| 3/26/2009 6:51:41 PM |
What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles? |
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moraldk325
State College, PA
age: 45
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Hell, if any of you gals wanna put a "money shot" on your profile, instead of some lame cleavage shot, just let me know if I can help!
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| 3/26/2009 6:55:08 PM |
What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles? |
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hear2listen
Roswell, GA
age: 48
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Hell, if any of you gals wanna put a "money shot" on your profile, instead of some lame cleavage shot, just let me know if I can help!
Another gem.
Even though we're in a recession, I am sure you are not referring to 10s and 20s.
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| 3/26/2009 7:03:10 PM |
What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles? |
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candylulu
Tulsa, OK
age: 21
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Well my pics not helping my case any but actually my bf started my profile without my knowledge and uploded my pics. I know that sounds weird but he was trying to find a third for his 3 way fantasy and figured my boobs would attract the women. IDK? I take boxing classes and these were suppose to be head shots for the gyms Tournament. 
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| 3/26/2009 7:11:45 PM |
What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles? |
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eimi
Jacksonville, FL
age: 37
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Op can you really say that a woman with cleavage doesn't deserve respect?
I will be honest with you, years ago I dressed extremely conservative but I found that I was ignored easy or overlooked in my job.
I do not sleep around, I do not date a bunch of men etc. I am conservative, go to church, raise my sons but when I started showing a little cleavage things changed in a good way. I am not talking giving away the shop ...so nothing is left to imagination...
but I have not been treated with less respect in real life for it. I think if you carry yourself with an expectation of respect and are honorable in your actions people treat you that way.
Cleavage in a moderate amount does not hurt in my opinion. but I carry my heart on my sleeve as my friends say. You can see my emotions etc in my eyes and face. Plus I can get a room to spin into giggles with one comment. I have that girlish side still...
funniest thing about cleavage is apparently when I have any cleave a lot of guys have an urge to tell me how beautiful my "hair" looks that day. and ask me to dinner.
My point is a moderate amount of cleavage shouldn't mean you automatically disrespect a woman.
By the way the pic with the girl with boobies bigger then jugss...ouch that looks like it would hurt. dang 
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| 3/26/2009 7:17:02 PM |
What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles? |
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lovelife2025
Pottstown, PA
age: 22
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Nothing wrong with women having cleavage, even if its the size of a yoga ball or a small as a marble, cleavge is cleavage.
Also it makes the women look more attractive and sexy.
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| 3/26/2009 7:19:22 PM |
What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles? |
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marilyn1960
Hope Mills, NC
age: 49
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Oh ya, I'm really going to bare my heart, mind and soul. People who do that scream loads of 'other' problems to me. Big deal if a guy has his shirt off or a girl has cleavage showing. Big deal if they show there best assets first. (no different than the 'kind', giving person showing that side first before blowing you away with some other unattractive trait first) Myself, I am not attracted to these photos either though really and do interprut something as well. The thing is, this is a dating site and people just new to it probably think it is what they should do to get attention. The other thing is that a lot of people DO like seeing it.
Just to let you know, I believe in showing my true self which is my heart and soul not cleavage. A true person speaks what is really in their heart. I can assure you I do not have "loads of other problems. Your morals are different to mine. Really? A lot of who like seeing it? I believe a lot of men make fun of these women who chose to show their best asset as you state. I don't care what people say trying to put another person down, they would only do it on the internet, not to someone's face. 
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| 3/26/2009 7:21:07 PM |
What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles? |
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marilyn1960
Hope Mills, NC
age: 49
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Nothing wrong with women having cleavage, even if its the size of a yoga ball or a small as a marble, cleavge is cleavage.
Also it makes the women look more attractive and sexy.
You were on here a few days ago talking about respecting women. Where is your respect today.
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| 3/26/2009 7:22:03 PM |
What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles? |
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_leadingman
Lake Dallas, TX
age: 48
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Like it, but don't like it - go figure
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| 3/26/2009 7:24:03 PM |
What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles? |
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lovelife2025
Pottstown, PA
age: 22
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You were on here a few days ago talking about respecting women. Where is your respect today.
This is my honest opion, lol theres nothing wrong with it. I personaly think it makes the women more confident about them selfs and thats a great thing. 
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| 3/26/2009 7:25:42 PM |
What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles? |
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hear2listen
Roswell, GA
age: 48
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Oh ya, I'm really going to bare my heart, mind and soul. People who do that scream loads of 'other' problems to me. Big deal if a guy has his shirt off or a girl has cleavage showing. Big deal if they show there best assets first. (no different than the 'kind', giving person showing that side first before blowing you away with some other unattractive trait first) Myself, I am not attracted to these photos either though really and do interprut something as well. The thing is, this is a dating site and people just new to it probably think it is what they should do to get attention. The other thing is that a lot of people DO like seeing it.
I thank you for posting,
I agree that the dolts who fall for the bait are part of the problem. However, If someone's physical features take first place over their heart, mind or soul that would make for a rather unfulfilling relationship. I can appreciate your cynicism. I actually find cynics to be generally more honest than pollyannas. Cynic or not, you don't mean to suggest a relationship is a burdensome if it touches too close to the real stuff of life? It's just my view that if you want to attract someone who will appreciate the delicate matters of the heart, seek to cultivate those qualities in yourself then look for the same in a mate.
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| 3/26/2009 7:30:23 PM |
What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles? |
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hear2listen
Roswell, GA
age: 48
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Well my pics not helping my case any but actually my bf started my profile without my knowledge and uploded my pics. I know that sounds weird but he was trying to find a third for his 3 way fantasy and figured my boobs would attract the women. IDK? I take boxing classes and these were suppose to be head shots for the gyms Tournament.
Again, not judging here, just commenting. Obviously if the picture was posted without your knowledge or consent you can't be blamed. If you like it, let it remain but if you are bothered by it and do not remove it, what does that say?
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| 3/26/2009 8:08:29 PM |
What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles? |
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eimi
Jacksonville, FL
age: 37
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starting to think I have to show op cleavage for him to answer me
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| 3/26/2009 8:15:21 PM |
What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles? |
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hypnotic_1981
Port Charlotte, FL
age: 28
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Who cares? Cleavage is hot...and part of this whole love thing is about attraction...just because someone shows off their cleavage it doesn't mean they don't have anything else to bring to the table. Its sex appeal..
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| 3/26/2009 9:30:37 PM |
What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles? |
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chassie
Austin, TX
age: 36
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Society has taught women that to attract a man is to lure them with boobs. Alright So men do love boobs. But what kind of men are these chicks attracting? What other traits do they have? Attracting a man and keeping one are two whole different tasks. One is convienence. The other is actual WWWWWWWORRRRRK.
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| 3/27/2009 4:50:42 AM |
What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles? |
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caribedahlia
Lompoc, CA
age: 36
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I guess us women should get men to wear tight pants that show off their packages.........
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| 3/27/2009 5:04:07 AM |
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hear2listen
Roswell, GA
age: 48
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Like it, but don't like it - go figure
Yes, I realize it is a dichotomy. Thank you for your very honest answer. Bravo! We are all victims of our own hypocrisy.
starting to think I have to show op cleavage for him to answer me
Beautiful response. Great attitude and sense of humor. It is a well adjusted woman who is able to laugh even at herself. As far as your question, if pressed (pardon the pun) I have to say that I have loved women with honeydew melons to cherry tomatoes and every size in between. It didn't have a real bearing on my overall attraction to them. If fact, and this aspect has been completely overlooked, what happens when a woman loses weight and her endowments with it? This has happened with a couple of women I deeply cared for. It never made a difference to me. When I wanted them big again I just loaded her up on Haagen-Dazs.
Who cares? Cleavage is hot...and part of this whole love thing is about attraction...just because someone shows off their cleavage it doesn't mean they don't have anything else to bring to the table. Its sex appeal..
Granted. But what if it becomes the table's dominant centerpiece, leaving no room for the main meal?
Society has taught women that to attract a man is to lure them with boobs. Alright So men do love boobs. But what kind of men are these chicks attracting? What other traits do they have? Attracting a man and keeping one are two whole different tasks. One is convienence. The other is actual WWWWWWWORRRRRK.
Precisely put! If a woman wants to attract a man for a meaningful relationship, she should rely on her sincere feminine ways, a healthy dose of inquisitiveness, easy laughter and perhaps most importantly, personal warmth.
A friend of mine once asked me, "Why do women play games?" I replied, "I don't know, but if they told us it wouldn't be a game anymore."
Once again, thank you to everyone for contributing. Your answers are notable and memorable. I am grateful.
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| 3/27/2009 5:29:00 AM |
What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles? |
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hear2listen
Roswell, GA
age: 48
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Op can you really say that a woman with cleavage doesn't deserve respect?
Sorry eimi,
I commented on another one of your posts when you wanted an answer to this one. Of course I'm not suggesting in the least that a women with cleavage deserves any less respect than one who is less blessed. My post only applies to the pictures that women place on their online dating profiles. I am referring to the overt duplicity especially when their written prerequisites say one thing and their public photos say another.
I guess us women should get men to wear tight pants that show off their packages.........
I was wondering who would be first respondent to bring up this point. I do not look at the male profiles so I do not know. Does this happen at all or with the regularity with which women show their cleavage? I would think a guy would get their picture rejected if they tried something like that. If nothing else it is a double standard but the more important question is, what would a woman's opinion be of such a picture and the man who posted it?
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| 3/27/2009 5:38:00 AM |
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msbevzie
Oregon, OH
age: 46
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OP Quoted....."Modest, reserved and unpretentious women are very attractive. A woman who posts overtly revealing pictures of herself is disclosing more than skin. It shouts volumes about her character and her priorities. There is plenty of time to show your feminine charms. Once you start the dating process they will still be there, no matter if the rapport develops into a serious relationship or casual liaison. Ladies, if you still feel the urge to bare something personal in order to attract a man, try your heart, your mind and your soul."
OP I totally agree! I posted a thread in regards to something of this nature regarding half nude pics, lingerie pics, and women dropping provocative pics into any guy on here that would open his inbox. They hand these pics out like business cards and what some don't realize is some guys here use them like baseball trading cards to laugh and talk about them.
I got berated by some very angry women, one in particular, when I made that thread. However, ALOT of guys completely agreed that it was not a 'respectful' thing.
My point was on the fact that 'some' women that act this way scream, shout, jump up and down and make b*tchy whiney threads about how guys never give them respect and only looking for sex and treat them like objects...Heeellloooooooooooooooo ahaha
But I agree with you OP...some send out those negative vibes and then can't figure out why they are getting negative back.
I'm not a prude either...but just feel those kinds of pics should be private for you and you significant other and not for the internet world and free world to see....JMO
 YOUR awesome Water and what you say is so true...I'll save myself for that awesome man I meet...not all these internet hound dogs...
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| 3/27/2009 5:42:41 AM |
What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles? |
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musicdesign
Rocky Hill, CT
age: 47
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I was wondering who would be first respondent to bring up this point. I do not look at the male profiles so I do not know. Does this happen at all or with the regularity with which women show their cleavage? I would think a guy would get their picture rejected if they tried something like that. If nothing else it is a double standard but the more important question is, what would a woman's opinion be of such a picture and the man who posted it?
I have not seen that type of photo, but will say this; when the mans main profile photo is shirtless, I am NOT impressed. 
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| 3/27/2009 6:10:46 AM |
What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles? |
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gloriaschild
Atlanta, GA
age: 54
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WHATEVER WORKS!
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| 3/27/2009 6:23:10 AM |
What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles? |
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darlinshel
Clayton, NC
age: 41
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WHATEVER WORKS!
That's the truth LOL
Seriously though...I don't rely on cleavage. I can't help that it's there and the only way to hide it is to wear turtlenecks and then the cleavage is accented in a different way LOL.
Women know if they dressed asexual, completely covered with no hints of bumps, humps, whatever showing and ready to show men our minds, heart and soul, we'd get completely ignored because the woman next to us is showing a little cleavage.
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| 3/27/2009 7:45:20 AM |
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hear2listen
Roswell, GA
age: 48
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That's the truth LOL
Seriously though...I don't rely on cleavage. I can't help that it's there and the only way to hide it is to wear turtlenecks and then the cleavage is accented in a different way LOL.
Women know if they dressed asexual, completely covered with no hints of bumps, humps, whatever showing and ready to show men our minds, heart and soul, we'd get completely ignored because the woman next to us is showing a little cleavage.
I do not believe a woman should attempt to change her natural look but it is very easy to determine when a woman is telegraphing her true intent with the use of explicitly provocative photographs. I wish I could post one as an example but it would be against the rules. I do not feel that I woman needs to compete with another for the attention of a man she would inevitably find objectionable. You want someone who is drawn to your unique persona anyway, not a body part. I would hope a woman would consider being completely ignored by these superficial dolts, a step in the right direction.
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| 3/27/2009 8:05:55 AM |
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eimi
Jacksonville, FL
age: 37
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I was wondering who would be first respondent to bring up this point. I do not look at the male profiles so I do not know. Does this happen at all or with the regularity with which women show their cleavage? I would think a guy would get their picture rejected if they tried something like that. If nothing else it is a double standard but the more important question is, what would a woman's opinion be of such a picture and the man who posted it?
I think it would not be helpful to a man. As a woman ewww that would just make me think he is weird. I won't even talk to guys that have their shirt off and are in bed in their photo because that screams....I want to F* and that isn't what I am looking for. Plus half the guys photos like that....well I have seen gorillas with less hair. To put it nicely. I even find that if a guy has a photo with his shirt off, belt unbuckled...I am leary to speak to him on here. I might perv his file though. JK
As for posting obvious cleavage to show what ya got...either a woman is very confident and in touch withe her sexuality...
which doesn't equal if the profile is saying she wants to be loved for her mind and decency...
or she is insecure and thinks it is the only way to get a man.
Op remember some of us older woman just got cleavage in the past five years. I am a decent cup size but without magic bras they don't know each other. So it is fun to show it a little bit. 
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| 3/27/2009 8:36:22 AM |
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hear2listen
Roswell, GA
age: 48
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I think it would not be helpful to a man. As a woman ewww that would just make me think he is weird. I won't even talk to guys that have their shirt off and are in bed in their photo because that screams....I want to F* and that isn't what I am looking for. Plus half the guys photos like that....well I have seen gorillas with less hair. To put it nicely. I even find that if a guy has a photo with his shirt off, belt unbuckled...I am leary to speak to him on here. I might perv his file though. JK
As for posting obvious cleavage to show what ya got...either a woman is very confident and in touch withe her sexuality...
which doesn't equal if the profile is saying she wants to be loved for her mind and decency...
or she is insecure and thinks it is the only way to get a man.
Op remember some of us older woman just got cleavage in the past five years. I am a decent cup size but without magic bras they don't know each other. So it is fun to show it a little bit.
Ok so it is interesting to note what you have indicated in your above post. And perhaps it is only because showing cleavage has generally been socially acceptable since perhaps the 1950s. A man showing his bulge may not be socially acceptable....yet. But a shirtless man has been acceptable for a few decades and the message it sends to you is that they are only interested in sex. Is there a double standard here? What if there were no bed in the photo and the shirtless guy was outdoors, say whitewater rafting, swimming or on a beach? Wouldn't it be normal to see a male dressed that way?
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| 3/27/2009 8:40:58 AM |
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darlinshel
Clayton, NC
age: 41
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If a guy is shirtless in some outdoor setting, I see nothing wrong with it.
Just as you say some of the cleavage shots are obvious attempts to get guys for all the wrong reasons, there are guys that have shots of themselves shirtless and some even pants undone and pushed down a little while laying on a bed or some "sexy" pose that tells us, yep, he's just looking for a hump and dump LOL.
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| 3/27/2009 8:41:56 AM |
What is the story with all the cleavage shots in many female profiles? |
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tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55
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<<<<<< cleavage shot
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| 3/27/2009 8:45:07 AM |
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theothergman
Michigan, ND
age: 48
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IMHO, we can't have too many cleavage shots. I'll professionally critique any and all cleavage shots. It's a tough job, somebody has to do, I'll endeavor to persevere. All women who have cleavage shots, send em to me and I'll review them. I do it for the good of the site.
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| 3/27/2009 8:45:44 AM |
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darlinshel
Clayton, NC
age: 41
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gman how sweet of you
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| 3/27/2009 8:47:00 AM |
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theothergman
Michigan, ND
age: 48
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gman how sweet of you
I try to help, that's all, I try to help...
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| 3/27/2009 8:52:17 AM |
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eimi
Jacksonville, FL
age: 37
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double or tipple standard possibly...
I mean why lie right.
Actually if he is working in his yard, or outdoors doing something that a shirt off would be natural then No doesn't scream sex.
I think it is the laying with his shirt off in bed or the belt undone shirtless thing screams SEX and I wouldn't expect to find anything worth my time.
I am not looking for sex so if guy is screaming sex ...via picture then I am not going to pursue that. I want something with intelligence and humor with intimacy when the time is right.
I don't think duplicity is a good thing and agree with your point. I am just saying not every woman that shows some cleavage deserves to be disrespected or thought of as unintelligent.
As I have read your post it has become clear that is not what your saying. So all is cool!
Em
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| 3/27/2009 8:52:28 AM |
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cdnjackal
Etobicoke, ON
age: 45
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You know, I think that's absolute nonsense . It comes from an extremely narrow-minded and simplistic polarization: nice, smart girls button up; brainless, immoral sluts post sleazy pics. Not so. I've read endless threads about what people want in a relationship, and the conclusion was always the same: they want someone they can connect with on an intellectual, emotional, and sexual level. A profile is a multi-faceted view of a person, and if you don't just stare at the pic, but actually read what she has to say, you might get a better idea.
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| 3/27/2009 9:00:12 AM |
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lolsmile
Everett, WA
age: 47
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From the post before mine alone, I can tell that there are differing opinions on this one. Mine, is that the cleavage, butt, etc shots are the first tip off that the person is DESPERATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Same thing goes for those guys who send you the crotch shots LOL Tacky, no class, desperation for attention SCREAMING right out of the pic.
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| 3/27/2009 9:00:52 AM |
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spankdemnky
Florence, MS
age: 54
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Just curious girls, If a dude walked around with pants on that were cut down in the front so his "hoo-hoo" was exposed, except for the head, would this be the equivalent of a chic showing her titties except for the nipple????
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| 3/27/2009 9:01:21 AM |
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tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
age: 55
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From the post before mine alone, I can tell that there are differing opinions on this one. Mine, is that the cleavage, butt, etc shots are the first tip off that the person is DESPERATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Same thing goes for those guys who send you the crotch shots LOL Tacky, no class, desperation for attention SCREAMING right out of the pic.
damm, you've figured me out! I guess I can quit the therapist now
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| 3/27/2009 9:05:20 AM |
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eimi
Jacksonville, FL
age: 37
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Just curious girls, If a dude walked around with pants on that were cut down in the front so his "hoo-hoo" was exposed, except for the head, would this be the equivalent of a chic showing her titties except for the nipple????
Monkey I am not sure...send me one and I will decide..JK
he's laughing because he said titties...
I think cleavage is just showing where they touch not everything but the nipple...
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| 3/27/2009 9:06:03 AM |
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lolsmile
Everett, WA
age: 47
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damm, you've figured me out! I guess I can quit the therapist now
LOL Defensive much?  Just posted my opinion, didn't take any shots. Slow your roll girl,  not like I would be contacting you for a date no matter what your pic looked like LOL I am as straight as it gets.
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| 3/27/2009 9:08:21 AM |
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binderdundat
New Orleans, LA
age: 48
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This topic... along with many topics on internet dating sites is GREAT for weeding out the narrow-minded judgmental attitudes that speak WAY clearer as to what someone is all about than any cleavage/shirtless picture EVER could.
Thanks for granting an opportunity for those of us with half a brain to see who NOT to bother contacting! 
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| 3/27/2009 9:09:30 AM |
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leftyl8
Waverly, NY
age: 44
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we need a naked group hug......
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| 3/27/2009 9:11:33 AM |
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msbevzie
Oregon, OH
age: 46
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Just curious girls, If a dude walked around with pants on that were cut down in the front so his "hoo-hoo" was exposed, except for the head, would this be the equivalent of a chic showing her titties except for the nipple????
I dunno BUT I'd be looking that is a fact...and yes i look at mens hoo hoo's even in their pants
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| 3/27/2009 9:17:58 AM |
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eimi
Jacksonville, FL
age: 37
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This topic... along with many topics on internet dating sites is GREAT for weeding out the narrow-minded judgmental attitudes that speak WAY clearer as to what someone is all about than any cleavage/shirtless picture EVER could.
Thanks for granting an opportunity for those of us with half a brain to see who NOT to bother contacting!
your half a brain shows...let us know when you get the other half. Take your negativity to the streets.
He asked this in an intelligent and respectful manner. What is your problem?
Maybe if you get a sense of humor with your other half brain you will be happier.
Ms.Bev... you do look... you look so innocent.
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| 3/27/2009 9:29:52 AM |
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lolsmile
Everett, WA
age: 47
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This topic... along with many topics on internet dating sites is GREAT for weeding out the narrow-minded judgmental attitudes that speak WAY clearer as to what someone is all about than any cleavage/shirtless picture EVER could.
Thanks for granting an opportunity for those of us with half a brain to see who NOT to bother contacting!
your half a brain shows...let us know when you get the other half. Take your negativity to the streets.
He asked this in an intelligent and respectful manner. What is your problem?
Maybe if you get a sense of humor with your other half brain you will be happier.
Ms.Bev... you do look... you look so innocent.
LOL Guess I should have worded it "Tacky, no class, desperation for attention SCREAMING right out of the pic or the post" LOL When they are so defensive that they pop off at people for nothing, that speaks volumes too, and kinda funny to watch the hysterical types flip out. THAT sure weeds out the nuts
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| 3/27/2009 9:34:11 AM |
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ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 43
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No clue what you are complaining about?
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| 3/27/2009 9:35:12 AM |
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maryg2
Philadelphia, PA
age: 39
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well, well, well, two things i notice ppl WILL talk about, and i already posted in this thread, is TEETH and BOOBS!....still going strong!
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| 3/27/2009 9:36:41 AM |
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hear2listen
Roswell, GA
age: 48
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damm, you've figured me out! I guess I can quit the therapist now
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The doctor is real in, man. OK so the doctor looked. Doctors are only human in some of the worst of ways.
tjer1,
Marvelous response. Thank you for the chuckle.
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| 3/27/2009 9:37:51 AM |
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eimi
Jacksonville, FL
age: 37
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smile why no pic?
Call me a nut any day of the week...I try to figure out what kind I am but seems if I were a bag of them it'd be mixed.
Im sorry I didnt' compliment her on acting like she is better then everyone and smarter.
You sure say a lot for a shadow...do you feel the op posted this in a non respectful manner or without some thought...because I don't.
That is why I felt her comment was out of place. One thing is for sure nobody will see too much cleavage on your profile smile
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| 3/27/2009 9:48:03 AM |
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binderdundat
New Orleans, LA
age: 48
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smile why no pic?
Call me a nut any day of the week...I try to figure out what kind I am but seems if I were a bag of them it'd be mixed.
Im sorry I didnt' compliment her on acting like she is better then everyone and smarter.
You sure say a lot for a shadow...do you feel the op posted this in a non respectful manner or without some thought...because I don't.
That is why I felt her comment was out of place. One thing is for sure nobody will see too much cleavage on your profile smile
Who said I was talking specifically about the OP? My comment is/was directed at everybody claiming that just because someone shows some cleavage... or wears biker shorts to show their package... that that implies they are "desperate, needy, etc., etc., etc.
I consider that narrow-minded and judgmental and I use those assessments to weed out undesirables.... and.... most importantly.... don't care what you or anyone else thinks of that.
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| 3/27/2009 9:57:57 AM |
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hear2listen
Roswell, GA
age: 48
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You know, I think that's absolute nonsense . It comes from an extremely narrow-minded and simplistic polarization: nice, smart girls button up; brainless, immoral sluts post sleazy pics. Not so. I've read endless threads about what people want in a relationship, and the conclusion was always the same: they want someone they can connect with on an intellectual, emotional, and sexual level. A profile is a multi-faceted view of a person, and if you don't just stare at the pic, but actually read what she has to say, you might get a better idea.
You have completely misinterpreted the premise of my forum topic. Let's go this route. Take two women. They both "want someone they can connect with on an intellectual, emotional, and sexual level." They are both reasonably intelligent and what they have to express via their written content is warm, kind and inviting. One has deliberately published a provocative picture of herself and one has not. Does this suggest anything different about the integrity and persona of each woman?
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| 3/27/2009 10:06:19 AM |
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 36
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Everyone has the right to do whatever they like.
HOWEVER,
There are always consequences good or bad to said actions. And the ones that do post boobs, a** shots or whatever sexual things shouldn't complain if they.
One thing that should be noted is hypocrisy. Many of the ones that post cleavage which obviously depicts attention and obviously sexual in nature; when they receive prude notes from men regarding their pix and or when they talk sexual in the beginning, now the light switch is turned off. They no longer want to be viewed as a sex object, but that's what they are advertising in the first place.
It's no different than spring break, mardi gras, and other big events where women show lots of their body parts damn near half naked, but don't want to be viewed as a sex object where all the testosterone in the air. Big contradiction.
If ya don't want to be viewed as a sex object and don't want to receive sexual notes and connotations from men, then simply don't put ya self out there like that.
If ya can deal with the potential testosterone emails, gestures, talk, etc... then be the all the mens' guest.
Just like women have the right to dress and shape up their profile whether sexual in nature by putting the focus on their boobs, ass, etc., or post modest pix, men have the right to view them however they want to based on what's being depicted.
To each's own.
Once again Hear2listen, Let me clarify
1) the scenario you presents is just a " what if"
I tend to deal in realities
2)Or is it that you're somehow intimidated by the fact that they are comfortable with their sexuality and immediately need to find an explanation that would make them less human?
look the choice is are, if a woman who insecure and puts up " pics like that" well you can pretty much tell after reading their profile that they might have issues,baggage etc
If I go by what you're saying is if she intelligent and comes across as confident and intelligent and she shows cleavage pics, Am I to assume she's sleazy? or am I to think she maybe is very confident with her sexuality.
The same thing goes for the man, if he shows a shirtless pic, he has the body, but you see his profile and its not well written you would assume hes just a pretty boy but no brains just Eye candy, but if hes well spoken and looks good, he comes across as confident, maybe arrogant.... funny the double standards.
In my world I tend to assess people one on one before i make a decision.
Well put also.
[Edited 3/27/2009 10:12:51 AM PST]
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| 3/27/2009 10:08:54 AM |
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cdnjackal
Etobicoke, ON
age: 45
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Once again Hear2listen, Let me clarify
1) the scenario you presents is just a " what if"
I tend to deal in realities
2)Or is it that you're somehow intimidated by the fact that they are comfortable with their sexuality and immediately need to find an explanation that would make them less human?
look the choice is are, if a woman who insecure and puts up " pics like that" well you can pretty much tell after reading their profile that they might have issues,baggage etc
If I go by what you're saying is if she intelligent and comes across as confident and intelligent and she shows cleavage pics, Am I to assume she's sleazy? or am I to think she maybe is very confident with her sexuality.
The same thing goes for the man, if he shows a shirtless pic, he has the body, but you see his profile and its not well written you would assume hes just a pretty boy but no brains just Eye candy, but if hes well spoken and looks good, he comes across as confident, maybe arrogant.... funny the double standards.
In my world I tend to assess people one on one before i make a decision.
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| 3/27/2009 10:19:14 AM |
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hear2listen
Roswell, GA
age: 48
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Just curious girls, If a dude walked around with pants on that were cut down in the front so his "hoo-hoo" was exposed, except for the head, would this be the equivalent of a chic showing her titties except for the nipple????
What a minute. I didn't know I had a "hoo-hoo". I thought only ladies had "hoo-hoos". I thought I had a "wing-wang". I am really getting nervous now. I better check. Whew, thank heaven. Not that there's anything wrong with having a "hoo-hoo". It is just not my style. I must be careful how I express myself on this forum. I wouldn't want one of these ladies to get angry and try to turn my "wing-wang" into a "hoo-hoo".
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| 3/27/2009 10:21:15 AM |
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in_doubtalishis
Beaumont, CA
age: 34
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Women do have hoo hoos men have hee hees
So um yeah come on men start showin that penis clevage 
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| 3/27/2009 10:22:59 AM |
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tar_to_the_heel
Greensboro, NC
age: 33
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my penis cleavage scares even my dog
 indoubt!!!!
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| 3/27/2009 10:40:31 AM |
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1dizzygirl
Gettysburg, PA
age: 19
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I dunno about other people, but mine just kinda happen. I liked the pic because of my goofy faces, however, I don't think mine are too over the top. I think its ok to strut watcha got but on the other hand, don't go falling out of your top! ...I mean, I like see'n a guy in a wife beater or those perfect jeans ( you know what I mean) when they aren't really tight, but if the guy moves a certain way,... lol. Just don't go lookin desperate 
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| 3/27/2009 10:41:53 AM |
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mickeyhawk
Streamwood, IL
age: 38
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i give great butt cleavage!
or so i am told.
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| 3/27/2009 10:43:09 AM |
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1dizzygirl
Gettysburg, PA
age: 19
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Women do have hoo hoos men have hee hees
So um yeah come on men start showin that penis clevage
I'm with he on this one!!!
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| 3/27/2009 10:48:46 AM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 36
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Moar:
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| 3/27/2009 10:53:10 AM |
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in_doubtalishis
Beaumont, CA
age: 34
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Seriously the more I think about it I realize bulge shots should be mandatory. You guys know what your getting into with us. I want to know what im getting into with you. I dont want to get stuck with an old wrinkly small penis. I want big hard and smooth. Fair is fair dudes. Its time us women start being more picky in the penis area
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| 3/27/2009 10:54:56 AM |
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tar_to_the_heel
Greensboro, NC
age: 33
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I'm gonna go ahead and stop you right there sweetie. the day every woman on here posts pictures of their whole bodies front and back and quit hiding behind their push up bras, then we have a deal......or if you want to know about the bulge in my pants, ask the city comissioner of Las Vegas...he'll tell to which side its weighted
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| 3/27/2009 11:04:35 AM |
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bordstiff
Hampton, AR
age: 37
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I love boobies all boobies small,med,or big!!!boobies are soft and good to look at and hold and hey,if your a woman and you wanna show,show me baby i want tell!!!
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| 3/27/2009 11:06:37 AM |
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fairiebue
Minneapolis, MN
age: 51 online now!
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Not me!
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