exoticlover
Panama City, FL
age: 22
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wats good my name is pooky i know but thats what peolpe call me but my story is crazy u see i was dating this girl and i really love her i mean really but at the same time i liked this other girl so basically i had a choice to make leave the one that i been with for 3 years for a female that i liked like a senseless man i went with the girl that i like at first everything was all good u know the passion the love the sex and i do mean it was good but anyways as time grew i found out that the girl that i like that i was falling for had heart problems so u know the rest she died its sad bec i mean she was everything to me for real but i had to let her go and the most crazies thing is before i left the one i loved she told me that what we have here is love what u want is like then she sadi my relationship wouldnty last 4 months sure nuff it didnt so now i,m on here trying to rebuild what love i have in my heart for a female so hit me up tell me what u think about the choice i made and remeber dont confusd love with like alright
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cassinigirl
Albuquerque, NM
age: 49
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Hey, pooky. Bless your soul. Sometimes you have to make a decision, and even if it is not the logical choice, you know what you have to do. Sometimes the forces and energy of life are simply stronger than logic. Initially, I thought why do so many men do this - leave a woman they really love for a roll in the hay with a new partner? But as I read on, I realized that in this case, it may have been a necessary step in your life. You learned that the woman you liked could become everything to you. You keep saying you only liked the second lady, but you also said "she was everything to me." I suspect you have a stronger, deeper, more three-dimensional view on life and love after what you have been through. And, for the lady you liked - I suspect you made her last 4 months in this world passionate and full of life. It may have become a difficult time for you with a sense of loss and mourning, but 4 months you wouldn't have missed for the world. We may never understand why you had to make the decision you did; just be easy that you made the decision that was right for that place and time.
That's what I think of the choice you made. Now as you rebuild the love in your heart, I expect you will be able to find the lady that will be both the one you like and the one you love, and you know not to take for granted the time you will have together. Many of us will be sending you mental hugs and positive energy as you move forward. Go do good things.
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micky_grays
Cleveland, OH
age: 23
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That is pretty f*cked up...
I think you made a logical choice. No point of staying with someone who you do not like as much as someone else and still pretend you do. F*ck for? It will fall apart eventually and u would have just been pissed u missed an opportunity to be with someone you truly like.
I think u did the right thing and u and her prolly had a great time while it lasted. Great news is that love in renewable. You are only 21 so pile on the cheddar and scoop up the ladies you like as you go.
Remember, make the best (logical) choice with the facts you have and you will not have much room for any regrets.
Cheers from the 216
[Edited 1/19/2008 7:01:39 PM]
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silver_rain1011
Springfield, VA
age: 22
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Wow, you left her when you KNEW she had heart problems?! That's when she needed you most... Bless her soul though, she is in a better place. I'm upfront to guys about my MS that way they know and when they see me at my worst they can make the choice to stick with me or move on. I'm not sore about it, I don't care that they can't handle it. I just want to know upfront so I don't count on them when they can't deliver. My illness is not going to go away, it will probably not get better, even with treatments that may slow the progression. I'm just going to steadily get worse and then die. But that's life. Any man who can't handle that is not worth spending my time with.
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