Hmmmm.....

Women seem to get messages a lot. Men are not bashful about sending em. From what I get, see and hear about you should be grateful.

I am rather selective about who I send to. Never to get a response. But then to be playing this game as long as I have my profile is very limited about me. So as to find the "Snake Charmers", "Sugar Daddy Seekers" and the ones that are an "Over Nighter at best" types to weed them out right off the bat.

Another thing that shows the true intent of a recipient is the etiquette about replying. On a FREE date site that is the one of the first things about a character flaw that glares in ones eyes when there is no response. Someone went clean out of their comfort zone to contact you. No response IS bad manners! Forget the pay sites. They are worse than the free ones. But then one needs to take in account that it is a pay site. And they already have made a commitment to never pay again. I go in on the pay sites just to see who is there and hope to meet them in my daily travels.

Here I have my most intriguing message was from one of the old "A Team" begging to "end it here". Then only to continue on their rant of trashing the site and causing strife and turmoil. Always pointing their finger at anyone else. Thus creating the phrase of "being perfect. Yes a perfect A**hole!"

Now back to my corner!

I didn't mean to sound ungrateful. I liked the "Let's get married" message. It made me laugh And I think it's good that women get more messages than men. I think that's how it should work. That's just my opinion; it's ok with me if people have different opinions.

I've struggled with how/if I should answer every message. I used to think it was rude to not reply to someone, but I've talked with at least one man who says he prefers that she doesn't answer back if she's not interested. And I've also sent messages where I try to politely say that I'm not interested, and the guy goes on the defense and insults me or he says, "Why am I not your type? What's your type?" And I'm not really sure how to answer that.

I'm from out of country I read your profile you seem amazing blah blah blah

Haha, they're not even trying all that hard with me. I get "hello" and "Hi." And I notice several hours later that mysteriously their picture has changed and they're from a different state. They're not even from UT to begin with when they initially message me. I'm about ready to put a filter on my gmail to just block out all DH notifications lol.

You can turn off email notifications in DH account settings.

now you tell me.

now you tell me.

You never asked

Here's one from today:

hello I would like to meet you your really good looking send messages

Yep, that's what I should've done. Too bad I already deleted the message.

All I can say is AMEN BROTHER!
I finally gave in and agreed to meet and she spent the whole time on her phone looking at pics other guys were sending. That she was communicating with others isnt the issue. It was just rude. So ladies, if you dont like a guy, tell them. It shows more about your true character.

someone sent me this:

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Yummy!