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3/26/2009 3:58:22 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
hear2listen
Roswell, GA
56, joined Jul. 2008


I am about as much of a prude as Fellini behind a film camera but the blatant use if cleavage spillage is perplexing. Almost every woman on this site demands that a man treat her with respect but they will show you more chest on-line for free and without even having to ask nicely, than if you paid them in private. I realize that most women will accentuate the best attribute. If they are a bit long in the tooth but have a great body they will advertise the bod'. If they are a bit homely but have million dollar legs you'll get plenty of thigh to gaze at. If they are flat chested but the rump is a work of art, they will constantly walk in front of you. If they do not have the face, body, legs or behind, they rely on their ta-tas in an attempt to get noticed. It is a big game from the gender who insists they hate game playing. I swear, one women must have used a ceiling cam to get that kind of aerial view for her profile pic. Even if a guy dated her for six months he'd never see them from that angle, unless of course foreplay took place while he was on the top rung of a ladder.

Modest, reserved and unpretentious women are very attractive. A woman who posts overtly revealing pictures of herself is disclosing more than skin. It shouts volumes about her character and her priorities. There is plenty of time to show your feminine charms. Once you start the dating process they will still be there, no matter if the rapport develops into a serious relationship or casual liaison. Ladies, if you still feel the urge to bare something personal in order to attract a man, try your heart, your mind and your soul.

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3/26/2009 4:00:20 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
honestami
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,205)
Ravenna, OH
61, joined Dec. 2008


Funny stuff,,,,and you are observant and smart and I bet they know exactly why they do it too!!!

3/26/2009 4:01:21 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

ladyog
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,904)
Erlanger, KY
61, joined Feb. 2009




3/26/2009 4:03:43 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

k_tothe_c
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (23,656)
Las Vegas, NV
47, joined Dec. 2008


...well put!!!

3/26/2009 4:06:55 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
cuziffer
Greenwood, WI
41, joined Jul. 2008


Quote from hear2listen:
I am about as much of a prude as Fellini behind a film camera but the blatant use if cleavage spillage is perplexing. Almost every woman on this site demands that a man treat her with respect but they will show you more chest on-line for free and without even having to ask nicely, than if you paid them in private. I realize that most women will accentuate the best attribute. If they are a bit long in the tooth but have a great body they will advertise the bod'. If they are a bit homely but have million dollar legs you'll get plenty of thigh to gaze at. If they are flat chested but the rump is a work of art, they will constantly walk in front of you. If they do not have the face, body, legs or behind, they rely on their ta-tas in an attempt to get noticed. It is a big game from the gender who insists they hate game playing. I swear, one women must have used a ceiling cam to get that kind of aerial view for her profile pic. Even if a guy dated her for six months he'd never see them from that angle, unless of course foreplay took place while he was on the top rung of a ladder.

Modest, reserved and unpretentious women are very attractive. A woman who posts overtly revealing pictures of herself is disclosing more than skin. It shouts volumes about her character and her priorities. There is plenty of time to show your feminine charms. Once you start the dating process they will still be there, no matter if the rapport develops into a serious relationship or casual liaison. Ladies, if you still feel the urge to bare something personal in order to attract a man, try your heart, your mind and your soul.



Shhhhhhhhhhh! They might remove those cleavage pics! Those pics are the only reason I keep coming back here dagnabit!

3/26/2009 4:07:01 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

moraldk325
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,628)
State College, PA
53, joined Aug. 2008


I rather like the cleavage and leg shots....but, then...I'M HETEROSEXUAL.

3/26/2009 4:17:03 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
noredneckhere
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,335)
Knoxville, TN
57, joined Apr. 2008


Gawd, what's up with all these "guys suck up to women" threads ?

Hmmmm.....maybe it works.

Yea, yea..I'm sure it does.

That's why the biddies are always posting "He said all the right things, but he was just using me, and now I'm stuck with 2 poop monkeys !!"




3/26/2009 4:19:24 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
missmmeoftheday
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,502)
Brooklyn, NY
51, joined May. 2008


I don't know, OP.... I tried baring my heart, mind and soul...

and they still clamored for the boobs....

3/26/2009 4:20:53 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
darlinshel
Over 2,000 Posts (3,654)
Clayton, NC
49, joined Jan. 2009




3/26/2009 4:25:52 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
beu24
Over 2,000 Posts (2,291)
Virginia Beach, VA
58, joined May. 2008


Wanting attention

3/26/2009 4:26:49 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
evileddy
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,652)
Ottawa, ON
44, joined Jan. 2008


This board is severely lacking in cleavage.. allow me to fix:





3/26/2009 4:27:28 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
eimi
Over 1,000 Posts (1,331)
Jacksonville, FL
44, joined Jan. 2009


Quote from moraldk325:
I rather like the cleavage and leg shots....but, then...I'M HETEROSEXUAL.



you tell him!!

First time I ever heard a guy complain about seeing ta ta's. So if a woman has cleavage she doesn't deserve respect or where you looking more for the little boy chested women?

3/26/2009 4:28:04 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

moraldk325
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,628)
State College, PA
53, joined Aug. 2008


Quote from evileddy:
This board is severely lacking in cleavage.. allow me to fix:





HOLY SHIT! That's enough for TWO forums!

3/26/2009 4:42:17 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

tryagaindj68
Over 2,000 Posts (2,294)
Evansville, IN
49, joined Aug. 2008


Hey, I chose an outfit my last boyfriend liked me in because this is a DATING website.

Besides, I don't bare my heart, mind, and soul for just anyone.

3/26/2009 4:42:42 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

babyblu59
Cumming, GA
58, joined Mar. 2009


I think If a woman feels the need to show her breasts day one it is a sign of insecurity personally.

3/26/2009 4:48:51 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

moraldk325
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,628)
State College, PA
53, joined Aug. 2008


Quote from babyblu59:
I think If a woman feels the need to show her breasts day one it is a sign of insecurity personally.



Well...uh....PERHAPS. But as far as "insecurities" go, that is one I could live with. There are far far more VILE manifestations of insecurity, eh?
Kinda reminds me of Varuka Salt telling Willy Wanka that spitting was a disgusting habit....while picking her nose.
*wink*

3/26/2009 4:51:24 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
eimi
Over 1,000 Posts (1,331)
Jacksonville, FL
44, joined Jan. 2009


Quote from babyblu59:
I think If a woman feels the need to show her breasts day one it is a sign of insecurity personally.


I know woman that are extremely comfortable and proud of their body so they don't feel a need to hide it.

3/26/2009 4:53:36 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
hear2listen
Roswell, GA
56, joined Jul. 2008


To all the gang that have responded to my original topic,

Everyone one of you are just great. Some of the funniest, most entertaining responses I have ever seen. Keep up the good work and thanks for the mammaries!

3/26/2009 4:53:40 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
howardc42
Over 1,000 Posts (1,656)
Greeley, CO
51, joined Sep. 2008


<---HEART AND SOUL IN THE CLEAVAGE--->
I understand what your trying to say.Sure us guys say we want nice girls in our lives.But the truth is,if the woman wants your attention,she'll show you some cleavage to proove it.

3/26/2009 4:54:17 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
beu24
Over 2,000 Posts (2,291)
Virginia Beach, VA
58, joined May. 2008


Quote from eimi:
I know woman that are extremely comfortable and proud of their body so they don't feel a need to hide it.


I am extremly proud of my body because it is AWESOME but I am always fully clothed with nothing showing. It shows sophistication.

3/26/2009 4:55:30 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
eddwood
Edinboro, PA
46, joined Mar. 2009


Boobies are fun to play with and squeeze and bounce up and down.

3/26/2009 4:56:04 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
goddess56
Over 1,000 Posts (1,957)
Tulsa, OK
67, joined Jun. 2006


Some women are going to show cleavage in a turtleneck sweater!

The only time any part of my "girls" gets shown is in an intimate relationship, and heaven knows they haven't seen one of those in a very long time.

3/26/2009 4:57:57 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

moraldk325
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,628)
State College, PA
53, joined Aug. 2008


Quote from beu24:
I am extremly proud of my body because it is AWESOME but I am always fully clothed with nothing showing. It shows sophistication.


Ahhhh...Sophistication!
Yet another big word to explain someone's self serving mannerism.

3/26/2009 4:58:48 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
macjim
Colorado Springs, CO
71, joined Apr. 2008


Quote from evileddy:
This board is severely lacking in cleavage.. allow me to fix:


I think the octamom needs them!

3/26/2009 4:59:46 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
eddwood
Edinboro, PA
46, joined Mar. 2009


Quote from moraldk325:
Ahhhh...Sophistication!
Yet another big word to explain someone's self serving mannerism.


Moral, tattooing some boobies must be alot of fun (then again, I have seen some of the clientele when I have gone to the parlor).

3/26/2009 5:01:40 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
missmmeoftheday
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,502)
Brooklyn, NY
51, joined May. 2008


What's not sophisticated about a woman who has breasts and accentuates them?

That's like saying that a woman with gorgeous lips shouldn't wear lipstick because men will see her lips and want to kiss her...

the "shame" we associate with our bodies is unreal; we wonder why there is a stigma attached to our actions and our ideas.... it's because we attach it.

Let's be honest here... I have cleavage when I wear a turtleneck.

My profile pic may be provocative, but it's a nice shot. And men like how I look. More importantly, I LIKE how I look.

Men also like how I speak, how I think, how I behave.... I'm the whole package.

Those who look beyond the boobs know that.

3/26/2009 5:04:20 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
happyface46
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,042)
Palm City, FL
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3/26/2009 5:05:45 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

ladyog
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,904)
Erlanger, KY
61, joined Feb. 2009


Alright guys you forced the issue.....


I'll show ya my titties.....



"Lifts up the bottom of my jeans"......

3/26/2009 5:06:18 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

moraldk325
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,628)
State College, PA
53, joined Aug. 2008


Quote from missmmeoftheday:What's not sophisticated about a woman who has breasts and accentuates them?
That's like saying that a woman with gorgeous lips shouldn't wear lipstick because men will see her lips and want to kiss her...
the "shame" we associate with our bodies is unreal; we wonder why there is a stigma attached to our actions and our ideas.... it's because we attach it.
Let's be honest here... I have cleavage when I wear a turtleneck.
My profile pic may be provocative, but it's a nice shot. And men like how I look. More importantly, I LIKE how I look.
Men also like how I speak, how I think, how I behave.... I'm the whole package.
Those who look beyond the boobs know that.




Huh? What? Did you say something???
I'm sorry, I was busy looking at your boobs.

3/26/2009 5:07:59 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
missmmeoftheday
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,502)
Brooklyn, NY
51, joined May. 2008


Quote from moraldk325:
Huh? What? Did you say something???
I'm sorry, I was busy looking at your boobs.


that's ok... I was busy stealing your wallet...

3/26/2009 5:14:55 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
msbevzie
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,798)
Oregon, OH
53, joined Aug. 2008


YOU are a very wise man...I have no idea why to get attention I am sure...some get themselves in ALOT of trouble that way...then they wonder why things go wrong.

3/26/2009 6:01:33 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
noredneckhere
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,335)
Knoxville, TN
57, joined Apr. 2008


Quote from ladyog:
Alright guys you forced the issue.....


I'll show ya my titties.....



"Lifts up the bottom of my jeans"......


You, madam, are such a LIAR.......

If your boobs were sagging, that eagle tattoo would look like a duck on the wrong end of a 12 guage.

Can't ignore the evidence, I bet they're still volumptuous

3/26/2009 6:11:28 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
hear2listen
Roswell, GA
56, joined Jul. 2008


Help me understand how breasts or cleavage is somehow a sign of sophistication? Unless your boobs graduated from finishing school I don't believe there is anything sophisticated about them. There are more than a few gals who tend to flaunt their charms to make up for their cerebral shortcomings. That is why I do try to make annual contributions to The National Endowment For The Tarts.


Only kidding ladies. I just felt a need to add to the comic relief! Don't get 'em in an uproar.

3/26/2009 6:23:12 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
maryg2
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (25,407)
Philadelphia, PA
47, joined Oct. 2008


hey, to each their own i say..if women choose to show it, then they do. i personally dont have the cleavage to show and even if i did, i wouldnt. cuz thats not me. dont have any legs to show...well, actually one pic i do but they arent long lean legs...i am who i am and i think i still get enuf attn. i do have to say i dont get a lot of emails that constantly comment about my "body" only and i like that...cuz then it would bother me...but then again if thats all that i was showing, then i guess i cant complain.

guys will always look at the boobs and butt and legs more than the pretty face first! in that order too!

3/26/2009 6:35:30 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
goodgato
Over 2,000 Posts (3,832)
Fort Lauderdale, FL
52, joined Feb. 2009


I don't know why some of them do that, but it's definitely their right to portray themselves as they wish.

3/26/2009 6:37:17 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
in_doubtalishis
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,773)
Beaumont, CA
42, joined Oct. 2008


Its called advertising. Sex sells.

3/26/2009 6:38:27 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
waterluvr75
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,326)
Spring Lake, NJ
42, joined Apr. 2008


OP Quoted....."Modest, reserved and unpretentious women are very attractive. A woman who posts overtly revealing pictures of herself is disclosing more than skin. It shouts volumes about her character and her priorities. There is plenty of time to show your feminine charms. Once you start the dating process they will still be there, no matter if the rapport develops into a serious relationship or casual liaison. Ladies, if you still feel the urge to bare something personal in order to attract a man, try your heart, your mind and your soul."

OP I totally agree! I posted a thread in regards to something of this nature regarding half nude pics, lingerie pics, and women dropping provocative pics into any guy on here that would open his inbox. They hand these pics out like business cards and what some don't realize is some guys here use them like baseball trading cards to laugh and talk about them.

I got berated by some very angry women, one in particular, when I made that thread. However, ALOT of guys completely agreed that it was not a 'respectful' thing.

My point was on the fact that 'some' women that act this way scream, shout, jump up and down and make b*tchy whiney threads about how guys never give them respect and only looking for sex and treat them like objects...Heeellloooooooooooooooo ahaha

But I agree with you OP...some send out those negative vibes and then can't figure out why they are getting negative back.

I'm not a prude either...but just feel those kinds of pics should be private for you and you significant other and not for the internet world and free world to see....JMO

3/26/2009 6:48:45 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
jdc5558
Williamsburg, IN
60, joined Feb. 2009


Quote from tryagaindj68:
Hey, I chose an outfit my last boyfriend liked me in because this is a DATING website.

Besides, I don't bare my heart, mind, and soul for just anyone.



Your last boy friend had very good taste.

3/26/2009 6:53:42 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

wsprs0nthewind
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (25,318)
Powell, TN
53, joined Mar. 2009


Excuse me, none of my pictures show clevage. TYVM

Quote from hear2listen:
Help me understand how breasts or cleavage is somehow a sign of sophistication? Unless your boobs graduated from finishing school I don't believe there is anything sophisticated about them. There are more than a few gals who tend to flaunt their charms to make up for their cerebral shortcomings. That is why I do try to make annual contributions to The National Endowment For The Tarts.


Only kidding ladies. I just felt a need to add to the comic relief! Don't get 'em in an uproar.


I don't have cerebral short comings.



[Edited 3/26/2009 6:55:07 PM ]

3/26/2009 7:01:04 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
cinthianna01
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,936)
Goshen, IN
97, joined Mar. 2009


Trillon dollar sex industry and you haven't figured it out...

3/26/2009 7:04:18 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
allen3522
La Grange, IL
43, joined Mar. 2009


here for the close ups

3/26/2009 7:12:23 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
yourfriendbob
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,396)
Fayette, OH
62, joined Oct. 2008


Nothing beats a nice rack...

Photobucket

3/26/2009 7:13:51 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

stl1
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,855)
Saint Louis, MO
63, joined Jun. 2007


Ya seen one, ya seen em both ..............................usually

3/26/2009 7:14:08 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
goodgato
Over 2,000 Posts (3,832)
Fort Lauderdale, FL
52, joined Feb. 2009


The sex industry makes its trillions by paying men and women to sell likenesses of their naked bodies in sex acts...that's fine, plenty of us check out porn now and then, no biggie...but on a dating website, what exactly is being "sold"? Everyone's answer will be slightly different, but to me it seems like a way to potentially meet a nice man...or at least avoid watching network tv at night in between dates on worknights...lol

3/26/2009 7:15:13 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
missmmeoftheday
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,502)
Brooklyn, NY
51, joined May. 2008


Quote from hear2listen:
Help me understand how breasts or cleavage is somehow a sign of sophistication?


They're not a sign of sophistication; they're simply a sign of being a woman. And there is no shame in being a woman.

However, having breasts does not negate the sophistication of a woman... one really has nothing to do with the other. A woman can be very sophisticated, with or without a lot of cleavage.

3/26/2009 7:16:59 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

wiilnotgiveup
Over 1,000 Posts (1,637)
Fort Lauderdale, FL
31, joined Jul. 2008


man oh man , whats wrong with a lil T N A when you have what about a million others on one site and you want to stand out! flaunt it if you got it! those who can, DO!
Me are visual creatures, Never heard a man say ....Yeah it was your personality that brought me all the way across the room. Yet a fine woman dressed sexy, yet classy will get attention every time.. And tell me this doesn't happen either ,You know when she enters the room , by two sounds, a mans jaw dropping ,and every other woman mumbling "B*TCH"!!... EVERYTIME.

P. s. most women are past that waiting for prince charming stage, they want good looking , kind man, with a job, and very little baggage.and no whining either!

3/26/2009 7:21:48 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
goddess56
Over 1,000 Posts (1,957)
Tulsa, OK
67, joined Jun. 2006


Quote from hear2listen:
To all the gang that have responded to my original topic,

Everyone one of you are just great. Some of the funniest, most entertaining responses I have ever seen. Keep up the good work and thanks for the mammaries!


*audible groan*

3/26/2009 7:22:46 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
alaskaway
Clear, AK
50, joined Oct. 2008




3/26/2009 7:23:58 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
binderdundat
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,303)
New Orleans, LA
55, joined Sep. 2008


Quote from hear2listen:
I am about as much of a prude as Fellini behind a film camera but the blatant use if cleavage spillage is perplexing. Almost every woman on this site demands that a man treat her with respect but they will show you more chest on-line for free and without even having to ask nicely, than if you paid them in private. I realize that most women will accentuate the best attribute. If they are a bit long in the tooth but have a great body they will advertise the bod'. If they are a bit homely but have million dollar legs you'll get plenty of thigh to gaze at. If they are flat chested but the rump is a work of art, they will constantly walk in front of you. If they do not have the face, body, legs or behind, they rely on their ta-tas in an attempt to get noticed. It is a big game from the gender who insists they hate game playing. I swear, one women must have used a ceiling cam to get that kind of aerial view for her profile pic. Even if a guy dated her for six months he'd never see them from that angle, unless of course foreplay took place while he was on the top rung of a ladder.

Modest, reserved and unpretentious women are very attractive. A woman who posts overtly revealing pictures of herself is disclosing more than skin. It shouts volumes about her character and her priorities. There is plenty of time to show your feminine charms. Once you start the dating process they will still be there, no matter if the rapport develops into a serious relationship or casual liaison. Ladies, if you still feel the urge to bare something personal in order to attract a man, try your heart, your mind and your soul.


I'm SURE you meant to add "In Your Humble Opinion"

3/26/2009 7:31:43 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
msladydebbie
Dallas, TX
62, joined Sep. 2008


A Lot of women know that BIG BOOBS grabs a mans attention fast. What they don't know or rather don't want to admit to knowing, is that that's all he is attracted to. The fantasy of being able to hold, caress, or even suck them will only last briefly, until the man realize NOTHING else comes with it! No brains, self respect, no goals etc. Just a big breasted woman that can't attract a man no other way then exposing her prize possession.

3/26/2009 7:34:31 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
yourfriendbob
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,396)
Fayette, OH
62, joined Oct. 2008


Quote from msladydebbie:
A Lot of women know that BIG BOOBS grabs a mans attention fast. What they don't know or rather don't want to admit to knowing, is that that's all he is attracted to. The fantasy of being able to hold, caress, or even suck them will only last briefly, until the man realize NOTHING else comes with it! No brains, self respect, no goals etc. Just a big breasted woman that can't attract a man no other way then exposing her prize possession.

possession(s)...plural...

3/26/2009 7:36:52 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
goodgato
Over 2,000 Posts (3,832)
Fort Lauderdale, FL
52, joined Feb. 2009


Are you saying that all women with healthy "lungs" are nitwits or at best, not the sharpest tools in the shed?

3/26/2009 7:37:06 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
luv2bum
Milwaukee, WI
52, joined Feb. 2009


To deceive men so they pay attention to those parts and not the rest?

3/26/2009 7:42:22 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
goodgato
Over 2,000 Posts (3,832)
Fort Lauderdale, FL
52, joined Feb. 2009


There's no deception once a conversation starts! It's sink or swim then, though the buoyancy factor may help somewhat with the guy in a "deer in headlights" type trance...lmao

3/26/2009 8:02:07 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
bbw46reader
Over 1,000 Posts (1,882)
Frederick, MD
55, joined Oct. 2008


Thanks to those reinforcing the misconception that big boobs=no brain=promiscuous. You have no idea how many I've had to leave metaphorically bleeding out after trying to act on just that assumption.

3/26/2009 8:04:00 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
honestami
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,205)
Ravenna, OH
61, joined Dec. 2008


bbw

3/26/2009 8:06:02 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
destinym
Over 1,000 Posts (1,178)
Savannah, GA
49, joined Oct. 2008


Oh ya, I'm really going to bare my heart, mind and soul. People who do that scream loads of 'other' problems to me. Big deal if a guy has his shirt off or a girl has cleavage showing. Big deal if they show there best assets first. (no different than the 'kind', giving person showing that side first before blowing you away with some other unattractive trait first) Myself, I am not attracted to these photos either though really and do interprut something as well. The thing is, this is a dating site and people just new to it probably think it is what they should do to get attention. The other thing is that a lot of people DO like seeing it.

3/26/2009 8:10:19 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
oklahomaoilman
Laverne, OK
51, joined Jan. 2009


Quote from hear2listen:
I am about as much of a prude as Fellini behind a film camera but the blatant use if cleavage spillage is perplexing. Almost every woman on this site demands that a man treat her with respect but they will show you more chest on-line for free and without even having to ask nicely, than if you paid them in private. I realize that most women will accentuate the best attribute. If they are a bit long in the tooth but have a great body they will advertise the bod'. If they are a bit homely but have million dollar legs you'll get plenty of thigh to gaze at. If they are flat chested but the rump is a work of art, they will constantly walk in front of you. If they do not have the face, body, legs or behind, they rely on their ta-tas in an attempt to get noticed. It is a big game from the gender who insists they hate game playing. I swear, one women must have used a ceiling cam to get that kind of aerial view for her profile pic. Even if a guy dated her for six months he'd never see them from that angle, unless of course foreplay took place while he was on the top rung of a ladder.

Modest, reserved and unpretentious women are very attractive. A woman who posts overtly revealing pictures of herself is disclosing more than skin. It shouts volumes about her character and her priorities. There is plenty of time to show your feminine charms. Once you start the dating process they will still be there, no matter if the rapport develops into a serious relationship or casual liaison. Ladies, if you still feel the urge to bare something personal in order to attract a man, try your heart, your mind and your soul.

You are so full of it

I bet your watching a porn in another window...

3/26/2009 8:11:23 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
hear2listen
Roswell, GA
56, joined Jul. 2008


I am already in enough trouble with a few gals here so let me try to redeem myself.

maryg2:

I would never attempt to regulate what a women wants to show in her profile, on the street or in the boudoir. I am strictly live and let live or grin and bear it if you will. I can’t speak for any of my brethren out there but nothing is more beautiful on a women than an angelic face. I could list many women in the public view that have what society deems, less than perfect bodies but gazing into their eyes is simply a mesmerizing experience. I could care less if they have a few extra pounds, are flat chested, pigeon toed or nearsighted. That beautiful face is always their sexiest attribute.

goodgato,

Absolutely, their inherent right. I believe in personal freedom, life liberty and the pursuit of voyeurism. Please do not misconstrue. I am not judging, merely observing and asking. I’m a principled libertarian and wouldn’t have it any other way.

marilyn,

You know how I feel. The outside is just window dressing. The inside is where the light emanates from. Absolutely.

waterluvr,

Thank you. You understand precisely what I mean. Don’t let the evil stepsisters out there intimidate you from expressing yourself. And give my warmest regards to my home State of N.J. My childhood recollections are vivid and happy ones.

wsprs0nthewind,

No reason to take my irreverent humor in a personal way. I was not generalizing and I have learned that a wise man will sacrifice even beauty for happiness. To me, intellect has always been a sexier endowment.

cinitaianna,

I am all for the free market. I guess in my post I was referring to the global economy.

3/26/2009 8:51:41 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

moraldk325
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,628)
State College, PA
53, joined Aug. 2008


Hell, if any of you gals wanna put a "money shot" on your profile, instead of some lame cleavage shot, just let me know if I can help!