| 8/24/2008 5:03:23 PM |
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tfun
Henderson, NV
age: 36
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So, how do you become more b*tchy or bad boyish - if that's not your nature.
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| 8/24/2008 5:04:57 PM |
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beckspade
Augusta, GA
age: 25
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you dont. be you someone out there will appreciate a good woman and some women appreciate a good man
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| 8/24/2008 5:09:56 PM |
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power2theq
Inglewood, CA
age: 21
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So, how do you become more b*tchy or bad boyish - if that's not your nature.
O.K., to clarify, for guys, they don't like b*tches, just women that put out easier.
If you want a better chance of dating/hooking up, don't treat th other like you would a friend. Ex. 4 hour phone calls, solving the others problems, being available 24/7, going on dates with other people tagging along with you, going to the movies, etc. Make it clear what you want.
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| 8/24/2008 5:13:47 PM |
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tfun
Henderson, NV
age: 36
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I believe women are putting out more easier today than ever before so, are you saying the knowing you a week then open up and have sex types? Just curious what you meant by easier.
Oh, by the way, thanks for the advice
[Edited 8/24/2008 5:14:23 PM]
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| 8/24/2008 5:14:14 PM |
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spectrre
Shawnee, OK
age: 37 online now!
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never change yourself for anyone.
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| 8/24/2008 5:19:32 PM |
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postalbob
Everett, WA
age: 23
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I think it's a safe bet to say that if you are fun, don't seem like too much of a prude (not to be confused with putting out easier) and are open to things guys like it.
If you're too skanky, guys will be just as turned off.
If you don't do anything with some sort of in the moment thinking or fun, and are too conservative the guys look at you as no fun.
It's really no different than woman.
Just make sure the guy knows you are willing to have fun, work the fact that once they have you you will be worth it in all ways in and out of the bedroom, and balance it. But never forget to make them WORK to get you into the bedroom. Let them know what they are in for! It's not that you have to change yourself.
Those are my thoughts.
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| 8/24/2008 5:20:06 PM |
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power2theq
Inglewood, CA
age: 21
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I believe women are putting out more easier today than ever before so, are you saying the knowing you a week then open up and have sex types? Just curious what you meant by easier.
Oh, by the way, thanks for the advice
I basically mean women that don't make all kinds of excuses not to do it. For example, when they say they're still getting over some guy, or they're nt feeling well, or they have to wash their hair, so they can't. Or some women that wnt to go on 10 dates before kissing.
[Edited 8/24/2008 5:21:43 PM]
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| 8/24/2008 5:21:10 PM |
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tfun
Henderson, NV
age: 36
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So are you suggesting that men enjoy working at it then getting it? Postal Bob
[Edited 8/24/2008 5:21:45 PM]
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| 8/24/2008 5:23:57 PM |
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bry11ca
Lewisville, TX
age: 43
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I don't like OPs who generalize, are presumptuous about what I think, and ask for advice on how to find the low road . . . when clearly you are already headed down it. 
Nice girls who know how to be great women behind closed doors rock.  And it's nobody's business but own own. 
Bry 
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| 8/24/2008 5:26:42 PM |
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missmmeoftheday
Brooklyn, NY
age: 42
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Why would you want to be b*tchy- or anything- if it isn't in your nature? Be you. If a guy doesn't like it, then he's not the right guy for you.
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| 8/24/2008 5:29:02 PM |
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tfun
Henderson, NV
age: 36
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It's a problem when obviously no one is really liking the nice girl. Of course I go on dares, hang out, and other stuff but it's never enough.
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| 8/24/2008 5:29:56 PM |
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roadrisingup
Waldo, OH
age: 39
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I would not take a bad girl seriously
they are only good for a romp in the sack.
the only way to my heart
is kind and gentle
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| 8/24/2008 5:30:33 PM |
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cutiegirl86
Ontario, OR
age: 22 online now!
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Don't ever be something that your not. you will eventually find someone that will love you for who you truely are. At least that's my hope.
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| 8/24/2008 5:35:10 PM |
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missmmeoftheday
Brooklyn, NY
age: 42
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It's a problem when obviously no one is really liking the nice girl. Of course I go on dares, hang out, and other stuff but it's never enough.
Not sure what going on dares means, but if no one is liking the nice girl- and I assume you are referring to yourself- maybe you're with the wrong guy.
If you want to shake things up in your life, that's great... but do it for the right reason. Shake things up because you want those changes made in YOUR world. NOT because you think some guy is gonna like you more or pay more attention to you. JMO
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| 8/24/2008 5:37:29 PM |
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tfun
Henderson, NV
age: 36
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Thanks
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