3/4/2015 7:02:30 AM |
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kingarmor9
Independence, OH
39, joined Aug. 2011
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Just being on this site and some others I have noticed that proper English (or at least close to it) is hard to find. If someone sends me a message with "wuz up" or "wit dat" or some other crap I just delete. Is sounding educated that uncool today? Maybe that's why I don't have luck on here is because I can speak proper english. Don't get me wrong I can act like a fool too and throw out some real terrible slang. I just thought when you present yourself to someone you want to look good. You know sound educated and sound like you made it through 4th grade.
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3/4/2015 7:03:48 AM |
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1sirens
Champaign, IL
30, joined Aug. 2014
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Yeah....I hears ya
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3/4/2015 7:04:22 AM |
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idliketotalk
Punxsutawney, PA
52, joined Oct. 2013
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It would seem so for some people on this site.
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3/4/2015 7:05:18 AM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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Just being on this site and some others I have noticed that proper English (or at least close to it) is hard to find. If someone sends me a message with "wuz up" or "wit dat" or some other crap I just delete. Is sounding educated that uncool today? Maybe that's why I don't have luck on here is because I can speak proper english. Don't get me wrong I can act like a fool too and throw out some real terrible slang. I just thought when you present yourself to someone you want to look good. You know sound educated and sound like you made it through 4th grade.
Typing isn't speaking...
*English by the way.
[Edited 3/4/2015 7:06:00 AM ]
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3/4/2015 7:05:19 AM |
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casheyesblond
Belmont, NC
51, joined Feb. 2009
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heller,how yer doin
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3/4/2015 7:05:30 AM |
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nothingneeded
Johnston, IA
46, joined Sep. 2014
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You are who you are...and that is their first impression.
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3/4/2015 7:06:49 AM |
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wench_doctor789
Atlanta, GA
38, joined Nov. 2014
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Its be hard 4 me
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3/4/2015 7:08:41 AM |
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ibeenseenitall
Boca Raton, FL
34, joined Jul. 2014
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Willing to learn so go ahead and teach
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3/4/2015 7:11:39 AM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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Which English are we talking about here anyway?
Kings English, Queens English, Modern English, Old English, American English, Pidgin English...?
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3/4/2015 7:11:45 AM |
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1sirens
Champaign, IL
30, joined Aug. 2014
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Did they complain they couldn't see you in your main and only pic?
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3/4/2015 7:20:16 AM |
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teeheehee_
Montreal, QC
33, joined Jun. 2014
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I think my English's not too bad, yeah? But my sentence structure is a bit off.
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3/4/2015 7:22:15 AM |
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1sirens
Champaign, IL
30, joined Aug. 2014
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Me too...I catch myself using ''but'' to start sentences all the time
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3/4/2015 7:24:31 AM |
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kingarmor9
Independence, OH
39, joined Aug. 2011
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Kawk that would be American English. 1sirens, no, no one has complained about my pic. My pic has nothing to do with trying to at least sound like you went to school. I so love this site. You get attacked when you point something out. I'm not trying to sound like I'm better than anyone because that is not the case. It just baffles me that grown adults can't speak (or type) properly. I'm not talking about misspellings or punctuation mistakes. I don't have a higher education. I graduated from high school with a B average. Not the smartest in the class but I can put together sentences that can be understood.
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3/4/2015 7:25:02 AM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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Cor blimey guv, mi English is as lovely as a cup o' rosy lee. I'll gut tu foot of our sturs if tha' thinks tha' talks better than thee...Tha dunt nu what tha's talkin aboot.
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3/4/2015 7:25:51 AM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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Kawk that would be American English.
Ah got it, I only speak English English, none of that "tomayyyyytoe" shit.
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3/4/2015 7:26:57 AM |
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kingarmor9
Independence, OH
39, joined Aug. 2011
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Cor blimey guv, mi English is as lovely as a cup o' rosy lee. I'll gut tu foot of our sturs if tha' thinks tha' talks better than thee...Tha dunt nu what tha's talkin aboot.
Kawk you can teach me some Old English you wanker. I know I'll butcher that up.
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3/4/2015 7:28:28 AM |
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1sirens
Champaign, IL
30, joined Aug. 2014
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How are you being attacked by asking has anyone complained of your main pic?
You're way too sensitive cowboy
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3/4/2015 7:30:01 AM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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Back lit photos = bad idea. Next time have the photographer (you in this case) turn the other way so the subject matter (you again) is using the lighting to their (again you) advantage.
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3/4/2015 7:30:43 AM |
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idliketotalk
Punxsutawney, PA
52, joined Oct. 2013
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OP, there have been many threads created here that I had no clue what the question was or even if there was a question.
I am picking up what you are laying down.
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3/4/2015 7:41:07 AM |
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wench_doctor789
Atlanta, GA
38, joined Nov. 2014
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The loif of the woif was ended by the knoif
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3/4/2015 7:43:51 AM |
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ctr916v2
Roseville, CA
51, joined Nov. 2014
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i tried to speak olde English once; it turned out to be, merely, older English.
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3/4/2015 7:45:39 AM |
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chris_90352
Sykesville, MD
41, joined Sep. 2010
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Just being on this site and some others I have noticed that proper English (or at least close to it) is hard to find. If someone sends me a message with "wuz up" or "wit dat" or some other crap I just delete. Is sounding educated that uncool today? Maybe that's why I don't have luck on here is because I can speak proper english. Don't get me wrong I can act like a fool too and throw out some real terrible slang. I just thought when you present yourself to someone you want to look good. You know sound educated and sound like you made it through 4th grade.
Yah I aggree! Ain't nothing that aggervates me more than ppl what can't talk proper American.
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3/4/2015 7:47:25 AM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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Life is what you makes it
You like to see homos naked?
Nah life it what you makes it
Yeah, you like to see homos naked, that don't help me none.
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3/4/2015 7:52:16 AM |
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diana29615
Greenville, SC
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3/4/2015 7:53:49 AM |
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miscbyproduct
Isle Of Man
United Kingdom
18, joined Apr. 2012
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Just being on this site and some others I have noticed that proper English (or at least close to it) is hard to find. If someone sends me a message with "wuz up" or "wit dat" or some other crap I just delete. Is sounding educated that uncool today? Maybe that's why I don't have luck on here is because I can speak proper english. Don't get me wrong I can act like a fool too and throw out some real terrible slang. I just thought when you present yourself to someone you want to look good. You know sound educated and sound like you made it through 4th grade.
ifn it's that important, it isn't too hard
however, you ain't that important
make a difference, huh?
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3/4/2015 7:54:45 AM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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tits legs and a** always trumps proper English. It's hard to understand what they are saying anyway with a c*ck in their mouth
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3/4/2015 7:55:11 AM |
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kingarmor9
Independence, OH
39, joined Aug. 2011
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Kawk you just love trying to get a rise out of people don't you. You're against the grain on most posts I've seen of yours. It's ok. I just take it in stride. You like to make people laugh. You're about "life's to short to complain". I agree but sometimes I have to question things.
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3/4/2015 7:56:05 AM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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Kawk you just love trying to get a rise out of people don't you.
Doesn't everyone?
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3/4/2015 7:56:26 AM |
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kingarmor9
Independence, OH
39, joined Aug. 2011
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tits legs and a** always trumps proper English. It's hard to understand what they are saying anyway with a c*ck in their mouth
I'll tread on that comment lightly but I'm picking up what you're putting down.
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3/4/2015 8:02:37 AM |
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ibeenseenitall
Boca Raton, FL
34, joined Jul. 2014
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Slang is understandable. Some words do get taken the wrong way that's for sure. Sign language when all else fails
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3/4/2015 8:02:49 AM |
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miscbyproduct
Isle Of Man
United Kingdom
18, joined Apr. 2012
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warm ya hands
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3/4/2015 8:10:51 AM |
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miscbyproduct
Isle Of Man
United Kingdom
18, joined Apr. 2012
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Slang is understandable. Some words do get taken the wrong way that's for sure. Sign language when all else fails
shit
these "people" can't even find a single meaning for a type of relationship
how the hell can they have a successful one?
got nothing to do with slang or proper grammer
everything to do with, flat f**ked up
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3/4/2015 8:11:18 AM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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got nothing to do with slang or proper grammer
everything to do with, flat f**ked up
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3/4/2015 8:15:05 AM |
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phil406
Pueblo, CO
51, joined Jul. 2009
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Seam errone here is aiight to dis guy!
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3/4/2015 8:18:11 AM |
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miscbyproduct
Isle Of Man
United Kingdom
18, joined Apr. 2012
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or the ppl here as a, in general whole
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3/4/2015 8:19:58 AM |
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ibeenseenitall
Boca Raton, FL
34, joined Jul. 2014
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Slang must mean conflict I guess to op
I came for fun, parties, etc
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3/4/2015 8:26:25 AM |
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miscbyproduct
Isle Of Man
United Kingdom
18, joined Apr. 2012
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wonder what dating on oxford's site owuld be like
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3/4/2015 8:50:59 AM |
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kingarmor9
Independence, OH
39, joined Aug. 2011
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Slang must mean conflict I guess to op
I came for fun, parties, etc
Slang is ok. I speak plenty of it at work. Usually joking around and having a good time.
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3/4/2015 9:13:42 AM |
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baldhead1va
Richmond, VA
49, joined Jan. 2014
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At the risk of turning this into a racial thing; being a black man requires me to effectively communicate on TWO levels; and I do it quite well EVERYDAY!
At work; in the boardroom, I have to be the analytical, sharp, well spoken, corporate executive who's able to speak professionally to my peers.
Around my friends, family, ppl in the hood that I grew up with; I have to speak a different language. I can't take my corporate persona to the hood; it lacks street cred, and in some places where I grew up, it could get you robbed or worse, killed, because they could sense I don't belong around here with that kind of talk.
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3/4/2015 9:32:42 AM |
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esmeraldar
Toms River, NJ
66, joined Jan. 2009
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At the risk of turning this into a racial thing; being a black man requires me to effectively communicate on TWO levels; and I do it quite well EVERYDAY!
At work; in the boardroom, I have to be the analytical, sharp, well spoken, corporate executive who's able to speak professionally to my peers.
Around my friends, family, ppl in the hood that I grew up with; I have to speak a different language. I can't take my corporate persona to the hood; it lacks street cred, and in some places where I grew up, it could get you robbed or worse, killed, because they could sense I don't belong around here with that kind of talk.
A friend of mine went to a bar frequented by military personnel. He was having a conversation in standard English with an attractive enlisted black woman. When her black friends came in she switched to a different type of language.
This is probably similar to those of us who had parents or grandparents who were immigrants. We were hearing one type of language at home and another at school. It could be confusing sometimes.
I do love to see proper English on the internet. I am really bothered by people who spell the way that they speak. If that makes me a snob, so be it.
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3/4/2015 9:35:59 AM |
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archer513
Cincinnati, OH
40, joined Dec. 2014
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At the risk of turning this into a racial thing; being a black man requires me to effectively communicate on TWO levels; and I do it quite well EVERYDAY!
At work; in the boardroom, I have to be the analytical, sharp, well spoken, corporate executive who's able to speak professionally to my peers.
Around my friends, family, ppl in the hood that I grew up with; I have to speak a different language. I can't take my corporate persona to the hood; it lacks street cred, and in some places where I grew up, it could get you robbed or worse, killed, because they could sense I don't belong around here with that kind of talk.
So what you're saying is that your "people" are scumbags. Scumbags that perpetuate stupidity?
Glad I didn't say it...harsh.
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3/4/2015 9:39:33 AM |
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1sirens
Champaign, IL
30, joined Aug. 2014
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Hold the phone..what'd I miss
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3/4/2015 9:39:42 AM |
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
59, joined Mar. 2014
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some people are just more OCD about spelling and grammar than others.
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3/4/2015 9:41:14 AM |
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isityouuuu
Brooklyn, NY
49, joined Mar. 2014
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if i can read it or understand it , its all good
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3/4/2015 9:43:17 AM |
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rumpledingdong
Mesa, AZ
53, joined Dec. 2012
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3/4/2015 9:49:40 AM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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You clearly state you are not looking for anything serious...
Casual is what you want..which many will.see in a certain light.
And are upset ppl don't message you with seruous intent nor language ?
Interesting...
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3/4/2015 10:33:14 AM |
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darthcapital
North York, ON
44, joined Apr. 2014
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Just being on this site and some others I have noticed that proper English (or at least close to it) is hard to find. If someone sends me a message with "wuz up" or "wit dat" or some other crap I just delete. Is sounding educated that uncool today? Maybe that's why I don't have luck on here is because I can speak proper english. Don't get me wrong I can act like a fool too and throw out some real terrible slang. I just thought when you present yourself to someone you want to look good. You know sound educated and sound like you made it through 4th grade. I feel da same way I want 2 meat sum1 dat dunt butcher da english language
do u no wat i mean?
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3/4/2015 10:35:24 AM |
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riflessivo
AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
40, joined Jan. 2014
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Iz wld bt Iz dnt knoz ow 2
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3/4/2015 10:36:29 AM |
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baldhead1va
Richmond, VA
49, joined Jan. 2014
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So what you're saying is that your "people" are scumbags. Scumbags that perpetuate stupidity?
Glad I didn't say it...harsh.
I wouldn't expect you to fully understand, but I'll try anyway.
For example: the way that you talk to your BOYFRIEND/LOVER might be different than the way you speak to your boss; unless of course you have a crush on him too. Ijs
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3/4/2015 10:51:20 AM |
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archer513
Cincinnati, OH
40, joined Dec. 2014
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I wouldn't expect you to fully understand, but I'll try anyway.
For example: the way that you talk to your BOYFRIEND/LOVER might be different than the way you speak to your boss; unless of course you have a crush on him too. Ijs
I understand the need for survival and playing the roll of an uneducated person from the hood.
I'm just curious if-as an educated,successful(boardrooms,etc) black man,you feel guilt for perpetuating the ignorance,rather than be yourself and try to lift your community up. Be a role model. A leader.
Is the violence and ignorance that bad,that'd it'd be to risky?
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3/4/2015 10:52:17 AM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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Black people in England speak like white people in England
I never figured out why Blacks in America do the hood/ghetto talk thing...
Some gay men do the same thing..change their voice a few pitches as if to say "hey everyone! I'm as bent as a $9 bill".
Maybe the ghetto talk is used similarly "Hey everyone! I'm uneducated and stupid and hold my 45 sideways!"
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3/4/2015 10:53:27 AM |
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unique_woman
Omaha, NE
27, joined Dec. 2014
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I think for some people on this site yes, proper English is hard. Ive seen some profiles on this site that sound like someone from the ghetto that has slang & misspelled words on their profile
I dont sound uneducated on my profile but I do sound like a b*tch & I am a b*tch too.
I dont care how good looking someone is if you sound ghetto aka uneducated on your profile than thats a turn off for me.
I like when people sound educated too
I agree with I just thought when you present yourself to someone you want to look good. You know sound educated and sound like you made it through 4th grade.
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3/4/2015 10:55:11 AM |
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teeheehee_
Montreal, QC
33, joined Jun. 2014
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I always wonder if those people get embarrassed when an immigrant has a better grasp of the language than they do. Hmmmmm......
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3/4/2015 10:55:49 AM |
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unique_woman
Omaha, NE
27, joined Dec. 2014
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Slang is understandable. Some words do get taken the wrong way that's for sure. Sign language when all else fails
I agree with some words do get taken the wrong way that's for sure.
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3/4/2015 10:57:45 AM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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I always wonder if those people get embarrassed when an immigrant has a better grasp of the language than they do. Hmmmmm......
..and a better grasp of their history/political/economics/laws etc
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3/4/2015 10:57:55 AM |
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ibane
Zanesville, OH
43, joined Feb. 2014
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If they have a 45 its cuz they stole it.
They like them cheap asss 9's.
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3/4/2015 10:59:48 AM |
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unique_woman
Omaha, NE
27, joined Dec. 2014
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I always wonder if those people get embarrassed when an immigrant has a better grasp of the language than they do. Hmmmmm......
..and a better grasp of their history/political/economics/laws etc
I wonder about that too
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3/4/2015 11:03:21 AM |
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baldhead1va
Richmond, VA
49, joined Jan. 2014
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Slang talk
Hood talk
Talking black
Is NOT just a black thing; you have suburban WHITE kids who embrace this way of talking, as well as the WHOLE hip hop culture.
I see more & more young white kids sagging their jeans, corn rolling their hair and blasting rap music these days. It's like a movement! A lot of white kids "ACT BLACK" "WANT TO BE BLACK" & will ONLY DATE BLACK.
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3/4/2015 11:09:13 AM |
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teeheehee_
Montreal, QC
33, joined Jun. 2014
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English is actually very hard on the tongue. The "th" sound is sooooo difficult to recreate. I breakout in a sweat everytime I have to pronounce it. I try hard to avoid words with those letters.
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3/4/2015 11:10:59 AM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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I see more & more young white kids sagging their jeans, corn rolling their hair and blasting rap music these days. It's like a movement! A lot of white kids "ACT BLACK" "WANT TO BE BLACK" & will ONLY DATE BLACK.
Dude, not a good idea to hang outside your local high shcool...believe me I know..
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