blonde73fairy
Clarksville, TN
age: 34
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I start talking to guys and they learn I have 4 kids and the conversation ends. They have kids too and suddenly I'm not interesting enough for them. Do they not think they can not love a woman who has kids or are they looking for the barbie doll, never had kids, wants to have more kids kind of woman? When I was younger, hadn't had any kids, last thing I wanted was a man who had children of his own.
I just wondered if any of you..I'm sure men go through ever been in conversations like this one.
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nancy2
Baltimore, MD
age: 51
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I have 4 kids been man less for 13 years, men look at us as a money pit. We will cost too much.
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wildgypsy
Bellevue, WA
age: 45
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In all fairness, knew a man who had three, and it was a bit overwhelming. But, it was the kids themselves that made me turn and run. Such flaming spoiled brats! Not saying yours are brats, your posts didn't mention him even meeting them. Just trying to say that in all fairness, we women run from kids sometimes too.
On the flip side, some crazy dudes took an interest in me BECAUSE of my kids. Didn't have any of their own, wanted them, liked mine... Maybe you will find one of those, who isn't too crazy to put up with LOL
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lazarous67
San Jacinto, CA
age: 41
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i guess that im one of those crazy guys who loves kids, i have one, wanted about a dozen, but that didnt happen, my sons mom had other ideas. lol. seriouly though, i do love kids, want to meet someone who has some of her own, that way she wont just spoil my son and ignore me. lol.
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