Friends with benefits? opinions

8/16/2011 8:43:36 PM	Friends with benefits? opinions
ireneinmia67 Miami, FL 47, joined Aug. 2011	i have no problem with friends with benefits but i tend to have a problem with total strangers saying they would like to date me if it was friends with benefits. how can a total stranger be a friend. with the scares with all the sexual transmitted diseases, i would think people would be more careful. opinions and thoughts, please. thank you for your response. Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
8/16/2011 9:14:36 PM	Friends with benefits? opinions
newnormal716 Altamonte Springs, FL 45, joined Jul. 2011	I never used to think I could do friends with benefits and I still don't think I could do it with a stranger. There's a guy at work that makes the thought interesting though
8/17/2011 3:53:38 PM	Friends with benefits? opinions
casagrandegirls Casa Grande, AZ 27, joined Jul. 2011
8/17/2011 4:57:46 PM	Friends with benefits? opinions
magickissess New Port Richey, FL 62, joined May. 2009	I wouldn't be calling a stranger a friend so NO BENEFITS for them lol. However, even with friends, this can be a very difficult situation. If you care enough to be friends, bringing that intimacy into the relationship can muck things up as feelings typically will develop. And besides, how many "friends" does one do this with?
8/17/2011 4:58:44 PM	Friends with benefits? opinions
jerseyguy39 Ocala, FL 43, joined Apr. 2011	everybody's different
8/17/2011 7:47:16 PM	Friends with benefits? opinions
purian West Palm Beach, FL 55, joined Nov. 2009	yes it's possible...keyword being "friends"
8/17/2011 7:53:21 PM	Friends with benefits? opinions
ted16 Fort Pierce, FL 63, joined Mar. 2009	So is it kinda like, shaking hands?
8/18/2011 12:44:20 AM	Friends with benefits? opinions
shewolf44 Jacksonville, FL 54, joined Jul. 2011	I don't believe in that or the old test drive bologna. Momma always said''Hun,no man's gonna buy de cow if the Milk's free.Well she was right and I aint no Jersy heffer..lol.I have few male friends mainly because thier Johnson's thier best friend.I dont give out de cookies...They're for my future Husband if that happens.Better to be alone then used like a old rag.lol.
8/18/2011 5:23:35 AM	Friends with benefits? opinions
olddi Daytona Beach, FL 57, joined Sep. 2009	Quote from magickissess: I wouldn't be calling a stranger a friend so NO BENEFITS for them lol. However, even with friends, this can be a very difficult situation. If you care enough to be friends, bringing that intimacy into the relationship can muck things up as feelings typically will develop. And besides, how many "friends" does one do this with? i'm with you on this . di
8/19/2011 11:34:57 AM	Friends with benefits? opinions
tampa_bob Tampa, FL 57, joined Jun. 2009	Quote from newnormal716: I never used to think I could do friends with benefits and I still don't think I could do it with a stranger. There's a guy at work that makes the thought interesting though Hmmm... Are they hiring? Oh, but back to topic (as if that wasn't )... I had a friend who offered and when I told her no that I think it would ruin our friendship little did I know that me saying no would end it instead. Now on hindsight perhaps I should have sacrificed my body for our friendship (why no icon for sarcasm?). Plus I've never been with a redhead before. But the idea of is where you meet someone new for the most part (Jerry and Elaine notwithstanding) and just get the giggity going, right? I don't know if I could do that. Catholic guilt and all...
8/19/2011 7:17:12 PM	Friends with benefits? opinions
docktork Kissimmee, FL 63, joined Jan. 2011	Quote from tampa_bob: Hmmm... Are they hiring? Oh, but back to topic (as if that wasn't )... I had a friend who offered and when I told her no that I think it would ruin our friendship little did I know that me saying no would end it instead. Now on hindsight perhaps I should have sacrificed my body for our friendship (why no icon for sarcasm?). Plus I've never been with a redhead before. But the idea of is where you meet someone new for the most part (Jerry and Elaine notwithstanding) and just get the giggity going, right? I don't know if I could do that. Catholic guilt and all... --dude she offered should'a popped the raincoat on and just did what she wanted ? she blew you u away anyway so WTF it might have been a great thing for both of you's how do u know what you were missing at your age no offense you cam't drop the ball there --you probably didn't like her huh just my guess
8/20/2011 5:05:10 AM	Friends with benefits? opinions
andrade_o Miami, FL 27, joined Aug. 2011	A friend with benefits doesn't have to be your friend, it could be someone you just met. Its just someone to f**k usually wouldn't last long and It can also be that she doesnt like you that much to call you her boyfriend or girlfriend.
8/20/2011 5:07:19 AM	Friends with benefits? opinions
peeps57 Sarasota, FL 57, joined Jul. 2010	Let's just say I will pass on the FWB.
8/20/2011 5:14:45 AM	Friends with benefits? opinions
jerseyguy39 Ocala, FL 43, joined Apr. 2011	Quote from tampa_bob: Hmmm... Are they hiring? Oh, but back to topic (as if that wasn't )... I had a friend who offered and when I told her no that I think it would ruin our friendship little did I know that me saying no would end it instead. Now on hindsight perhaps I should have sacrificed my body for our friendship (why no icon for sarcasm?). Plus I've never been with a redhead before. But the idea of is where you meet someone new for the most part (Jerry and Elaine notwithstanding) and just get the giggity going, right? I don't know if I could do that. Catholic guilt and all... redheads are fun, bob
8/20/2011 5:25:40 AM	Friends with benefits? opinions
tampa_bob Tampa, FL 57, joined Jun. 2009	Quote from docktork: --dude she offered should'a popped the raincoat on and just did what she wanted ? she blew you u away anyway so WTF it might have been a great thing for both of you's how do u know what you were missing at your age no offense you cam't drop the ball there --you probably didn't like her huh just my guess Yeah, but the way this brain reacts... She WAS a friend of mine and I never looked at her any other way/ We were talking and she said, "Well I can help you out." So I was shocked and she probably saw it on my face, perhaps if I'd thought it over. I've been thinking of calling her just to see how she's doing...
8/20/2011 5:26:44 AM	Friends with benefits? opinions
tampa_bob Tampa, FL 57, joined Jun. 2009	Quote from jerseyguy39: redheads are fun, bob And she's Cuban to boot! A spicy little firecracker!
8/20/2011 9:53:53 AM	Friends with benefits? opinions
ireneinmia67 Miami, FL 47, joined Aug. 2011	Quote from tampa_bob: And she's Cuban to boot! A spicy little firecracker! who is cuban???
8/20/2011 10:04:24 AM	Friends with benefits? opinions
ireneinmia67 Miami, FL 47, joined Aug. 2011	Quote from andrade_o: A friend with benefits doesn't have to be your friend, it could be someone you just met. Its just someone to f**k usually wouldn't last long and It can also be that she doesnt like you that much to call you her boyfriend or girlfriend. then wouldnt that be more like a booty call. i always thought friends with benefits was different than a booty call. i am so confused. i guess i am old school when it comes to all this. i just dont get it.
8/22/2011 1:12:30 AM	Friends with benefits? opinions
yaniegal Hollywood, FL 38, joined May. 2010	He's A Friend Alright.............I'm Just No Benefiting From The Sex He Sold Me Too Many Wolf Tickets, I Hope We Can Continue Being Friends Tho Minus The Sex
8/22/2011 9:29:59 AM	Friends with benefits? opinions
alaskasjourney Milton, FL 58, joined Jun. 2011	Don't think I could do it. Just get nothing out of it and might loose friendship and it wouldn't be worth it to me.
8/22/2011 3:20:10 PM	Friends with benefits? opinions
redaisy Deland, FL 53, joined Aug. 2011	I have had a friend with benefit 2 times before, one I did develop feelings for and it did not end so nicely the other were still friends...just with no benefits. The one thing I like a about a friend with benefits is that your not with a lot of unknowns with benefits, you just have one main benefit.....mind you that was a while ago...now I just have friends with very few benefits...lol ...it is all good ...or was good...
8/24/2011 1:55:47 AM	Friends with benefits? opinions
mrbigone69 North Fort Myers, FL 36, joined Aug. 2011	actually this is exactly what im looking for i state it in my profile. and to anwser your question yes a Friend with Benefits is Different then a booty call in that a booty call is JUST SEX and thats it as for a Friend with benefits is someone you can do things with like a normal Friend (enjoy a dinner together, a movie, the beach) BUT also enjoy the sexual benefits of a Relationship as well i do think you should be straight foward and open as what you expect could there be a possiblity of a long term thing and if either should start having strong feelings you should discuss it as the saying goes honesty is the best policy that way hopefully no one will get hurt. I look at a Friend with benefits relationship as skipping the whole dating step...i mean if you see pics and talk and you like what you see and hear and the ohter person involved likes what they see and hear its all good...Note that i Say a FRIEND meaning one there are Men out there that Likes FRIENDS which to me is not a TRUE friend with benefits relationship and no you dont have to be Friends already it can be someone you just met but the intentions should be to enjoy the benefits on Regular basis...i dont believe in booty calls or one night stands because thats just someone being used as a piece of meat and nothing more
8/24/2011 2:05:23 AM	Friends with benefits? opinions
peeps57 Sarasota, FL 57, joined Jul. 2010	Who would have imagined with your screen name????
8/24/2011 5:11:06 AM	Friends with benefits? opinions
olddi Daytona Beach, FL 57, joined Sep. 2009	Quote from peeps57: Who would have imagined with your screen name???? . di
8/24/2011 9:47:33 AM	Friends with benefits? opinions
ireneinmia67 Miami, FL 47, joined Aug. 2011	i want to thank all the comments regarding this subject. it has open my eyes and mind to the possibilities and even though i might be batteling my feelings a bit, it is great to have people who have honest and truthful comments.

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