I am on 4 diffrent sites

6/23/2008 6:47:14 AM	I am on 4 diffrent sites
foxycat2k7 Niota, TN age: 59	I am on 4 diffrent sites and still have a problem. Would someone you look at my profile and tell me what is wrong with me? Thank you, Cat
6/23/2008 7:34:02 AM	I am on 4 diffrent sites
i_fill_u8 Hixson, TN age: 45	hobby church, activities church, friends church, do we see a theme here. it looks as if you have no life outside of church, most people like to go out and see new things and do things they have never done, list what you might like to do, not what you do the most of, list what you might want or have on your bucket list. the bucket list is a movie, if you have not seen it please do.
6/23/2008 12:21:55 PM	I am on 4 diffrent sites
foxycat2k7 Niota, TN age: 59	For the last 39 years I hardly have done anything. There was no money. After 39 years I have nothing. No house, no car, nothing to show for 39 years. I do love to do everything. But it is all new to me. Thank you for your comment. cat
6/26/2008 3:11:26 AM	I am on 4 diffrent sites
hillbillybill Knoxville, TN age: 48	STAY AWAY fromA CHURCH thay are NOT OUT FOR YOUR BEST INTREST THEY ARE AFTER YOUR MONEY, YOU NAME ON THERE ATENDENCE ROSTER, AND A NUMBER ON THE SEAT. IF THEY WERE LOOKIN FOR YOUR BEST INTREST THEY WOULD BE TEACHIN YOU THE BIBLE NOT HOW TO HELP BRING MONEY INTO THE CHURCH. THEEY WOULD ONLY TEACH THE BIBLE AND LEAVE ALL THE GARBAGE AT THE DUMPSTER BUT THAT WILL NOT HAPPEN IF YOU HAVE A PREACHER THAT GETS PAID FOR PREACHING IT SHOULD BU DONE VOLINTARILY WITHOUT COST
6/26/2008 1:43:11 PM	I am on 4 diffrent sites
tara7c Westerville, OH age: 50	Foxycat...do not change who you are...it is part of you. Keep in all the references to Christian values...a good Christian man will understand what you're talking about. It is difficult to find a really good Christian man online. I've been on and off about 7 online dating sites to see who's out there. Of all the profiles I've read...I would bet that 90% or more of them claim to be "Christian". However...when you start questioning about that...you will find that the term "Christian" is used very loosely. Not that many would fit what you are looking for. Even on the Christian sites...it's about the same as here and other sites...because you don't have to "prove" you're a Christian to join. You probably won't get a lot of interest shown because of the strong Christian tone of your profile. However, if you consider.....if you weed out all the men online who are scammers, players, looking for sex, non-Christians, or those who say they are Christians but have morals that don't resemble Christian values....well...that narrows the field ALOT! There's nothing "wrong with you". Add more to your personality profile. REAL Christians (not the stuffy "religious" people) are fun people to be around. Show more of your personality...your interests, talents, music or movie tastes, hobbies, what you like to do for fun or what you think you would like to do, etc. Take a different approach to online dating. See it more as entertainment. (it's more entertaining to me than television) Keep your standards and look for a man who fits you and your lifestyle. If he is online...God will make sure that he finds you. If he's not online...he'll still find you. Be careful out there...and God bless.
8/1/2008 9:08:32 PM	I am on 4 diffrent sites
edawg2 Knoxville, TN age: 60	Nothing's wrong with you. Pop culture has deceived all the lookers about what they might want or see on here.
9/28/2008 5:43:57 PM	I am on 4 diffrent sites
cutedove Tellico Plains, TN age: 53	Quote from foxycat2k7: I am on 4 diffrent sites and still have a problem. Would someone you look at my profile and tell me what is wrong with me? Thank you, Cat Hi There, There is absolutely nothing wrong with you sweetie. You are cute as a button, BUT be more open about what you are really looking for. You can do that without losing your religious beliefs AND morals if a nice gentlemn is truly interested and sincere. I don't claim to be a christian and I was raised to have high morals so therefore, I set my limits on WHOM I talk to and go out with. Sometimes I get a player but I can spot them from a mile away because I have dated just about all kinds and had the chance to weed out the bad from the good. I have found a real gentleman on here and I hope it works out because I am very selective of whom I want and WHAT I want for my future. I will NOT settle for less and you shouldn't either. Just be steadfast and you will find that special someone. Good Luck, cutedove
9/28/2008 6:41:55 PM	I am on 4 diffrent sites
mountainman7 Chattanooga, TN age: 41	foxycat2k7 wrote, "I am on 4 diffrent sites and still have a problem. Would someone you look at my profile and tell me what is wrong with me?" ** Everything you wrote about deals with the Christian faith. But that's the only thing you share. You don't set yourself apart from other Christian women. Any Christian woman can share about her faith in a profile. (1) Browse the profiles of Christian women on DH and the other sites you have a profile (around your age group) and look at their profiles. (2) Go to various places like y a h o o and m s n and look under "dating advice", then go to the faith section and do some research. (3) Look very closely at profiles of women who are like you that talk about their Christian faith to some degree. (4) Pay very close attention at what they have to say, as well as the types of pictures they have. I guarantee you 4 times out of 5 that their profiles won't be dominated by all things Christian (because 1 out of 5 will be like your DH profile as you have it now). That, and you don't paint a portrait of yourself to prospective men, let alone Christian men. All I read into your profile shouts Christian, Christian, Christian and nothing else. No hobbies, interests, or anything you do in your spare time other than being involved with all things Christian? Spend the time doing some research on other Christian women's profiles for ideas, then make whatever changes you deem as necessary that fit who you are. After all, you know yourself better than anyone else knows you on DH or any other dating site. When Christian men read your profile on whatever dating services you're using, they want to have a reason why they should write you (because all Christian women love what the Christian faith offers them, according to their interpretations of the Christian faith). When you've put the research, time, effort, and work into your profiles, perhaps you will see results that you hadn't seen previously. Best of wishes to you.
9/28/2008 6:55:00 PM	I am on 4 diffrent sites
mountainman7 Chattanooga, TN age: 41	foxycat2k7 wrote, "For the last 39 years I hardly have done anything. There was no money. After 39 years I have nothing. No house, no car, nothing to show for 39 years. I do love to do everything. But it is all new to me. Thank you for your comment." ** Guess what? I don't have a house (I have an apartment), a car (I use public transportation), or anything much else but college and graduate degrees to show for my 41 years. If you look at my profile (by all means do so), the picture I paint is of a creative nature. I plant a seed into a woman's mind that I am a creative/artistic individual who likes to look at clouds and interpret what they might mean to me (as well as appreciating the beauty of nature). Sure, I mention I am "non religious". Christian women have written me before in response to that, wondering what I mean by "non religious". I tell them. The majority of those women understood. The others didn't for whatever reason they chose. Again, take a look at my earlier comments in this particular forum for ideas and suggestions to make your profile look better.
9/30/2008 7:52:34 PM	I am on 4 diffrent sites
kinkiehippie Maryville, TN age: 56	There is nothing wrong with being a christian. Your faith is what you are. If you are looking for something outside of your church,you have to tell people. Explain what you are looking for. I am a christian. When I die,I AM going to heaven. I know that,for a fact. But,in my profile,on this site,and 5 others,I don't talk about it. To me,that is what can be discussed,at a later date/time. To me,you location is wrong. Niota is a little out of the way,to larger communities. It is,almost,as bad as living in Tellico Plains,TN (lol). I know,because,I used to live in Ball Play community (of Tellico Plains). And,I know a few who live in Rafter,TN,which is WORSE than Niota. But,really,you need to explain,what you are interested in doing OUTSIDE the church.

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