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if your friend keeps asking for advice but never applied it would you
by kckgirl at 5/5/2015 1:10:45 AM


I know a person in a abusive relationship he's mentally, physically, emotionally, verbally, and all other forms of abusive to her. He's broke hersp down, broke her sprightly, has her feelings hopelessness like she has no worth he's very degrading. I keep telling he's just a weak man that has low self-esteem. And the only way the coward can feel good and make himself feel/seem like a man by degrading woman, belittling them, make them some how fear of him all it is, is a power trip making him feel he's in control, a little boy trying to be grown and don't have a clue on his to be a man.


Comments

yetskimama
5/5/2015 4:50:24 AM

Are you the friend????

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5/5/2015 5:41:49 AM

I have a friend like that, always in abusive relationships.i helped her enough.

ttrockz55
5/5/2015 6:46:42 AM

She has to be ready to do it on her own. I was in one for over ten years ... Like I went to sleep and one day just woke up. And walked out. I knew I had to get out...but just kept doing everyday as I knew I needed to to survive another day. I figured when I left I didn't need anything but the desire and will to walk out. But it isn't something someone else can help you with. It has to come from within.

happyladyme
5/5/2015 8:14:55 AM

ttrockz55 is right. She has to have the desire strong enough to leave on her own.
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5/5/2015 8:51:59 AM

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terry50sclassic
5/5/2015 1:00:43 PM

ITS NOT GOBBER IS IT ?

bettyboo10142
5/5/2015 5:13:46 PM

OP, I know what you mean. It can become very frustrating when you continue to give advice and the friend stays in the relationship, but don't give up on her. Sometimes it's not the desire to leave, but the will to leave is not strong enough.

kckgirl
5/6/2015 1:27:04 AM

No yetskimama I'm not the one I'm her friend we been friends for going on 24 yrs now it seems she's drawn to abusive men. I don't understand it. Idk y women r scared to leave I'm a very strong willed and strong minded woman I can't nor will let any man control me or have that much/kind of control of/over me

ttrockz55
5/6/2015 7:08:18 AM

@kck....i was too. We don't choose to be there...it never starts out that way and surprises you once you realize you are there and suddenly "stuck"