| 7/31/2013 10:38:39 PM |
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wedadams
High Point, NC
30, joined Jun. 2013
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I've got two little boys, 4 and 8. I haven't dated or had a boyfriend in two years, and a lot of that has to do with my schedule being the way it is, but I can also attribute it to the hassle of dating with kids. Not a lot of men accept that I can't just drop everything for a relationship and I'm not including my kids in the dating because I respect them too much for that...
I guess I am just trying to see if it is just me being jaded or if any other single parents just feel like it isn't worth the trouble to date while the kids are still little.
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| 8/1/2013 12:04:16 AM |
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surbryton
Vernonia, OR
27, joined Feb. 2013
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It can be a lot of trouble depending on your situation. If you don't trust daycare or babysitting it wont be easy to find the time to date. If you have a good saport system such as family and friends it could work out if you spend the energy needed.
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| 8/1/2013 12:05:42 AM |
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jb1504
Lakewood, OH
37, joined Jul. 2011
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It is hard with kids and having the kids there isn't the best idea. I guess depending on how much time you have it could take forever to get to know someone.
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| 8/1/2013 12:33:02 AM |
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rose1206
Gilbert, AZ
33, joined Jul. 2012
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It can be a lot of trouble depending on your situation. If you don't trust daycare or babysitting it wont be easy to find the time to date. If you have a good saport system such as family and friends it could work out if you spend the energy needed.
I agree with this, it all boils down to how much you really want to find someone while balancing everything else. Don't date unless you're truly ready. Since I don't pay a sitter to go out (my son won't be in school for awhile), dating isn't a priority for me.
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| 8/1/2013 9:38:23 AM |
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rangers_fan
Hazlet, NJ
50, joined Aug. 2008
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I went through the same thing, since I had custody (total, full, sole)sometimes was many years between dates, you couldn't believe how many women wouldn't date me because I had the girls, like you I didn't have much free time either, between coaching softball, teaching ccd, working fulltime, and a part time job when we needed extra money (ex never paid child support) my free time was little, the girls came 1st.. if you ever want to chat drop m a line..
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| 8/1/2013 4:00:03 PM |
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breeze_85
Albany, OR
29, joined Jul. 2013
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Yes! I sometimes think it would be easier to date a guy who has kids so understands I can't just go and do something or have to cancel because my babysitter falls through. But childless men have no baby mama drama. I can't seem to find any adult unbroken men around here so i usually get burnt out and stop dating for a couple months.
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| 8/1/2013 4:10:22 PM |
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wedadams
High Point, NC
30, joined Jun. 2013
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I guess that is my problem. I have no support system, most of my family is in a different state and my oldest has no father (the youngest's dad isn't around much, but he tries sometimes)
I'm ready to date again but it just seems impossible due to everything else.. Maybe its me 
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| 8/1/2013 5:13:56 PM |
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dave031182
Bellmawr, NJ
32, joined Jul. 2013
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Yeah I can't believe how often I've been told that being a full time dad works against me. I assumed it would work in my favor....you know....I work two jobs. Raise my son. Accept responsibility for bringing a child into this world. Maybe I just have bad luck with women...
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| 8/1/2013 11:29:58 PM |
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miss_sunnyshine
Chino, CA
35, joined Jul. 2013
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Yes, I think for now it seems to be more hassle than it is worth at this time of my life. Unpredictable nature of my schedule. I am a nurse and I am on call a lotand I have to be ready to jump into my scrubs and get to work. I seriously think a guy would be fed up seeing me in nothing but scrubs. I do not blame them on that and the time I do have is reserved for my kids and attending their activities. I made an unorthodox choice about parenthood. I wanted kids but that meant I had to put myself out there and I am very shy, it comes from the fact that I am very hard of hearing and must wear hearing aides during my waking moments. I have had difficulty with being social and being accepted. So I chose in-vitro with a donor. I am in all sense of the word their only parent. I have read some really awful remarks from some of the males on this site about kids being a burden they want no part of (there is one guy who has made it clear that is his stand and he has kids. So does he feel his kids are a burden too or just other people's kids. Good thing he says he is not here to meet). I am not here to meet either just to read the forums. They are interesting and informative and gives a little bit of a support for being a single parent or whatever else you choose to do.
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| 8/1/2013 11:50:08 PM |
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markhavens69
West Liberty, KY
45, joined Aug. 2013
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Seems line no matter how good of a person you are or how good of a man you are, when a man does a woman wrong it labels us all. It seems like all these sites are the same, they say that they want a good man and someone that will be there no matter what but it seems like women what just the opposite. I've been a single parent I've raised my 3 boys on my own, I've been a mom and a dad to them with no help from their mom. Why is it so hard to find a good women these days. Ugggg I hate this crap.
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| 8/2/2013 1:32:49 AM |
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lolab78
Tucson, AZ
36, joined Feb. 2013
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Yes it is most of time, I've been single for more years than I care to say! Lol but I think if its meant to be it'll happen, I wont settle for less than someone that treats me and my kids right nobody should
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| 8/2/2013 5:02:37 PM |
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wedadams
High Point, NC
30, joined Jun. 2013
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Yes it is most of time, I've been single for more years than I care to say! Lol but I think if its meant to be it'll happen, I wont settle for less than someone that treats me and my kids right nobody should
I agree!! Just when I think my standards might be a little too high, I remind myself that I don't need another headache and hassle, and my kids deserve better.
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| 8/3/2013 12:10:55 AM |
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miss_sunnyshine
Chino, CA
35, joined Jul. 2013
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Seems line no matter how good of a person you are or how good of a man you are, when a man does a woman wrong it labels us all. It seems like all these sites are the same, they say that they want a good man and someone that will be there no matter what but it seems like women what just the opposite. I've been a single parent I've raised my 3 boys on my own, I've been a mom and a dad to them with no help from their mom. Why is it so hard to find a good women these days. Ugggg I hate this crap.
I just go by what is being said and the prevailing attitude, Ok you want a good woman and you raised your kids that is good. Seems men get fawned over for doing what women have been doing for a long time. At times I want to say "Want a cookie?" cause women do not get any special treatment we just do what needs to be done and we do not look for accolades from others. I am like you mom and dad to my kids 24/7...either by working to make a life for us or by spending time with them. I do not believe in handing my kids over to be watched so I get a moment alone. I would not know what to do with myself if I was not working or being a mom. I cannot say a man done me "wrong" I have to be honest I never gave anybody a chance to. I just decided I wanted kids and went and had in-vitro. I am very shy and self-conscious about my hearing and my speech. I hope you find what you look for. There are a lot of women who hold no ill will towards men on here. I wish you luck.
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| 8/4/2013 10:27:55 AM |
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countrymomhere
Sparta, MI
35, joined Jun. 2013
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I agree w many comments above. Ive been single for longer then id like but wont just date anyone. Part of me just wants to give up dating bc its such a pain & hard to find anyone that isn't fake or married. I dont usually date guys w no kids (maybe id have better luck w them?) Only dated single dads. Even some single dads dont care or understand. They just looking to get their stick wet....not all men!
Its hard & sucks but i dont want to die single & alone
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| 8/7/2013 9:50:29 PM |
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patutu149
Everett, MA
53, joined Jan. 2011
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Yes I do. Want to rescue me ipso facto
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| 8/7/2013 10:18:32 PM |
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patutu149
Everett, MA
53, joined Jan. 2011
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Yes I do. Want to be rescued me ipso facto. Any takers?
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| 8/7/2013 10:24:25 PM |
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jamesdkddf
Stroudsburg, PA
32, joined Sep. 2011
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I'm a father of a 6 yr old and won't bring him around a chick unless it gets serious
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| 8/8/2013 6:23:21 PM |
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miss_sunnyshine
Chino, CA
35, joined Jul. 2013
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Who has time to date when you work full time and take care of your kids and even if you have a "day Off" it is not a true day off...you are usually catching up on laundry, housework (I usually do a little bit every night after the kids have eaten and doing homework I am doing some kind of chore. And I also look after my mom who is sick and my dad works so I take care of her on the days the home care person is not visiting so my mom is always looked after. So how would a man feel if he had to get in line behind my kids, career and parents? I am sure the fella would feel ignored. Perhaps when my personal life is not so occupied with other priorities I will consider it. The only two people in my life that will take priority over a date or boyfriend would be my kids. If a man has a hard time with that then in my opinion he is childish and immature to think he would take priority over my own flesh and blood. Not to mention I would think he has a few screws loose if he thinks he should be more important than my kids. I work long hours to make sure my kids have what they need. I am an independent person by nature so I am just used to doing my own thing with no help from others.
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| 8/9/2013 12:39:29 PM |
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good_dr
Spokane, WA
51, joined Dec. 2011
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Who has time to date when you work full time and take care of your kids and even if you have a "day Off" it is not a true day off...you are usually catching up on laundry, housework (I usually do a little bit every night after the kids have eaten and doing homework I am doing some kind of chore. And I also look after my mom who is sick and my dad works so I take care of her on the days the home care person is not visiting so my mom is always looked after. So how would a man feel if he had to get in line behind my kids, career and parents? I am sure the fella would feel ignored. Perhaps when my personal life is not so occupied with other priorities I will consider it. The only two people in my life that will take priority over a date or boyfriend would be my kids. If a man has a hard time with that then in my opinion he is childish and immature to think he would take priority over my own flesh and blood. Not to mention I would think he has a few screws loose if he thinks he should be more important than my kids. I work long hours to make sure my kids have what they need. I am an independent person by nature so I am just used to doing my own thing with no help from others.
That gate swings both ways. Just that with a guy they usually call him a dead beat, looser, and many other things. Family needs to stick together. Sad how society frowns on those values now days. Now they just want someone to go out, have dept over their heads, and keep buying anything. Not to make anything of them self or family for that matter. Sad.
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| 8/11/2013 3:05:20 PM |
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woomau1
New Castle, DE
42, joined Jun. 2013
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Absolutely...I am a divorce mom of two boys 11 & 8....and I won't bring anyone around them unless it's.....
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| 8/11/2013 6:11:04 PM |
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adri2685
Grand Rapids, MI
29, joined Aug. 2013
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I completely agree with you... Not many guys understand that or used to chicks that just leave there kids wherever to go hook up with a Guy... I go to school and work fulltime with a 4 yr old daughter... I want friends without pressure then maybe date. Think I should just wait til she's older to start dating again...
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| 8/12/2013 12:28:48 AM |
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tinky00
Dickinson, TX
33, joined Jul. 2013
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I do. That's why I'm just focusing on taking care of my kids & school right now.
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| 8/12/2013 8:37:07 PM |
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wedadams
High Point, NC
30, joined Jun. 2013
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I completely agree with you... Not many guys understand that or used to chicks that just leave there kids wherever to go hook up with a Guy... I go to school and work fulltime with a 4 yr old daughter... I want friends without pressure then maybe date. Think I should just wait til she's older to start dating again...
You're right! I've had guys get upset with me before when I decline a date because I have no sitter. I don't like leaving my kids with anyone because I barely get to see them as is, due to working..
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| 8/13/2013 3:47:47 PM |
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antdat69
Fort Worth, TX
54, joined Aug. 2012
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Now that my boys are older, I don't have a lot of dates, but I meet people at places. Not sure you'd consider that a date, more like an arranged meeting.
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| 8/21/2013 9:09:21 AM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
49, joined Jul. 2013
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Sometimes but I'm a strong women and i got faith.
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| 8/21/2013 10:48:16 AM |
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enter_twined
Kailua Kona, HI
30, joined Aug. 2013
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I can relate to the responses seen above. Dating can sometimes seem like too much trouble in general. It is difficult for people who do not even have children. Society has changed so much and the values of the past do not appear often nowadays.
We are single parents who are masters of juggling many things at once. We have to put our children in the highest priority. It is part of our duty as responsible parents. Sometimes people look at full time parents who work full time and go to school full time and juggle their children's activities and question how they do it. It gets done when the only option is it has to be done. We also have to remember that we need to take time off for ourselves. Even one day a week for a couple hours that is just about us. This makes so much of an impact!
I remember when I changed my perspective how much more fulfilled I felt. Being a parent is such a blessing. It is the most amazing gift. It is also not the only thing we are. We are all searching for that person that completes a part of us that no one else can. We are all looking to find the right person. I started thanking the universe when someone showed we were not a right fit. It opened up the possibility of the right person to come into my life. It also seemed to be much less trouble to date when the right person came along. I didn't have to apologize for placing my children above him or for my schedule. He just understood as I understood his priorities. I also naturally wanted to spend more time with him and vice versa. Is this not the way it should be?!
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| 8/24/2013 9:07:56 AM |
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freeforallfun
Grottoes, VA
36, joined Aug. 2013
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Yes i agree tryin to date when ur a single parent is very hard some guys understand and some dont u cant just drop everything and go but one thing that will never change is that i love being a mom its the most wonderful thing and i will one day find a guy whos understanding of the single parent world and wouldnt mind joinin in and lovin every minute like i do 
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| 8/24/2013 10:54:08 AM |
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legaleye
Columbus, OH
63, joined Mar. 2008
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Quote from debyduz
Yes very few men wish to be patient. You have to build a relationship before you allow them to meet the children. The man always feel like they are in last place. so they really don't give you a chance.
I have been feeling that way lately and almost don't want to bother anymore.
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Interesting comment. When I first got divorced, back when we rode around on horseback and fought indians, I had a 10 year old. I liked to see him all the time, and my ex, so you understand, would complain that I spent too much time with him. Imagine that.
Its all a balance, but as a guy with a preteen son, I always did feel like I was in "last place" when dating someone with children. A lot of women didnt know how to impart to a guy that the relationship with the guy was also important and not a throwaway. After a few years I started dating only women who had either adult children or teenage kids who were reasonably independent, and mom was not a "helicopter mom."
No its not easy, and I was, and still am, a very patient and laid back kind of guy. But with some women you get the feeling you are there only for the entertainment value or whats in your wallet.
I never was bothered by a cancelled date for things like the sitter didnt show, or a child got sick, etc. Its a normal part of life. What was a problem was someone's inability to understand that your guy is also important, something a number of women found hard to get across to their guy in any form.
One of the big problems of dating is ferreting out those good people. The so called good guys also have responsibilities, obligations, etc. and can be just as busy.... a responsible guy faced with the decision of going to a bar to hang out or cutting the grass is going to cut the grass and stay home.... just an example, but a limit on meeting people.
I see a lot of threads on meeting people, cant find someone, etc. So the other day I posted one in a local group saying would like company for dinner on Sunday, no obligation, not a date, just nice to meet and talk to an adult basically. So far one response from a guy who thought that was a neat idea to try. Just an example... there is an opportunity, but nobody will probably take me up on it. And remember, you can figure me out pretty well by reading what I have written here.... should not be a huge risk.
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| 8/31/2013 8:29:38 PM |
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wedadams
High Point, NC
30, joined Jun. 2013
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Wedadams, I think you know what the issue is- your schedule- and your inability ot refusal to adjust it to something thats reasonable for other people that want to date you.
Of course you shouldnt be expected to "drop everything", but whats your threshhold for "everything"?
Is "girls night out" everything? Even married people take nights off. Missing one or two fridays a month isn't child abuse.
I don't want to come across the wrong way but I don't think you totally understood my post. My kids go to school when I'm at work and then to a sitter afterwards. I don't enjoy sending them to another sitter so I can go out, I don't have family to watch them, I don't have "girls night out". That's part of the problem, most men don't understand when I say I'm a single parent, I really mean it. My kids are with me 100% of the time that I am not at work. dating becomes just another piece of the time puzzle and it normally ends up being more trouble than its worth.I was hoping to find other single parents in the same boat..
I do agree with you in that I need to make time if I really want to..but you can't get blood from a rock
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| 8/31/2013 9:06:53 PM |
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doorpuller47
Hell
Norway
43, joined Aug. 2013
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I know how you all feel. I've been a single parent of my 13 yr old daughter now for 3 years. She has learning disabilities and very dependent on me which takes a lot of my time. Between working and taking care of her I don't really have a lot of time for myself. I haven't been on a date now in forever. We just moved here a few months ago so haven't really had a chance to make any new friends yet. Not that I haven't tried but the world is so different than when I was growing up and people are so mistrusting around here it hasn't been that easy.
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| 9/1/2013 2:40:14 PM |
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countrymomhere
Sparta, MI
35, joined Jun. 2013
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You can date & keep the kids separate. My son with me 24-7, my family/friends wont babysit. I feel if I dont make the effort then Ill always be single. You can take 1-3hrs a month & go out. Ur laundry can wait another day. Yes everyone busy..who isnt as a single parent!? U can still take an hr to meet someone for coffee.
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| 9/1/2013 11:48:59 PM |
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doorpuller47
Hell
Norway
43, joined Aug. 2013
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You can date & keep the kids separate. My son with me 24-7, my family/friends wont babysit. I feel if I dont make the effort then Ill always be single. You can take 1-3hrs a month & go out. Ur laundry can wait another day. Yes everyone busy..who isnt as a single parent!? U can still take an hr to meet someone for coffee.
Some times its easier said than done to schedule even an hour or 2 me time in advance. Kudos for the ones that can but for some of us it isnt always that easy.
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| 9/2/2013 1:25:01 AM |
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blaq_rose
Lewisville, TX
26, joined Aug. 2013
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I'm dating for three and I'm not going to just introduce any man to my kids so I need somebody patient and understanding and If they have a problem with my busy schedule then they are just not the one for me. I feel like some men see a woman with kids and automatically assume we're needy or desperate for a relationship smh. I've had some guys tell me str8 up after I told them that I had 2 kids that They didn't wanna pursue anything with me and I hold nothing at all against them
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| 9/2/2013 7:17:15 AM |
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crstallady21
Atlanta, GA
39, joined Aug. 2013
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Yes. I have older kids (15 &19) and I believe a lot of men are intimated.
1. They think you want them to take care of your kids. NOT-I do that.
2. My kids and I are a package deal. If you get me, then you get them. Just as I have shown them to respect people, they will be respected as well.
3. I believe a lot of men cannot handle women with older kids cause they feel that it maybe some type battle for the lady/mother's attention.
My thoughts, dont have to agree but they have been struggle dating with older kids.
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| 9/2/2013 7:09:43 PM |
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gentuso
Cotati, CA
38, joined Apr. 2013
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Don't not believe a word he says. Seriously. Look back at all of the posts by mainelyaround~ that was his other male profile.
He truly enjoys making a fool of him self lothing and ranting about all of us horrible, hateful, stupid women.
He is F.O.S.!!!!!
 right??? He is pathetic
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| 9/2/2013 7:39:26 PM |
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gentuso
Cotati, CA
38, joined Apr. 2013
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yeah says the turd coming in here just to talk trash.  Stay off the meth my inbred friend.
How humorous you seem to think that if you shave your head you are cool but if the rest of the world does they are balding meth heads.
You call me a trash talker and all women, bitter man-haters.
Looking a lot like you are the one with the issue my friend. Also I'm not from Maine so my mom didn't marry her father and screw her brother like yours.
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| 9/3/2013 7:14:25 AM |
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onlykisses4u
Bangor, ME
33, joined Dec. 2011
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Now come on missy_sunshine/queenofquirky/daisey, I dont think you are a bad person. i think youve been hurt by a man before and now can't let it go.
Ive read so many of your comments and almost every one of them invariably involves a comment about "some men".
If you just let go of that we could have a good discussion.
Oh Lord, the infamous DH Villian strikes again. When will people realize, changing your name doesn't change YOU. We know who you are. It's SO obvious just in HOW you write. *SMH* LOL!!!
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| 9/3/2013 11:43:20 AM |
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kismetlady14
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
42, joined Sep. 2013
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I just want to be left alone. You do your thing I do mine. I give up
Being here. I was hoping if I just change my name and TRY to hide I can just be here in peace without being made fun of. I do not hate men I do not dislike them a little. How can I ? I have a son ( and a daughter) their dad was a great soldier for this country. I been in a relationship for over a year. Want to know why I may come off as "defensive" I have been bullied by both genders because I am very hard of hearing, to the pint of needing hearing aids and sign language. There you go. You shook it out of me. I do not find you as a monster totally. Well spoken, highly opinionated perhaps. A bad person? No. Ok? Happy now? Then please leave me alone. Sorry for all the mean things I said. Take care. Toodles.
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| 9/3/2013 11:57:10 AM |
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kismetlady14
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
42, joined Sep. 2013
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Btw, I had to make a new username this time because for some reason I signed off and could not get the heck back on. Once I figure that out I will delete it along with this one. Not being sneaky. I wanted to respond to just clear the air. I am not a nasty person like you most likely think.
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| 9/3/2013 12:05:10 PM |
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gentuso
Cotati, CA
38, joined Apr. 2013
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I just want to be left alone. You do your thing I do mine. I give up
Being here. I was hoping if I just change my name and TRY to hide I can just be here in peace without being made fun of. I do not hate men I do not dislike them a little. How can I ? I have a son ( and a daughter) their dad was a great soldier for this country. I been in a relationship for over a year. Want to know why I may come off as "defensive" I have been bullied by both genders because I am very hard of hearing, to the pint of needing hearing aids and sign language. There you go. You shook it out of me. I do not find you as a monster totally. Well spoken, highly opinionated perhaps. A bad person? No. Ok? Happy now? Then please leave me alone. Sorry for all the mean things I said. Take care. Toodles.
who is bothering you sweetie?
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| 9/3/2013 12:16:27 PM |
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kismetlady14
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
42, joined Sep. 2013
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I would not say really bothering me, just having me own up to making a new username in the past to duck and weave him is all. I want it to stop so I will not "out" him.
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| 9/3/2013 4:32:05 PM |
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kismetlady14
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
42, joined Sep. 2013
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Seriously, I really can do without nonsense Verat. It is unnecessary. I am willing to just move beyond this, close the door and not dwell on it. I need my energy for other things instead of tossing insults at people. I like reading the posts for the most part, if relevant to me I comment and that is how I plan to do from here. Have a pleasant day. Take care.
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| 9/3/2013 5:55:43 PM |
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kismetlady14
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
42, joined Sep. 2013
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I much rather be at peace with him without having to block him or anybody for that matter. No more drama, get along with everybody.
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| 9/3/2013 7:32:49 PM |
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kismetlady14
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
42, joined Sep. 2013
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I am getting that feeling from her. I on the other hand refuse to be like that. Being like that all the time is exhausting. Sorry that I was that unfair to you. Had to block her
[Edited 9/3/2013 7:34:21 PM ]
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| 9/3/2013 7:34:20 PM |
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onlykisses4u
Bangor, ME
33, joined Dec. 2011
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With my last comment about name changes, I was referring to the ignorant Verat... I really wish I wasn't even associated with the same state as him. He is the type of person that gives other men the title pig and jerk. I'm glad he blocked me cause now I don't have to see his stupidity under at least 2 of his SEVERAL Usernames here. As I find out more... they'll be blocked too. The harrassment and stalker behaviors he exhibits should be reported to the Authorities. This is getting ridiculous!!! 
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| 9/3/2013 7:53:49 PM |
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kismetlady14
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
42, joined Sep. 2013
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Same here.
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| 9/3/2013 8:04:19 PM |
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kismetlady14
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
42, joined Sep. 2013
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Oh well cannot worry or be bothered by it. Just go about your business. That is what I am doing. Hopefully she will knock it off when she realizes you are ignoring it. My mom would tell me if you do not react it takes the fun out of it for those who tease you. Some were more persistent than others.
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| 9/3/2013 8:12:22 PM |
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luvkilz32
Rockford, TN
33, joined Aug. 2013
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Recently became a single mom please believe me it's not just you! !!! I'm not sure what the deal is... my kids are 8 & 9 like me you have younger kids and can't live a spontaneous life!! Its really aggravating! I'm to the point where I'm leaning towards cutting off all social media! Not worth the headache!
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| 9/3/2013 8:27:08 PM |
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satisfied72
Buffalo, MN
43, joined Aug. 2013
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It is a lot of trouble. Finding people that can connect with you and your kids. Seems impossible. I gave up on dating for awhile. Sometimes was a waist of time.
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| 9/3/2013 8:28:09 PM |
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kismetlady14
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
42, joined Sep. 2013
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I agree it is harder to just drop everything to date or shoot just have an evening to yourself or go out with friends to freshen you up a bit. It is daunting. I had 13 years to sit and wait (by choice) I would not recommend that though. You are the only mom they have so you need a break. Even if it is just hopping on Twitter or Facebook to read posts or whatever. Dating is a personal choice. But "Me" time is kind of required and important to recharge your batteries. You will be a better mom for it. Some may disagree. that is fine that is their choice. JMHO is all.
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| 9/4/2013 7:06:28 AM |
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wedadams
High Point, NC
30, joined Jun. 2013
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Good grief I am so glad I can't see his crap.
Time for some not just one to grow up.
Dear OP: I am sorry some can't not act like adults. It's rather ridiculous
I haven't been on here since the third page, I blocked him. No matter personal opinions on single parents, nobody is calling a woman a pig on a discussion board I started.
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| 9/4/2013 4:32:27 PM |
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angelkisses2223
Butler, KY
23, joined Aug. 2013
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Lol I was about to say I was done dating for good but I'm talkin to the most amazing man ever n he understands that I can't just drop everything n baby is my first priority too n he has three also so very understanding
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| 9/5/2013 3:45:24 AM |
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bigironm
Stafford, KS
51, joined Mar. 2013
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I have olny been on two dates in my life.
yes I think its a pain in the a** & is why
If she want to get to know me she can come to my house where I will accommodate any of our wishes
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| 9/27/2013 1:17:07 PM |
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sweetkittycat26
Binghamton, NY
28, joined Sep. 2013
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Yes
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| 9/27/2013 1:42:21 PM |
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angeleyes4400
Cranston, RI
33, joined Feb. 2013
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yes all the time......Im constantly putting in effort to ge no where.......
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| 9/27/2013 2:27:25 PM |
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2wheeledrider
Live Oak, FL
51, joined Jun. 2012
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Dating too much trouble? Hhhmmm . more like trouble getting a date.
With me being a single parent , and yes Full Time dad , it seems like an electric fence for women. The other problem is the ones that are interested live too far away and I have tried the long distance thing and I got worn out on making all the effort , or getting dumped because they found someone closer to them. Lastly , the profile and background seem to change from when you talk to them , up to the point you meet them in person. And you find what was on their profile and what they tell you on the phone is nothing but a sugar coated con job. The liers , game players , and fakes are on all these sites, but like I have always known , you get what you pay on these free sites. You get ripped off on the ones you pay for , so its a poker hand any way you look at it in the online dating thing.
Its bad enough being single and having to deal with nonsense like that , but when you have kids and another single parent woman is doing things like that, its enough to make you throw your hands up and say , "ok.. thats it , I quit!"
 
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| 10/2/2013 11:52:05 PM |
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klhtjh
Greenville, NC
37, joined Jul. 2013
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I agree....keep kids separate from the dating and yes it is too much trouble! The guys u meet mostly want one thing!
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