| 9/14/2008 12:51:06 PM |
To wink or not to wink |
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va_gentle_giant
Harrisonburg, VA
age: 37 online now!
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ive seen many profiles that complain about people giving them the "wink" 
and now it seems you can make it so people cant wink at you at all.
what is the proper ettique on the wink
thumbs up to the wink 
or thumbs down to the wink 
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| 9/14/2008 3:42:54 PM |
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pita83
Chesapeake, VA
age: 25
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Would you wink at a girl in public and expect her to respond to you? Or would you at least say hi?
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| 9/14/2008 4:21:57 PM |
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hardcore_diva07
Staunton, VA
age: 45
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I think if it makes you feel good inside to send a wink to someone . .then go for it! If that person wishes not to respond back . . then that's their choice. I personally enjoy getting winks.
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| 9/14/2008 6:24:49 PM |
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mike22304
Alexandria, VA
age: 63
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Would you wink at a girl in public and expect her to respond to you? Or would you at least say hi?
I never wink at a girl in public. Girls are more responsive if you pat 'em on the butt.
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| 9/14/2008 6:59:24 PM |
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pita83
Chesapeake, VA
age: 25
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lol yeah, you'd get a response.
[Edited 9/14/2008 6:59:52 PM]
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| 9/15/2008 4:31:16 PM |
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kekili
Norfolk, VA
age: 52
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dang... its getting so you have to have a degree for this stuff!!! dunno... Why not? I wink back figuring they were shy and need a push to have fun... but then, I talk to everyone. I'm polite!! doesn't mean we're engaged!! and its not like... lmao... gotcha Mike... they've patted my arse!! sheeesh! just be kind! 
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| 9/15/2008 5:09:41 PM |
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aphrodite434
Richmond, VA
age: 49
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Personally I like the winks. Because maybe I might not have that person, if they had not winked at me. And I wouldn't want to pass up a chance to meet great person. Winks are a way to get someones attention, and if you don't like it then maybe your not ready for dating yet...LOL
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| 9/15/2008 5:24:04 PM |
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68chevy
Marshall, VA
age: 50
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You can get winks...I have no problem with it, although I gets winks and when I wink back or try to say hi, then they just go silent. What is up with that, why wink at someone if you have no intention of ever communicating with them?
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| 9/17/2008 5:58:41 PM |
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mike22304
Alexandria, VA
age: 63
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If there is a deal breaker in their profile AND they say no winks YOU HAVE TO WINK! 
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| 9/17/2008 6:13:29 PM |
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janeree00
Fredericksburg, VA
age: 53
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to be winked at in puplic r on d/h is nice
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| 11/1/2008 10:19:08 AM |
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echo50
Radford, VA
age: 54
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I like the wink idea It works for me
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| 11/1/2008 4:51:23 PM |
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firstlight
Strasburg, VA
age: 48
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I think the wink gives you a chance to find out if you are going to get a response, and yes a wink back is a response. I know some women complain that it's just a numbers game to a lot of guys who skim profiles and send out winks, but after being shot down time and time again, I personally don't blame them.
Now, after I respond to your wink I want something more than a "Hi". I want you to tell me how you read my profile and think we enjoy the same things or something similar.
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| 11/1/2008 4:56:09 PM |
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smiles4ualways
Colonial Beach, VA
age: 52
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to wink or not to wink! that is the question! you can wink at me al you like and I'll politely wink back, IF, there is interest, IF not! you'll get the hint. you've been warned
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| 11/1/2008 4:58:00 PM |
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firstlight
Strasburg, VA
age: 48
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Smiles....here's winking at you kid. 
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| 11/2/2008 2:56:20 AM |
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smiles4ualways
Colonial Beach, VA
age: 52
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Smiles....here's winking at you kid.
here's winking back at ya kiddo!
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