2/16/2008 6:02:21 PM |
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bestchoice36
Philadelphia, PA
age: 36
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i do understand when a marrige goes bad why does the spouse take her anger out to use the children for her anger against the dad
in so many different ways
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2/16/2008 6:40:23 PM |
someone help me understand |
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goldenangel
Morrisville, PA
age: 41
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I know exactly what you are saying.....my ex tries to use our 16 year old by making me such the bad guy best way to handle it is be open with your kids without bashing her...that is what i do with my daughter and our relationship has gotten so much better...she is open with me and we can discuss things without bashing her dad and we trust each other not to hurt the other that way my daughter and i is what i meant
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2/16/2008 9:07:42 PM |
someone help me understand |
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tinalynn33
Barryton, MI
age: 33
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Becuase she's an heartless ass...she has to take things out on the kids and not talk to you...step up to her and tell her it's not right to take it out on the kids and to talk to you about it..i don't like it when kids get brought in the middle or things taking out on them...HEARTLESS PEOPLE>........
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2/18/2008 9:11:40 PM |
someone help me understand |
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dyezah
North Little Rock, AR
age: 36
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It'd be nice if you could court order a mediator. People playing the kids are wrecking any chance of the kids having normal lives later on.
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2/19/2008 10:12:17 PM |
someone help me understand |
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darian23
Riverside, CA
age: 42
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I would say to pray for her to make changes for your kid's well being. If there is someone that she will listen to, have them point out to her that ultimately she is hurting the kids more than she is hurting you. You're an adult and can take it and deal with it much easier than the kids can. I was, and at times still am, dealing with my son's father being hateful. My son has had alot of pain because his dad is so self centered. I know it is hard, just don't fuel her fire. At some point, she will realize that she can't push your buttons and will back off.
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3/3/2008 12:03:24 PM |
someone help me understand |
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bestchoice36
Philadelphia, PA
age: 36
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i thank u all so much
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3/3/2008 6:26:36 PM |
someone help me understand |
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fpjones
Waycross, GA
age: 38
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Sorry bro, no kids and no communication with the ex, so I couldn't tell ya
[Edited 3/3/2008 6:27:01 PM]
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3/14/2008 7:29:55 PM |
someone help me understand |
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blonde73fairy
Clarksville, TN
age: 35
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My ex and I worked out that he takes the boys on Saturday. At least until he gets mad at me for whatever reason and then he doesn't want them. His loss not mine.
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