11/7/2007 5:31:25 PM |
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trinagirl
Riverdale, NJ
age: 47
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For the guys to come here and check out everything we post .
Just cause it says 'men keep out.'
its like that forbidden fruit. or eavesdropping in a secret club.
okay, havent we have done the same in the mens forum tooo?
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11/7/2007 5:34:14 PM |
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lawvixen
Oldsmar, FL
age: 54 online now!
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Most of the men have already spied on us, they just can't post...
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11/7/2007 7:32:43 PM |
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leila123
Liberty Hill, TX
age: 59
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Law and Trina.... I checked out the Man Land forum and wish I hadn't. Seems a recurring theme is they don't like us (women, in general) very much. I recall their descriptions of us as crabby, having no sense of humor, etc. This is from guys I've seen posting regularly and thought they were enjoying our forums, but now I'm not so sure. Left me feeling rather badly that they think so lowly of us. JMO
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11/7/2007 7:39:46 PM |
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lawvixen
Oldsmar, FL
age: 54 online now!
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leila the crabby post was posted in 50';s forum BY A FEMALE,gggggggggg WY was just repeating it for the men.
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11/7/2007 7:58:22 PM |
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leila123
Liberty Hill, TX
age: 59
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Yah... I've read that one before... it's not new. BUT... if you read several others, you may get the idea that I got.. maybe not. For example...check out one of their threads..."Is this cool or what." Seems pretty negative to me.
We could do the same, but I'd rather not waste my time here listing all the negative /annoying things about men that come to mind. Will promise you one thing, I don't plan to trespass in the guy's forum anymore.
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11/7/2007 8:06:02 PM |
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dilovelygurl
Carrollton, TX
age: 32
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Well I think those men that have said bad things about us women on their forum have had to have had bad experiences with women. They are saying those things because they have put us all into one category of crabby, mean etc etc...but in reality is that there are some nice women out there who are not like what they have experienced and we the good ones pay for the women who have burned them sorda speak.
But really ladies...don't we do the same at times too. Don't we generalize and put all men into one category when we get hurt too.
I am not saying this to be on their side, but I do have to be honest...I too have generalized men and put them all in one category when I have been hurt, mind you this was a long time ago and now I have realized that all men are not the same and they all individually deserve a chance...the benefit of the doubt.
There are some decent men out there for us, we just have to keep our minds and our hearts open to that possibility.
DI
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11/8/2007 5:39:48 AM |
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lazehorses
Fordyce, NE
age: 34
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I agree with leila and dilove.....
I've seen some ignorant posts by men in threads. Just one more way to weed those boys out. Doesn't bother me any, just a warning to steer clear of them. I didn't like the crabby post much either. I could tell a women had wrote it. We all need to realize that just because one person of a different gender feels a certain way doesn't mean they all do. I've had 4 kids and my biggest pet peeve is listening to whining PG women. I can't imagine what their husbands/bfs go through. My friend was like that. Their baby is 3 now and he STILL doesn't want any more! Longest 9 months he ever had. Poor guy.
Sorry to get off topic.......
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