| 5/23/2014 7:38:43 PM |
I'm tired of being played , what's the point I'm the one that hurts |
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amishoe
Marathon, WI
33, joined Jan. 2014
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Why do guys have the need to play me? Use me? Are their no decent, caring guys that want true love, seriously I'm such a nice, loyal, honest, caring, loving person with the biggest heart ever but so vulnerable that I get played ....
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| 5/24/2014 5:46:01 AM |
I'm tired of being played , what's the point I'm the one that hurts |
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mroptimistic608
Madison, WI
33, joined Sep. 2012
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This is why I'm single.. Feel the same way about women for the most part except I don't get played anymore cause I won't set myself up for it again..
Good luck on finding the right person there out here somewhere 
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| 5/24/2014 9:11:19 AM |
I'm tired of being played , what's the point I'm the one that hurts |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
50, joined Jul. 2013
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There still some good men out there, depends on what type of men are u talking to so don't let that stop u from finding a nice caring wonderful man, who won't do these things to u pick yourself back up and pick your heart up and put it back where it belongs..
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| 5/24/2014 9:27:29 PM |
I'm tired of being played , what's the point I'm the one that hurts |
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amishoe
Marathon, WI
33, joined Jan. 2014
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This is why I'm single.. Feel the same way about women for the most part except I don't get played anymore cause I won't set myself up for it again..
Good luck on finding the right person there out here somewhere
I totally agree I haven't been single for 6 yrs for a reason......I just want real love and I don't think it exsits! 
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| 5/24/2014 9:28:41 PM |
I'm tired of being played , what's the point I'm the one that hurts |
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amishoe
Marathon, WI
33, joined Jan. 2014
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There still some good men out there, depends on what type of men are u talking to so don't let that stop u from finding a nice caring wonderful man, who won't do these things to u pick yourself back up and pick your heart up and put it back where it belongs..
I've been trying with anyone,.... Going beyond my boundaries ..... It's exhausting....
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| 5/25/2014 9:57:23 AM |
I'm tired of being played , what's the point I'm the one that hurts |
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joangel60
Hartford, WI
58, joined Nov. 2011
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Maybe you should just take a break...It's been known that when you stop looking...that's when someone will walk into your life....Good luck on your search...
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| 5/25/2014 7:41:56 PM |
I'm tired of being played , what's the point I'm the one that hurts |
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amishoe
Marathon, WI
33, joined Jan. 2014
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Maybe you should just take a break...It's been known that when you stop looking...that's when someone will walk into your life....Good luck on your search...
Yes I think that's what I'm going to do.... I've waited 6yrs what's another...
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| 5/25/2014 8:55:37 PM |
I'm tired of being played , what's the point I'm the one that hurts |
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donb01
Manitowoc, WI
51, joined May. 2011
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I've been single for 8 years, because no one wants fat guys no matter how nice and caring they are (unless they're way older than me, which doesn't excite me). I am who I am, and I try not to let it slow me down and stop me from doing things, but it does stop me from dating (and they won't let me jump out of a perfectly good airplane).
I just keep myself really really busy so I don't have time to think about it, and I have a couple of good friends I can take to dinner when I want to go to a nicer restaurant and don't want people staring at me for being alone, or want company at a movie or whatever.
I know that I have three choices: Get closer to "normal" size, settle for someone that doesn't really interest me so I don't have to be alone, or be alone for the rest of my life. I have standards the same as the next person - I want to find someone younger than me that doesn't have that "been there, done that, don't want to do it again" attitude, and more athletic than me so they are getting me out there walking, and hiking and doing things to help me with my goals. I certainly don't want someone who is less active than me - and that doesn't mean I'm not active. I walk a lot at work, I park far from entrances, I'm out geocaching, I mow the lawn, and climb lots of stairs in a day, blah blah.
Anyway - the whole point is that the more time you spend alone the easier it is to be alone, and eventually you stop being worried about finding someone and are comfortable going to movies and less fancy restaurants alone. I use meetup.com, which is a social thing that brings groups of people together with common interests together to do what they like to do - I have a lot of friends in the fox valley area because of it, and it's not about dating. I assume you're up around Wausau someplace so there may not be as may groups around, but they're out there.
Good luck!
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| 5/26/2014 9:41:24 AM |
I'm tired of being played , what's the point I'm the one that hurts |
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amishoe
Marathon, WI
33, joined Jan. 2014
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I've been single for 8 years, because no one wants fat guys no matter how nice and caring they are (unless they're way older than me, which doesn't excite me). I am who I am, and I try not to let it slow me down and stop me from doing things, but it does stop me from dating (and they won't let me jump out of a perfectly good airplane).
I just keep myself really really busy so I don't have time to think about it, and I have a couple of good friends I can take to dinner when I want to go to a nicer restaurant and don't want people staring at me for being alone, or want company at a movie or whatever.
I know that I have three choices: Get closer to "normal" size, settle for someone that doesn't really interest me so I don't have to be alone, or be alone for the rest of my life. I have standards the same as the next person - I want to find someone younger than me that doesn't have that "been there, done that, don't want to do it again" attitude, and more athletic than me so they are getting me out there walking, and hiking and doing things to help me with my goals. I certainly don't want someone who is less active than me - and that doesn't mean I'm not active. I walk a lot at work, I park far from entrances, I'm out geocaching, I mow the lawn, and climb lots of stairs in a day, blah blah.
Anyway - the whole point is that the more time you spend alone the easier it is to be alone, and eventually you stop being worried about finding someone and are comfortable going to movies and less fancy restaurants alone. I use meetup.com, which is a social thing that brings groups of people together with common interests together to do what they like to do - I have a lot of friends in the fox valley area because of it, and it's not about dating. I assume you're up around Wausau someplace so there may not be as may groups around, but they're out there.
Good luck!
That's very nice you for your reply and yes the more time spent alone the more I just except it, I will check out that site and see if I can at least meet some new friends...thank you!
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| 5/26/2014 10:14:41 AM |
I'm tired of being played , what's the point I'm the one that hurts |
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futureunknown3
Madison, WI
46, joined Feb. 2009
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I gave up a long time ago.
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| 5/26/2014 10:56:28 AM |
I'm tired of being played , what's the point I'm the one that hurts |
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amishoe
Marathon, WI
33, joined Jan. 2014
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I gave up a long time ago.
Makes our lives easier .....
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| 5/26/2014 7:46:48 PM |
I'm tired of being played , what's the point I'm the one that hurts |
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ronleeseberg
Mauston, WI
49, joined Jan. 2012
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You can only get played if you allow it.
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| 5/26/2014 11:15:46 PM |
I'm tired of being played , what's the point I'm the one that hurts |
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joangel60
Hartford, WI
58, joined Nov. 2011
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I ran across this and thought I would share it with you...
So for women everywhere who are crying over, for or under a man, here are the 12 real mistakes you need to stop making, beginning with thinking that you even need one..
Thinking You Need A Man To Be Happy
You do not need a man. You do not need anyone. Everyone else is just distracting you from getting to know yourself. Men come and go, and maybe one day you will find the right one and settle down, but until then, stop trying to complete your life with anyone but yourself.
Caring About How You Look
You don’t have to be beautiful for anyone. You don’t owe your looks to men. You don’t owe them big boobs or soft skin. You don’t owe them long legs and silky hair. You don’t owe them skinny torsos and painted toenails. They may ask for it, but that doesn’t mean they have a right to it.
Saying Sorry
You haven’t done anything wrong. (Unless you have.) They are not your captors and you are not there to apologize to them. Don’t apologize because your hair is short or your sweater is baggy.
Don’t apologize because you have your period or you don’t want to sleep with them. Don’t apologize because you can’t meet their demands or their requests. You are a woman who needs no apologies.
Worrying About Someone’s Needs Over Your Own
Stop trying to make men happy. You are supposed to take care of yourself and worry about your own needs first. Don’t do things for him just because it will make him happy. Don’t value yourself as nothing more than a slave to his demands. Remember, your needs are just as important as are his.
Putting Your Worth In Him
Your worth is not determined by any man. You don’t need a man to be happy nor should you judge yourself on the opinion of one.
There’s no reason to think that just because you are single that you are worth less than if you were attached. You are strong and independent, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.
Wanting More Than He Can Give
Stop looking for a boyfriend in a boy who doesn’t want to be associated with the word. If you know he can’t give you what you want then move on or accept that. Stop trying to turn him into something he doesn’t want to be, because in the end, you will be the only one who ends up changing.
Missing Him
Mourning a man is as stupid as crying over milk that hasn’t even spilled yet, a waste of time and only creating more troubles for yourself.
Lamenting over men who will never love you or men you can’t be with will only keep you from meeting the ones who can. Don’t give them your tears, because even tears are worth something.
Giving Him All Your Time
Don’t be that girl who forgets about everyone who was there for her before he came into the picture. Don’t let a man take you away from everything you once knew and loved. Because before him, these things were important to you. Don’t give him everything just because he may feel like yours right now.
Chasing Him
A strong woman chases no one. If he is worth your time and your love, he will figure it out on his own. Don’t let him think that he’s worth the chase, because the more he runs, the further behind you get.
Believing Him
Just because a man says that you’re beautiful doesn’t mean he’ll treat you that way. Men have a tendency to talk out of their asses and putting any worth in what they say is as futile as wishing on pennies.
Men know what will make you happy, but many times they are able to trick you with just the promise of it. Expect nothing from them and you will never end up disappointed.
Giving Him Power
Men often may be physically stronger than you, but that means nothing. Do not make them feel like they could ever own you, because no mind nor soul can be dominated by pure strength. Do not become objects to men that they can just buy and sell.
Do not fight against other women for their attention. Do not give them anything more than the same respect you give your sisters.
Regretting Him
Regretting men you’ve been with is as fruitless as crying over them. If you did something you didn’t want to do, gave your power away to someone who didn’t deserve it or belittled yourself for his benefit, learn from it. Remember those feelings so you will never do anything to feel that way again.
Good Luck...
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| 5/27/2014 4:52:05 PM |
I'm tired of being played , what's the point I'm the one that hurts |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
50, joined Jul. 2013
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Nice joan..
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| 5/27/2014 6:58:32 PM |
I'm tired of being played , what's the point I'm the one that hurts |
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amishoe
Marathon, WI
33, joined Jan. 2014
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Joan this is the best advice ever, I'm gonna print this out and re-read it everyday and burn it in my head!
Thanks! 
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| 5/28/2014 2:25:29 AM |
I'm tired of being played , what's the point I'm the one that hurts |
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joangel60
Hartford, WI
58, joined Nov. 2011
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Your Welcome ladies...sometimes being alone out weighs the stress of a bad relationship....
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| 5/28/2014 2:33:06 AM |
I'm tired of being played , what's the point I'm the one that hurts |
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prettypeas
Cadott, WI
48, joined Jul. 2010
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Joan.  
opie. 4 yrs for me. Dating doesn't last past 4 months here. Just haven't been clicking.
Being alone can be great. The whole bed to youself. Only your dishes, laundry, scrubbing the tub and toilet is only from you. 
Course there's that little thing called dinner and having left overs because there just was "so much to make". 
[Edited 5/28/2014 2:36:03 AM ]
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| 5/28/2014 6:17:26 AM |
I'm tired of being played , what's the point I'm the one that hurts |
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amishoe
Marathon, WI
33, joined Jan. 2014
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Us girls should just get together and go on a vacation and forget about men and just have girl fun!  
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| 6/3/2014 8:49:58 PM |
I'm tired of being played , what's the point I'm the one that hurts |
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gtfon
Sheboygan, WI
31, joined May. 2014
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Have u ever watched divorce court? Judge Lynn Toller said don't ever give a man more than he's willing to give u. And u shouldn't get too involved until u r married.
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| 6/3/2014 11:39:07 PM |
I'm tired of being played , what's the point I'm the one that hurts |
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ronleeseberg
Mauston, WI
49, joined Jan. 2012
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Usually players play the game too long and end up alone in the end.
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| 6/8/2014 12:47:10 PM |
I'm tired of being played , what's the point I'm the one that hurts |
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hazyhunter48
Green Bay, WI
67, joined Dec. 2007
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as long as you stay on a site like this your going to get played.be real this is not a site you will find true love.wake up.I go on here to get a good laught and see all the dumb posting
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| 6/9/2014 5:35:41 PM |
I'm tired of being played , what's the point I'm the one that hurts |
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wisconsinboy13
Escanaba, MI
35, joined Mar. 2013
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i know what you mean by that. i am a guy and i get played alot to. my step dad died in my arms and my ex didnt even show up to gave me support. i would treat a great lady right
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| 6/9/2014 5:44:35 PM |
I'm tired of being played , what's the point I'm the one that hurts |
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wisconsinboy13
Escanaba, MI
35, joined Mar. 2013
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im so tired being played. it hurts so bad i could close to my heart. But if some lady would like to date me and gave me a chance .. i am a true man that treats women what they wanted to be treated. i was born in Milwaukee but live stupid michigan!
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| 6/9/2014 6:41:11 PM |
I'm tired of being played , what's the point I'm the one that hurts |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
59, joined Apr. 2006
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Some great gal/or guy will come along,usually when your not looking for one.
I will mention there are a few here on this site,but always have your weed wacker handy.
OP People can't be used unless you allow it to happen.Maybe a own self review maybe in order.
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