| 11/11/2007 3:40:21 AM |
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burnedonce
Duncan, OK
age: 67
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What to do if u r in a new relationship and he says "dont fake it "so u dont and he beats himself up and say "guess Im not a good enough lover" and u try to tell him "it aint u baby".How many fake it till u make it so u dont hurt his feelings?
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| 11/11/2007 4:58:24 AM |
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shezakeepher
Columbia, SC
age: 53
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I never fake it. But I've been told that they think I came when I didn't. But I don't have to cum all the time to be satisfied. And when I'm in a solid relationship I think I have a really good sex life and I've not had any complaints. Cumming isn't the only think about making love it's the whole thing. To me anyway. I think it takes two it's not only the guys doing,  it's not ALL about them. JMO
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| 11/11/2007 8:06:23 AM |
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winesong
Bend, OR
age: 60
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hummm it has been 9 years since I was with a new person..I recall the nerves and *can I still do this and that* or feel this and that? Will I be moist enough...all those things that we never thought of when we were 40 something. Will my boobs be perky???
Will I *feel the passion?*
Meeting the right younger man, that KNEW how to make love to a woman, was outragious...younger men are more *aware* of a woman's body...at least the younger generation has had the benefit of movies, books, videos, and such to educate them. Oh, education is a VERY GOOD THING!! Dr. Laura Berman is wonderful!
Sex in the City and other HBO presentations...watching them together isw a turn on!
Now, after 8 years of a wonderful relationship, it is time to consider the aspects of love making again with a new man. I am trying to envision how this might happen again...will I have to pretend? **NO, that does not feel good....** after experiencing the REAL joy of sex.
I think I will try open communication, and playful attitude. Be a flirt... make
little promise to myself, I will give information about what pleases me...in detail.
Some men have never learned to please a woman, they do not know where the G-spot is, or possibly even seen a clitorus. You know if they do not know it is there...(and MANY men think they do, but they do not realize the importance of it) and how to bring the clit into the interaction,out in the OPEN, you cannot be expected to give them an 8 9 or 10 score. We should not have to FAKE it to appease their ego.
I know some women that say they have never experienced an orgasm. Such a shame..
very few men know how to make you *squirt* joy...but when you get this much arousal from a man, you will never forget it...he is a keeper!!! Thus said, true love and passion go hand in hand...it is the best love making in the world for me. Just gotta LOVE HIM to give and get the best...lovemaking.
Karen
[Edited 11/11/2007 8:12:44 AM]
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| 11/11/2007 9:21:38 AM |
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cottagebithec
Utica, NY
age: 60
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winesong has revealed some issues we deal with... body image and the influence of mutual love on our ability to "make it". I used to tell my first husband he needed to start making love in the kitchen to achieve what he wanted in the bedroom. Women respond to the way they are treated in the everyday moments in a relationship. When their man shows them by their actions they are respected, loved, cherished and attractive their bodies respond in the bedroom.
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| 11/11/2007 12:38:34 PM |
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lawvixen
Oldsmar, FL
age: 54 online now!
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I fake it with BOB..............................
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| 11/11/2007 12:45:14 PM |
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endlessly2
Pamplin, VA
age: 88
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It does not seem useful to fake it... just my view. How will they understand what you need or want that way? I would rather show someone how things can be different.
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| 11/11/2007 12:46:23 PM |
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rosannachanna
Des Moines, IA
age: 57 online now!
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Hey, you won't have to fake it today! Go to Sex and Dating and hit the party at Myrtle Beach. "Screaming orgasims" We need some girl power there cause some heavys are rolling in from the West. Channa
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| 11/20/2007 6:30:02 PM |
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lotsafuninpa
Tioga, PA
age: 66 online now!
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I have heard about ladies faking it,but have honestly never faked it in my life. Guess I'm just a horny toad--or the men knew what they were doing--lmao:
I am concerned about the body issues now,as I've gotten older--will i be afraid of being my real self----will i be scared of undressing--oo--boyyy--biggy here:: 
Warm hugs to all--Guess we'd better pray about this one--lol----Pat.  :
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| 11/21/2007 2:33:00 AM |
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lawvixen
Oldsmar, FL
age: 54 online now!
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Some blowup dolls fake it, just to get the guy off of them....
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| 11/21/2007 7:39:45 AM |
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thepkk
Springfield, MO
age: 52
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I never fake it. When I am with a man I just relax and get into the feeling of what he is doing and then bam I will climax. Now if he is one that knows how to please a woman, it is better to squirt the love juice.
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| 11/21/2007 9:27:23 AM |
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rosannachanna
Des Moines, IA
age: 57 online now!
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I just start hollerin' real loud like Nick does and kickin my legs wildly, big dog comes sliding around the corner into the room, jumps up on the bed growlin' an snappin', no fakin' needed, that puts the end to that bullshit. Channa
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| 11/21/2007 12:11:57 PM |
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ayeshah
Albuquerque, NM
age: 30
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umm if you can help me make it i don't fake it i can't say i havent in the past but ladies com'on who r we really cheating them or us , and hey toys help if he aint doing you justices, role playing and all that kinky freaky stuff helps ,
so think about ladies if you wont tell him he aint hitting it right than you'll also be the one loosing out, its ya body and you need to voice what you want and HOW ya want it,
so many women are scared to be labeled if they get freaky , well we grown right so im a say it ,
FOR my man(when i had 1) I was like the saying goes,Im a lady in the street but his Freak,Hoe or whatever he lol wanted in the bed! and no you aint got to be like that for every man but this was my 1st,well and for my 3rd BF too!
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| 11/22/2007 4:00:14 PM |
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lawvixen
Oldsmar, FL
age: 54 online now!
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I faked it with a male blowup doll, but he was gay anyway.......
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| 11/22/2007 9:03:08 PM |
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queenofhearts61
Seymour, IN
age: 62
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I will admit that I haven't been with a man in 15 years but, I never needed toys or play acting or anything else but a man I really cared about. May be that I am old fashioned but just has never been necessary for me to be pleased and I never had any complaints from a man either.
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| 11/23/2007 10:12:24 AM |
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rosannachanna
Des Moines, IA
age: 57 online now!
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Yeah I had to fake it with one guy, he wouldn't stop til ya did, well there's just some times it ain't happening no matter the skill provided, so that one time, the sun was just about to peep over the horizon and I had to get ready for work, so I just starts howlin'....I think it scared em off but that's the shameful truth..  Channa
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