| 9/23/2015 2:05:31 PM |
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grammygirl47_11
Lake Waccamaw, NC
51, joined Jan. 2011
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So, the guy I just met is a real good guy, nice, gentelman, secure income, good looking,and just in general a really good guy. I think I should date him because he is a good guy but I do not think I should because, I do not seem to have any interest in him, talking to him is boring, and we do not seem to have much in common. So do I hang onto him because he is stable or not date because I just do not seem to be interested.
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| 9/23/2015 2:06:42 PM |
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grande_mamon
Sacramento, CA
38, joined Sep. 2014
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So, the guy I just met is a real good guy, nice, gentelman, secure income, good looking,and just in general a really good guy.
How do you know if you haven't dated him yet?...because he told you so?  
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| 9/23/2015 2:06:58 PM |
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hacksawjimthugn
Bakersfield, CA
32, joined Aug. 2014
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Boot him you're not really interested in him.
That being said can I have his number?
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| 9/23/2015 2:07:21 PM |
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helmholtzwatson
Raleigh, NC
50, joined Jun. 2014
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No.
Do him a favor & let him find somebody who actually loves him & is genuinely attracted.
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| 9/23/2015 2:08:36 PM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
56, joined Feb. 2010
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Do him a favor and walk away. You have no interest, and think he is boring, so go find a man you have interest in.
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| 9/23/2015 2:09:54 PM |
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mrfckinpetey
Orlando, FL
30, joined Jun. 2014
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No.
Do him a favor & let him find somebody who actually loves him & is genuinely attracted.
This.
It sounds like you're considering using him for his stability. It would be no different than me dating you just so i can f**k you.
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| 9/23/2015 2:10:29 PM |
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grande_mamon
Sacramento, CA
38, joined Sep. 2014
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Except she's 51 and probably fat.
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| 9/23/2015 2:11:57 PM |
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grammygirl47_11
Lake Waccamaw, NC
51, joined Jan. 2011
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No.
Do him a favor & let him find somebody who actually loves him & is genuinely attracted.
I tried to tell him but he does not accept that we do not have anything in common.
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| 9/23/2015 2:12:05 PM |
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jer3552
Vale, OR
61, joined Oct. 2013
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Boot him you're not really interested in him.
That being said can I have his number?
 
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| 9/23/2015 2:12:37 PM |
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grande_mamon
Sacramento, CA
38, joined Sep. 2014
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I tried to tell him but he does not accept that we do not have anything in common.
How do you know if you haven't dated him yet?
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| 9/23/2015 2:13:52 PM |
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grammygirl47_11
Lake Waccamaw, NC
51, joined Jan. 2011
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So, the guy I just met is a real good guy, nice, gentelman, secure income, good looking,and just in general a really good guy.
How do you know if you haven't dated him yet?...because he told you so?
We did go out two times and I told him we do not seem to have anything in common.
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| 9/23/2015 2:14:06 PM |
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grande_mamon
Sacramento, CA
38, joined Sep. 2014
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I tried to tell him but he does not accept that we do not have anything in common.
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So, the guy I just met is a real good guy, nice, gentelman, secure income, good looking,and just in general a really good guy.
So are you saying your an evil b*tch, broke a** ugly unpleasant person?
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| 9/23/2015 2:14:16 PM |
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inknpink
Castle Rock, CO
30, joined Feb. 2015
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Tell him you wanna blow his brother, father and uncle, that'll work.
Get some fortitude and just tell him to be gone and break contact.
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| 9/23/2015 2:15:46 PM |
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helmholtzwatson
Raleigh, NC
50, joined Jun. 2014
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I tried to tell him but he does not accept that we do not have anything in common.
Sometimes it takes folks a bit to accept that.
But you know better...and are NOT obligated to date him.
If he's got all that going for him then he'll find another woman better suited.
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| 9/23/2015 2:15:57 PM |
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grammygirl47_11
Lake Waccamaw, NC
51, joined Jan. 2011
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Except she's 51 and probably fat.
, not fat only 89 lbs.
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| 9/23/2015 2:16:42 PM |
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grande_mamon
Sacramento, CA
38, joined Sep. 2014
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, not fat only 89 lbs.
Jeez, when's the funeral?
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| 9/23/2015 2:16:52 PM |
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inni_dreamz
Pasadena, CA
96, joined Nov. 2012
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You need to be honest with him, and offer friendship. Most here in DH land will disagree with me, but - being friends is not all bad. It will give you time to see if something more may develop.
I would never date someone just because they are "stable" etc., in the end - it's more likely you will hurt him.
My 2 cents.
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| 9/23/2015 2:17:40 PM |
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grande_mamon
Sacramento, CA
38, joined Sep. 2014
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Men on dates don't want friends they want their c*cks servicing.
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| 9/23/2015 2:18:55 PM |
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hacksawjimthugn
Bakersfield, CA
32, joined Aug. 2014
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Whenever I want my c*ck serviced I take it to a pet groomer
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| 9/23/2015 2:19:48 PM |
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grande_mamon
Sacramento, CA
38, joined Sep. 2014
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I heard you were an animal lover...
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| 9/23/2015 2:19:57 PM |
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inni_dreamz
Pasadena, CA
96, joined Nov. 2012
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I recently went out with a guy. He really seemed to like me, and I think he's nice n all but I didn't feel a romantic attraction to him.
I was honest, and offered friendship. He accepted.
Not everyone is as jaded as this crowd.
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| 9/23/2015 2:19:59 PM |
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grammygirl47_11
Lake Waccamaw, NC
51, joined Jan. 2011
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Sometimes it takes folks a bit to accept that.
But you know better...and are NOT obligated to date him.
If he's got all that going for him then he'll find another woman better suited.
That is what I tried to tell him but he insist that he wants to date me anyway. But you are all right, the vote seems to be no don't date him. I just really do not want to hurt his feelings but I guess it is better to do it now rather than later. Thank you
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| 9/23/2015 2:21:09 PM |
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inni_dreamz
Pasadena, CA
96, joined Nov. 2012
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Much better to do it now, rather than later.
If you KNOW you will never want to date him - yes, be honest. 
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| 9/23/2015 2:21:21 PM |
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grande_mamon
Sacramento, CA
38, joined Sep. 2014
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I recently went out with a guy. He really seemed to like me, and I think he's nice n all but I didn't feel a romantic attraction to him.
I was honest, and offered friendship. He accepted.
Not everyone is as jaded as this crowd.
So what friend type activities have you done since then..hung out at his place watching the game and knocking back some beers? Gone fishing and camping together? went to the bar got drunk and grabbed ass?
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| 9/23/2015 2:23:53 PM |
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helmholtzwatson
Raleigh, NC
50, joined Jun. 2014
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Not everyone is as jaded as this crowd.
Yep.
Heck, I even have friends from here that I do wtuff with...concerts, beer fests, etc.
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| 9/23/2015 2:25:32 PM |
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grande_mamon
Sacramento, CA
38, joined Sep. 2014
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Isn't that like going out intending to buy a new car and coming home with a wheelchair.
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| 9/23/2015 2:26:37 PM |
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jer3552
Vale, OR
61, joined Oct. 2013
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that is u Kawk...I adore u 
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| 9/23/2015 2:26:50 PM |
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hacksawjimthugn
Bakersfield, CA
32, joined Aug. 2014
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I heard you were an animal lover...
Animal lover? Nah not me sir.
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| 9/23/2015 2:27:57 PM |
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settee_m
Dallas, TX
62, joined Feb. 2013
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Believe it or not, the woods are full of good gentleman just like him. Don't let these guys on dh fool you into thinking all men are like some of these little pissants.
After having dated them a few times and you realize they don't share interests or you aren't attracted to them, you HAVE TO LET THEM GO. It's the rule. 
Otherwise drama will ensue and you'll be responsible for turning a perfectly good gentlemen into one of these little pissants here on DH.
Women everywhere implore you! Don't over-date them. 
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| 9/23/2015 2:28:34 PM |
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grande_mamon
Sacramento, CA
38, joined Sep. 2014
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that is u Kawk...I adore u
I'm not kawk for christs sake! This WAS kawks alt which he gave me a while back because I couldn't create an account and he's a good friend, it kept kicking me back to Match.com
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| 9/23/2015 2:29:13 PM |
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jer3552
Vale, OR
61, joined Oct. 2013
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catch and release please ladies
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| 9/23/2015 2:29:18 PM |
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grande_mamon
Sacramento, CA
38, joined Sep. 2014
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After having dated them a few times and you realize they don't share interests or you aren't attracted to them, you HAVE TO LET THEM GO. It's the rule.
wth, a few times? I know within 5 mins if it's going to be a go or not.
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| 9/23/2015 2:29:56 PM |
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inni_dreamz
Pasadena, CA
96, joined Nov. 2012
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I recently went out with a guy. He really seemed to like me, and I think he's nice n all but I didn't feel a romantic attraction to him.
I was honest, and offered friendship. He accepted.
Not everyone is as jaded as this crowd.
So what friend type activities have you done since then..hung out at his place watching the game and knocking back some beers? Gone fishing and camping together? went to the bar got drunk and grabbed ass?
We hung out with no a** grabbing.
I understand, he will move on and date someone and we are not likely to be best friends forever
but
There is nothing wrong with being "friends".
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| 9/23/2015 2:30:27 PM |
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inni_dreamz
Pasadena, CA
96, joined Nov. 2012
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Yep.
Heck, I even have friends from here that I do wtuff with...concerts, beer fests, etc.
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| 9/23/2015 2:30:32 PM |
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jer3552
Vale, OR
61, joined Oct. 2013
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that is u Kawk...I adore u
I'm not kawk for christs sake! This WAS kawks alt which he gave me a while back because I couldn't create an account and he's a good friend, it kept kicking me back to Match.com ...now I caught u lord Kawk....Kawk has no friends...elementary my good watson
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| 9/23/2015 2:31:05 PM |
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machug59
Fairfield, CA
94, joined Dec. 2011
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| 9/23/2015 2:31:24 PM |
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grande_mamon
Sacramento, CA
38, joined Sep. 2014
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Friends Pah!
If I'm out looking for poonanny I don't need another bingo partner, I have grandma for that.
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| 9/23/2015 2:31:54 PM |
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grande_mamon
Sacramento, CA
38, joined Sep. 2014
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...now I caught u lord Kawk....Kawk has no friends...elementary my good watson
I'm going to tell him you said that, I'm sure he'll be hurt as he thought well of you.
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| 9/23/2015 2:33:09 PM |
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jer3552
Vale, OR
61, joined Oct. 2013
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I am his friend but I meant other than me or I or however the English say it
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| 9/23/2015 2:33:53 PM |
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inni_dreamz
Pasadena, CA
96, joined Nov. 2012
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Oh great, another post turned into a DH worship fest...
SOME of you spend way too much time trying to figure out who is who...
Who cares? It's either interesting and/or funny, or it's not.
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| 9/23/2015 2:34:40 PM |
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jer3552
Vale, OR
61, joined Oct. 2013
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this is such an easy fix for women....pay attention OP.....tell him u like bad boys and that nice guys are boring....he will understand this....win/win 
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| 9/23/2015 2:37:46 PM |
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settee_m
Dallas, TX
62, joined Feb. 2013
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Identify yourself, mamon.
Or do you like the attention you're getting pretending to be the kawk?
How superior do you feel at the moment knowing everyone in the room, and them not knowing who you are. Not only is it rude, it's repugnant. 
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| 9/23/2015 2:38:19 PM |
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jer3552
Vale, OR
61, joined Oct. 2013
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Oh great, another post turned into a DH worship fest...
SOME of you spend way too much time trying to figure out who is who...
Who cares? It's either interesting and/or funny, or it's not.
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| 9/23/2015 2:41:58 PM |
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settee_m
Dallas, TX
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| 9/23/2015 2:43:20 PM |
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jer3552
Vale, OR
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| 9/23/2015 2:43:55 PM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
57, joined Jul. 2010
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, not fat only 89 lbs.
Tweaker
As for the original inquiry, ]
ask someone that gives a flyin' fook
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| 9/23/2015 2:50:12 PM |
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settee_m
Dallas, TX
62, joined Feb. 2013
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I am his friend but I meant other than me or I or however the English say it
It isn't kawk, jer. The one thing we all can agree on with the kawk is he's here for his own entertainment, not ours.
Who ever this guy is is trying way too hard and falling short of the mark. And he's not the least funny.
Ha!
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| 9/23/2015 2:52:44 PM |
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jer3552
Vale, OR
61, joined Oct. 2013
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| 9/23/2015 2:56:07 PM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
34, joined Mar. 2013
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In response to the original post, by all means do not date this guy. Break all ties. Do not remain friends. This will only.cause more hassles.
From reading all the posts on here, this is what I have gathered.
You have gone two times, and have come to realize that the conversations are rather boring, to you. So, this right here shows their is a huge difference in the way you both think. The Law of Attraction applies and you are not going to break that.
He has a lot to offer, in terms of stability, but at 51 years of age you should already be stable and not be focused on that.
Relationships are about companionship and enjoying the time you spend with each other. If that fundamental human requirement is not being met, then it will never work.
Also, I noticed you have mentioned that you have set a boundary and told him you will not date him. I have also seen that he apparently will not accept "No" for an answer. This is a clear indicator, that he is trying to over step your boundaries and is a very large RED FLAG!
The longer you continue to associate with this man, the further damage that will be done to both of you.
Good Luck. You'll likely need a little to get rid of this guy.
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| 9/23/2015 2:58:27 PM |
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cuileann
San Antonio, TX
48, joined Aug. 2015
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OP, if you are not interested in the man, don't date him. Find someone else to date.
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| 9/23/2015 3:02:04 PM |
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cuileann
San Antonio, TX
48, joined Aug. 2015
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, not fat only 89 lbs.
Jeez, when's the funeral?
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| 9/23/2015 3:05:37 PM |
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grande_mamon
Sacramento, CA
38, joined Sep. 2014
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Identify yourself, mamon.
Or do you like the attention you're getting pretending to be the kawk?
How superior do you feel at the moment knowing everyone in the room, and them not knowing who you are. Not only is it rude, it's repugnant.
Do you like getting attention for being someone else? why on Earth would you think I am?!? I've stated over and over I'm not kawk. People can wish for me to be kawk in one hand and shit in the other and see which happens first.
Now if you know kawk you'd know he wouldn't use such a cheesy cliche...
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| 9/23/2015 3:07:02 PM |
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jer3552
Vale, OR
61, joined Oct. 2013
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never go around in public with a Kawk in one hand
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| 9/23/2015 3:12:46 PM |
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fishnthec
Mesquite, TX
63, joined Oct. 2010
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Typical woman! You do not have a clue as to what you want in a man!
Do him a favor and let him go- and go join the Red Hat club!
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| 9/23/2015 3:13:18 PM |
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grande_mamon
Sacramento, CA
38, joined Sep. 2014
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..but give him a BJ for his time and trouble.
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| 9/23/2015 3:15:47 PM |
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settee_m
Dallas, TX
62, joined Feb. 2013
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If you were at all interested in clearing this up, you'd come clean with who you really are. By not doing so indicates you like having people thinking you are someone else, ever how much you protest.
Simple, my dear watson.
Try a little harder...you haven't convinced everyone yet.
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| 9/23/2015 3:17:22 PM |
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grande_mamon
Sacramento, CA
38, joined Sep. 2014
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If you were at all interested in clearing this up, you'd come clean with who you really are. By not doing so indicates you like having people thinking you are.
there is nothing cleaner or clearer than this.
*****I AM NOT KAWK*****
As kawk would say, work smarter not harder 
Got it? 
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| 9/23/2015 3:18:27 PM |
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lunaglider
Edwards, CO
61, joined Dec. 2013
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You're 51, OP, you know the answer.......or ask the magic 8ball
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| 9/23/2015 3:19:49 PM |
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archer513
Cincinnati, OH
40, joined Dec. 2014
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Dude isn't kawk.
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| 9/23/2015 3:21:47 PM |
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lunaglider
Edwards, CO
61, joined Dec. 2013
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catch and release please ladies
Sometimes you have to kill it......if you can't get the hook out.
Oh, what a metaphor I just wrote^^^^^
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