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3/27/2009 11:07:26 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
caribedahlia
Lompoc, CA
age: 36


I don't want to see penis bulges either..........I was merely kidding.

3/27/2009 11:09:42 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
1dizzygirl
Gettysburg, PA
age: 19


hehe bulge shots! Push up bras are no use if you've got nothing to push up. Some guys say more than a mouthful is a waste but f*^# tht - thats why you've got two hands! I think guys should walk around wearing those things like in that music video "candy" by cameo. Check it out.

3/27/2009 11:09:58 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
tar_to_the_heel
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,782)
Greensboro, NC
age: 33


C'mon...not even one?...........for carie


dizzy, do you know what happens to men's gentalia as they begin to get older? Be careful what you wish for



[Edited 3/27/2009 11:11:02 AM PST]

3/27/2009 11:11:44 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
dorothy24
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,886)
Westwood, NJ
age: 39


oh this should be good

3/27/2009 11:19:22 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55


Quote from in_doubtalishis:
Women do have hoo hoos men have hee hees


So um yeah come on men start showin that penis clevage


sometimes the men have Ha-ha's

3/27/2009 11:21:15 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

hear2listen
Roswell, GA
age: 48


Quote from cdnjackal:
Once again Hear2listen, Let me clarify
1) the scenario you presents is just a " what if"
I tend to deal in realities

2)Or is it that you're somehow intimidated by the fact that they are comfortable with their sexuality and immediately need to find an explanation that would make them less human?

look the choice is are, if a woman who insecure and puts up " pics like that" well you can pretty much tell after reading their profile that they might have issues,baggage etc

If I go by what you're saying is if she intelligent and comes across as confident and intelligent and she shows cleavage pics, Am I to assume she's sleazy? or am I to think she maybe is very confident with her sexuality.

The same thing goes for the man, if he shows a shirtless pic, he has the body, but you see his profile and its not well written you would assume hes just a pretty boy but no brains just Eye candy, but if hes well spoken and looks good, he comes across as confident, maybe arrogant.... funny the double standards.

In my world I tend to assess people one on one before i make a decision.


I am not in the least, intimidated by a woman who is comfortable with their sexuality. I always prefer a responsive, lighthearted and self assured woman. To me, an explanation may make them seem all too human but would never make them any less human.

I agree with you that, assuming she is disclosing the truth, her words will inexorably give her away. But is it your belief that the vast majority of women who include such pictures in their profile are well adjusted, possess a sharp intellect and are content with themselves? Sure, there a few who are, but very few. For the record, I never said a woman was "sleazy" because she posted an alluring image. Please do not attribute words to me I did not use. That is not dealing fairly or realistically. I am including myself here when I say that everyone's reality is based on their own interpretations, personal experiences and idiosyncrasies. We all have an infinite capacity for self-deception.

I do thank you for your contribution to my forum topic.

3/27/2009 11:28:46 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55


Quote from hear2listen:
I am not in the least, intimidated by a woman who is comfortable with their sexuality. I always prefer a responsive, lighthearted and self assured woman. To me, an explanation may make them seem all too human but would never make them any less human.

I agree with you that, assuming she is disclosing the truth, her words will inexorably give her away. But is it your belief that the vast majority of women who include such pictures in their profile are well adjusted, possess a sharp intellect and are content with themselves? Sure, there a few who are, but very few. For the record, I never said a woman was "sleazy" because she posted an alluring image. Please do not attribute words to me I did not use. That is not dealing fairly or realistically. I am including myself here when I say that everyone's reality is based on their own interpretations, personal experiences and idiosyncrasies. We all have an infinite capacity for self-deception.

I do thank you for your contribution to my forum topic.


Y'all need to look at it this way, on a site like this you really don't have much available to attract attention, all you are doing is marketing yourself to potential suitors, and all successful advertising uses attention getting devices to grab someone's eye. in this case since I am marketing myself to men and I know that men are easily stimulated visually I use that to gain their attention. It really is simple marketing. Another plus is that using seductive pictures is a great tool for weeding out the many jerks that can be found, if a guy starts a message with something like "nice boobies" guess what, I've found a jerk!
So lighten up and have fun playing this silly game

3/27/2009 11:35:45 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
1dizzygirl
Gettysburg, PA
age: 19


Quote from tar_to_the_heel:
C'mon...not even one?...........for carie


dizzy, do you know what happens to men's gentalia as they begin to get older? Be careful what you wish for


ewww...true.

3/27/2009 11:38:09 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
evileddy
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,695)
Ottawa, ON
age: 36


Quote from hypnotic_1981:
Who cares? Cleavage is hot...and part of this whole love thing is about attraction...just because someone shows off their cleavage it doesn't mean they don't have anything else to bring to the table. Its sex appeal..


Agreed.. but if you advertise yourself in such a way don't be shocked from the attention you attract.

Also.. tits are great and attractive but once you get past those sacs of fat on a woman's chest.. does she have anything else to offer mentally?

3/27/2009 11:39:17 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

binderdundat
Over 2,000 Posts (2,906)
New Orleans, LA
age: 48


Quote from tjer1l:
Y'all need to look at it this way, on a site like this you really don't have much available to attract attention, all you are doing is marketing yourself to potential suitors, and all successful advertising uses attention getting devices to grab someone's eye. in this case since I am marketing myself to men and I know that men are easily stimulated visually I use that to gain their attention. It really is simple marketing. Another plus is that using seductive pictures is a great tool for weeding out the many jerks that can be found, if a guy starts a message with something like "nice boobies" guess what, I've found a jerk!
So lighten up and have fun playing this silly game


Now don't go making sense!!!!

Edited to add: I have to disagree with one thing though. If I put pics of my boobs out there... and I have... and I will again.... and I get 'nice tits' comments... I don't take offense OR think they are jerks. They are responding to what I'm presenting.

Now... that being said... if that's ALL they want to talk about... and if every conversation comes BACK to that... then I click off on them as they are only interested in one thing.



[Edited 3/27/2009 11:41:38 AM PST]

3/27/2009 11:52:29 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

judit0606
Over 2,000 Posts (3,766)
Big Stone Gap, VA
age: 52


Quote from evileddy:
Agreed.. but if you advertise yourself in such a way don't be shocked from the attention you attract.

Also.. tits are great and attractive but once you get past those sacs of fat on a woman's chest.. does she have anything else to offer mentally?



Thanks, OP, for this thread...I don't know, it's been a while since I've laughed THIS much...sigh!
Whatca know? I agree with evil on this one!!!
Ahhh, well...it'll "ALL" come out in the end, anyway, RIGHT?...PUN is, indeed, INTENDED here!ROTFLMAO

3/27/2009 12:04:40 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

wsprs0nthewind
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,422)
Powell, TN
age: 45


Quote from hear2listen:


wsprs0nthewind,

No reason to take my irreverent humor in a personal way. I was not generalizing and I have learned that a wise man will sacrifice even beauty for happiness. To me, intellect has always been a sexier endowment.



I didn't take it personal, I was just saying.

3/27/2009 12:05:48 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

brujacakes3
Jim Thorpe, PA
age: 37


It's really just a matter of personal preference.....everyone's taste for the attention they like to receive is unique. Some like physical attention,(cleavage shots, shirtless pics) some like mental attention (write great, interesting, humorous profiles), some like attention to their material possessions(car shots, boat pics). Different things make different folks feel confidant and attractive.
It's all good.

And let me tell you....our hearts, minds and souls do not attract near the attention our boobies do!

3/27/2009 12:07:18 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
evileddy
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,695)
Ottawa, ON
age: 36


Quote from brujacakes3:
It's really just a matter of personal preference.....everyone's taste for the attention they like to receive is unique. Some like physical attention,(cleavage shots, shirtless pics) some like mental attention (write great, interesting, humorous profiles), some like attention to their material possessions(car shots, boat pics). Different things make different folks feel confidant and attractive.
It's all good.

And let me tell you....our hearts, minds and souls do not attract near the attention our boobies do!



When a guy looks at a picture of a woman.. he can't really see her heart or mind or soul hanging out.. just sayin!

3/27/2009 1:09:43 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55


Quote from binderdundat:
Now don't go making sense!!!!

Edited to add: I have to disagree with one thing though. If I put pics of my boobs out there... and I have... and I will again.... and I get 'nice tits' comments... I don't take offense OR think they are jerks. They are responding to what I'm presenting.

Now... that being said... if that's ALL they want to talk about... and if every conversation comes BACK to that... then I click off on them as they are only interested in one thing.


Sure it's what you put out there but a guy who has brains can figure out a way to say nice titties in a gentlemanly way, a guy who emails you and just says "hey, you've got great boobs, let's screw" is an inarticulate boob.

3/27/2009 1:27:12 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
putridoid
North York, ON
age: 56


I wonder how many women here get their pics taken while they hang upside down, in order to get their boobies look provokative.

-

Edit: lady, up there above me, you don't need to use cheap tricks like that. I like that. Well done.

--

Edit after post below had been placed:

"a push up bra and a few open buttons does the trick"

How and where do I go to get a job as a "push-up bra"?



[Edited 3/27/2009 1:37:26 PM PST]

3/27/2009 1:28:41 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55


Quote from putridoid:
I wonder how many women here get their pics taken while they hang upside down, in order to get their boobies look provokative.


why bother with the upside down bit? a push up bra and a few open buttons does the trick

3/27/2009 1:31:09 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

judit0606
Over 2,000 Posts (3,766)
Big Stone Gap, VA
age: 52


Quote from evileddy:
When a guy looks at a picture of a woman.. he can't really see her heart or mind or soul hanging out.. just sayin!



WOW, evil, you're surprising me today with this turnabout from your usual evil comments and nonchalant attitude towards women???...with this serious stance in your posts on this thread! I think, I'm beginning to really like YOU!!! AND, that's NOT a "come on" just an observation...

3/27/2009 1:34:08 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
putridoid
North York, ON
age: 56


When a woman has her boobies hanging out, the guys wear their eyeballs popping out.

I like a woman whose heart is hanging out, or her brain. It shows courage, devotion, and frequent outdoor exercising in a minefield in a war-torn country.

3/27/2009 1:35:12 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
goodgato
Over 2,000 Posts (3,881)
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 45


Quote from bbw46reader:
Thanks to those reinforcing the misconception that big boobs=no brain=promiscuous. You have no idea how many I've had to leave metaphorically bleeding out after trying to act on just that assumption.


bbw46reader - I definitely did not mean to infer that large breasts equal ignorance or promiscuity. I have "healthy lungs" and I'm not a moron, either. I was asking that rhetorically (see context).

3/27/2009 1:36:14 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

yourfriendbob
Over 2,000 Posts (3,619)
Fayette, OH
age: 55


Quote from tjer1l:
Sure it's what you put out there but a guy who has brains can figure out a way to say nice titties in a gentlemanly way, a guy who emails you and just says "hey, you've got great boobs, let's screw" is an inarticulate boob.

By this same logic, a guy should post pictures with his penis mostly out and judge women to be crass or witless if they say, "Hey, nice penis." I would think anyone who didn't mention it was less than observant at best and stupid at worst.

3/27/2009 1:37:59 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
goodgato
Over 2,000 Posts (3,881)
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 45


It's not the body part, but the person the parts are attached to that matter. Sheesh!!

3/27/2009 1:40:28 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
chrisy2033
Sarasota, FL
age: 40


No cleavage shots here

3/27/2009 1:41:16 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
putridoid
North York, ON
age: 56


"It's not the body part, but the person the parts are attached to that matter. "

Is the sum of a woman better than her whole?

---

Edit: Chrisy, smarten up, will ya.



[Edited 3/27/2009 1:45:18 PM PST]

3/27/2009 1:43:41 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55


bob
you really don't know women, women are not visually stimulated like men are and most women would find a guy posing with his wanker exposed revolting.
now if a guy posed with his shirt off while doing something physical and showing his muscles bulging, that would be a different story

3/27/2009 2:41:34 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
cdnjackal
Etobicoke, ON
age: 45


So really here2listen, its about one perception
yes i agree there are some that post pics to garner attention, and I have to laugh at them because they also add, please no pervs, or rude comments or guys asking for sex and you read there profile and its like ok, is this person really really daft, or are they a piece of chicken short a snack pack.

On the other hand there are women who are intelligent,sensual and by adding seductive pics, just makes them more intriguing, provided there profile is so well written you can help but inquire.

3/27/2009 2:42:22 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

robtest
Over 2,000 Posts (3,390)
Norcross, GA
age: 48


hear2listen,

Send me some links and/or screen names. Evidently my search criteria is not turning up the same results that yours is! I find that odd as we live in fairly close proximity and are about the same age...

Now don't get me wrong here. I, myself, am looking for a well balanced package of physical, mental and emotional attributes, but being that men are visual creatures, seems like these women are being good salepeople.

3/27/2009 3:09:40 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
goddess56
Over 1,000 Posts (1,973)
Tulsa, OK
age: 60


It's my opinion (yes, I know) that you get back what you put out there. Cleavage? I have it. I'm one who's going to have it in a turtleneck. There's not much way to hide it if you do.

I could have posted any of a number of pictures that show it, but I chose not to. The man who is going to be the type I'm looking for will be one who sees my face, reads my profile, and likes who and what I am. I don't need cleavage or gimmicks (especially not silicone-enhanced boobs) to get someone to notice me. His first tiny little glimpse of what might lie underneath the surface will be when he is interested enough to ask me to meet.

3/27/2009 3:18:35 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
goodgato
Over 2,000 Posts (3,881)
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 45


Quote from putridoid:
"It's not the body part, but the person the parts are attached to that matter. "

Is the sum of a woman better than her whole?

---

Edit: Chrisy, smarten up, will ya.


With all the focus on cleavage, I was merely pointing out that the woman, in totality, her whole self, is what matters. Women are often objectified and their individual physical attributes get singled out; i.e., "nice tits", "nice ass", "nice teeth", "nice eyes"...get it? Gee, maybe Chrisy won't take offense at your sage tutelage...

3/27/2009 4:07:25 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

hear2listen
Roswell, GA
age: 48


Quote from tjer1l:
damm, you've figured me out! I guess I can quit the therapist now


The doctor is Real In. OK, the Doc looked. Doctors are only human, in the worst of ways.


Lovely response.

3/27/2009 4:13:09 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

hear2listen
Roswell, GA
age: 48


Quote from goodgato:
With all the focus on cleavage, I was merely pointing out that the woman, in totality, her whole self, is what matters. Women are often objectified and their individual physical attributes get singled out; i.e., "nice tits", "nice ass", "nice teeth", "nice eyes"...get it? Gee, maybe Chrisy won't take offense at your sage tutelage...


I enjoy a woman's laughter. Is that considered to be part of her mind or body?



[Edited 3/27/2009 4:34:31 PM PST]

3/27/2009 4:22:51 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55


Quote from hear2listen: So would you agree that we attract what we fear?

Fear??
I like most women on GH attract a few jerks and I also meet some nice people here, the jerks are easy to deal with and ever once in awhile you strike gold.
The beauty of a site like this is that you don't have to put up with anyone who gets out of line, you can just block them and they are gone



[Edited 3/27/2009 4:23:17 PM PST]

3/27/2009 5:05:05 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

rocket000
Over 1,000 Posts (1,626)
Murrayville, GA
age: 51


I agree with the OP, Bleu,goddess and a few of the posters who feel it's not necessary to display all your attributes to the world.

3/27/2009 6:28:41 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
putridoid
North York, ON
age: 56


"When they come to realize that using that method only leads to them being looked upon as objects instead of people the damage is already done,... etc."

I dunno. I've never wanted to make, or have made, mad and furious love to an object, per se. Kleenex tissues are a singular exception.

I, for one, am completely fascinated by the size of mammaries, as well as by their consistency, texture, weight, diameter, and specific gravity. Call me strange, but I prefer making my own children, instead of letting a test-tube manufacturer do it for me, I still believe in getting turned on by the beauty of a slut, no matter how unpopular that has become in the present-day middle-class mixed-company social millieux at work and at home, and I look at women discretely, each by each, but with a lot of self-absorbed wishful thinking.

As they say, if it was only thought that really counted, how come so few women are pregnant?



[Edited 3/27/2009 6:36:09 PM PST]

3/27/2009 9:06:05 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
goddess56
Over 1,000 Posts (1,973)
Tulsa, OK
age: 60


Quote from zhonehead:
Women assume all men are fascinated with the size of their mammery glands so a lot of them think its cute to try and garner attention from men that way. When they come to realize that using that method only leads to them being looked upon as objects instead of people the damage is already done, men tend to dis respect or not take them seriously and all of a sudden its all mens' faults.


You're right, zhone...and you don't know how badly I hate to say that...

3/27/2009 9:07:20 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
alaskaway
Clear, AK
age: 42


childish and imature if that's all men think about!

Women have brains and compassion too

3/28/2009 1:27:02 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

rhondadazed
Portland, OH
age: 46


because of many reasons,women show off there attributes. and some are sad. but if you think of you body as beautiful. such as art,then i can see the purpose.some ppl have different reasons. why do men have to show there ripped abs? or offer to show off there size. its not just women. yes i must admitt, it would be easier to show off your brains but not all people feel they have them or dont communicate that well. its up to us to educate our friends and families, and listen to the heart as well as the mind,to understand.

3/28/2009 2:10:31 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

khrystaleroxx
Over 2,000 Posts (2,720)
Haltom City, TX
age: 39


Have you been to the stores and seen what choices females have to buy to wear??
It's all cleavage-baring and/or skin-tight!

My pics are decent and I won't buy those clothes offered to females today!

3/28/2009 5:22:45 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

wsprs0nthewind
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,422)
Powell, TN
age: 45


To me this is the same as the pictures of the guys on here with no shirts. Same difference. But we do have the option to simply click on to the next picture/profile when we realize that what we are looking at isn't something that appeals to us. It takes all kinds of people and there will be many that do enjoy looking at the clevage/shirtless pics, I'm sure.

3/28/2009 5:38:23 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

hear2listen
Roswell, GA
age: 48


Quote from putridoid:
"When they come to realize that using that method only leads to them being looked upon as objects instead of people the damage is already done,... etc."

I dunno. I've never wanted to make, or have made, mad and furious love to an object, per se. Kleenex tissues are a singular exception.

I, for one, am completely fascinated by the size of mammaries, as well as by their consistency, texture, weight, diameter, and specific gravity. Call me strange, but I prefer making my own children, instead of letting a test-tube manufacturer do it for me, I still believe in getting turned on by the beauty of a slut, no matter how unpopular that has become in the present-day middle-class mixed-company social millieux at work and at home, and I look at women discretely, each by each, but with a lot of self-absorbed wishful thinking.

As they say, if it was only thought that really counted, how come so few women are pregnant?


I enjoy attempting to decipher your thoughts. They are as avant-garde as a Dali or Escher painting. I may not understand a word you have written but I'll defend to the death, your right to confuse me. I too believe in the old-fashioned ideal of romance. Gratuitous debauchery made possible through coercion, disingenuous compliments and an overabundance of her hallucinogenic beverage of choice.

Oh, I just noticed the time. I really must go. I'm due back on planet earth.

3/28/2009 5:47:55 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
likestolaugh04
Brockton, MA
age: 49


I have always thought that maybe they have low self esteem and want to make sure someone responds to them. I myself, never respond to men who's profile picture is of them standing in a room with no shirt on or trying to show off their muscles. I am hoping to find someone a little less shallow

3/28/2009 5:52:07 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
goodgato
Over 2,000 Posts (3,881)
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 45


Quote from hear2listen:
I enjoy a woman's laughter. Is that considered to be part of her mind or body?


Both?

3/28/2009 6:47:56 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

mike4b
Foxboro, MA
age: 47


I find it to be quiet amazing that many of you gals that state not seeking one nighters or physical only, whom in your profile appear to seek substance have such revealing photos. Not only cleavage shots but thigh exposure, a lot of it in your beds abdominal poses,rear end shots. Yes gals I too enjoy a beautiful body, but isnt your photo to prereqiusite a little confusing? Seems like a double standard to me. How accepting would you be if gentlemen started using pelvic photos?

3/28/2009 7:05:55 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
leodizdren
Newark, NJ
age: 32


Quote from cinthianna01:
Trillon dollar sex industry and you haven't figured it out...


duhhhhhhhhh

I like boobies! ::lol::

3/28/2009 7:14:11 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
garyguitar
Franklin, NJ
age: 54


Quote from thebestman:
Everyone has the right to do whatever they like.

HOWEVER,

There are always consequences good or bad to said actions. And the ones that do post boobs, a** shots or whatever sexual things shouldn't complain if they.

One thing that should be noted is hypocrisy. Many of the ones that post cleavage which obviously depicts attention and obviously sexual in nature; when they receive prude notes from men regarding their pix and or when they talk sexual in the beginning, now the light switch is turned off. They no longer want to be viewed as a sex object, but that's what they are advertising in the first place.

It's no different than spring break, mardi gras, and other big events where women show lots of their body parts damn near half naked, but don't want to be viewed as a sex object where all the testosterone in the air. Big contradiction.

If ya don't want to be viewed as a sex object and don't want to receive sexual notes and connotations from men, then simply don't put ya self out there like that.

If ya can deal with the potential testosterone emails, gestures, talk, etc... then be the all the mens' guest.

Just like women have the right to dress and shape up their profile whether sexual in nature by putting the focus on their boobs, ass, etc., or post modest pix, men have the right to view them however they want to based on what's being depicted.

To each's own.


Quote from cdnjackal:
Once again Hear2listen, Let me clarify
1) the scenario you presents is just a " what if"
I tend to deal in realities

2)Or is it that you're somehow intimidated by the fact that they are comfortable with their sexuality and immediately need to find an explanation that would make them less human?

look the choice is are, if a woman who insecure and puts up " pics like that" well you can pretty much tell after reading their profile that they might have issues,baggage etc

If I go by what you're saying is if she intelligent and comes across as confident and intelligent and she shows cleavage pics, Am I to assume she's sleazy? or am I to think she maybe is very confident with her sexuality.

The same thing goes for the man, if he shows a shirtless pic, he has the body, but you see his profile and its not well written you would assume hes just a pretty boy but no brains just Eye candy, but if hes well spoken and looks good, he comes across as confident, maybe arrogant.... funny the double standards.

In my world I tend to assess people one on one before i make a decision.


Well put also.

Absolutely well put answer.
I enjoy cleavage, butts, legs, all the female attributes they feel like showing. But if you post that you don't want to be a sex object, don't want dirty emails,etc. (I DON'T BLAME YOU AT ALL) then, don't post provacative pictures. "Look at my boobs, but don't treat me like a sex object" is a complete oxymoron.

3/28/2009 7:56:01 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
lovesmypugs
Dahlonega, GA
age: 42


The only puppies I am showing on my profile are..well..actually puppies.

3/28/2009 8:03:49 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
randacoolll
Lawrenceville, GA
age: 39


You can dress attractively, and even sexily, without making yourself look like a tasteless skank. A women who dresses low class can't expect people to treat her repsectfully, since she herself dresses like a sex object.
Clothes say a lot about who we are and even what we're into.
You can't give one message, and then get mad and expect another response than the one you're dressing for.I *like* sexy clothes. But there's a difference between looking alluring and looking cheap.

3/28/2009 8:35:19 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55


the women who get treated like trash are the ones who allow it to happen!
if I meet a guy who doesn't know how to treat a woman properly I ditch them ASAP

3/28/2009 9:43:12 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
garyguitar
Franklin, NJ
age: 54


Quote from randacoolll:
You can dress attractively, and even sexily, without making yourself look like a tasteless skank. A women who dresses low class can't expect people to treat her repsectfully, since she herself dresses like a sex object.
Clothes say a lot about who we are and even what we're into.
You can't give one message, and then get mad and expect another response than the one you're dressing for.I *like* sexy clothes. But there's a difference between looking alluring and looking cheap.


You go, girl!! I like your answer.
From the girl with tasteful pix and beautiful brown eyes. Too bad you're in Ga.



[Edited 3/28/2009 9:44:49 AM PST]

3/28/2009 10:07:35 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
blondangel2008
Jacksonville, AR
age: 46


That's what most men I guess want to see. I on the other hand prefer a man guessing what I look like underneath these clothes, it's more intriguing.

3/28/2009 11:52:50 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

stl1
Over 1,000 Posts (1,751)
Saint Louis, MO
age: 55


And what is up with the gals with ink all over their cleavage?









TITTYTATS????????

3/28/2009 11:54:30 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
ptercar96
Winder, GA
age: 44


Quote from randacoolll:
You can dress attractively, and even sexily, without making yourself look like a tasteless skank. A women who dresses low class can't expect people to treat her repsectfully, since she herself dresses like a sex object.
Clothes say a lot about who we are and even what we're into.
You can't give one message, and then get mad and expect another response than the one you're dressing for.I *like* sexy clothes. But there's a difference between looking alluring and looking cheap.



3/28/2009 12:00:06 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

drummaster777
Over 1,000 Posts (1,824)
Auburn, WA
age: 34


I think this perfectly sums it up:



3/28/2009 12:13:05 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
milas83
Over 2,000 Posts (3,091)
Philadelphia, PA
age: 27


Quote from drummaster777:
I think this perfectly sums it up:




Bravo! Bravo! Bravo!

Dave Chapelle may be funny, but he made a damn good point that a lot of women don't understand right now.

Don't confuse people. Like Dave said, if I dress like a cop, and someone comes to me for help, that person will be confused. Why confuse people? It just comes to show just how many games women play with men.

3/28/2009 12:22:50 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
milas83
Over 2,000 Posts (3,091)
Philadelphia, PA
age: 27


Quote from randacoolll:
You can dress attractively, and even sexily, without making yourself look like a tasteless skank. A women who dresses low class can't expect people to treat her repsectfully, since she herself dresses like a sex object.
Clothes say a lot about who we are and even what we're into.
You can't give one message, and then get mad and expect another response than the one you're dressing for.I *like* sexy clothes. But there's a difference between looking alluring and looking cheap.




3/28/2009 6:31:21 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
putridoid
North York, ON
age: 56


"That's what most men I guess want to see. I on the other hand prefer a man guessing what I look like underneath these clothes, it's more intriguing."

To whom? Falling asleep beside a fridgid nun is not what I'd call intriguing.

3/28/2009 7:38:40 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55


Quote from putridoid:
"That's what most men I guess want to see. I on the other hand prefer a man guessing what I look like underneath these clothes, it's more intriguing."

To whom? Falling asleep beside a fridgid nun is not what I'd call intriguing.


now I don't care who you are, that's funny!

3/28/2009 11:59:02 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
ky_brown_eyes
Henderson, KY
age: 68


Hear2Listen, The show their cleavage because MEN LOVE IT!! Men see BOOBS before they know they have a face.

3/29/2009 9:39:44 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
lolsmile
Over 2,000 Posts (2,148)
Everett, WA
age: 47


Quote from eimi:
smile why no pic?

Call me a nut any day of the week...I try to figure out what kind I am but seems if I were a bag of them it'd be mixed.

Im sorry I didnt' compliment her on acting like she is better then everyone and smarter.

You sure say a lot for a shadow...do you feel the op posted this in a non respectful manner or without some thought...because I don't.

That is why I felt her comment was out of place. One thing is for sure nobody will see too much cleavage on your profile smile


RFLMFAO, your ignorance is showing by assuming such. Why don't I have a pic? Simple, it attracts to many that just see that and hit the button without checking the profile. Got sick and tired of just getting hit on, and no, wasn't any kind of suggestive pic, if anything what I put is basic plain jane, or a joke. But still, the pervs just click as if I was being lumped in with the trashy types that would settle for a quickie etc. IF I find someone for any kind of relationship, it will be because they like me for me, not because they want some damned ornament on their arm. I am secure enough in what I am, and proud enough of who I am, to not feel the NEED to use my appearance. Leave that for those that are more desperate, with less to give from the inside. Let those types rely on their outsides. I would prefer to find a real, genuine person, not just a f*ck buddy.

Just occurred to me, regarding the pics people post in general, has anyone else noticed how many obese (a few extra pounds) bring that camera up so close that ALL you can see is the face or maybe the boobs too (FYI- boobs are fat, the fatter you are, the bigger they get, the Dolly Pardon build is a very RARE CASE, so beware boys LOL). Not so many actually let you see them from head to toe, and I have heard so many guys complain about how she said she was so big, and when she showed up for coffee was two or three times the size she claimed.



[Edited 3/29/2009 9:43:59 AM PST]

3/29/2009 9:44:43 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
chapstick71
Boca Raton, FL
age: 38


I put my cleavage all over the place.