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9/26/2012 9:59:43 AM Best first message?  

nuker19
Florence, AZ
23, joined Sep. 2011


Whats something you ladies like to see in the messages you recieve on here? Like good convo starters




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9/26/2012 10:02:38 AM Best first message?  
joelle07a
Walker, LA
34, joined Aug. 2012


I actually like when someone actually reads my interests in my profile and initiates a conversation based on something that's there. Shows that they took the time to find out a little bit about me cause I put nothing in my description.

9/26/2012 10:02:41 AM Best first message?  
stumppy
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (36,055)
Wind Gap, PA
69, joined Jan. 2008


This again ?

I think when first joining, folks ought to be forcefully encouraged to use the 'search' function

9/26/2012 10:03:16 AM Best first message?  
nondescript
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,576)
Houston, TX
48, joined Jul. 2012


Last time this was asked the top 3 were:

"wow"

"ur hot!"

"dic pic attached"

9/26/2012 10:04:58 AM Best first message?  

wileyguy
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,376)
Wilkes Barre, PA
44, joined Apr. 2007


politics or religion.if ya talk about abortion ya hit 2 with 1 stone and that'll show them how clever ya are

9/26/2012 10:05:43 AM Best first message?  
nondescript
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,576)
Houston, TX
48, joined Jul. 2012


I actually like when someone actually reads my interests in my profile and initiates a conversation based on something that's there.

Sorry dear, that's another common strategy..skim the profile for an interest and then ask a question about it

9/26/2012 10:06:03 AM Best first message?  
jjay1970
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (41,468)
Syracuse, NY
44, joined Oct. 2011


Ok, here's a secret, OP.

Send ten women who are 8's or 9's this e-mail, and I bet you half of them respond.

"Hi, my name is {insert your name}, what is your name?

Also, do you like turtles?"


.


Don't ask - just do it!



[Edited 9/26/2012 10:06:18 AM ]

9/26/2012 10:06:45 AM Best first message?  
i__am__mead
Over 1,000 Posts (1,389)
Phoenix, AZ
33, joined May. 2012


Nudes

9/26/2012 10:08:00 AM Best first message?  
onthego0123
Over 1,000 Posts (1,935)
Apex, NC
47, joined Sep. 2012


Give us something to work with. Ask us something or tell us something neat about you or that you have going on so we can have a conversation. "can we chat?", is one of the worse ones. I want to send back a reply that says, I know I am capable of it, are you?

9/26/2012 10:09:03 AM Best first message?  
onthego0123
Over 1,000 Posts (1,935)
Apex, NC
47, joined Sep. 2012


@ Jjay
Does this work for you??

9/26/2012 10:11:59 AM Best first message?  
j28_sumthinnew
Hot Springs National Park, AR
31, joined Aug. 2012


No please don't encourage him with the nudes! No one needs to see that!

9/26/2012 10:15:47 AM Best first message?  

nuker19
Florence, AZ
23, joined Sep. 2011


Lol my hands are tied..gotta do it

9/26/2012 10:16:08 AM Best first message?  
sumerof69
Over 2,000 Posts (3,026)
Bakersfield, CA
46, joined Jul. 2012


Id like to see yours sumthin! Yeah baby yeah!

9/26/2012 10:20:30 AM Best first message?  
jjay1970
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (41,468)
Syracuse, NY
44, joined Oct. 2011


Quote from onthego0123:
@ Jjay
Does this work for you??


I rarely send unsolicited emails anymore, but surprisingly, it did get alot of responses when I did use it.

Most were "Yes, I like turtles, why do you ask?" or something to that effect, and I'd go on to mention I only asked to break the ice, and voila, a conversation starts.






What did one lady post earlier - "give us something to work with"?

Well, "do you like turtles" is odd enough to catch their attention and make 'em think about something different than d*ck pics and how sexy guys think they are. I guess. I don't know why it was so successful, but it was.

Maybe because its so original and different? IDK?




Let's hijack OP's thread and take a poll:

Ladies (and gentlemen although any guy on here would likely respond to any lady that emailed him), would you respond to a simple message that said:


"Hi, my name is Jay, what is your name? And, do you like turtles?"

9/26/2012 10:20:46 AM Best first message?  

max811
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,386)
Palmetto, FL
34, joined Aug. 2010


Quote from onthego0123:
@ Jjay
Does this work for you??
I bet if I sent that to 10 women about half would respond.If I were still single I would try it right now.

9/26/2012 10:21:03 AM Best first message?  
j28_sumthinnew
Hot Springs National Park, AR
31, joined Aug. 2012


You have. Remember it was the day you took your profile picture. I'm sitting right next you (I'm the monkey). You had the picture taken and would not let me put clothes on first. Grrrrr.

9/26/2012 10:21:40 AM Best first message?  

fuzy_wuzy
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,381)
West Yellowstone, MT
60, joined Aug. 2011


Lonely Billionaire

9/26/2012 10:23:30 AM Best first message?  
igotcrnack
Bedford, TX
21, joined Sep. 2012


The right approach for the right woman....goodmorning beautiful usually does the trick

9/26/2012 10:23:57 AM Best first message?  
nondescript
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,576)
Houston, TX
48, joined Jul. 2012


Did your sail boat photo ever get you 'hits' fuzzy?

9/26/2012 10:29:03 AM Best first message?  
esmeraldar
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (13,918)
Toms River, NJ
67, joined Jan. 2009


I think I would like it if they commented on something on my profile or something I said in the forums. Chances are that's not going to happen.

My last SO sent me a humorous first message. It did the trick.

9/26/2012 10:57:45 AM Best first message?  
j28_sumthinnew
Hot Springs National Park, AR
31, joined Aug. 2012


Quote from tessie_id:
People get messages???





Is this a trick question??







You're just halarious girl

9/26/2012 11:19:46 AM Best first message?  
jjay1970
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (41,468)
Syracuse, NY
44, joined Oct. 2011


On a side note, not too long ago, I dated a lady that kept about a half dozen live turtles in her living room. You could fit two or three of 'em in your hand at once. She said they don't grow any bigger than that and called 'em her 'babies'.



Don't knock it til you try it!




Hey, watch your thumb! That tickles!

9/26/2012 11:28:05 AM Best first message?  
ashadeofred
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,756)
Lansing, MI
64, joined Dec. 2007


I received a different type of first message the other day.

He asked me if I was into doing, what was involved in the book, "Fifty Shades of Grey".




I missed an opportunity there. I should have asked him if he was as rich as the guy in the book. Based on his picture, I'm guessing no.

9/26/2012 11:31:37 AM Best first message?  
chasenarainbow
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,344)
Alexandroúpolis
Greece
59, joined Jul. 2012


A strange one I just got was that he said he had linked my IP address, and follwed me from POF......

I linked your IP adress from Plentyoffish and found you here.

Not a hi, hello, nothing.... Stalker?

9/26/2012 11:33:22 AM Best first message?  
onthego0123
Over 1,000 Posts (1,935)
Apex, NC
47, joined Sep. 2012


@Chase

Now that is creepy!!!

9/26/2012 11:34:59 AM Best first message?  
chasenarainbow
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,344)
Alexandroúpolis
Greece
59, joined Jul. 2012


Yep.... Exspecialy since he never contacted me on POF...... With his looks, belive me, I would had remembered.... Ewwww.....

9/26/2012 11:54:47 AM Best first message?  

luvless4ever
Bethpage, NY
54, joined Aug. 2012


when a message says..."i read ure profile and it seems ure a nice person..."the rest is history!!!

9/26/2012 12:39:40 PM Best first message?  

josh_p
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,625)
Los Angeles, CA
29, joined May. 2008


I wouldn't send a damn thing. It's not like they're going to respond to a perfectly written email. Especially if the guy is less than average looking.