1/14/2011 6:59:42 PM |
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nikkin87
Medina, OH
age: 24
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It seems like there are not many men out there who are into being the way its supposed to be. Just curious if anyone else felt that way. I have no problem being the woman and knowing my place.
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1/14/2011 8:10:07 PM |
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imagoodone4sure
Xenia, OH
age: 50
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I have to believe that in my case God has back ~ I have connected with a true gentleman and not sure what your def of old fashioned is but this guy is a true man of God and since he is my age understands about treating a lady like a lady and "courting".
All my past relationships have been sexually based and of course never lasted. This time God is the foundation so it is different than anything I have known but I can tell you that is is very refreshing being in his company and taking the time to get to really know each other.
Good men are out there and I bet even on here too if you give it time. Good luck to you.
As far as knowing my place. It is NOT being a push over but a partner.
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1/14/2011 8:30:32 PM |
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sb1229
Cleveland, OH
age: 46
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I'm not a man and please forgive me for intruding on your thread, but can you please elaborate on "how it's suppose to be?" And "knowing your place?" What "place" is that? I'm a very independant woman and suffered thru the "this is the way it's going to be" relationship (marriage) for 10 years and can't imagine why someone would be looking for such a "downgrade," so to speak, in life? There is nothing wrong with trying to please your man but the June Cleaver days went out long ago. JMO
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1/14/2011 10:01:34 PM |
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tekkeronmonday
Andover, OH
age: 21
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i think women and non-gentlemen have killed the chivalry. i personally am a gentlemen in the truest sense of the word. but when i tell women this they all think the same thing "just another guy saying stuff he doesnt mean to get with me" like when you use keywords for a job interview "on-time, hardworking, follows directions" because the wrong guys say there are gentlemenly and then screw over a girl she does not believe it when an actual gentlemen comes along and tries to sweep her off her feet.
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1/15/2011 6:00:45 AM |
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pmapo153
Hamilton, OH
age: 51
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I'm not a man and please forgive me for intruding on your thread, but can you please elaborate on "how it's suppose to be?" And "knowing your place?" What "place" is that? I'm a very independant woman and suffered thru the "this is the way it's going to be" relationship (marriage) for 10 years and can't imagine why someone would be looking for such a "downgrade," so to speak, in life? There is nothing wrong with trying to please your man but the June Cleaver days went out long ago. JMO
Sounds like a smart 24 year old.
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1/15/2011 10:36:14 AM |
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beachcomber233
Thornville, OH
age: 65
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The problem for you is most old fashion men are " old " Best wishes in your search
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1/15/2011 3:26:03 PM |
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woodsman2001
Canal Winchester, OH
age: 48
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I think 2 people nailed the issue on the head.
One posted about women and bad men killed chivalry
The other one said she is very independent..
Yes many women are very independent today not that it is bad. The problem I see with that is that a man was the "fixer","protector" and the "provider".
Many women today fail to see the importance to all that for the male. Now you have commercials and tv shows that slam men for being men. Then ask what happened to the old fashion guy?
The old fashion guy is under attack on many fronts so now you have men who are wimpy, uncaring and in many cases just rude.
No matter what you may think, men and women do have their places and because of this lack of understanding we see divorce in the highest numbers ever. No man wants to feel he is not needed, just as no woman still does not want to feel special and this does cause many issues unseen in the modern relationships of today.
But then again what do I know I am just a stupid guy
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1/15/2011 3:54:34 PM |
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woodsman2001
Canal Winchester, OH
age: 48
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Now that I read the entire post from SB. My question is what is the down grade to what the poster said.
women still want to be treated like women and even want those 3 things I stated from a man.
Provider, protector and the fixer.
Yes even those things were around with June Cleaver, no one is asking that a woman stay home and do the floors in a dress, but each sex does have roles to play in relationships and within the family.
This is no way is an attack on your thinking it is just my observations in the changes I have seen in my lifetime.
And like the old fashion guy I am just for you.
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1/15/2011 7:39:10 PM |
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sb1229
Cleveland, OH
age: 46
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When I first read this thread, the line "A woman's place is in the home" came to mind. I never did agree with that statement. Maybe my first post was just a reflection on a part of my life I'd rather forget. Sorry for adding my 2 cents.
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1/15/2011 8:04:09 PM |
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cowgirl212
Coshocton, OH
age: 53
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now sb, ya know we always want your 2 cents..it's usually worth a nickel!!
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1/16/2011 4:16:06 AM |
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lucas510
Wadsworth, OH
age: 26
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There are plenty of them. I'm proof of that. Its because I have kids though. If I didn't have kids I have a feeling I'd be a bit out of control.
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1/16/2011 2:46:00 PM |
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snides20
Mingo Junction, OH
age: 28
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There is absolutely no place for anybody to know. If that's what you enjoy the cooking and cleaning and such that is still not a place. Theres nothing wrong with a man helping you do those things it makes life easier when you work together as a partnership then two seperates who supposingly has their own tasks of what they should be doing.
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1/16/2011 3:18:32 PM |
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waitingnolonger
Elyria, OH
age: 39
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There is absolutely no place for anybody to know. If that's what you enjoy the cooking and cleaning and such that is still not a place. Theres nothing wrong with a man helping you do those things it makes life easier when you work together as a partnership then two seperates who supposingly has their own tasks of what they should be doing.
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1/16/2011 7:40:10 PM |
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catieliz
Columbus, OH
age: 47
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I would like to find a relationship like my mom and step dad. My mother has never wanted for anything. She only worked outside the home after they were married because she got bored and she is a shopaholic. My step dad is a good provider, retired Navy man, and factory worker. He has always had a decent income, now retirement income. He takes care of our land, cars, mr. fix it, dogs, etc. He just bought the family a Harley I have been asking for one for years. He is an even tempered guy, bark louder then bite. A big teddy bear of a man.
So I myself would not mind an old fashion guy, if he was like my step dad.
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1/17/2011 7:06:22 AM |
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cowgirl212
Coshocton, OH
age: 53
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When I think of "old fashioned",, qualities come to mind...respect, honor, chivalry, morals, and others. Wonder why these are considered "old" fashioned instead of "in" fashion???
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1/17/2011 9:27:44 AM |
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tallman_7
Dalton, OH
age: 60
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Yes there are still that kind but we just respect ladies and want to be kind and gentle
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1/17/2011 12:08:25 PM |
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pmapo153
Hamilton, OH
age: 51
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Yes there are still that kind but we just respect ladies and want to be kind and gentle
She wants someone young, but acts like someone old like you. lol,,just kidding..
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1/17/2011 1:07:33 PM |
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sassyvirgo53
Columbus, OH
age: 57
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who sets the standards for "the way its supposed to be" ? you do my friend, there are still some good guys out there believe me i have found a few and i raised a few too.
times they are a changing. you still need to follow the golden rule and remember if it is right with you and the one you choose it doesn't have to be right with everyone else.i had to find that out the hard way.
listen to your heart! it is the one that will show you the way.
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1/17/2011 1:38:33 PM |
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nobs4u
Mansfield, OH
age: 50
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I would have to agree with Cowgirl,here....why is this "old fashioned"? I am as crazy as ya wanna be ,BUT,I can and,(sometimes),DO! treat a lady with respect and EVERYONE with courtesy."Love thy nieghbor as thyself"...and all.....
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1/17/2011 4:03:24 PM |
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sb1229
Cleveland, OH
age: 46
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Nobs, you're such a suck up!!
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1/17/2011 5:17:57 PM |
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nobs4u
Mansfield, OH
age: 50
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"Lick up",maybe....suck up?
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1/17/2011 9:17:34 PM |
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catieliz
Columbus, OH
age: 47
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OH MY!
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1/18/2011 8:40:18 AM |
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ohiosunshine48
Bolivar, OH
age: 49
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I like my independance but I also like to be "courted" as they say, and I still like a man to be a gentlemen, I don't think a women should have to give up one for the other, nor should a man have to choice, in any relationship, treat others as you like to be treated
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1/18/2011 4:57:40 PM |
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oyoungpuppy69o
Saint Marys, OH
age: 30
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how old fashioned.
like cook for the on the love. setting by the fire or going camping
or when the one they love come home for a long day work he wold say dear let me fix you a nice hot bath and make you some dinner.
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1/18/2011 5:00:11 PM |
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oyoungpuppy69o
Saint Marys, OH
age: 30
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i would like to do it by the Bible this time Get marry
and then go from there
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1/18/2011 6:05:52 PM |
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pinpanther
Trenton, MI
age: 36
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thats excally what i'm looking for
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1/18/2011 8:32:28 PM |
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cowgirl212
Coshocton, OH
age: 53
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So,,,email him & make his day!!!!
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1/19/2011 6:11:50 PM |
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big7fttallguy48
Toledo, OH
age: 50
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honny i m old fashioned i willing to wate to you are my wife
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1/19/2011 6:12:48 PM |
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big7fttallguy48
Toledo, OH
age: 50
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hunny i m old fashioned i willing to wate to you are my wife
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1/20/2011 1:45:15 PM |
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markr275
Newark, OH
age: 37
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how is she downgrading by wanting to be a good wife like it used to be."I respect someone like her more then a independant woman.
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1/20/2011 3:45:53 PM |
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pjpam
Medina, OH
age: 53 online now!
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what men here i dont know theres none left in my age they suck lol
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1/20/2011 3:51:14 PM |
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kahuna83
Maineville, OH
age: 48
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Yes there are some old fashioned men but, we tend to be older. When you find a man that believes in chivalry AND will treat you as an equal partner in the relationship, then you have something.
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