| 10/2/2010 6:12:11 AM |
Are Men too Judgmental about plus size attractive women? |
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lovelysmurfette
Omaha, NE
age: 43
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As we all know, not every woman is a size 2 Playboy Model, My question is why are men afraid to take chances with someone who may be a little heavy but could have a heart on the inside of gold? Would a man rather be with someone who is thin with no respect or a plus size woman that is respectful and could really be everything one is looking for in a companion?
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| 10/2/2010 7:36:56 AM |
Are Men too Judgmental about plus size attractive women? |
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ldgva1
Lincoln, NE
age: 57
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Please let me know if you find an answer to this question. I think it is funny men who are 10 years older then I am ( and I am as old as dirt) still say they want a Barbie doll on their arm.. They maybe 100 pounds over weight but still want a women who is what they look at as the normal size. 
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| 10/2/2010 8:46:21 AM |
Are Men too Judgmental about plus size attractive women? |
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blueskyguru2005
Omaha, NE
age: 41
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Men can make the same complaint. Seems to me that even the heavy women won't go out with a guy that has a bit of a beer gut. Talk about a double standard!
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| 10/2/2010 11:14:44 AM |
Are Men too Judgmental about plus size attractive women? |
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martine_1958
Lincoln, NE
age: 52
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I can't remember ever dating a slender man or a buff man. In fact, I think I avoid contacting the men that look "too good". I like the "heart" of the more average looking man.
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| 10/2/2010 6:39:41 PM |
Are Men too Judgmental about plus size attractive women? |
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a1inamill4u
Fremont, NE
age: 40
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interesting thoughts from all I happen to work out 4x a week and just happen to be a little stocky I have a heart of gold and want what we all strive for true love I'm begining to think that it may be this online dating stuff all together days and weeks of endless emails try to GET TO KNOW ONE ANOTHER what ever happen to and old fashioned cup of coffee or a beer or a simple picnic in the park I don't seek the so called eye candy I just want to be attracted to them with a little chemistry who knows the enless search continues
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| 10/3/2010 9:22:48 PM |
Are Men too Judgmental about plus size attractive women? |
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mzgiggles64
Lincoln, NE
age: 46
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Excellent question smurfette and hope you get some good thorough honest answers. I personally think that guys like Kevin James or Jim Belushi type tend to be more genuine because its more about personality as oppose to window dressing and they know it.
But have had a few occasions that I was "into" someone that was more of a beefcake type only to end up being categorized by them as "just a friend" because I didn't "fit" that ideal lady they seek. Which turned into an awesome friendships because of their honesty. However, I don't think it can always be due to my size but just like all situations the chemistry has to exist to move it to that next level.  
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| 10/4/2010 2:28:28 AM |
Are Men too Judgmental about plus size attractive women? |
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puppy_at_heart
Omaha, NE
age: 21
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Not all of todays society is that way. I dated a girl that was 200+lbs and I looked past that for her heart. I gave her a chance and it lasted nearly 10mo. Before she confessed she cheated on me 5times and kicked me out and the sad thing is I wanted to work it out and she didn't. But that has nothing to do with the topic at hand. Size doesnt matter if the heart is pure and caring. Its not easy for them as much as its not easy to be judged. It may or may not be there fault that there large. It shouldnt matter really and if they are uneasy with themselves then its best not to say it or judge them for it either. If anything you should help encourage them that they can loose it or help with it. But if you love them and if they love you back then it shouldnt be a problem to co-exist with a minor issue. Hell I'm 110lbs and cant gain a thing even in muscle weight. It seems like I can curtainly lose the weight as well. But how ever way you look at it theres always a solution for nearly everything and god willing if your going to love someone then you should love them for who they are and not so much on what they look like. I'm honest and I'm not a liar or heartless. If I have an opinion I will make it known. I dont mind either or whether there large or petite. Hell I dont even care if there a** is large or small let alone there breast size is small or large. Those type of features dont apply to me when I'm looking for someone, or someone is searching for me. But again size doesnt matter its what you make of the relationship more so then a fashion statement.
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| 10/4/2010 4:47:23 PM |
Are Men too Judgmental about plus size attractive women? |
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martine_1958
Lincoln, NE
age: 52
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Hooray for puppy! I hope you find the girl that deserves you!
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| 10/12/2010 4:41:15 PM |
Are Men too Judgmental about plus size attractive women? |
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foxy_woman_49
Omaha, NE
age: 52
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puppy... if I was younger....
You do have the right idea..nice to see that
My daughter is very thin..75 lbs thin ..its not pretty at all
she's at a point now where she may never be able to put any weight on and that is so sad
I worry and rightfully so
All ppl need some fat to them..thats not saying they need a lot but some is healthy
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| 10/12/2010 9:30:54 PM |
Are Men too Judgmental about plus size attractive women? |
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hardtwist
Crawford, NE
age: 42
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It's a tough question for some. To me it's a question of diet. The plus sized women that I know swig down a gallon of Mt. Dew a day! If a womans diet is the junk side of what's available........I'm not interested! Women are no more perfect than men, they come in all shapes and sizes. BUT, if all you eat is junk......then, that's how you will feel about yourself! A family member has a plus sized friend, she eats right and exercises three times a week and is still 50 pounds over weight. She a gestational diabetic. When she's pregnant, she balloons up and has a terrible time losing the weight. If I was 15 years younger, I would put the chase on her!lol
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