| 8/17/2008 11:14:29 AM |
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writer65
Plainfield, NJ
age: 43
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Okay, saw in my mailbox that I had a friend request....but it was from a man who never, ever had contact with me and he sends me a friend request. I mean WTF really??? I'm pretty choosy who I send a request to and it has to be to someone I've talked to and possibly even met and went on a date with, but I would NEVER send one to a guy out of the blue....
Ladies? Comments?
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| 8/17/2008 12:26:09 PM |
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alicekathleen
Fresno, CA
age: 63
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Delete. I sometimes wonder if, like a wrong phone number, someone got tangled up with the buttons! I have
had at least two from men that have never emailed me or joined a discussion on the forums! Or maybe they
don't realize what "friend request" means, maybe they think it is more flirty than a "wink".!
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| 8/28/2008 4:43:38 PM |
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fairyk76
Joliet, IL
age: 32
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I get friend requests alot from guys I don't know and I delete them. I figure if you can't talk to me why are you trying to be my friend?
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| 8/29/2008 8:13:09 PM |
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debbins
Bremen, OH
age: 53
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when i got a friend request, i checked the guy's profile out and he had what i felt was a harem of girls photos below sometimes i feel like the guys are just collecting girls to out do each other as a competition thing. anyway, DELETE, as i figured he had enough friends so he didn't need me too.
debbins
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| 8/29/2008 9:13:28 PM |
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otheah
Painesville, OH
age: 34
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I add them. If they get too crazy, I just stop talking to them and have them removed. This, aside from being a dating site, is also a good site for networking. I'm a professional and don't mind having friends because everyone knows someone. I'm a little more strategic and advantageous; even if I signed up to find a partner. And let's be honest, chix check out other chix profiles too. If I met someone that is cool, but not a match for me, perhaps another gal that visits my page might find my super cool friend. 
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| 8/29/2008 9:21:00 PM |
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jesi_mariexx
Concord, NH
age: 26
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I add them. If they get too crazy, I just stop talking to them and have them removed. This, aside from being a dating site, is also a good site for networking. I'm a professional and don't mind having friends because everyone knows someone. I'm a little more strategic and advantageous; even if I signed up to find a partner. And let's be honest, chix check out other chix profiles too. If I met someone that is cool, but not a match for me, perhaps another gal that visits my page might find my super cool friend.
awww thats a good way of looking at it!
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| 8/30/2008 9:14:26 AM |
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rlds
Ogden, UT
age: 49
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Honestly, I don't care for 'friends list' only because it causes conflicts between people......so I refused them everytime. I'd tell them to put me on their 'favorite' list instead. Problem solved! 
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| 8/30/2008 3:49:07 PM |
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needromance
Shelby, NC
age: 47
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That is an easy answer.. DELETE  DELETE DELETE 
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| 8/31/2008 3:21:16 AM |
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crazy61
Riverview, FL
age: 47
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Honestly, I don't care for 'friends list' only because it causes conflicts between people......so I refused them everytime. I'd tell them to put me on their 'favorite' list instead. Problem solved!
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| 8/31/2008 2:57:05 PM |
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winesong
Bend, OR
age: 88
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I do not mind the friend request...
I have not been harmed by one yet.
I have an opportunity to watch their
profile changes or new posts from the convenience of the
MY FRIENDS page...
You can conceal your friends...by checking the DO NOT FEATURE
option.
No one is going to really hurt you, with a DH friend request,
are they?
Remember this is a dating site...
I love having gal friends also....they send little thoughts or
special bits of information.
Winesong
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| 9/1/2008 4:33:38 PM |
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gidget67
Lafayette, IN
age: 59
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Okay, saw in my mailbox that I had a friend request....but it was from a man who never, ever had contact with me and he sends me a friend request. I mean WTF really??? I'm pretty choosy who I send a request to and it has to be to someone I've talked to and possibly even met and went on a date with, but I would NEVER send one to a guy out of the blue....
Ladies? Comments?
I would delete them. Lately, I've been seeing invites from other sites that the person I knew personally did not knowingly authorize. I don't like the concept to begin with. I don't need to know how popular someone is and I'm certainly not going to let it appear I know someone better than I do.
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| 9/2/2008 7:56:56 PM |
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alovely1
Temecula, CA
age: 37
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I delete the friends request too..especially when the guy has never sent me an email or tried to contact me somehow (ie: wink)!! I mean they dont know me and I bet they never read my profile...
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| 9/3/2008 12:22:06 PM |
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breeze341
Denver, CO
age: 41
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When I get a friends request and I have never spoken or posted with them on the forums, I will review their profile first. If I'm not interested I delete it. If I am curious I will accept it only because I can remove it later if I feel I need to. Most of the time though I get the friends request from people I have posted with or have emailed several times.
I do have friends that are both males and females and have had a great time chatting with both. Afterall it's a friends list. Once your on DH long enough you will find out it is not just a dating site but a community as well.
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