| 8/3/2008 2:53:57 PM |
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bjk123
Layton, UT
age: 51
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look like? ok, I am posting this in the womans forum so I don't laughed at in the others, but I have some real questions I am hoping to get answered. I have been in 2 monogamus relationships- one from 1980-1996 and then from 1998-2008, so I have only been with 2 men since my early 20's- As I was married to one and "fixed" for the second, I never used condoms- in fact, I have never seen one out of the package... I am afraid of STD's and think they are the best option
So, here's the question for those of you who have...
How do you put them on, take them off, can I practice? Is there a sexy way to do it?
Do you depend on the guy to do it? Are there sizes? what if they don't fit?
HELP
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| 8/3/2008 6:12:22 PM |
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alicekathleen
Fresno, CA
age: 63
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I hate answers that are not answers, but this is one of them. I have had 3 long term adult relationships. I saw my
doctor when I told her I was considering becoming sexually active again. I had lab work and we discussed
various issues. When the time came with the right man, I was confident that he (who had been in 2 long term
relationships) was ok and it was not an issue. So if you do not find answers here, see your doc, and remember,
you need to feel confident that he is negative on his lab work too. Bring it up in the conversation early.
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| 8/3/2008 6:26:48 PM |
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bjk123
Layton, UT
age: 51
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I hate answers that are not answers, but this is one of them. I have had 3 long term adult relationships. I saw my
doctor when I told her I was considering becoming sexually active again. I had lab work and we discussed
various issues. When the time came with the right man, I was confident that he (who had been in 2 long term
relationships) was ok and it was not an issue. So if you do not find answers here, see your doc, and remember,
you need to feel confident that he is negative on his lab work too. Bring it up in the conversation early.
ok, thanks
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| 8/3/2008 8:14:53 PM |
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awakeing
Walled Lake, MI
age: 36
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Ok well go buy a sampler pack, then get a cucumber and just open one at time and
unroll them all on the cucumber.
There are so many types, you've got the ones with the ribs, that are suppose
to add extra pleasure for you, you've got the ones that have extra space at the
tip for those men who always seem to have a big load.
Then there's many choices for lube or non, colors, and a variety of tastes too.
Just try them all.
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| 8/3/2008 8:50:07 PM |
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bjk123
Layton, UT
age: 51
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Ok well go buy a sampler pack, then get a cucumber and just open one at time and
unroll them all on the cucumber.
There are so many types, you've got the ones with the ribs, that are suppose
to add extra pleasure for you, you've got the ones that have extra space at the
tip for those men who always seem to have a big load.
Then there's many choices for lube or non, colors, and a variety of tastes too.
Just try them all.
That's really good advice, thank you
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| 8/3/2008 9:14:25 PM |
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lady1960
Taylors, SC
age: 47
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I too talked with my doctor, as I have only been in 2 long term marriages...am glad you felt comfortable asking....I have decided to just be celibate for now...I have a great peace about it, so it works for me. Just a thought.
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| 8/4/2008 2:30:49 AM |
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bjk123
Layton, UT
age: 51
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I too talked with my doctor, as I have only been in 2 long term marriages...am glad you felt comfortable asking....I have decided to just be celibate for now...I have a great peace about it, so it works for me. Just a thought.
I am being celibate now also, but someday I hope to have someone and I feel like I should at least have some idea of what to do
the doctor sounds like the best bet!
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| 8/18/2008 11:45:28 AM |
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ggirl4u
Belle, MO
age: 49
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Just my experience...but if your going to use a condom...u will be the one carrying it and you'll be the one to put it on. Just make sure that the end is out far enough to have room to catch the semen and won't tear. If you don't demand that they wear one....they won't...Just My experience so far...and yes there are different ones for different things but get some and mess with them before the moment and you'll do fine.....STAY SAFE
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| 8/18/2008 1:14:16 PM |
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sapphire99
Lawrenceville, GA
age: 26
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Condom Depot.com!!!! They have some that are super super thin and from my experience they are the best for both men and women!!!!!!!That or Trojan her pleasure. But the first one I mentioned is the BEST!!!! Know your partner before you sleep with them. Condoms aren't 100 percent affective against std's. So, Get to know your partner as a friend before a lover. This way if they do have a std then you should be able to pick up on facts when around them. 
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| 8/31/2008 9:21:55 AM |
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destin2bfree
Granite City, IL
age: 49
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 Being newly divorced and trying out dating again after 25 years of marriage. A friend of mine told me about the program on oxygen dishnet.work on sunday nites around midnight I think called Sue Johansen (sp) talk sex. I found it very informative. Boy I must really be naive. I am learning a lot of new things from the program. She also has a website same thing. Many topics are discussed. We all have questions and no answers, or are too embarrassed to ask a friend.
Best of luck in you dating and always think about safe sex. There is more to worry about than getting pregnant, stds, and AIDS to name a few.
Glad you are thinking ahead
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| 8/31/2008 1:50:06 PM |
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dancinglynx64
Reedsburg, WI
age: 44
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http://www.talksexwithsue.com/index2.html
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| 8/31/2008 10:12:18 PM |
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jesi_mariexx
Concord, NH
age: 26
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You've gotten some great advice here! I just wanted to mention that flavoured condoms are hot and they really do taste good!
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