| 6/12/2008 9:06:10 AM |
How do the men here feel about marrying a woman 10 years older? |
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deniselaina
Chandler, AZ
age: 53
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ok this shits getting on my nerves , really 10 yrs , wat's the difference between 40 and 50 NOT MUCH , people acting like it's a 25 yr. old and a 50 yr. old , gimme a break . like I said , JOKE ....
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| 6/12/2008 11:45:23 AM |
How do the men here feel about marrying a woman 10 years older? |
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boonie22
Winnipeg, MB
age: 40
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ah ok, I was married to a man 10 years younger( therfor I was 10 years older). ok so things were ok for the first while, but delved down on his part from there... he became more and more reverting to tenn years as we went along. I mean once we had babies(three in a row).. ah, he became obsessed with X box. every night from 7-4am, and all saturday and sunday. very strange behavior. And I could do nothing about it. His heart choice was to ignore us , and therfor slid all the wieght of raising these babies(as he wanted to go natural and leave it all up to nature). I'm sure you get the picture. after a year adn a half, he made the solid choice not to help or share responsibility anymore, and became a professional XBOX player. lol!
ok, so at first he was a caring team player in a marriage, and then spiralled down into a plunging death , rolled up in a ball of selfishness, and rolled away. horrible story. sad story. but I hear from all nations, the same story. so it's universal, that when tough times come, many turn away.
this is my recommendations: if you are looking for someone older or younger it doesn't matter of course, what works works, but when it comes to the hardships of childbearing or getting very ill for a long time, make sure this person is very mature. i guess my definition of mature is to acknowledge that hardships do come, that maybe they've gone thru them and made wiser choices and can accept this is included in life...etc.
maturity and true friendship( he really loves you inspite of the things he can't give you.
anyways good luck in all your endevours!
Bonnie
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| 6/12/2008 11:59:25 AM |
How do the men here feel about marrying a woman 10 years older? |
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chicaboom58
North Bergen, NJ
age: 61
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I meant women dating men 10 years younger sis. I think men with younger women doesn't seem odd at all, I however feel sorta silly with a real young guy, or would feel funny. I haven't dated anyone more that 5 years younger, so far, LOL 
denise 
Age is a number, every situation is different. My last boyfriend was 10 years younger than me he was gorgeous, and could charm the pants off of a virgin. Some guy I just met online was 12 years younger. I don't have a problem I don't think I look my age and sure as hell don't act it either. Most of the younger men I met all seem to say the same thing that they prefer an older woman.
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| 6/12/2008 12:03:46 PM |
How do the men here feel about marrying a woman 10 years older? |
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chillytoes
Braidwood, IL
age: 49
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 The diff between 20 and 30 is HUGE.
 The diff between 30 and 40 isn't terrible.
 The diff between 40 and 50 is ok.
JMO....
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| 6/12/2008 4:41:35 PM |
How do the men here feel about marrying a woman 10 years older? |
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deniselaina
Chandler, AZ
age: 53
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YEAH , I'm not talking about a 20 yr. old married to a 30 year old , I'm talking about 40 to 50 35 to 50 30 to 45 30 to 40 , got it , as far as I'M concerned and your ahhhhhhh say 37 and you say , oh shit 47 , it's a joke older woman , older man , WHAT -EVER , GROW UP .... 
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| 6/12/2008 5:00:37 PM |
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wonderturtle
Overland Park, KS
age: 44
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For some reason, I've never been compatible with women my age or younger..I've always dated older..from 5-13 years older..
As has been said before..age is just a number. it is what a person has on the inside that appeals to me, and me to them . The effects that gravity has on a body only distorts ones vision if they are vain or shallow. We all age and unless you are willing to invest thousands of $$$ to combat all that gravity and age do to ya..be happy with what you got. And again, it is what someone portrays from within that spreads outward and attracts me.
I am currently involved with a beautiful gal 6 years more mature than myself. And before you ask me why I'm on a dating site then, lemme explain. We met thru this site, but are temporarily separated by 1400 miles..in 4 days..she and her offspring will be coming here for good. So we come here for continued friendships, and fun til we can be together under the same roof..is it next tuesday yet?
Do what makes you happy, don't let outsiders make the rules for you...lest you miss out on what could be the next best thing since apple pie.
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| 6/12/2008 5:11:59 PM |
How do the men here feel about marrying a woman 10 years older? |
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skippy771
Salt Point, NY
age: 55
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Exactly!! When I came into the dating scene I was figuring I was going to have to look for my age or older. No one believes I'm not in my 40's and most men that show interest are in their low-mid 40's and I have some guys as young as in their 20's hitting on me. I have to say that I could have seen myself (looking at age and the other people and myself as people, not enotion) with some of the guys in their late 30's easily and definiely in their 40's. I do like the men I've met that are my age also, although they all think I'm younger than I am (which I'm lucky for I guess). A lot of women are looking younger and younger these days and there really isn't much difference between the 40's and 50's! That's my opinion!! Donna
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| 6/12/2008 6:48:40 PM |
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beautifulfeet
Shirley, NY
age: 54
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My husband was 13 yrs younger than me...the problem was he was a mama's boy,,,i think it could have worked out if his parents didnt interfere ..but once you get on the wrong side of the mother in law..and they are not mature enough ... well, he chose his parents over me....so,,,i am thinking maybe 13 years was too much younger...10 seems better...and i never looked my age and he was the one to push for the marriage when i had suggested maybe we should wait... but i think i should have been maturer and realized certain things before marrying him... They need to be mature,,
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| 6/13/2008 1:15:26 AM |
How do the men here feel about marrying a woman 10 years older? |
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justdancin
Tomball, TX
age: 54
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I don't think I could handle a 10 year gap either way, simply because I have a son in his thirties and that is just too close. As for 10 years older, well ... most of the men I've met in their 60's I've put a 6 year parameter either way, it works for me. My brother married a woman 16 years older than him, but, you can't tell it ... in fact she looks the same age.
From looking at men's profiles, I see that the majority have much wider gaps than 12 years, with the emphasis toward the younger range of the spectrum. So why is it that women get accused of being a 'cougar' by the same men that are looking for women 10-12-15 years younger than they are?? Quid pro quo guys!!!
just me...peace
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| 6/13/2008 1:20:22 AM |
How do the men here feel about marrying a woman 10 years older? |
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westcoast_sam
Delta, BC
age: 42
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would i marry a man 10 years older, most definitely....10 years younger, probably...its just a number, I do agree, and a connection is a connection...so my answer is a solid maybe...
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