12/4/2009 8:32:53 PM |
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reesie2009
Columbia, SC
age: 19
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I'm a black women and I date men of every color. It seems so taboo that people down south don't talk about interracial daing that much. Even religion, but that's another topic. I'm just looking for public opinions because this is something I face everyday.
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12/5/2009 5:18:37 PM |
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gremlins803
Jackson, SC
age: 24
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I'm a black women and I date men of every color. It seems so taboo that people down south don't talk about interracial daing that much. Even religion, but that's another topic. I'm just looking for public opinions because this is something I face everyday.
You can't limit the south to the only area that still finds interracial things taboo. Most places still do a double take, but it's something that will of course take time like all things do that are worth it. Look how far taboo things have come over just a few years and you'll see what I mean.
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12/5/2009 10:58:15 PM |
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yoshi23
Charleston, SC
age: 24
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I've been in interracial relationships before. My mother is married to a Puerto Rican man, my aunt is married to a red headed white guy (who I love to death). I think you can't judge a person by the color of their skin. People are different and you just have to give them a chance.
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12/6/2009 12:44:22 PM |
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gremlins803
Jackson, SC
age: 24
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completely agree with that, cause you never know what you might miss.
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12/6/2009 2:57:44 PM |
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sadeyesfollow07
Florence, SC
age: 22
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ive grown up in the south my entire life and i know theres a lot of people around here that look down on it. my parents especially are very unsupportive of it. i personally dont think theres anything wrong with. love is love. why would you want to miss out based on race?
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12/6/2009 5:45:10 PM |
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reesie2009
Columbia, SC
age: 19
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Thanx, I feel the same way. It shouldn't matter.
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12/7/2009 9:31:03 AM |
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csraparamedic
Beech Island, SC
age: 60
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You bring up a great point. So far I see the young people posting to this topic. How about an older person who dates back to racial unrest in the south and many other parts of this country. I still see it very prevelent here in the south. Also hear the whispers and see the looks when you see a mixed race couple.
Time and attitudes are changing for what I believe to be for the better. Still a long ways to go and I, personally, hope there comes a day when the color of your skin is not what we are judged by. Rather who you are as a person.
There is really only one race.......The human race. We all want the same things. No matter the color of our skin, the language we speak, how we make a living or our financial status.
I have and will continue to date outside of my race. I, personally don't give a crap about what anyone else thinks or says. I am there to enjoy the company of the person and not pick and choose based solely on what they look like. Like a few others that belong to this and other sites. Those that decide whether they will talk to, or even acknowledge you based on your looks first and foremost.
My generation will probably not ever get past that racial attitude. I hope this upcoming generation can and will. Don't worry about people with narrow minds and prejudise. Do what makes you feel good and have a relationship with whom you feel is the best choice for you.
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12/7/2009 8:38:18 PM |
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brieway
Bluffton, SC
age: 28
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I've dated outside of my race the majority of the time due to my taste. There's nothing wrong with it. But don't get me wrong, I live in the South and I'd be a liar if I said I haven't gotten mean mugs and cold stares. I could care less though. Ignorance will never fade out but who really cares. Those people are people that will never matter to me so I"ll keep dating whoever I want. Also, I think that one day all races will mix so much that it won't matter. I know that sounds lame, but it'd sure be beautiful.
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12/7/2009 8:41:30 PM |
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tstylz
Charleston, SC
age: 29
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I think anybody who looks down on it, or has the nerve to judge someone before getting to know that person is closed minded and probably misses out on A LOT of good relationship. That goes for friendships, more than friendships, and work relationships. Some of the best relationships in my past have been interracial!
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12/8/2009 9:40:18 AM |
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mr_crowley
Aynor, SC
age: 42
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Personally, I don't care what others say, or think.
I've dated outside my race a lot.
I've lived in 5 northern states n 2 southern and no matter where I live my tastes are still the same.
The funny thing here is, nobody ever thinks I'm latin and probably assumes I'm dating outside my race a lot more then I really do.
For me, beauty has no color, language, or country. Beauty is in the heart.
Its said beauty is in the eye of the beholder and nothing more truthful can ever be said.
What each individual sees as beautiful, is all that really matters.
The most important thing to remember is, YOU are the only person you NEED to make happy.
Family, friends and outsiders, need to find their own happiness and stop making others miserable.
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12/8/2009 1:30:04 PM |
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youngdynasty
Greenville, SC
age: 28
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I dnt think is anything wrong with it, majority of the women I date are white, I like black women too dnt get me wrong, but I just have a thing for white women!!
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12/8/2009 8:03:41 PM |
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sweet_semi
Greenville, SC
age: 30
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I am a single black female and I am interested in a white man. I have always wanted to date a white man do to how some of the white men that I have been around treated me.
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12/9/2009 8:55:06 AM |
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jessica0309
Florence, SC
age: 23
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I am a mixed woman and have always dated white men. I don't know why I have but it's just my taste. I don't see what the big deal is about interracial dating is. I have 2 sisters who are white and are married to black men! I don't care what anyone thinks about who I date because they aren't the ones that make me happy. The person I'm with and myself are and as long as we can both live with that then I don't care. We all have to do what makes us happy and not worry about what others think in ignorance.
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12/9/2009 12:56:44 PM |
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magicfinger56
Greenwood, SC
age: 57
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I really dont care what people think if I want to date a woman I will not be influenced by other people. There is enough prejudice out there to go around an Im suprised that the attitudes havent changed that much since I was a teenager. I dated a girl I like in highschool in Atlanta and after about a month she met me at the car when I drove up and said she was forbiden by her parents to see me again. I was heartbroken I dont know if it was love but we never had the chance to find out.
Date and be friends with who you want and youll never regret it.
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12/9/2009 9:50:30 PM |
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sadeyesfollow07
Florence, SC
age: 22
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im glad to see that are are a god number of poeple in SC that arent closed minded =) because there are a lot that are.
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12/11/2009 5:16:16 PM |
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reesie2009
Columbia, SC
age: 19
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I know right! Its beautiful.
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12/13/2009 8:48:39 AM |
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evan_lewis
Summerville, SC
age: 21
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well dang everything has been said bout this subject theres not much more that i can say lol
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12/14/2009 12:40:17 PM |
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sheriburch
Fort Mill, SC
age: 22
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I like dating mostly black men. there is just something about black men that i cant get enough of.
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12/22/2009 8:42:00 PM |
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dano1800
Wedgefield, SC
age: 19
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12/22/2009 8:47:08 PM |
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dano1800
Wedgefield, SC
age: 19
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12/25/2009 10:03:28 AM |
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dougmil
Columbia, SC
age: 49
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Maybe you should get one to fill all your desires
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12/27/2009 5:12:18 PM |
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jonbom
Greenville, SC
age: 22
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Ya, it is a little weird up here in SC. Im from Florida n theres alot more diff cultures down there, but thats because we have the port lol. I think its jus gonna take a little time, like everything else Im hispanic but i like all kinds of diff women, i dont discriminate
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12/28/2009 9:08:48 PM |
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erm2010
Hanahan, SC
age: 29
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I have to admit that I have found some black women very attractive, but not just black women but indian women, oriental women.....etc....I like em all.....everybody is unique and perfect!!!
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12/31/2009 1:29:28 PM |
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jerseysouth
Aiken, SC
age: 68 online now!
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Nothing wrong with dating outside one's race. People are people.
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1/1/2010 6:54:17 PM |
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momofthree123
Greenville, SC
age: 24
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Well I have read what everyone has had to say. Since noone has said how I feel I will put my 2cents in! Personally I have never done it. I dont think I ever will. But I still dont see a problem with it. Why look down on someone because of who they are with?? All that matters is your taste and if your happy. I guess I have never done it because I have never found any man besides a white man that I wanted to be with.
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1/6/2010 8:41:06 PM |
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itiger
Augusta, GA
age: 25
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I do think it's odd that race is always considered such an issue in the south. When I have traveled up north and to the midwest, I've been to TONS of towns 90%+ Caucasian population. What that means? I haven't the slightest idea, just thought I'd point that out. I am glad it's not like that here though, blessed really.
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1/7/2010 3:03:36 PM |
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flockfather
Piedmont, SC
age: 28
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i dont agree with this and dont want my kids to either.
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1/7/2010 9:11:42 PM |
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mooniedoonie
Greer, SC
age: 43
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i dont agree with this and dont want my kids to either.
I hope you let your children make their own decisions.Give them a chance to love anybody they want no matter what race.
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1/7/2010 9:34:00 PM |
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evan_lewis
Summerville, SC
age: 21
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I hope you let your children make their own decisions.Give them a chance to love anybody they want no matter what race.
you got a point there let the kids shape their own life this is how change is made for the better or worse who cares its their choice you cant force them not to do what they want to do i bet no one is making you do what they want you to.
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1/11/2010 8:21:53 PM |
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momofthree123
Greenville, SC
age: 24
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i dont agree with this and dont want my kids to either.
Like I said.. I wouldnt do it, I dont care if others do. But I'm with you, I dont want my kids to either. If they do, I'll have to live with it. But I would rather they didnt!!
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1/12/2010 8:07:18 AM |
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angelica1978
Murrells Inlet, SC
age: 32
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About Interracial dating first who in this world is completely pure? Only people in Finland /Sweden are. Far as down south dating I guess I have not seen that dating any race is a problem.We all bleed the same color. Some of us tend to like the opp. of what we are.
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1/17/2010 3:52:37 PM |
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tbird_runner
Batesburg, SC
age: 21
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I see nothing wrong with interracial dating. I will date a girl of any race but I mostly prefer white girls. I see a girl I like, I'll talk to her no matter what her race is haha!
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3/6/2010 4:23:22 PM |
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softscreams
Summerville, SC
age: 29
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I prefer dating asian men but it's almost impossible to find a single asian man who dates white women in charleston but yes it is a subject that is avoided. The bible belt is like 2 decades behind the rest of the world.
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3/10/2010 5:14:57 PM |
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keepgodfirst
Columbia, SC
age: 33
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I like it because you get to learn different cultures n lifestyles. Its exciting to me! Any race that knows how to treat a woman is ok n my book!
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3/10/2010 5:24:07 PM |
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keepgodfirst
Columbia, SC
age: 33
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With those who diagree and "don't want their kids to do it either" will be the first kids to do it! They'll learn to love it and b happy that its pissin mommy and daddy dearest off! I see it all the time! Go ahead kids! Love who u wanna love. Teach ur parents to be open-minded!
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3/11/2010 5:17:16 PM |
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keepgodfirst
Columbia, SC
age: 33
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That's right! We all bleed the same color.
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4/17/2010 7:30:40 PM |
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linyjo
Anderson, SC
age: 41
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I grew up in the Northeast so Inter-relations was never much of an issue. I have fantasied about being with a black woman but have yet to fill it. Hopefully someday I will meet someone that sparks my interest and wants to break my cherry.
Cultural differences keep things adventurous, nothing wrong with a little spice.
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5/10/2010 4:03:49 PM |
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reesie18
Columbia, SC
age: 19
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I love men in general but its just something about white and hispanic that excites me. Don't get me wrong, I like black men but its a thrill to date outside your race. All cultures all something to offer.
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5/10/2010 4:19:16 PM |
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robinsc
North Augusta, SC
age: 28
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I personally have nothing against dating outside of races. I mean I have dated a few people outside of my race. My family pretty condemns it but they got over it when I was dating outside of my race. If they love you they will. My family is also mainly christian and I am agnostic. I think as long as that person treats you well it doesnt matter what color they are.
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5/14/2010 9:13:09 AM |
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theone000000000
Laurens, SC
age: 25
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u are sexy as hell i need to get to know u some
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5/16/2010 7:57:12 AM |
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tiggerboo82
Summerville, SC
age: 28
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WAZ UP EVERYONE. my name is terrence and i am 28 from summerville. my froends call me terri. i am defintley all for interracial dating and relationships. i prefer african american men myself. ne masculine, domnate black men looking to meet new ppl. hit me up!!
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5/16/2010 2:26:05 PM |
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fuvous
Jacksonville, FL
age: 40
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I adore dating women of color and will do so until I no longer walk this beautiful world. Presently without that special woman in my life but am holding strong she is out there looking for me too. For all of those people that have indifferent opinions, I shall share with you a little of my past. I married young to a woman of my same race, thought everything was good, ups and downs as every relationship has maybe more. Long story short after 10 years of marriage everything was not fine, we divorced. After I collected myself and my mind was straight I started dating again and this was my experience. I met a beautiful black women who showed me what affection was about, more so then I ever received in 10 years of marriage with my x-wife. I have never returned to dating a woman of my own race and probably never will because of the major differences of how I am treated. Thank you to all of you beautiful nubian princess and mami chulas te quiero mucho ya tu sabes.
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5/22/2010 1:33:22 AM |
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jalasmile1
Greer, SC
age: 31
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good topic, I'm all for interracial dating!!!
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5/23/2010 12:26:22 PM |
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dirtyred6
Eatonton, GA
age: 23
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i luv some black women.
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5/23/2010 12:31:00 PM |
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dirtyred6
Eatonton, GA
age: 23
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I love men in general but its just something about white and hispanic that excites me. Don't get me wrong, I like black men but its a thrill to date outside your race. All cultures all something to offer.
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5/27/2010 9:34:06 PM |
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wallo1414
Charleston, SC
age: 25
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I see no color if your beautiful then your beautiful simple as that!
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6/2/2010 2:00:18 AM |
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lamama24
Leesville, SC
age: 24
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Interracial is the best. It's beautiful..My parents their very cool and supportive of whoever I date as long as that person treats me right and makes me happy.
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6/5/2010 10:36:29 PM |
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shawnavajo
Sumter, SC
age: 37
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I think people are so accustomed to tradition. One of the common phrases that I hear all the time is "we didnt do that when i was growing up" well there also wasnt cable TV, cell phones, or even a black president. To some it seems odd to see to different races/ethnicity be togeother. I think it shows diversity and diversity also show that youre very compatabily to different cultures, religions and environments. Sounds well rounded to me which is an attraction. I'm 100% for interacial dating
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6/9/2010 9:06:09 AM |
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myspecialone
Seabrook, SC
age: 53
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I dont see anything wrong with it. I have always wanted to be with a Africa American lady. Everybody has a special something about them in their own way.
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6/11/2010 7:16:00 PM |
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xxxlewisxxx
Columbia, SC
age: 46
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i think the same thing as u but i love me some nice black chicks
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6/20/2010 6:44:11 PM |
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hastings4
Seneca, SC
age: 20
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I'm a 19 year old, white man, and I'm dating a 18 year old, black woman, right now... Our love is so real, its almost tangible... I mean I love her with all of my heart and soul...
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6/23/2010 8:58:03 AM |
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cheata
Little River, SC
age: 64
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iam interested in dating a black women more then white so please show me some on my search thank you
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7/10/2010 6:54:51 PM |
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titanicrose
Schaumburg, IL
age: 45
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I like to say I am colored blind!!!! My two best friends are black one in Charleston and one in L.A.!
I have the most racial family in the world, I teach my children differently!
I think interracial couples are sweet.
It wouldn't bother me at all.
Actually children born with different mixed races are beautiful.
Just like when different groups of white from different areas of European background are too!
A shift of acceptance has happened with most people. Up here in Chicagoland it is pretty much accepted.
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7/13/2010 4:40:27 PM |
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keepgodfirst
Columbia, SC
age: 33
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Sorry black men. I just gave up on yall. And no its not common down south for black women dating outside their race. Unfortunately.
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7/13/2010 4:43:20 PM |
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keepgodfirst
Columbia, SC
age: 33
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I see no color if your beautiful then your beautiful simple as that!
That's what's up
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7/21/2010 10:06:30 PM |
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mammaboo
Elgin, SC
age: 38
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then why are you on a dating site??
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7/22/2010 2:52:43 PM |
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memphis8778
Columbia, SC
age: 32
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I just like to take a women out and have a good time. I dont care what color she is. I dont care what other people think. If they have a problem with it then let it bother them. As long as it dose not take the fun out of what we have going on then every thing is fine.
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7/23/2010 6:51:41 AM |
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therightcoast
Greenville, SC
age: 43
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I find interracial dating taboo. It's against my religion and personal beliefs. I also think it's disgusting. That is my opinion and I have a right to it.
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7/23/2010 1:10:08 PM |
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chocolatelady10
Greenville, SC
age: 37
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I don't care what ppl think! As long as I'm happy and being treated like the queen i am .
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7/30/2010 7:32:57 AM |
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ajawesome
Travelers Rest, SC
age: 39
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Sure. Asian, Spanish and Black. I don't care if they were green. If theyre compatible, then theyre compatible.
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