| 9/21/2013 1:42:37 PM |
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dmaniotis
Farmington, NH
27, joined Apr. 2011
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Please tell me what to delete or what to keep.. 
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| 9/21/2013 2:15:01 PM |
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fearless8841
North Pole, AK
42, joined Jan. 2012
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Heads up... I'm very influential and if you have a side of you that only shows up with friends expect me to pull that out and experience life.. lifes to short to be dull. Enjoy it and take any risks associated because one day, you'll never have that chance again.
When you say influential, I'm thinking cool.. I'll see him on the nightly news? What do you mean by that?
Could it be you're trying to say you have charisma? That's probably the better word to use... "I'm very charismatic."
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| 9/21/2013 2:26:30 PM |
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forums_only
Maple Ridge, BC
53, joined Aug. 2010
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As you say you're basically looking for friends, why all the tacky naked torso shots? ohhhh.. you forgot to add the 'with benefits' part. Any woman on this site looking for someone with a smidge of class will pass you by before even reading a word. Your call.
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| 9/21/2013 5:09:02 PM |
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dmaniotis
Farmington, NH
27, joined Apr. 2011
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Well how about that.. as you can see
Im Not that great looking so im showing what I got.
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| 9/21/2013 5:16:53 PM |
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sjchick
Pennsauken, NJ
40, joined May. 2013
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Saying that you're not attractive is not gonna help you
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| 9/21/2013 5:41:53 PM |
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forums_only
Maple Ridge, BC
53, joined Aug. 2010
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So you want to attract a f**kbuddy with a sleazy torso shot? yeah, that'll work, make sure you have lots of paper bags....
Are you completely dumb?
Girls with low enough self esteem to be your f**kbuddy are not really going to care what you look like. Someone who would've possibly wanted to meet you based on something in your profile are going to realize you're looking for the lowest common denominator and won't waste their time.
For faster results, try adultfriendfinder.com. Or - delete this shitstorm and start again without all the silliness attached permanently to your profile.
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| 9/25/2013 9:59:34 PM |
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dmaniotis
Farmington, NH
27, joined Apr. 2011
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First off.. did I ever say I wanted a f**k buddy? Really guess everyone only cares about sex.. not me.
One tbh I won't have sex with someone who can't get me off. Who isn't into what I'm into. And secondly I don't want stds herpes or anything like that.
So why is everyone thinking I want to get laid. It's not about the sex..
I can take down those pics but I know I look good in them. I asked for a check me out not a f**k you a**hole your only looking for sex.
Came out of a 6 year engagement with baby mama and respectfully I won't be settled for. That means if someone doesn't like me I'm not going to force them to stay around. I'll do dates but I'm not putting my heart out until I know they want me. We all deserve that right?
So please help me not criticize me. 
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| 9/25/2013 10:25:52 PM |
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tatersprout
Albany, NY
42, joined Sep. 2013
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Ok, if you are serious, delete everything and start over.
Write a proper profile. Give it thought.
Describe yourself, tell what you do for fun, and tell what kind of woman you are looking for.
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| 9/26/2013 12:36:00 AM |
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forums_only
Maple Ridge, BC
53, joined Aug. 2010
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Once again:
Or - delete this shitstorm and start again without all the silliness attached permanently to your profile.
You chose to post a profile that makes you look like a douchebag. That's completely your right to do so. Not 'criticizing' you, just trying to make you aware of how lame you will appear to someone NOT looking for sex. Your call.
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| 9/26/2013 7:25:53 AM |
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dmaniotis
Farmington, NH
27, joined Apr. 2011
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Again. Did I say or come off looking for sex in my profile?
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| 9/26/2013 9:17:07 AM |
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forums_only
Maple Ridge, BC
53, joined Aug. 2010
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Sweetie, you don't have to spell it out. The tacky torso shots scream it. Girls getting a message from you will delete it before they read the generic crap you've got.
Again, you choose how you present yourself, you can't complain if you come across like a douchebag.
If all you have to offer is a body, leave it. Good luck.
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| 9/26/2013 11:31:39 AM |
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badchevy4x4babe
Fort Worth, TX
27, joined May. 2011
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Can't see you in your profile pic. You will be skipped over often.
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| 9/26/2013 11:36:24 AM |
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jodwop
Round Rock, TX
40, joined May. 2013
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You are getting bent out of shape easily. Relax and try to "hear" what is being said. Whether you have said something or not, the perception of what is seen is saying something else to others. It is your profile, so do as you like. But if you take a few breathers, you might understand how some things come across to readers.
You said you are not that good looking. To who? Everyone? Let the women reading your profile decide. If you really are charismatic, looks are not going to be a dealbreaker. Good luck.
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| 9/26/2013 11:51:00 AM |
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zrod1030
Orlando, FL
46, joined Jun. 2013
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Dont worry about what others think. Theres someone for everyone. You seem pretty mature and should be able to meet people. BTW I think he's getting bent out of shape cause noone is giving him advice. People behind comps talk a lot of shit. I bet if that was in person it would be a totally different tune.
Good luck OP
Again. Did I say or come off looking for sex in my profile?
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| 9/26/2013 4:05:31 PM |
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ron10000
Green Bay, WI
68, joined Oct. 2008
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Anybody from the Chattanooga area on here? I am new to this
Go to TN chat you will get better comments.
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| 9/26/2013 6:05:07 PM |
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dmaniotis
Farmington, NH
27, joined Apr. 2011
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Dont worry about what others think. Theres someone for everyone. You seem pretty mature and should be able to meet people. BTW I think he's getting bent out of shape cause noone is giving him advice. People behind comps talk a lot of shit. I bet if that was in person it would be a totally different tune.
Good luck OP
Again. Did I say or come off looking for sex in my profile?
Thank you
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| 9/26/2013 8:18:56 PM |
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forums_only
Maple Ridge, BC
53, joined Aug. 2010
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I think he's getting bent out of shape cause noone is giving him advice
Once he loses the tacky naked torso shots we'll take him seriously. Until then, he still looks like a douchebag looking for sex. It's completely up to him how he wants to be perceived, can't change his mind. Move along.
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| 9/30/2013 6:46:04 PM |
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dmaniotis
Farmington, NH
27, joined Apr. 2011
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Once he loses the tacky naked torso shots we'll take him seriously. Until then, he still looks like a douchebag looking for sex. It's completely up to him how he wants to be perceived, can't change his mind. Move along.
I guess a lot of ppl are looking for just sex.. I won't like if a girl can't get me off there out of my league. What I'm into is specific but true if you couldn't ever get off with a potential love interest..well that would be a hassel.
So sex.. well I'm not here to get with any girl. If I do she's gotta like what I do too. Maybe this isn't the site to find a girl who wants to be submissive. Maybe that's because I'm not just looking for sex. I'm done with short term relationships and I don't plan to be single in 5years from aanother relationship either.
So if we make it official..then she's gotta show it. I'm looking for real love, someone you don't settle for, and someone who Damn well doesn't settle for half best me..
Lay off the sex and d bag stuff. Sex isn't why I'm here.
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| 9/30/2013 9:25:51 PM |
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forums_only
Maple Ridge, BC
53, joined Aug. 2010
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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| 10/1/2013 12:23:16 AM |
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badchevy4x4babe
Fort Worth, TX
27, joined May. 2011
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Honestly none of your photos are good specimens. Lose the shades. No hats. Clothes on. Look presentable and smile. Quit taking your own pic in awkward angles. Go out and enjoy those active activities. Take a buddy. Nd have them take pics of you.
I'm your age. Your pics I find to be mostly repulsive. Now before you get argumentative I did not say YOU are repulsive. I said your pics are. If you put on a nice fitting tshirt and jeans we can still see you are in shape. You don't have to be shirtless to show that. I never respond to a guy with a shirtless pic. To me that's a guy's way of saying "this is all I got going for me" is his looks. Surely you are worth more than that and have more than a fit physique to offer a lady.
Your profile reads bitter and demanding. Your above post says you want a submissive lady. Your post reads as if you're ok with sexual encounters only but your profile gives off a desperate vibe to be in a relationship. I can't tell what you're really here for so let me just share this:
Women seeking a relationship won't bother with you because they don't want to be friend(with benefits)-zoned. Women seeking sex won't bother with you because they're afraid you'll get clingy and want a relationship.
So pick one and state what you are seeking clearly on your profile.
While we are at it your profile is too short to effectively convey who you are what our life is like and what you are here for.
Some basics you will need to include in your profile
Kids - how many. How old are they. And how often do you have them.
Job - what field do you work in? What do you like about it? Plans for career advancement? Different direction entirely? Future goals?
Hobbies - pick one or two things out of your interests box that you do most often and describe em. Don't just re-list them. Maybe you run trails every morning before work. Maybe every weekend you and a best pal to mountain biking and then get coffee while the kids have a play date.
At our age dating as a single parent is difficult. You will need to convey that you have your life organized enough to have time to date and time to spend on a lady. Most of us automatically think you're tied to the house as a single parent. Prove you're not.
Her - what are traits you find attractive. Try to avoid the generics - honest, trustworthy, blah blah blah. Things we all want right? Someone adventurous. Does that mean willing to go BASE jumping? Or just willing to try out a new sushi restaurant? Someone submissive? Generally that's a term used sexually. Do you just mean someone who isn't high strung and is open to compromise?
Are you tracking? See what you can do. Pics really really need to go. Think of this as a dating resume. Put your best self out there. I like to see pics of a guy in his day to day life. Unless you hang out in a dark dingy bedroom shirtless all day those pics need to go. They need to go anyways. Post a pic of you sweaty tearing up a bike trail. Or just at the local park.
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| 10/1/2013 1:56:14 AM |
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prescher
Omaha, NE
28, joined Jul. 2013
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Alright man, here it is. Number one, you were not a boxer, I boxed and there is no way your a boxer and so tiny. Women know this too. Number two, putting your arm across your chest to make your arm look bigger, girls know this too. Sunglasses in a main picture?...nope. change the lighting or something. Look at my pictures dude, I don't dress up, it's just me and the things I like.
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| 10/1/2013 2:32:40 AM |
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dudefreed
Portland, OR
42, joined Sep. 2012
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