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1/20/2009 11:36:23 AM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
notez
Over 1,000 Posts (1,996)
Anderson, IN
age: 30


I would like to know if any guy's out there are really serious about finding love on this site? If so hit me up,I live in Anderson,Ind.

1/20/2009 3:29:33 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
kd8hho
Anderson, IN
age: 27


Quote from notez:
I would like to know if any guy's out there are really serious about finding love on this site? If so hit me up,I live in Anderson,Ind.


finding love on this site, it be nice. but ill beleve it when i see it

1/21/2009 4:42:24 AM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
baxtertucky
Anderson, IN
age: 32


I don't know about finding love on ANY site, really. I view this as just another internet site to try and meet people. I assume that people on this site are generally lonely like myself, and exploring every possibility to try and find somebody. Do I think I'm going to fall in love with somebody I meet on here? Logical me says probably not, but hopeful me says who knows? In any event, it takes a lot more than a few messages at a dating site to decide if you really love anybody.

1/21/2009 4:53:03 AM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
brothergc
Beech Grove, IN
age: 50


I am
If I may suggest that putting up a photo on your profile would greaty enhance your chances of meeting that special someone . Check out my profile and hit Me back if your interested

1/21/2009 6:24:56 AM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
woody08
Lawrenceburg, IN
age: 40


Anything is possible, but odds are against it. I did meet a fantastic woman on here several months ago, but it just didn't work out. Bad timing on both of our parts. So, it's possible. Me personally, I'd love to find that "perfect" person for me. If it's on this site or in the aisle at the grocery store. Until then, I'll keep searching...Hope fully she'll turn up on this site.

1/23/2009 11:21:22 AM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  

blue46819
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 27


I would really love to have a real relationship but sence i have been devorced i cant seem to find a honest woman who wants to be with an honest man so i have chose to stay single but i would love to try a relationship with an honest woman

1/25/2009 10:20:17 AM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  

harley9482
Over 1,000 Posts (1,621)
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 27


I genuinely and very sincerely am looking for a real relationship!

1/25/2009 12:19:20 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  

nny921
Over 1,000 Posts (1,308)
Georgetown, IN
age: 32


I'm looking for something but I don't think it'll come from this site or any other.

2/1/2009 7:11:46 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  

smailiw
Lafayette, IN
age: 62


I got on here (3 days ago) because I had no idea how to go about meeting people or talking to people. If you can't talk, you can't meet. If you can't meet, you can't fall in love. In three days I have talked with several wonderful women. Of course they are 500-2000 miles away, but hey, it's a start.(and I just heard from someone a mere 80 miles away. YES!) You gotta love talking or there is no point to this. So I'm pretty positive about it. On the other hand I didn't come into it expecting instant relationship.



[Edited 2/1/2009 7:12:24 PM PST]

2/5/2009 6:32:03 AM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
al400
Niles, MI
age: 45


I am. Otherwise I wouldn`t waste my time. It is better than meeting
someone by chance out there. Here you somewhat know what peoples intentions are.
Will I find "true love" don`t know, but Im giving it a shot.

2/6/2009 8:31:17 AM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
countryboy1289
Dyer, IN
age: 21


I am a nice country boy, lookin for nice down to earth white girl.

2/6/2009 8:35:05 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  

darren30
Carlisle, IN
age: 32


i would like to. question is, do any women know how to love someone and not just say it?

2/7/2009 5:44:41 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
trailrunner1983
Griffith, IN
age: 41


Yes, but it's looking like a "pipe dream". I'm beginning to wonder what the few women in my area are on this site for. I've had better luck on MySpace and that hasn't been so good either.

I bet as soon as I lower my expectations something will happen. Lol!

2/11/2009 7:20:50 AM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
allen286544
Terre Haute, IN
age: 44


hello i have been searching for a couple years for a true lasting relationship all i have found mostly is ones that want to use ya till they get what they want then dont hear from them again i have been on most of the sites and have no luck maybe it is just me without luck but i try to stay in here hoping one day it will find me i guess thats when they say nice guys finish last but it is still hard to wait cause the others tear them up and cant get any place with them any ideas how a nice honest man can find anyone cant google that one well anyway anyone interested in here

2/11/2009 5:22:28 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  

harley9482
Over 1,000 Posts (1,621)
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 27


I am certainly and sincerely looking for an authentic relationship

2/13/2009 6:09:00 AM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  

gipper73107ayhu
Carmel, IN
age: 36


Im seriously looking online mainly cause Im not into singles bars, but Im noticing some very distinct patterns of behaviour based on my own experience at least.. I suspect despite what ever similarites there are, we will all have slightly dfferent experiences based onour looks and personalities.

pretty girls never write back

big girls like black guys

younger girls like black guys

black women like white guys

sexy women like other women

older women (30s) just want sex without relationship, then get mad at you cause they feel like a sex object

Younger women say they want qualities usualy found in older guys, but arent interested in older guys

older guys want younger women

much older guys want any woman

and me, I dont care about age, but I do care about looks and personality. I dont care if shes my age, or older, as long as looks wise, we match. many women it seems who are in their 30s look like theyre in their 50s, and the rest, well like I stated above, they just use you for sex then get mad at you for wanting sex.. women!!!! I know this doesnt apply to everyone, I just havent found the right person who is different yet.

also, I want to be clear re the racial thing. just because I mention black guys or women, dont go thinking Im bad mouthing anyone. I shouldnt have to say this, but many people are very sensative.

2/13/2009 8:17:42 AM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
tsharp1961
Valparaiso, IN
age: 48


I'm looking for a real relationship. But I have been so tired of the bullshit head games that you women seem to enjoy playing. You say you want us men to be honest and "please" no head games. Well.....I am about telling the truth. ALWAYS. I know what I want, and am looking seriously to meet what that special lady. You women ask me all these question, then you freal out on the answers. Ladie's.......I am not a virgin, if you want a so called man, do you actually beleive he only got laid by his "X" ???? I don't expect you women out here to have just 1 lover in the past, and if that is the case, I don't want you. I want a woman has HAS EXPERIENCE, not a fridgid virgin. The thing is......people in general don't want to hear the truth. They are so used to being lied to, when someone like my self tells the truth about ANYTHING, they freak out. So........if you dont want to hear the truth ladies...dont ask us any questions, you might not like the answer. But then again.......not ALL MEN ARE LIKE ME. Lot of bull crap out here.....and personally....I am sick of hearing it. Thanks Mr. OBAMA.....The best bull-shitter on the planet.

2/14/2009 7:37:26 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  

carllove1
Austin, IN
age: 48


iam but i have to have trust frist, that a big deal with me. i whant someone that can start a new life with me carl just one woman a good one this time to menny

2/19/2009 7:53:39 AM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
countryboy1289
Dyer, IN
age: 21


pretty girls never write back

big girls like black guys

younger girls like black guys

black women like white guys

sexy women like other women

older women (30s) just want sex without relationship, then get mad at you cause they feel like a sex object

Younger women say they want qualities usualy found in older guys, but arent interested in older guys

older guys want younger women

much older guys want any woman






I want a gal that only been with white people and will only date white people. because that black and white shit is discusting and bullshit.

2/19/2009 9:14:23 AM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  

toymonkey
Indianapolis, IN
age: 47


Other than the last two I have to agree with you...what I have run into too.

Im an older guy and would love to meet someone my age, they know what its like int he real world. Thats not to say i dont email younger ladies as i do. But people my own age are really what I would like to find.

2/19/2009 4:31:45 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
cynthia_78
Bristol, IN
age: 31


Quote from countryboy1289:
pretty girls never write back

big girls like black guys

younger girls like black guys

black women like white guys

sexy women like other women

older women (30s) just want sex without relationship, then get mad at you cause they feel like a sex object

Younger women say they want qualities usualy found in older guys, but arent interested in older guys

older guys want younger women

much older guys want any woman






I want a gal that only been with white people and will only date white people. because that black and white shit is discusting and bullshit.



I have really tried to be nice on here lately but, what is up with all these negitive people lately. That kind of attitude is disgusting. Why don't you learn to phrase your sentences and spell right before you come on here bashing people. Love has no color. I can't stand ignorance.

2/20/2009 3:57:18 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
whisperinhollow
Carrollton, KY
age: 43


I'm not A Guy, but I can tell you Woody, STOP LOOKING!! Listen up..
when your NOT looking for a Chick is when she will show up.
it works every time,
I have given up on this site, people need to just be themselves, stop sugar coating everything, and get real. and for the Players out there who only care about them selves, what you put out comes back 10 fold, so be very careful,

2/23/2009 10:17:50 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
tex4806
Anderson, IN
age: 61


HECK ya, what a way to get things moving. To many game players on this site. Glad you asked.

2/24/2009 5:00:58 AM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
al400
Niles, MI
age: 45


I guess Im one of the lucky ones. I have found a few women that are interesting
and not psycho...
So for me it is working.

3/1/2009 5:09:23 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  

awesomebobkat
Terre Haute, IN
age: 38


If I could really fine a woman that's not set against having kids or more kids then yes ready set lets go

3/1/2009 5:21:05 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  

coach3435
Indianapolis, IN
age: 35


Looking and trying but you never know at least this is free lol.

3/3/2009 6:25:22 AM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
jdc5558
Williamsburg, IN
age: 52


Yes I am looking for a LTR here. I think you are pretty but alas, you are way too young for me. Good luck in your search.

3/4/2009 10:57:44 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  

bob46312
East Chicago, IN
age: 46


I can say I have have found a couple of women on these sites that have been LTR one of the ladies I still talk to as a friend The other ended because we grew apart I can't say it was my fault or hers. There is tons of bullshit you have to go thru to find these people but I think its worth the effort. But since I am currently not seeing anyone right now I decided to try this site to see what is going on

3/5/2009 4:40:01 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
soccerdad10
Valparaiso, IN
age: 53


wow Ireally would like a serious relationship with marriage if it leads to that but i am 52 yrs old with a son who lives with me.
Most women that i met don't want a man with a child.
and the few i went to meet have posted pics that are 10 yrs old or older i feel i was decieved i have also learned not meet 4 dinner they have all ordered the full meals and only ate the salads and bagged the rest Ialso am lookin 4 a honest woman and wonder if they exist over 30 and single. And there are many that just want sex and when i refuse they think im a homo
Iguess the blessing is that i find out right away and don't waste alot of time or money
and i am sick and tired of being ask what kind of car where do i live what kind of income ect they r not lookin for lov they r lookin at what u can do 4 them
BUT I keep the hope that God has another woman 4 me sumwhere but prob not here
TO ALL THE GUYS don't lose hope even though it now seems that we have more morals than most of the single women out there
GOOD LUCK 2 ALL

3/17/2009 2:22:25 AM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
tater2009
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,148)
Evansville, IN
age: 38


* raises hand *

3/19/2009 12:23:36 AM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
wantstruluv
Alexandria, IN
age: 27


everybody whats real everlastin love but ther has to b to individuals that feel the same towards one goal with each other

3/19/2009 2:59:02 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
funseeker_ru
Indianapolis, IN
age: 53


You never know where or how you meet a woman that will make you feel the way you do when it's right.

I'm tossing out my net far and wide to see who's out there that may be for me, if I meet a woman on this site, isn't that the point of being here?, or somewhere else this is just another mechanism to network to find her.

So to answer the question...love in the long run maybe so.

3/22/2009 10:11:14 AM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  

awesomebobkat
Terre Haute, IN
age: 38


Yeah I'd have to agree with you countryboy1289

3/22/2009 3:40:17 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  

skydivekabel
Dillsboro, IN
age: 61


I don,t know what I am looking for,but I will when and if it ever comes along.I think to form a lasting relationship you must be real good friends.I don,t believe in love at first sight,attraction but not love.Interests plays a big role as, do you want to hang with this person everyday,can you talk,do you listen,relationship are hard to keep going day in and day out and this to me is where your lover also has to be your best friend,on the web or at the store.

3/29/2009 1:51:42 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  

dwnhmectryboy
Shelbyville, IN
age: 50


of course i do

3/31/2009 6:18:17 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
jju85
Lowell, IN
age: 24


hey there whats up

3/31/2009 6:19:15 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
jju85
Lowell, IN
age: 24


i dont know what or how to do it but if you wanna text me and ill send you a pic i will from my phone. 219-695-1454. dont give it out plz.lol

3/31/2009 8:32:23 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
horneydad
Attica, IN
age: 37


hey im looking for a "real relationship. so if you feel like it hit me

4/2/2009 11:37:43 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
shawn156
Terre Haute, IN
age: 33


I gave up looking for someone from a dating site.I have met a few here and things just didn't work out.
One person was not who she said she was like and the other wasn't ready for anything.
I have found that there are plenty of single women out there.I talk to a few of them now,nothing really serious as we are still getting to know each other and then I will decide which one I like best when and if that time comes.Already leaning towards one but who knows,anything can happen.The one I am not really giving much thought to is on the rebound,never a good situation.



[Edited 4/2/2009 11:38:03 PM PST]

4/8/2009 1:11:43 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
bmg01
Solsberry, IN
age: 44


I will believe it when it does happen!!!

4/8/2009 10:26:25 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  

1dutch1
Indianapolis, IN
age: 48


i dont think that a lot of you guys know what it is these days "it"doesn't happen over night you have to work on "it" to make it happen
when you want to buy a car do you take the first one uhhh no you test drive one or two
is the same with this side you get to know a couple fine ladies and when you talk long enough with them you find what you looking for
i am just a couple days on this side and have had some nice comebacks and not so fine but i know i am not the "white knight" or prince charming but so are the ladies who are on this side ok there are very beautiful pictures on this side but what happends when you meet?
i keep up hope that i find some one its just a matter of time and expectations

good luck y'all

4/8/2009 11:33:53 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  

carracerace11
Indianapolis, IN
age: 20


i will believe it when it does happen... you can only use the internet for so much...

4/14/2009 8:17:23 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
derkman
Evansville, IN
age: 49


i'm lookin for love where ever i can find it,but i'm picky so it may take awhile,i'm patient i can wait for the right one to show up.till i'm just meeting new friends

4/18/2009 10:56:54 AM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  

greyhnd
Huntingburg, IN
age: 55 online now!


If you live in a heavily populated area, then you might have better luck just going out now and then. For some of us in the more rural areas, we don't have quite the selection to sort through so sites like this can be helpful. Not sure about finding true love, you find it where you find it, if you're lucky to find it at all.

It seems to me that folks are more hesitant these days to make a commitment. No one sits down and writes "love letters" anymore. How romantic is a "love email" anyway? The same with cards....e-cards are nice enough, but going to the mailbox and having a card with a nice note is kinda cool. i guess with all this cyber stuff, we sometimes forget to get someone's address. Maybe that's not a bad thing at first, but to me it shows maybe we don't really know the people we want to get to know. Just a thought.

4/22/2009 12:34:31 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
bmg01
Solsberry, IN
age: 44


Well I was looking for a friend and a relationship. But I dont think this sight is not working very well. There is one I have been talking to and I am interested in her, but she seems to be not interested. I do believe some of the women on here need to change there profiles.

4/25/2009 4:41:00 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  

max122961
Evansville, IN
age: 48


ME/ I AM. yoOHOO! HEY RIGHT HERE.

5/10/2009 12:12:50 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  

carllove1
Austin, IN
age: 48


it looks like most woman are not looking for a relationship. i hope we can get some woman on hear that is looking for a good man

5/10/2009 9:48:41 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  

free5555
Indianapolis, IN
age: 26


Quote from gipper73107ayhu:
Im seriously looking online mainly cause Im not into singles bars, but Im noticing some very distinct patterns of behaviour based on my own experience at least.. I suspect despite what ever similarites there are, we will all have slightly dfferent experiences based onour looks and personalities. pretty girls never write back big girls like black guys younger girls like black guys black women like white guys sexy women like other women truth

5/18/2009 2:58:24 AM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  

lonelyjuggalo
Michigan City, IN
age: 20


I've been alone for a while now so i turned to internet dating sites (thoes that are free) so far no luck, but i am looking for a seriouse relationship though hopefully with someone that is honest and loving for who i am.

5/19/2009 12:06:49 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
shaggy217
Avon, IN
age: 31


I know I am looking for a real relationship on here not a booty call. If that is what I wanted I would go to the clubs downtown. There are plenty of drunk women down there that are more than willing to give it up by closing time. I am on here for something a little more real. I would say most guys that are on here are the same as me. If we wanted something else than that there are other places to go for it.

Shawn

5/24/2009 5:12:26 AM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
soccerdad10
Valparaiso, IN
age: 53


WHAT IS IT with these women I JUST DON'T GET IT
I talked to 1 last night for 2 hours told her i was marriage minded, was looking for some 1 for the rest of my life and
she replied that she was also looking for some1 the rest of her life as well but didn't want to commit that marriage was in her future
AM I GOOFY FOR WANTING TO GET MARRIED AGAIN? She said that if after several years of living together that marriage could be an option
personally what is it all about just getting the benifits
every1 i have talked with ALL HAVE SAID they could not see having a relationship with a guy that didn't include sex
Ifind it very hard to believe that if ur over 30 and don't know how to use ur tools is a farsenow maybe they have a problem with telling you what to do but as far as sex it really is pretty easy
i know where it goes and i have a tounge that touches my nose
So y is the sex thing so important to these gurls and not the relationship
i can't believe they are so cold to the idea that love and commitment is the key not me just bangin their brains out which by the way i do like to do with the woman i love or be married to
Oh another thing how is it that they all believe in god or are spiritual and don't want to live by GODS rules
i wonder what i would b like if i had no rules and boinked every gurl with a pair of legs if i would even b alive and i wonder how it is that they are all well and clean when they have been with hundreds of men
ALSO i have in my profile my beliefs and standing on theses matters and they contact me
what just to tell it wont work cause i wont sleep with them
FORGIVE ME GUYS 4 VENTING I WONDER IF THEY ARE CHALLENGED BY A MORAL GUY

5/25/2009 12:26:01 AM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  

elchoforo33
Indianapolis, IN
age: 24


nope they get u heart for real but would i give it a chance

6/1/2009 12:58:04 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
brims1970
Plainfield, IN
age: 39


I am looking for a serious relationship, that will hopefully turn into marriage . Along with all that it may indure as well, love, friendship, and a lifetime spent with that absolute 1 . So in answer to your question , I AM !!!

6/3/2009 12:11:43 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  

rickey55
Indianapolis, IN
age: 30


I definetly am looking for something REAL. Actually I live near fishers, whats up??

6/4/2009 7:56:03 AM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
jeremymoore8286
North Manchester, IN
age: 27


not a 1 night stand kinda guy, and yes Im lookin for serious relationship. Hope we can find what we're lookin for

6/7/2009 4:13:28 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
mr_enigma
Indianapolis, IN
age: 22


I'm looking for a serious relationship...in my opinion hooking up with people online is harder than in person. I couldn't believe I actually met someone from this site. After that first date though... I am sure the feeling was mutual we didn't seem to connect, its not that she was unattractive or lied in her profile. A relationship wasn't going to work because we were on totally different paths, we didn't have the same kinds of goals...your very lucky if you find your true love via the web.Good luck.

6/8/2009 9:49:56 AM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  

dudejmmp
Anderson, IN
age: 23


I defenetely am.

6/10/2009 1:26:12 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  

jordon12
Decatur, IN
age: 36


I would very much like to find someone for a real relationship.It would also help if you had a picture.

6/10/2009 2:39:04 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
kmorris81
Indianapolis, IN
age: 21


you like who u like...color aint got shit to do with it. wake up.

6/10/2009 2:44:03 PM Okay,Who is really looking for a"real"relationship on here?(guys only)  
kmorris81
Indianapolis, IN
age: 21


Quote from cynthia_78:
I have really tried to be nice on here lately but, what is up with all these negitive people lately. That kind of attitude is disgusting. Why don't you learn to phrase your sentences and spell right before you come on here bashing people. Love has no color. I can't stand ignorance.




thank you...i really tried to chill, but that guy saying that its like how dare you? im mixed with black and white and my parents have been together for 26 years...you love who u love..u fall in love with who u fall in love with..i hate ignorance too..well said.