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| sfleditor |
Last Online: Yesterday |
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| Location: |
Newport Oregon |
| Zip Code: |
97365 |
| Age: |
65, Cancer |
| Height: |
5 ft. 9 in. |
| Hair, Eyes: |
Bald, Hazel |
| Body: |
Above average |
| Ethnicity: |
White |
| Religion: |
Not Religious |
| Politics: |
Moderate |
| Education: |
Some College |
| Income: |
Didn't Say |
| Job: |
Computers, Software |
| Smoke: |
Don't Smoke |
| Has Kids: |
Yes, not living with me |
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| About Me |
Finding the next 30 years -Soul of an artist, mind of a technician, heart of a romantic, with a sense of humor about it all Questions? ask. I am a simple man that believes in simple pleasures.
I love life, live it. I want to experience as much as I can. Open to new ways, ideas and interests I have a huge passion for words. I find them so powerful and beautiful. For me, they are the vehicle for ... well, almost everything: really getting to know someone, getting to be really known, humor, pouring out your heart, learning, entertainment, teaching, evoking passion and tears and joy.
For me, words are the universal element that strings everything together. For me, listening is extremely important. Real listening. Hearing and understanding are only part of the equation. The real art of it is in making the other person feel really heard. I know people who think that if I say something about my car, or my family, or my life, it is appropriate to respond with a comment about their car, or family, or life. Not a real conversion; I call that swapping stories. I actively work at being a good listener, and if I fall short and someone does not feel heard, I want them to tell me. When someone talks to me, I try to be there with them in the thing they are feeling. If I bring up a similar story, it is only to use it in the context of what they are saying. Most of my best friends are good listeners. People who are not usually don't make it on that list. Poor listening is a big disconnect for me.
I believe the art of conversation and dialog can be very erotic in the simplest definition of the word. Conversations can move like rivers and continue to branch into new subjects, new discovery. I believe in communication and will tell you things as they come to me.
I wonder about the concept of "love". What is it, really? Is it commitment? Well, that's easy to do. But commitment doesn't make your eyes light up with joy when that special someone walks into the room. Is it actions? Caring? If you love someone, and that changes and you no longer love them ... was it love in the first place? I live my questions. I teach my answers
I love to love, and love to be loved. Once found, I will not smother, but I will cover. I love people who are independent, in fact it's a turn-on I respect your independence and would have it no other way, but I will be there for comfort, confidence and support. I respect your alone time, and understand the need for it. I am not jealous of your friends, family, pets or anything that interests you, in fact, would like to learn more.
I'm looking for a creative, artistic soul. This creativity can come in any form, but I look also for passion about what you like. I look for someone who still knows the little girl wonderment inside her as well as the woman, and they co-exist.
I do not like stagnation and believe any relationship must continue to explore and grow, and not "settle in" too much. Every night in front of the TV is NOT my idea of a relationship. Talk to me, tell me things, let me know who you are, and who you have been and who you want to be, I will do the same.
I believe in many things, I believe that two separate spirits can merge to form 1 couple. I don't expect you to be just like me, that would be boring. I look to share, learn and teach and expect the same.
I have made many mistakes in my life, and who knows this place may be one of them, but I have learned from each of them and only make them once. I am a person, non-perfect, faulty in some respects, but always trying to reach the next goal to better myself. I don't want to replace your best friend, that's yours, I am not looking for a mother, I have one. I respect family and know yours will always come first. I am not possessive in the worse sense of the word, but I am protective. I know you have and had a life before me, and respect all that is that and all that is makes you who you are. - Please, No winks, a wink is as good as a nod to a blind horse, email if u have ?s come, talk to me.
for fun:
Fun? get up in the morning and go! I can make anything fun, it's all attitude. From racing to hiking to going to a movie. Fun is all around me. Cruising the road New things are fun, something I've never done, something you can show me? I keep it open
favorite hot spots:
As simple as local parks, national parks, big city night out, San Francisco, NY, Boston, Miami, inside of a plane  I'm very adaptable and believe it's not the place it's who you're with... I know corny but it's so true...share a new place? I live on the Oregon coast, in Newport Oregon, love the town, love the beach, the coast, the forests..
favorite things:
I run the full spectrum. "Favorite" seems so exclusive and final. I like many, many things, and always looking for new things. Ask me for details.
I prefer people close by, as I don't want this to be just a weekend relationship, but if possible, evenings after work as well.
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| Want To Find: |
A woman ages 59 to 68 to date |
Interests:
I Like: |
anything outdoors, auctions, auto racing, being social, bike riding, Car shows, cars cruises, Classic cars, day trips, flea markets, just walking, long trips, motorcycle shows, photography, shopping, traveling, video editing, video shooting, wine/art festivals |
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