evanescenceam
Andover, CT
age: 23
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The prospect of being a single parent trying to find someone is starting to look impossible. I'm very pregnant (due in 6 weeks) and guys hit on me and flirt with me, but they don't ask me out. I think it's because they assume I'm with the father of the baby. Some of them just want sex and I've never been one for just sex.
My life will be hectic for a few months. I just find myself feeling extremely lonely lately. I don't do bars. And I don't want someone that sees me as a walking 'instant family'.
I was seeing someone for a few months but that just fell apart. I was brutally honest with him when I met him about the baby. I wasn't showing then. I'm definately showing now.
Is it fair for me to ask anybody out in my state? What do I say? What is going on in men's minds when a pregnant woman hits on them?
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ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 41 online now!
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I feel you're already a parent at the moment of conception. It's too late to find someone who will be willing to take on all of the emotional responsibility that you are going to need now, during child birth and some time after.
To me it would be very unfair to enter in a relationship with a guy for the sole purpose of using him to fill in the emotional gaps your going to need.
I would turn to family for now.
You really don't want to know what's possibly going on in a guy's mind in this situation.
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deannalynnr
Sparrows Point, MD
age: 43 online now!
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When I was pregnant I was flirted with alot....alot men think a pregnant woman is very beautiful and sexy but just because they flirt doesn't mean they are wanting you and yes im sure they assume you are with the father of your baby. I know it gets lonely not having a companion in your life but focus on your child that you are soon going to have he or she is more important than you worrying about having a man in your life just because you are lonely...I don't mean to sound harsh if it comes across that way to you...all im trying to say is that if you find happiness within yourself and with your child all else will come together for you someday. Good Luck!
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