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                areyouthe1 
                Ramseur, NC 
                age: 49 
                
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                Being new here and out of the dating scene for so long I thought I would make a post to see what the first thing is you check out that really gets your attention. 
                 
                For me I have a weakness for pretty eyes if facing someone and nice hair if approaching from behind. While I know most ladies think all men look elsewhere first it is not true in all cases. There are a few gentlemen left out in the world. 
                
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                | 5/25/2008 1:34:24 PM | 
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                bubbajewel 
                Tabor City, NC 
                age: 57 
                
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                His voice and to see if he is being honest.  
                
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                | 5/25/2008 1:36:15 PM | 
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                rof1944 
                Marshville, NC 
                age: 63 
                
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                I think I see the face in general when seeing a lady face to face, but I'm inclined to notice the butt if I am approaching her from behind. I don't think that has anything to do with being a gentleman...but I can see how you might. Coming from behind she can't see where I'm looking anyway. 
                
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                | 5/25/2008 3:17:38 PM | 
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                areyouthe1 
                Ramseur, NC 
                age: 49 
                
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                Well when they put everything on the bottom shelf at the grocery store, a guy has no choice but to look. I guess I have have a thing for pretty eyes and hair. 
                
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                | 5/25/2008 3:27:12 PM | 
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                easternncguy 
                Rocky Mount, NC 
                age: 50 
                
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                Interesting about eyes and hair. For me it's eyes for sure, hair less so. This might sound strange, but I want to get a look at the hands and feet. Not that I have a foot thing, but if they are messed up it does make a difference. 
                
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                | 5/25/2008 5:23:18 PM | 
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                newlady2 
                Goldsboro, NC 
                age: 71 
                
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                Ahem..am I allowed to speak in here. No shape check.. But eyes and tone of voice 
                
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                | 5/25/2008 5:32:36 PM | 
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                easternncguy 
                Rocky Mount, NC 
                age: 50 
                
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                And what tone sounds nice to your ears? Would it be the Henry Kissinger, Tom Brokaw, Ryan Seacrest, or Woody Harrelson sound? 
                
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                | 5/25/2008 5:39:10 PM | 
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                newlady2 
                Goldsboro, NC 
                age: 71 
                
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                A voice thats clear,often soft , sometimes autorative when neeeded . 
                
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                | 5/25/2008 5:49:29 PM | 
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                bubbajewel 
                Tabor City, NC 
                age: 57 
                
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                 right on newlady you got it   
                
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                | 5/25/2008 5:54:19 PM | 
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                newlady2 
                Goldsboro, NC 
                age: 71 
                
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                Thanks Bubba,everthing else falls into place usually.  
                
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                | 5/25/2008 6:22:22 PM | 
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                areyouthe1 
                Ramseur, NC 
                age: 49 
                
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                I have a soft low spoken deep voice. I have heard people say huh so much over my life I have thought it was my name at times. 
                
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                | 5/25/2008 6:48:28 PM | 
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                goldangel1 
                Hickory, NC 
                age: 55 
                
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                areyouthe1   welcome 
                 
                I checked out your profile and looks nice 
                 
                Don't think you will have any trouble finding ladys 
                 
                For my self I love the eyes and the smiles 
                 
                If he speaks to my   
                 
                Sends chills up my spine . 
                 
                He mine  
                 
                 
                 
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                | 5/25/2008 7:11:22 PM | 
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                areyouthe1 
                Ramseur, NC 
                age: 49 
                
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                Gold thanks for the welcome and compliment. I have to admit I am a bit out of practice on picking up and first dates. Hopefully having my pics up scare them away before I get a chance to talk. I have avoided dating sites for a long time because so many seem to have a chip on their shoulder, but finally decided to give it a try. After almost 30 years things have changed a lot when jumping back into the fire. 
                 
                I know what you mean when someone speaks to the heart it's time to grab them. 
                
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                | 5/26/2008 9:23:52 AM | 
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                grace_ful_heart 
                College Station, TX 
                age: 39 
                
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                first thing i check out is the eyes.. (windows to the soul)... looks can only get you so far and then you have to have so much more on the inside to go with those looks. jmo 
                i look on the inside and go from there. 
                
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                | 5/26/2008 5:39:36 PM | 
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                alias55 
                Waynesville, NC 
                age: 67 
                
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                Voice is important. Tom Brokaw. I also like Harry Smith. 
                It's a long standing problem and one I'm working on....height is the first thing I notice. 
                
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