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| joepainterman |
Last Online: Today |
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| Location: |
Kalamazoo Michigan |
| Zip Code: |
49001 |
| Age: |
32, Libra |
| Height: |
6 ft. 1 in. |
| Hair, Eyes: |
Dark Brown, Blue |
| Body Type: |
Slender |
| Ethnicity: |
White |
| Religion: |
Christian |
| Politics: |
Liberal |
| Education: |
Associate's Degree |
| Income: |
Didn't Say |
| Job: |
Healthcare |
| Drink: |
Drink Socially |
| Smoke: |
Don't Smoke |
| Status: |
Single |
| Have Kids: |
Yes, not living with me |
| Want More: |
No |
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| Personality |
Let's make a promise right now, I won't tell people where we met. OK? 
Let's get the dirt out of the way so YOU can make your pick. Don't forget I have to know YOUR dirt so I can make MY pick.
Fair enough?
This can save you and me lotsa time 
I've had a full life already, so I'm picky.......now.
I'm 32 and I've had three failed relationships.  , I never asked anyone to marry me, the first two were shot gun weddings (why is it always the guys fault by the way) The second divorce was all MY fault, but when the third wife of 7 years told me to give up my kids, I chose my kids. DUH!!!! SHE made HER choice. Each marriage lasted longer than the one before. My 3 girls are by the first two wives. But I raised a step daughter for 7 years, I love kids so don't think I won't love yours.
I take my time NOW, so don't ask wtf is wrong with ME , I already know!!!!!!! I didn't voice my needs and she forgot to ask. I forged ahead full steam with out looking back.  Have you ever done that?
 NOW I can't jump into dating, bed or marriage because of that, This does not mean I can't committ 
When we feel the comfort zone has been reached we should talk on the phone,  I hate computers  THEN meet up... this the hardest part The HUG says it all we say hello, maybe a peck on the lips, this is important to see if we have a physical spark. Would we find a way out the back door, waste 20 minutes or spend all nite saying "WOW, me TOO!!"
Do I do all the talking????
I won't lie, but I need to know if it was worth the DRIVE let alone "dinner and a movie" I hate TV so the tickets, popcorn candy, drinks and dinner cost $100 DOING the same thing I've BEEN doing...."Priceless",
so lets sort the baggage and drama now,  I don't have $ and patience for it later. I don't know the rules of dating so I talk first and set up boundaries to be safe and I respect boundaries !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If you're still reading, you've passed the first test. And there's the first thing we have in commom.
There is so much more to learn about me and I know myself well enough to put it into words, spell them pretty good, and articulate just fine.
I have 2 college degrees, Paralegal Studies/ and Medical Assistant.
I fall in love too fast, I am very talkative, I like to read, cuddle, swim, cook, go camping, hiking, hang out on the boat, hang out with friends over dinner and watch a movie at home, maybe have a couple drinks and do the hot tub if it strikes us!
My biggest turn offs are filthy houses, misbehaved kids, girls that still go back to the "baby daddy", date a lot, get drunk to be real, fall in love before they know me, or look for an obvious free ride.
Turn on: Great conversation laughing at the past not complaining. Tough enough to hold her own, adores me, appreciates what she has, thinks for herself, gives up control with out waging war, yet has independent, and creative mind.
Looks aren't everything but your personality better make up the difference, not your wallet. Studies show I am not picky, but I'M learning!!!!
I have passion and fantasies like everyone else, but I can wait to reveal my 3 fetishes. The longer I wait to tell you the better off it is. Nobody has thought it's creepy but I will admit unique. Thank you for hearing me to the end. Make any comment you like, I can handle the truth, can YOU????
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| Personality Type: |
Outgoing |
| Want To Find: |
A woman ages 25 to 35 to date |
| I Party: |
Didn't Say |
Interests:
I Like: |
affectionate, Battle Creek, boating, chatting, cooking, cuddly, dancing, dining out, drinking, good looking, hanging out, having fun, independent, instant messaging, Kalamazoo, open minded talking, outdoors stuff, pinball, pool, socializing, staying in, traveling, watching movies |
| My Groups: |
Single Parents |
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