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3/29/2009 9:47:16 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
goodgato
Over 2,000 Posts (3,881)
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 45


lolsmile - Not all busty women are obese.
<--34D, 2P.
Peace.

3/29/2009 9:55:03 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

hear2listen
Roswell, GA
age: 48


Quote from randacoolll:
You can dress attractively, and even sexily, without making yourself look like a tasteless skank. A women who dresses low class can't expect people to treat her repsectfully, since she herself dresses like a sex object.
Clothes say a lot about who we are and even what we're into.
You can't give one message, and then get mad and expect another response than the one you're dressing for.I *like* sexy clothes. But there's a difference between looking alluring and looking cheap.


What is needed to substantiate your opinion are actual photos, so forum participants can appreciate the clear difference between "alluring" and "cheap". I do not know how to accomplish this and still abide by DateHookup's rules. Perhaps others can provide some assistance.



Quote from ky_brown_eyes:
Hear2Listen, The show their cleavage because MEN LOVE IT!! Men see BOOBS before they know they have a face.


It reminds me of the classic "chicken or egg" conundrum. Which came first, the titillated or the tit? If you ask women why they put themselves through the ordeal of breast augmentations or Botox and Collagen injections, their reactive response is most often, "I'm doing it for me." Mankind and womankind both have infinite capacities for self-deception.

3/29/2009 10:09:50 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
lolsmile
Over 2,000 Posts (2,148)
Everett, WA
age: 47


Quote from goodgato:
lolsmile - Not all busty women are obese.
<--34D, 2P.
Peace.


Never said they were, just said they are rare. Please do not misquote me.

3/29/2009 11:56:02 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

hear2listen
Roswell, GA
age: 48


Quote from lolsmile:

Just occurred to me, regarding the pics people post in general, has anyone else noticed how many obese (a few extra pounds) bring that camera up so close that ALL you can see is the face or maybe the boobs too (FYI- boobs are fat, the fatter you are, the bigger they get, the Dolly Pardon build is a very RARE CASE, so beware boys LOL). Not so many actually let you see them from head to toe, and I have heard so many guys complain about how she said she was so big, and when she showed up for coffee was two or three times the size she claimed.


I find it intriguing that a woman be the one to form this observation and decide to express it. I personally find some full-figured women to be very lovely. I would be genuinely interested and most appreciative if you would expand upon your argument. Thank you.

3/29/2009 11:57:38 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55


Quote from lolsmile:
Never said they were, just said they are rare. Please do not misquote me.


<<< gee I never knew I was rare

3/29/2009 12:08:37 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
in_doubtalishis
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,800)
Beaumont, CA
age: 34


Well I was trying to find this lolsmile chic but she must have me blocked. I did see thriugh the threads she has no picture so whats up with that? No picture is worse than a half picture.

As for the comment b.s. there are plenty of women with big boobs who are small. There are also a few women with a few extra pounds who are fully happy with their bodies because society is so harsh that you have to look near perfect. I dont have a full pic because im not comfortable with exactly how I look right now though I am in good shape, im shapely. Im also a near perfectionist when it comes to my body thanks again to the pressure of society, so until I feel comfortable im gonna put up the pictures that make me feel comfortable. I mean it is obvious when someone is "obese" and you will most likely be able to tell from a head or boob shot what the majority of their body looks like.


And who gives a crap anyways? If we were all the same you would have no variation and life sure as hell would be boring. I mean do you expect us to take our worst pictures and throw them up. Hey here guys heres a nice cellulite shot for you. Let me zoom in on the stretchmarks so you are sure to see every single inch of me.

3/29/2009 12:17:38 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

brujacakes3
Jim Thorpe, PA
age: 37


<------Also rare.

3/29/2009 12:20:27 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

pisceschick367
Danvers, MA
age: 42


Quote from missmmeoftheday:
I don't know, OP.... I tried baring my heart, mind and soul...

and they still clamored for the boobs....

Good one!!!

3/29/2009 12:31:11 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

earldirt
Over 1,000 Posts (1,976)
Tulsa, OK
age: 63


A tasteful amount of cleavage triggers our imagination,it's like looking at your christmas gift under the tree when you was a kid,if it wasn't wrapped up you'd already know what it was,not near the thrill of wondering.JMO.

3/29/2009 12:51:51 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
goddess56
Over 1,000 Posts (1,973)
Tulsa, OK
age: 60


Quote from earldirt:
A tasteful amount of cleavage triggers our imagination,it's like looking at your christmas gift under the tree when you was a kid,if it wasn't wrapped up you'd already know what it was,not near the thrill of wondering.JMO.


So very true, Earl! All in good taste.

3/29/2009 12:55:38 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
leftyl8
Over 2,000 Posts (3,501)
Waverly, NY
age: 44


i wonder when theyre gonna come out with pants that show us guys' nut sack cleavage....
after all, whats fair is fair...

3/29/2009 12:56:45 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55


Quote from leftyl8:
i wonder when theyre gonna come out with pants that show us guys' nut sack cleavage....
after all, whats fair is fair...


go for it, but when the reactions aren't what you think they would be, remember we warned ya

3/29/2009 12:59:33 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

earldirt
Over 1,000 Posts (1,976)
Tulsa, OK
age: 63


Quote from leftyl8:
i wonder when theyre gonna come out with pants that show us guys' nut sack cleavage....
after all, whats fair is fair...


LOL,I hope not!!,the girls like to use their imagination too,they all check out the bulge.

3/29/2009 1:02:14 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

colbaltblue
Florence, OR
age: 43


Just work on your pecks gentlemen. women like a nice firm chest. No man boobs.

3/29/2009 1:04:09 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55


Quote from colbaltblue:
Just work on your pecks gentlemen. women like a nice firm chest. No man boobs.


now here's a guy who knows a thing or 2!
guys with well toned bodies do it for most gals than them shoving an old sock into their pants

3/29/2009 2:14:27 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
in_doubtalishis
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,800)
Beaumont, CA
age: 34


Quote from leftyl8:
i wonder when theyre gonna come out with pants that show us guys' nut sack cleavage....
after all, whats fair is fair...




Thats what im talkin about

3/29/2009 6:31:39 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

hear2listen
Roswell, GA
age: 48


Quote from earldirt:
A tasteful amount of cleavage triggers our imagination,it's like looking at your christmas gift under the tree when you was a kid,if it wasn't wrapped up you'd already know what it was,not near the thrill of wondering.JMO.


This seems to be more inline with a gift that is wrapped on both sides but not in the middle. If all you can see is the frame and the seat but not the wheels, I'll bet the kid will have little trouble figuring out that there's a bicycle in there.

3/29/2009 6:55:47 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

earldirt
Over 1,000 Posts (1,976)
Tulsa, OK
age: 63


Quote from hear2listen:
This seems to be more inline with a gift that is wrapped on both sides but not in the middle. If all you can see is the frame and the seat but not the wheels, I'll bet the kid will have little trouble figuring out that there's a bicycle in there.


I think you may have missed my point here,common sense tells anyone whats under the blouse or dress without actually seeing anything,my point on cleavage was,a little glimpse tells you how full but not the shape,something some guys wonder about but probably not all obviously,and I wasn't talking obvious shapes like a bike would be,I think the shape of the bike wrapping might be a slight giveaway,unlike a bra LOL

3/29/2009 7:20:07 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

drummaster777
Over 1,000 Posts (1,824)
Auburn, WA
age: 34


Quote from leftyl8:
i wonder when theyre gonna come out with pants that show us guys' nut sack cleavage....
after all, whats fair is fair...

I would protest. That would be exploiting men! Men aren't just sex objects! WE'RE EQUAL!

3/29/2009 7:22:14 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

wifeslave69
Knoxville, TN
age: 40


nothing wrong with a lady showing it off,if she's got it

3/29/2009 7:43:00 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

hear2listen
Roswell, GA
age: 48


Quote from earldirt:
I think you may have missed my point here,common sense tells anyone whats under the blouse or dress without actually seeing anything,my point on cleavage was,a little glimpse tells you how full but not the shape,something some guys wonder about but probably not all obviously,and I wasn't talking obvious shapes like a bike would be,I think the shape of the bike wrapping might be a slight giveaway,unlike a bra LOL


I understood the gift metaphor. Some good things just aren't made to fit in small packages.

3/29/2009 9:02:21 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

openminded22
Over 1,000 Posts (1,180)
Columbia, IL
age: 23


Its the same reason why the guys pose without shirts!

3/29/2009 9:20:16 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

sweetlymystic2
Oakwood, GA
age: 38


showing off some of their best features...duh

4/6/2009 7:29:47 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
lolsmile
Over 2,000 Posts (2,148)
Everett, WA
age: 47


Quote from hear2listen:
I find it intriguing that a woman be the one to form this observation and decide to express it. I personally find some full-figured women to be very lovely. I would be genuinely interested and most appreciative if you would expand upon your argument. Thank you.


Expand on my argument? That was more of an observation/question. Don't know what you mean, much less why you were so surprised that a female posted it.

tjer1l, had to check your pics, but, uh, no, the rest of you would have to be tiny like Dolly for you to be in that category.

brujacakes3, couldn't check yours, you did the camera so close to your face thing, and you have people blocked from seeing your profile, so nothing else but the one to go by, so I really wouldn't know if you were rare, or just thought like tjer11.

leftyl8, "i wonder when theyre gonna come out with pants that show us guys' nut sack cleavage....
after all, whats fair is fair..."
RFLMFAO, they did, spandex, ick, yuck, and run IMO.

colbaltblue, "Just work on your pecks gentlemen. women like a nice firm chest. No man boobs."
AMEN AMEN AMEN


As far as what some have posted, I think an old poem I heard as a kid sums it up.

Cornnia's scanty evening dress
revealed her charms to an excess
which makes a fellow lust for less.
By Piet Hein. (hope I spelled the name right, was only 9 when I read the poem LOL)

4/7/2009 11:38:05 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

hear2listen
Roswell, GA
age: 48


Quote from lolsmile:
Just occurred to me, regarding the pics people post in general, has anyone else noticed how many obese (a few extra pounds) bring that camera up so close that ALL you can see is the face or maybe the boobs too (FYI- boobs are fat, the fatter you are, the bigger they get, the Dolly Pardon build is a very RARE CASE, so beware boys LOL). Not so many actually let you see them from head to toe, and I have heard so many guys complain about how she said she was so big, and when she showed up for coffee was two or three times the size she claimed.



You made an observation. The above words are yours, not mine. I happen to think you are onto something here and I would appreciate a further explanation. I'll spell it out for you if you prefer. Based on what you've written, you seem to be insisting that full-figured women use their endowment to cover up the fact that their bodies may be less than desirable by most men. If you don't agree with what you've written and would rather strike it from the record, please indicate. If you do agree then tell me why you think big gals resort to such antics.


The reason I found it unusual for a woman to express what you have written is because a man would be chastised into oblivion for making such a statement. I am not judging you. Rather, I am supporting your right to express yourself.

4/7/2009 12:28:56 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
echerocean
Greensboro, NC
age: 26


Quote from moraldk325:
Quote from missmmeoftheday:What's not sophisticated about a woman who has breasts and accentuates them?
That's like saying that a woman with gorgeous lips shouldn't wear lipstick because men will see her lips and want to kiss her...
the "shame" we associate with our bodies is unreal; we wonder why there is a stigma attached to our actions and our ideas.... it's because we attach it.
Let's be honest here... I have cleavage when I wear a turtleneck.
My profile pic may be provocative, but it's a nice shot. And men like how I look. More importantly, I LIKE how I look.
Men also like how I speak, how I think, how I behave.... I'm the whole package.
Those who look beyond the boobs know that.




Huh? What? Did you say something???
I'm sorry, I was busy looking at your boobs.





so for all the men here lol its nice to look a boobies...feast upon them, watch them and get all hot and bothered thinking about them. However Honestly which one of you men would want another man looking at your wifes titties?? or for that matter your daughter or your mother......hmmmmm....did anyones opinions on showing boobs change???.....when you thought of what molesting thoughts would be on other mens minds when you care more and respect more for a woman then just her body.......

4/7/2009 12:30:34 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

hsprin
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,410)
Savannah, MO
age: 33


Well as for the pictures I guess it boils down to what someone wants to put forward. We all know that we live in a vain society and that most men want to see a little T & A.

However, their are a few of us that actually don't have full pictures up for that reason. Some of us woman are bless (cursed, depending on how you look at it) with curves aka breast! I for one don't want someone emailing me about just my breast, we women get enough vulgar emails without puttin those out there. I am more then just a nice set of big boobs.

4/7/2009 12:41:19 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
firebird1971
Over 1,000 Posts (1,168)
Gainesville, FL
age: 45


Who cares ! Bring Em on !

4/7/2009 4:28:54 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

maryah3134
Miskolc
Hungary
age: 33


Clothes ON clothes OFF you men anyway are undressing us women everytime you look at our photos...not that we women not doing the same...all this makes US ALL feel sooooo goooddd hiddenly

and I damn LOVE to play golf

4/7/2009 4:57:59 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
okaydude
Mesquite, TX
age: 53


Heres to all the men who love cleavage

4/7/2009 7:40:27 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

hear2listen
Roswell, GA
age: 48


Just to clarify, I am only referring to the cleavage spillage pictures found on dating websites such as DH. Just today, I discovered a woman whose profile contained photos so revealing, I thought she was attempting to seek employment as an exotic dancer. Her profile contained this prerequisite:

"I want someone that is honest with me and treats me
with respect and kindness."

Is there a way to respect someone who dresses so disrespectfully within a public dating site?



[Edited 4/7/2009 7:42:16 PM PST]

4/7/2009 7:41:55 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
goodgato
Over 2,000 Posts (3,881)
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 45


Quote from okaydude:
Heres to all the men who love cleavage


...and to the women that love them back!

4/8/2009 3:34:18 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

ladyog
Over 2,000 Posts (3,103)
The Dalles, OR
age: 54


Quote from goodgato:
...and to the women that love them back!






Amen........Sister...

4/8/2009 5:09:01 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
leftyl8
Over 2,000 Posts (3,501)
Waverly, NY
age: 44


who cares about cleavage? gimme a booty shot anyday...

4/8/2009 5:25:19 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
tar_to_the_heel
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,782)
Greensboro, NC
age: 33


Quote from hear2listen:


Modest, reserved and unpretentious women are very attractive. A woman who posts overtly revealing pictures of herself is disclosing more than skin. It shouts volumes about her character and her priorities.



Can I get a witness?!?!?!?!?!?!?

Hallelujah!!! Amen!! Preach on, brother!!

4/8/2009 5:30:05 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

happyface46
Over 1,000 Posts (1,662)
Christmas Island
Australia
age: 47


Sorry never have; never will. That is for one man and one man only.

4/8/2009 5:48:16 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
neo_52
Over 2,000 Posts (2,352)
Marathon, FL
age: 53


Cleavage snap shots send a message .
How one reads it and decides what to do with it determines how
good the ad was ,is .
Cleavage ain't no big thing to me .
If you showed a great pair of legs ,That would get my attention .
You can tell allot more about a great pair of legs than two breast put together .

4/8/2009 6:13:11 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

klassyklown
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,058)
Bakersfield, CA
age: 41


This thread is interesting, I spent the last few days at the beach with a herd of woman whose husbands have paid for lyposuction and breasts. They are huge on top and tiny on the bottom. Funny thing is the surgically enhanced women spent the entire time in t-shirts completely covered up. Being that we were at the beach, there were three of us from Hawaii who are not enhanced and spent the time in tank tops and bathing suits, and got nothing but flattering cleavage comments from the men.

So my question is for the men, you enjoy the view, but do you want your women flaunting it when you go out in public?

4/8/2009 6:21:01 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

maryg2
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,270)
Philadelphia, PA
age: 39


well, since this thread is STILLLL going...i will say men will just have to settle for the booty, hip and leg action before they get a eyeful of cleavage w/me cuz it ain't going to happen!mind u, i dont mind throwing that skinny tanktop on but to be bulging out, NOT! and even if i did have the boobs to throw out there, i still wouldnt flaunt. its just not me. i think i can be attractive all on my own w/out screaming body parts to the world!

just saying!

and i would want to attract the right attn, not all the "lustful only" attn! too much of a headache to deal with!

4/8/2009 6:29:39 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
whamback
Over 2,000 Posts (2,156)
Columbus, OH
age: 61


Quote from maryg2:
well, well, well, two things i notice ppl WILL talk about, and i already posted in this thread, is TEETH and BOOBS!....still going strong!


This was on page 7 and now I am on 15 or 16..

But you left out weight.

I am not sure what my opnion is about pics that have cleavage, although some of the poster's profiles do seem to run the border of moral decency, if your into that kind of thing

Personally I don't "see" many "character" issues with the Ladies profile's that are cleavage heavy, I see these same Ladies in the thread's, and their post's are intelligent, witty and interesting read's.

So I guess that blow's the big boob, no brain theory.

Now as a Man, I prefer Breast's that are real. Large or small.

I just have this Celluar Process about sticking a plastic bag full of liquid into your chest, Taking this "huge risk" that your body may not want this, and I have seen pics and read many stories of this process going terribly wrong.

And women do this because? (and I am not talking about medical related issues)

The only answer that comes to mind, is self esteem issues. And if those issues are there, how deep do they go and where else in heart do those issues live. And that would be the concern for me.

I am not trying to be judgemental here, this "truly" is the only answer I can come up with

But hey, what the hell do I Know, I am just a man

JMHO
wham


4/8/2009 6:33:58 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

rondag
Livingston, KY
age: 46


hear2listen...thank god!!!there are men out there still like youI refuse to show everything to get a mans attention,you are a true gem.

4/8/2009 6:39:13 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
neo_52
Over 2,000 Posts (2,352)
Marathon, FL
age: 53


"and i would want to attract the right attn, not all the "lustful only" attn! too much of a headache to deal with!"

Therein is the manner in which you flaunt ,with dignity and grace ,rather than gaudy and for display .
Some like to attract honey ,others like the scent that's bitter sweet .
I prefer the wholesome ,pure taste of honey rather than that with artificial sweeteners
and refined unknown chemical byproducts .

4/8/2009 6:41:33 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55


Quote from neo_52:
"and i would want to attract the right attn, not all the "lustful only" attn! too much of a headache to deal with!"

Therein is the manner in which you flaunt ,with dignity and grace ,rather than gaudy and for display .
Some like to attract honey ,others like the scent that's bitter sweet .
I prefer the wholesome ,pure taste of honey rather than that with artificial sweeteners
and refined unknown chemical byproducts .

I guess we'll never hit it off, too bad because I'll be spending a week on marathon while my boy is sailing out of seabase

4/8/2009 6:52:07 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

foxy_woman_49
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,863)
Omaha, NE
age: 51


cleavage shots are not necessary and I dont need that to "get a man"

how lame

4/8/2009 7:05:35 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

robtest
Over 2,000 Posts (3,339)
Norcross, GA
age: 48


Quote from hear2listen:
Just to clarify, I am only referring to the cleavage spillage pictures found on dating websites such as DH. Just today, I discovered a woman whose profile contained photos so revealing, I thought she was attempting to seek employment as an exotic dancer. Her profile contained this prerequisite:

"I want someone that is honest with me and treats me
with respect and kindness."

Is there a way to respect someone who dresses so disrespectfully within a public dating site?



I can't believe the audacity of some women. This topic certainly deserves more research.

Please feel free to forward me the names of any women's profiles that display this type of behaviour!

4/8/2009 7:07:16 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

polefrog
Over 2,000 Posts (2,209)
Harriman, TN
age: 53


I'm going to be rich!!!! I'm building a water jock!!!!!!!!!

4/8/2009 9:04:51 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

maryg2
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (12,270)
Philadelphia, PA
age: 39


Quote from whamback:
This was on page 7 and now I am on 15 or 16..

But you left out weight.




yes, u r right, and WEIGHT! that is forever going to be a must to talk about...not for me, but plenty for others!

4/12/2009 8:19:35 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

hear2listen
Roswell, GA
age: 48


Quote from robtest:
I can't believe the audacity of some women. This topic certainly deserves more research.

Please feel free to forward me the names of any women's profiles that display this type of behaviour!



Perhaps you can get a government grant to study the issue. I will volunteer my time and services to be on your research team. I would consider it my civic responsibility and patriotic duty.

4/12/2009 8:22:52 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

clownkilla
Over 1,000 Posts (1,767)
Sarasota, FL
age: 39


Women are tramps thats why they show so much cleavage!Your I like slutty women who show a lot of cleavage and a** clown.

4/12/2009 8:29:50 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
tataman
Jacksonville, FL
age: 41


Quote from hear2listen:
I am about as much of a prude as Fellini behind a film camera but the blatant use if cleavage spillage is perplexing. Almost every woman on this site demands that a man treat her with respect but they will show you more chest on-line for free and without even having to ask nicely, than if you paid them in private. I realize that most women will accentuate the best attribute. If they are a bit long in the tooth but have a great body they will advertise the bod'. If they are a bit homely but have million dollar legs you'll get plenty of thigh to gaze at. If they are flat chested but the rump is a work of art, they will constantly walk in front of you. If they do not have the face, body, legs or behind, they rely on their ta-tas in an attempt to get noticed. It is a big game from the gender who insists they hate game playing. I swear, one women must have used a ceiling cam to get that kind of aerial view for her profile pic. Even if a guy dated her for six months he'd never see them from that angle, unless of course foreplay took place while he was on the top rung of a ladder.

Modest, reserved and unpretentious women are very attractive. A woman who posts overtly revealing pictures of herself is disclosing more than skin. It shouts volumes about her character and her priorities. There is plenty of time to show your feminine charms. Once you start the dating process they will still be there, no matter if the rapport develops into a serious relationship or casual liaison. Ladies, if you still feel the urge to bare something personal in order to attract a man, try your heart, your mind and your soul.


It's because they are independent and don't need a man LOLOL. You answered your own question about this. You know why they do it and it does speak volumes about their character, so to all the women out there that do this, you will never have a real man in your life that is worth anything, because if showing your breasts is your best asset, than your are telegraphing what type of woman you are, what type of wife, mother you would be.....which is not a very good one.....just the facts people, just the facts.....

4/12/2009 9:41:22 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

klassyklown
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,058)
Bakersfield, CA
age: 41


I was at the beach the past couple of days and spent the day in a hooded sweatshirt in flip flops, then went back to the room and got dressed to go out on the town. The minute, and I minute the very minute I walked out of the room with a top that showed a bit of cleavage with a jacket over it men started howling and making comments. "Hey girls, how's it going girls." It was absolutely amazing what a little cleavage can do.

4/12/2009 9:43:06 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

leftfooted
Over 2,000 Posts (2,187)
West Covina, CA
age: 50


because not all men are the same meaning that some will not base their respect for a woman on whether or not she decides to show cleavage in her photos



[Edited 4/12/2009 9:49:14 AM PST]

4/12/2009 9:47:08 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
goodgato
Over 2,000 Posts (3,881)
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 45


Quote from klassyklown:
I was at the beach the past couple of days and spent the day in a hooded sweatshirt in flip flops, then went back to the room and got dressed to go out on the town. The minute, and I minute the very minute I walked out of the room with a top that showed a bit of cleavage with a jacket over it men started howling and making comments. "Hey girls, how's it going girls." It was absolutely amazing what a little cleavage can do.


Isn't it funny how the guy who says the least (whose words carry some weight), but has the naughtiest smile/look on his face tends to actually get to touch the cleavage?

4/12/2009 11:27:59 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

angelofhonesty
San Antonio, TX
age: 40 online now!


Woman show cleavage because men are visual creatures!!!! What kind of question is this? Are you cleavage-phobic? You appear to be a very handsome,intelligent, and well expressed man, but you threw me for a loop with the cleavage pics. I don't have an abundance of cleavage to show, yet I don't hate on the women that do...this question is one that I would expect from another woman not a man....

Women will not stop flaunting their breast just as men will not stop looking at them. I would be more concerned about the people who don't post photos at all opposed to the ones that are posting and accenuating their breast....This post is one of those ones that make me say hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!

4/12/2009 11:28:09 AM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
evileddy
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,695)
Ottawa, ON
age: 36


Water bras are false advertising.

I don't put fake money in my wallet.

4/12/2009 2:03:13 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  

hear2listen
Roswell, GA
age: 48


Quote from angelofhonesty:
Woman show cleavage because men are visual creatures!!!! What kind of question is this? Are you cleavage-phobic? You appear to be a very handsome,intelligent, and well expressed man, but you threw me for a loop with the cleavage pics. I don't have an abundance of cleavage to show, yet I don't hate on the women that do...this question is one that I would expect from another woman not a man....

Women will not stop flaunting their breast just as men will not stop looking at them. I would be more concerned about the people who don't post photos at all opposed to the ones that are posting and accenuating their breast....This post is one of those ones that make me say hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!


I am going to assume you are questioning the validity of my forum topic. I have no psychological aversion to cleavage or any other part of a woman's body. Please read the forum topic and replies carefully before you post a response to make sure it is relevant to the issue. I am ONLY referring to cleavage exposure on dating websites such as DH. I am not referring to cleavage exposure on public streets, restaurants, shopping malls or in any other public venue. The majority of women on DH and other singles sites do not resort to circulating overt views of their cleavage spillage. Men still find these more modest women attractive, desirable, datable and lovable. Those women who you insist expose themselves simply because men will reflexively ogle, probably get the dolts they deserve. If their cleavage is the extent of the bait, consider what will end up in their trap.


Why would you more likely expect a woman to ask this question as opposed to a man? Do women routinely scrutinize the profiles of other women? And even if they do, how often would they openly comment on another woman's pictures or verbiage? If a man posted an equally provocative picture on his profile, how would another heterosexual man know, unless he views other man's profiles?

I never said I had any "hate" for the women who posted cleavage pictures within their online profile. Nor did I infer that women with less cleavage are somehow jealous of those who have more. False assumptions and petulant misinterpretations contaminate legitimate viewpoints. There are many valid reasons why people choose not to post pictures of themselves on dating sites. The only thing that should matter is whether or not they make their pictures available when requested. If they do, what is the gripe? If they do no not, you have the ultimate option to cease communicating with them. A questionable picture that is haphazardly published however, can't be retracted from memory once the public community views it.


If this forum topic is one that makes you take a long pause, then forces you to think, that is precisely what it was intended to do.

4/12/2009 2:26:17 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
bbw46reader
Over 1,000 Posts (1,901)
Frederick, MD
age: 47


Awww. Those gals are just saying:

I got boobies!
You like boobies?
I got boobies!
You like me?
I got boobies!

Boobies! Boobies! Boobies!


She might be brilliant, she might be stupid.
She might be worthwhile, she might be a waste.
She might be shallow, she might be multifaceted.
She might be fat, she might be thin.
Shw might have nothing more to offer, she might have everything else to offer.

You can't necessarily tell by the boob pics, but you can tell easily enough -or should be able to unless you (general) are a dunce - by the rest of what she presents.

4/12/2009 2:38:16 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
bellbottomblues
Over 1,000 Posts (1,049)
Waukegan, IL
age: 56


I guess if you got it flaunt it.......

4/12/2009 6:32:18 PM What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles?  
midnightgambler
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,427)
Memphis, TN
age: 32


Man, females post "revealing" pics like crazy now, including young people. It's rare anyone seems to dress conservatively anymore. lol