysally
Milwaukee, WI
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I know I would never get a blow job one the first date.
Reading this sex stuff then looking at your profile with a little kid, it's a bit weird.
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| 9/11/2012 11:11:58 PM |
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unpredictabilit
Long Beach, CA
28, joined Jan. 2012
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100% Wrong!
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| 9/12/2012 1:40:53 AM |
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sweetshypoet23
Madison, WI
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Yes makes you look like a ho and desperate and honestly I'd be disgusted to be friends with them.
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| 9/12/2012 10:40:54 PM |
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420fan1979
Jefferson, WI
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If she wants to get freaky with Mr. D*ck Johnson on the first date? I say Happy Thanksgiving because it's gobble, gobble time!!!
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| 9/13/2012 6:56:37 AM |
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oso04
Denham Springs, LA
35, joined Feb. 2012
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Nah! lol!
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| 9/13/2012 10:20:54 AM |
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justuandme111
Niles, IL
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That must happen or intercourse..why we date in here???
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| 9/14/2012 2:38:01 AM |
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ncurry
Storrs Mansfield, CT
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No as long as you give her something in return
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