| 6/19/2013 4:32:04 PM |
Dating a single pregnant woman |
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nookie69
Durham, NC
34, joined Mar. 2011
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Would you date, hangout with a pregnant woman? What would you do ?
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| 6/20/2013 12:43:40 PM |
Dating a single pregnant woman |
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kermit32
York, NE
60, joined Feb. 2009
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$#ck like rabbits!! 
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| 6/21/2013 12:01:11 PM |
Dating a single pregnant woman |
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ifonly41nite
Stockton, CA
36, joined Feb. 2012
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i'd feed her and rub her
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| 6/21/2013 6:25:08 PM |
Dating a single pregnant woman |
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kutiegangsta
Coahoma, MS
25, joined May. 2013
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Well im a single mom of a beautiful 3year old n 1on the way n i pretty much cant find anyone who wants to be wit a pregnant person so i stopped lookin 
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| 6/21/2013 6:53:46 PM |
Dating a single pregnant woman |
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elliotnbyranmom
Hutchinson, KS
25, joined Jun. 2012
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I have a two year old and a one year old and pregnant again I'm young and divorced I thought no man would want me but I've realized there are a lot of guys out there that want a family no matter what..its just finding them that's the problem
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| 6/23/2013 10:29:03 AM |
Dating a single pregnant woman |
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kaegansdad
Altoona, IA
38, joined May. 2011
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I have dated pregnant women before. Its not a big deal. Real men don't care.
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| 6/24/2013 10:31:42 AM |
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jay1313
Newark, NJ
34, joined Jul. 2008
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not saying there's anything wrong with that choice in the matter. but look at it as this.
your a pregnant Single mother. just got knocked up no less then 9 months ago. & you want t o be with another male friend again.
some things come to mind here. Why not just focus on yourself instead of dating again, your prego ffs theres something more important that matters then another date atm..
its degrading to some men as to see you were just knocked up & want another man. i mean damn your already knocked up lol.
1 mans pleasure & creation is gonna wear out another mans nerve's & pockets xD..
Not saying any of this to be mean but its just my perspective on most probability why no man dates a prego women..
for me it depends your situation & how you became to be prego. (even thou we all kow the answer is you couldnt keep the darn legs closed))
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| 6/24/2013 9:13:37 PM |
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azmetalfan
Mesa, AZ
38, joined Mar. 2009
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My issue would be how soon will you be going back to the daddy, is daddy still in the picture and how soon is he going to want to fight because I'm dating his baby momma.
It is hard for a lot of guys for those reasons and then how much does a man want to take that responsibility or be the bad guy when it doesn't work out before or after the baby is born.
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| 6/25/2013 12:09:47 AM |
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darrininlove
Estacada, OR
46, joined Jun. 2013
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if she needed a friend,i would hang out with her,it is all ways good for a mother to be happy in her pregnacy,, 
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| 7/2/2013 10:49:40 PM |
Dating a single pregnant woman |
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countrymomhere
Sparta, MI
36, joined Jun. 2013
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When i was pregnant my son dad left right when I told him... he ran. I wasnt even thinking of dating. I had enough going on with my hormones going crazy, dealing w the dad & if he was going to be involved plus my health and my son health. I didnt want to have sex with anyone because I didnt want anything pass on to my unborn child. Dont worry about a man right now. You have time to find him. Good luck
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| 7/3/2013 9:13:07 AM |
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leaddawg
Metter, GA
52, joined Oct. 2007
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i would date 1 and treat her like a lady as well. she is still human
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| 7/3/2013 11:36:52 AM |
Dating a single pregnant woman |
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uga1785
Dardanelle, AR
41, joined Nov. 2012
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the gift of life is a great and wonderful thng. A lady a true lady is gna be up and down with mood swings pain swellin and yes sexaul passion durnin the pregancy. I hav dated women my two kids mamas and loved with all my heart mind body soul. So to a true lady if ur ready to date and the dad isnt a physco nut. Then date love have safe fun just be true to ur unborn child first.
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| 7/3/2013 9:32:31 PM |
Dating a single pregnant woman |
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zacsmommy9
Asheville, NC
27, joined Feb. 2013
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I'm 24, (25 on Friday [: ). I have a four year old and I'm pregnant with my second child. Me and baby daddy number 2 did not plan this pregnancy at all! We werent an item, just a casual thing. Now we don't speak. He threatened to take our baby to SC wherewhere he lives weather I liked it or not....never mess with a mama and especially a pregnant, hormonal mama about her kids. I was looking to be in a relationship before I got pregnant. I haven't dated anyone since before my son was born. My sons dad left me bc i was simply too big for his reputation to bear. It really scarred me..so I've spent the last four years concentrating on my little guy.
I really don't want to be an old maid so I've semi continued to look for a man now that I'm prego. I have mixed feelings about it...
I'm not looking for a man to take care of my kids, that's MY responsibility, but I'm your average girl I guess you could say; i want to find a guy who will truly love me, accept my flaws, my children, my life. Be there for me during the trying times but enjoy the wonderful times with too.
Should I stop looking because I'm pregnant? I don't think so. I mean I'm not going to put finding a man before my children but I don't want to put it on the back burner like I have with my son.
Idk that's just my story/take on this topic.
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| 7/3/2013 11:35:15 PM |
Dating a single pregnant woman |
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the_lynguist
Denver, CO
36, joined Jul. 2012
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I wouldn't mind hanging out, but I couldn't make any promises of romance. She's on the verge of enduring a lot of changes and what she wants/needs today may not be the same in 9 months or more.
[Edited 7/3/2013 11:35:54 PM ]
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| 7/4/2013 10:24:40 AM |
Dating a single pregnant woman |
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rose1206
Gilbert, AZ
34, joined Jul. 2012
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When i was pregnant my son dad left right when I told him... he ran. I wasnt even thinking of dating. I had enough going on with my hormones going crazy, dealing w the dad & if he was going to be involved plus my health and my son health. I didnt want to have sex with anyone because I didnt want anything pass on to my unborn child. Dont worry about a man right now. You have time to find him. Good luck
How does a woman even have the mental energy to date while pregnant with so much on her plate? Different strokes for different folks, I couldn't do it though.
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| 7/8/2013 8:30:05 PM |
Dating a single pregnant woman |
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sweetsugar22
Jacksonville, FL
24, joined Jul. 2013
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At least you honest
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| 7/13/2013 2:49:36 PM |
Dating a single pregnant woman |
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febuary75
Gettysburg, PA
41, joined Jun. 2013
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I would have no problem with it. I"m talking to a lady who"s pregnant. And Were just friends. But People are judging to fast. You know things happen. But we shouldn't put a label/ judge some one for a situation they get into. Right away it's negative remarks and etc. That's the society we live in today. But Some of us look past that.. And see the Lady.for who she is.. Regardless of Pregnant,Race,Hair Color etc. I would be a friend to anyone in time of need. The way it should be but that's just me. If the chemistry is there reguardless of her being pregnant .Then Work through it. A great relationship takes work. You have to see what"s important to you. And how it effect you.. Been in the long run... You Get out off a relationship.What you put into a relationship.
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| 7/15/2013 12:57:43 PM |
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song_bird86
Sparta, MO
29, joined Jan. 2008
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I got pregnant at 19 after just a month and a half of dating the BD and he left me by the time I was 6mo pregnant. I never once considered dating til my son was 2yrs old. I didn't feel comfortable about it. I was distraught when BD left me. I honestly loved him and thought he was everything I ever looked for. Turns out he lied about this "ex" fiance that ended up being a real fiance that he still got married to. I was young and naive and it took me that long to get over him leaving and not ever getting an answer as to why and him never contacting me to see how his son was doing. That being said. I had a guy friend from hs and he talked to me while I was away at college, still hung out with me when I came back home pregnant, and we are still friends to this day. I always had a thing for him and the first time he ever kissed me was when I was pregnant. Completely took me by surprise too.
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| 7/17/2013 1:26:15 AM |
Dating a single pregnant woman |
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wallbanger85
Plattsmouth, NE
30, joined Jun. 2013
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How does being pregnant stop you from hanging out and if a couple fancy each other then he has to be OK with the fact she pregnant if I met someone who I couldn't live without the fact she was pregnant wouldn't bother me obviously
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| 7/17/2013 1:36:46 AM |
Dating a single pregnant woman |
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mainelythere
Farmington, ME
36, joined Dec. 2012
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When OP says "date" does she mean to pursue an LTR or just something casual. If we mean date as in with the expectation of it becoming an LTR then No, and i am sure ill get crapped on for this- but i feel like the period of time when a woman is pregnant is not always the most flattering or best time. contrary to poets and tv shows- pregnancy is not always beautiful.
I would not pursue a pregnant women, and i HOPE that if met a woman that i didnt know was pregnant she would inform me sooner rather than later.
Dating a single parent already has certain conditions that are not necessarily a pleasure, but combine that with the enormous physical, medical and time requirements of pregnancy, and its not something id want to put myself through.
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| 7/17/2013 11:40:26 AM |
Dating a single pregnant woman |
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song_bird86
Sparta, MO
29, joined Jan. 2008
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When OP says "date" does she mean to pursue an LTR or just something casual. If we mean date as in with the expectation of it becoming an LTR then No, and i am sure ill get crapped on for this- but i feel like the period of time when a woman is pregnant is not always the most flattering or best time. contrary to poets and tv shows- pregnancy is not always beautiful.
I would not pursue a pregnant women, and i HOPE that if met a woman that i didnt know was pregnant she would inform me sooner rather than later.
Dating a single parent already has certain conditions that are not necessarily a pleasure, but combine that with the enormous physical, medical and time requirements of pregnancy, and its not something id want to put myself through.
That's because you're a douche and only care about having attention on yourself.
Just think about it. If a girl is very newly pregnant but has a friend that's always been interested or it's one of those things like they're never been single at the same time but now they are. They can test the waters before the baby comes, 9mo is plenty of time to know if you are really compatible with someone and want to be with them. That's long enough to know if you want long term, heck for some that is long term. Then if things work out then there never has to be the issue of her being a single mom or not having someone around to help with the baby. That baby will have a father from day one.
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| 7/17/2013 3:42:03 PM |
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viooak93
Katy, TX
22, joined Jun. 2013
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I know what you mean
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| 7/17/2013 6:58:57 PM |
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good_dr
Spokane, WA
52, joined Dec. 2011
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To be a friend sure, but for more. I really don't know. Specially if something should happen. It hurts like hell to have a child ripped from you that helped raised and love. Then due to the fact your not blood, and there is nothing that you can do about it.
Granted I don't mind the ones that are already here, and they as well vary much have a say in things. I don't care what the other adult says. Kids do have a say. Than there is to be a question of the father situation or drama.
Friends and hang out sure, but more I just don't know.
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| 7/17/2013 7:01:37 PM |
Dating a single pregnant woman |
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wallbanger85
Plattsmouth, NE
30, joined Jun. 2013
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That's because you're a douche and only care about having attention on yourself.
Just think about it. If a girl is very newly pregnant but has a friend that's always been interested or it's one of those things like they're never been single at the same time but now they are. They can test the waters before the baby comes, 9mo is plenty of time to know if you are really compatible with someone and want to be with them. That's long enough to know if you want long term, heck for some that is long term. Then if things work out then there never has to be the issue of her being a single mom or not having someone around to help with the baby. That baby will have a father from day one.
You can't fault someone for stating their opinion. Its natural for people to stay away if someone has kids. Questions arise of why previous relationship didn't work. Plus he is right pregnancy does cause more stress and hold more emotional issues. So for sure saying that a relationship built during pregnancy is great is wrong. People change and proven the mothers do to. To tie in your personal accord you must also play the devils advocate. I see his point of view and understand. But if it were me I would hang out with a friend. IfIf something more happened then it is what it is.
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| 7/17/2013 8:44:12 PM |
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mainelythere
Farmington, ME
36, joined Dec. 2012
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That's because you're a douche and only care about having attention on yourself.
Lol! you are so f**king hateful and incapable of reading an opposing opinion- its kid of sad.
Anyway- my point stands if i met a girl on here- who i had NEVER known before- and found out she was pregnant i would not pursue her romantically- like i said i knew id get crapped on...by crapheads.
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| 7/18/2013 12:28:36 AM |
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song_bird86
Sparta, MO
29, joined Jan. 2008
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Lol! you are so f**king hateful and incapable of reading an opposing opinion- its kid of sad.
Anyway- my point stands if i met a girl on here- who i had NEVER known before- and found out she was pregnant i would not pursue her romantically- like i said i knew id get crapped on...by crapheads.
You've already proven yourself in many other post that you don't like dating single parents for the fact you don't get the attention you want. You want to be number 1 always.
Pregnancy affects every woman differently. You also have to consider how she got pregnant. Was it a once night stand? Was it a short relationship? Was it a LTR and he didn't want to be a part? If she just came out of a relationship then no, I don't think she should be pursuing dating but that's because of my belief that everyone should take time between relationships to figure out what went wrong and why and deal with it. Should she not be allowed friends? No. She's got every right to have friends.
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| 7/18/2013 7:12:17 AM |
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mainelythere
Farmington, ME
36, joined Dec. 2012
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SOng bird what does her circumstances have to do with anything? i never passed judgment on WHy she was pregnant.
Im not the only one here saying they dont want to do involved romantically with a pregnant women. But because your butthead has a bug up it about me you jump on me. my stance is neither hateful nor selfish.
Sure shes allowed friends but the question was about DATING not friends you mook.
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| 7/18/2013 8:17:47 AM |
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mainelythere
Farmington, ME
36, joined Dec. 2012
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And honestly- ANYONE who claims they aren't dating for selfish reasons is full of shit.
Whether you like the phrasing or not, people seek companionship to satisfy THEIR need for company ad love and sex.
NO ONE dates purely to make someone else happy.
I won't feel guilty because i don't want to KNOOWINGLY engage someone who will add significant hardship to my life.
Would you date someone with 15 dogs?
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| 7/18/2013 11:05:09 AM |
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song_bird86
Sparta, MO
29, joined Jan. 2008
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I don't understand how you can say it's adding hardship to your life. And yes, she said hang out. That would be friends, not dating.
The circumstances do kinda matter as I said in my post. If she's coming out of a LTR she shouldn't be looking to date being newly single and newly pregnant. She needs time to herself. I said it of any LTR. I don't agree with people bouncing from relationship to relationship without taking time for reflection and healing. If it were a one time stand, she's got no baggage to deal with and could easily move on. If she had someone in her life already interested in her then it would make things easy and that baby wouldn't have to be without a father if things worked out, like I previously said.
You are selfish because you consider peoples kids to be baggage and "added hardship" to you. Don't date single parents if you don't want to deal with not always being able to go out or babysitter issues getting in the way or whatever. You said that "her" kids shouldn't come before you in another thread. Please tell me how that is not the words of a selfish douche. You can't be selfish in relationships point blank.
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| 7/18/2013 11:12:46 AM |
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mainelythere
Farmington, ME
36, joined Dec. 2012
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I don't understand how you can say it's adding hardship to your life. And yes, she said hang out. That would be friends, not dating. no she said date or hang out. i addressed the dating part.
You said that "her" kids shouldn't come before you in another thread.
Taken out of context is sound bad, but what ive said before and ill say it again is i have no interest in being in a relationship where i dont get equal attention. I dont see how that makes me a monster. Simple minded single parents like you seem to think if you aren't giving your kids all of your time, then you are neglecting them. All i expect from my mate is to be valued and not thrown aside whenever its convenient for her kids.
Sorry but your kneejerk response to my very reasonable stance is uncalled for and makes any sort of dialogue impossible.
You are selfish because you consider peoples kids to be baggage and "added hardship" to you. They are though! Even married people with kids admit kids add financial, time and resource drains to their lives. Having pets does too, am i scumbag because id not date a person that has 5 great danes?
Don't date single parents if you don't want to deal with not always being able to go out or babysitter issues getting in the way or whatever.
and i don't-
the OP framed a question and i answered it honestly- what is so hard for you to grasp???
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| 7/18/2013 6:37:55 PM |
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troll_on
New York, NY
27, joined Jul. 2013
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That shouldn't be allowed and their needs to be a law against it.
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| 7/21/2013 5:15:46 PM |
Dating a single pregnant woman |
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chevyman331980
Rogers, AR
35, joined Jul. 2013
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It would not matter to me if I find a pregnant lady n we started dating. I would talk to her n try to make her feel good n happy n put a smile on her face. But I can't find anyone that would like to chat to me n Im a good guy I'm not out here trying to find a one nite stand or friends with benefits that's just wrong
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| 8/2/2013 2:33:29 AM |
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mbabyy94
Pasadena, TX
21, joined Aug. 2013
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I have a four yr old son..his father committed suicide a month after I had him..I'm pregnant due in 19days..but the father and I aren't together and aren't on speaking terms. I didn't plan on being pregnant yet ended up, but I plan on working and graduating college as soon as I can. I do get lonely sometimes, yet again I try focusing on what really matters...LIKE MY CHILDREN. I'm beyond young for my "package", yet I stepped up a lot and managed to become a responsible parent...but sometimes it would be nice to be wanted by someone.
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| 8/2/2013 6:41:30 PM |
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rangers_fan
Hazlet, NJ
51, joined Aug. 2008
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to mbabyy94... being a responsible parent, im impressed, most girls your age try to pass the kid(s) off on their mom or grandma, I loved every minute of being dad, wasn't easy being a single dad, but they grew up to become amazing women.. good luck to you, and yes id date a pregnant woman..
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| 9/5/2013 4:11:19 PM |
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ngapac
Chiloquin, OR
35, joined Feb. 2013
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You are super cute
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| 9/8/2013 8:20:11 AM |
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ashash131
Homestead, FL
23, joined Feb. 2013
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I meet someone on.here when I was pregnant
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| 9/8/2013 9:33:07 AM |
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cbarrrington201
Udall, MO
67, joined Mar. 2012
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| 9/8/2013 9:33:26 AM |
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rangers_fan
Hazlet, NJ
51, joined Aug. 2008
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I meet someone on.here when I was pregnant
how did that work out for you?
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