Why are men just lookin for booty??

9/17/2008 8:58:17 AM	Why are men just lookin for booty??
powerofthree26 Newport, TN age: 30	Ok I get that sex plays a part in every relationship, but my question is why is the only thing most men look for these days?? Can ya give me some feedback ladies?
9/17/2008 10:12:44 AM	Why are men just lookin for booty??
sensual_latin Pleasanton, CA age: 42	Quote from powerofthree26: Ok I get that sex plays a part in every relationship, but my question is why is the only thing most men look for these days?? Can ya give me some feedback ladies? Well, like I posted on another thread to a similar question... Guys will always want sex only but REAL Men want Real Relationships.A relationship can be either sexual or non sexual. This goes both ways, there are tons of ladies out there that aren't looking for relationships either and they just want one thing only also. There's a time a place for everything. QUALITY over Quantity If "quality" (man/woman) were easy to find, then it wouldn't be quality. Quality = GEMtlemen and they come in all ages. I've known ladies that think that matureness comes with age, but that's not the case in my opinion. Matureness is in the individual's being. I've met males around 28 yrs young who were extremely more mature than 50's year old males.
9/17/2008 12:36:55 PM	Why are men just lookin for booty??
alicekathleen Sacramento, CA age: 63	Age makes a dif, but the guys my age want someone "younger" so they can feel young, want someone to work and help pay the bills, want someone who will not rock the boat.....but, wait, that is quite a negative view! In truth, everyone is different and wants different things from life and love. If you LISTEN to the guy, he tells you in a hundred ways what it is he seeks and values. It is just that often, we don't want to believe him!
9/17/2008 6:32:17 PM	Why are men just lookin for booty??
garnetlady Cincinnati, OH age: 49	Wow latin...so well said! I agree maturity has nothing to do with age. I thought that in my time of life men would be more settled and not into playing games. Ha! I had alot to learn. The reason I choose to stay alone. I've never been a game player, can't fathom why anyone does. I also thought my ex was a minority...again I had much to learn. It is rather disappointing.
9/19/2008 8:08:52 PM	Why are men just lookin for booty??
gidget67 Lafayette, IN age: 59	I'm sort of curious about it too. Is it a matter of perception- that they think that's what is expected of them? I think it really does take awhile to find out what they're really looking for. Some men seem just the opposite - as if sex is a dirty word. While it's not my priority in searching for a relationship, I'm not going to ignore the subject and would prefer getting to know their outlook on it along with everything else. Along that line of thought, misguided as it may be, for some, that's how they find out how prudish you are. And if they just came out of a marriage or relationship that largely excluded sex, they want to make sure it's not going to happen again.... If they could only learn some tact.
9/20/2008 9:51:55 AM	Why are men just lookin for booty??
3ali Lima, OH age: 19	because they want to say that you look good and, then when they want to get in the bed with you we fall for it,also when we call themm and say we are pregnick they say it's not mine. now do you feel me my spelling not be right
9/20/2008 3:50:19 PM	Why are men just lookin for booty??
dannachanna Des Moines, IA age: 58	because the men which this thread applies to are just plain ole booty hunters, booty, booty, booty, gonna find some booty, get me a booty girl. Gotta have some booty... boogy boogy boogy, gotta find some booty. wish we had some music symbols for icons here between the words to new "booty man's boogy". Someone above me said if you listen close to words and actions the "booty man" will tell on his booty self. Yes after he gets his booty and boogies, then you know the boogying booty man stuck again. No words needed, you just know by the trail of boogie dust they leave when they peel out.
9/20/2008 4:16:48 PM	Why are men just lookin for booty??
shmamie Willow Beach, AZ age: 40	I have learned that it is up to us. All men want "booty" and will take it if it is offered. However, if the guy is looking for more than a "booty call" and you give it up too soon he will lose respect for you and deem you no longer "relationship worthy". So in other words, he'll still sleep with you right away but there won't be a lasting relationship. The trick is to make him wait. But you can't make him wait too long, or he'll lose interest. It all depends on the guy, though. You really have to feel him out. No pun intended. lol Oh, by the way...I have talked to several guys about this and they actually admitted it.
9/20/2008 5:30:30 PM	Why are men just lookin for booty??
dannachanna Des Moines, IA age: 58	I agree, sometimes you just want them to hit the dusty trail too so it isn't just a guy thing. No one should be that desperate for sex that they feel they have to use or lie to someone about their motives though. Just say you want some sex. I sure do respect that honest guy a heck of a lot more than the ones who play love games. Doesn't mean I'll say yes but a lot more likely than if I think he's lying to get some.
9/20/2008 6:21:59 PM	Why are men just lookin for booty??
aliveankickinto Tucson, AZ age: 77	One tract mind. They don't realize if they took their time, Everything would be so much better for both. They jump in bed and then wonder if we jump in bed with everyone. How come they don't realize that is what they are doing.
9/20/2008 9:27:07 PM	Why are men just lookin for booty??
dannachanna Des Moines, IA age: 58	Hey at the age of my dates I don't want to make them wait to long or they'll be dead. Hell, they are dropping off like flies as it is, scared to get em excited and scared not to take advantage if they are excited. If the opportunity arises, no need to play the waiting game at this stage, any time is good time.....if someone accuses you of being to easy, just tell them they must be thinking of someone else cause it wasn't you.... [Edited 9/20/2008 9:46:03 PM PST]
9/24/2008 10:15:36 PM	Why are men just lookin for booty??
sweetums3 Endicott, NY age: 51	well, In two and half yrs, single again, Having sold my new mt home, I can' tell you the Majority of Men I have had ONLY lunch out with are good for nothing. most are mean, rude, if you don't agree with them, the chinese gov. said, They do NOt want male babies now, that females are more intelligent and males are trouble, You know we women have divorced men, for good reasons, and the males are going to either END up like some already did, making NEW unexpected Babies, to pay support on for 18 yrs, BY law. they get mesmerized by dating sites, like having a night time HOBBY, on line, for fun, the computer is something their mind controls, doesn't talk to them, and they will always be this way, its that way. SO if you want to have a baby by some good working hunk, he will likely just oblige you. otherwise they spend it on junk four wheelers, some males buy junky rattling new lawnmowers, junk in 4 yrs, thousands wasted,then want women to be sensual but buy her nothing of value when married, but own no home, maybe owned one, but was a abusive verbally or physically male, typickal, HOW they treat their MOM is how they treat YOU. never get a lawyer if your married and divorcing that is working alone, esp. one from dunmore pa, he has anxiety and takes the mans SIDE. i fell for that , and lost out on alot. my x lives wk ends with his elderly father who used him at age ten to do farm work, WHILE the old guy lived warm and cozy into new jersey back then with His sister, and left his wife and sons and daughter tiny onto the farm in pa. for 17 yrs. and only visited them when he felt up to it, wk ends. hes still alive and now still has HIS two sons as slaves to him, ITs like a old dr. WHO movie, where the elder is into a wheelchair riding around, creepy , and the sons are like servants. he likes gets some type of psychic energy he lives off of younger peoples energy, in the room. its disgusting how most males are into cigar,s food, and booze, and treat usa women, and the gov doen'st care, they just likely need new babies born to become NEW taxpayers for them in 17 yrs, to continue to live a cushy life. most also have stock into pharmacy companies, if you get depressed to buy the meds they profit from. its all set up to use humans for servants. and hell with what men do, to women. THE church ministers DO nothing to talk to men of their sampling women for yrs, nor to try to stop the x rated magazines,etc, the tv shows ,some are truly disgusting, two and half men show shows men they should date and bed women, while some young nephew livesinto the house. IF a man wants YOU, tell him to marry you or if you love him, tell him you wish to live together if you want to, IF he says NO, hes not a good soul, hes a disgusting one. of a lower levels of mind. there are souls living around all over of various levels of mind. I have had lunch with males all over LUNCH, and see they have a attitude, and they often think they are high and mighty, too, with owning one little wooden house. while my brother owned six homes, and another relative owns over 32 homes, and is married to same wife hes had. MEN get away with things, because other women LET THEM> they are not meant for you, if not treating you good. don't think why, just know they are NOT for you. The other disgusting things some men have, and think women should like to kiss them, yuk, --- is their hairs on their necks,gray too, scraggly, and chins, gray scraggling hairs and so go for dating younger men, i have dated men age 39, and they are nicer to women. just don't interrogate them of jobs, money etc, if they are cheap and don't even buy a quart of milk, don't let them come around . i wouldn never allow a MALE to come to my place for booty, he would have to LIVE with me. I only date for lunch time, nothing else. women should know that sometimes when women get older over age 65, their female upsets evolve from childbirth or lack of homrmones, bladders fall, and all, ;ask some older women past seventy. i've seen it all happen. women down' south are living into 6 bedroom homes onto stone mt georgia, paid by their x husbands, and southern men are nice to talk to via phone. one flew up to me two summers a go. don't dwell only on men into your area, when all the women they dated in two yrs, within their 55 miles radius of THEM, know them, and noting works out, the men will HAVE TO dRIVE FURTHER TO new women, and repeat the process, then further, then nothing. LOL> some will have made NEW babies to support too, along their way. thats how things evole. so don't think your alone. SOME are okay, others are selfish, others are plain mean. to everyone. but another man. try other states. to talk to. don't talk of money, or jobs. when any man asks if you work, say, i don't talk of my work, to men i haven't met in person, and WHY are you asking, do you need a woman to work for you? men are rude these days. THE MALE IS SUPPOSED TO BE THE PROVIDER of the woman. end of conversation. WOMen like to nurture someone, so nurture yourself, and don't let any man talk down to you. Try southern atlanta men, or carolina men,raleigh carolina, wilmington, charolette, carolina, FLORDIA., palm beach, boynton beach, Tampa. Ocala, florida. there are men flying women to them, and flying up to us. look up the areas zip codes down there. Men are lonely too , though some only think of sensuality as some are drunk nights some are just scary, disturbed, and go on sites for a hobby.
9/25/2008 5:53:43 AM	Why are men just lookin for booty??
whynotgrl Durham, NC age: 51	I guess men are just wired that way. If you are one of the ladies with a provocative photo the sexual come ons from the men will be more frequent. Guys are visual and if you show a lot of skin or breasts they will assume you want to get physical. I also know that these very same men that expect sexual contact immediately will trash these women behind their backs after the deed is done with their guy friends. Some women may not care but for the most part I think the younger women who give it up on the first date may not realize that the guy will take it and be happy (for the moment) but later will disrespect and trash talk about her to others. Guys can be so two-faced that way. Women cannot win. You are either labeled a Prude or a Wh*re.
10/15/2008 4:32:49 AM	Why are men just lookin for booty??
manning1971 Mars Hill, NC age: 38	this man looks at the person not the body. stev29
10/15/2008 6:47:20 AM	Why are men just lookin for booty??
coppermare Grady, AL age: 49	Quote from shmamie: I have learned that it is up to us. All men want "booty" and will take it if it is offered. However, if the guy is looking for more than a "booty call" and you give it up too soon he will lose respect for you and deem you no longer "relationship worthy". So in other words, he'll still sleep with you right away but there won't be a lasting relationship. The trick is to make him wait. But you can't make him wait too long, or he'll lose interest. It all depends on the guy, though. You really have to feel him out. No pun intended. lol Oh, by the way...I have talked to several guys about this and they actually admitted it. Sooo not true. Give men some credit for brains and character!!!

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