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Karma by mom_cat2 at 6/15/2015 9:50:01 AM Karma has a way to bite one in the butt! As it turns out, since our break up, I had been trying to help my ex fiance get into a better housing situation than he is in. I had been trying to help him get some food stamps, etc. Financially, he is struggling and I feel very bad for him. He does have a special needs son living with him and food is of an issue for them. I tried to help him! He recently contacted the P.D. and claimed that I was harassing him. I did ask him for some of my property to be returned only to have him put my rice cooker and some food on my car! The rice cooker was returned DIRTY! He refused to return some other items I let him borrow. Thanks to the P.D. I did get my property back. I found out today that his brother is losing his job of 20+ years. His brother was instrumental in our break up. His brother has made it clear that he hates me. I have always believed in Karma and when Karma rears it's ugly head then WATCH OUT!!! His brother is learning that lesson right now. I can't say I feel bad for the guy because he used my ex fiance to destroy my life. Now it's time for my ex fiance to get his also. I am positive it will come. Revenge is sweet when served COLD and better when I had nothing to do with it!

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ontheloose69 online now!	6/15/2015 9:55:56 AM lifes a b*tch sometimes.
mom_cat2	6/15/2015 9:59:15 AM Yes it is sometimes. How are you Bruce?
mom_cat2	6/15/2015 10:01:07 AM My philosophy is never do harm to anyone because you will never know when Karma will rear it's ugly head. Besides, I love helping people, no matter who it is, even an ex.
ezzgoingru	6/15/2015 10:17:22 AM Your time to shine!! I know all about "karma wished penitentiary life on a couple of ex's and I'll be darned if they didn't get in the cage that they belonged in
ontheloose69 online now!	6/15/2015 10:23:47 AM making it my dear. back pain gggrrrrr
mom_cat2	6/15/2015 10:25:37 AM Haha...EZ, you are so funny. Its so true also!Hmmm....a cage huh? Like that idea! Love your feet! Hmmm...gives me an idea. Haha.
sorpstar	6/15/2015 10:48:07 AM JMO...He has a special needs child and you were maybe the replacement parent in his presence because you lived close to him and no other woman would tolerate that situation. .....child cant be held responsible but when family interfere you have to bolt..when police get involved move on..the guy's brother didn't help, he got involved...yes it's Karma and one last thing if i recall you broke up a few times so he's out of roses now...
mom_cat2	6/15/2015 10:48:40 AM Bruce, I am struggling with back pain also. Grrrrr..... Trying not to take any pain killers.
mom_cat2	6/15/2015 11:02:00 AM @Sorp, yes, Tom and I did break up quite a few times. Tom also is special needs. He was diagnosed as a child with brain damage, frontal lobe to be exact. Add that to A.D.D. and he is a mess. That is why I felt compassion for him and wanted to help him out. He is very much out of roses and chances. Since he has done this to me I can't trust him anymore. Where there is no trust there is no relationship. His son used to tell me all the time that he loved me. The issues he and issues once had were completely over. He even told his therapist also that he loved me and not Tom. Then to have Tom do this to us is perplexing to me. Tom has anger issues to add to everything else. He is a wolf in sheep's clothing and lied to so many on here about me that there are people who absolutely hate me. One of them, interestingly enough, posted on my blog today. Hmmm..... There is so much to the Tom and Phyllis story that people don't know. Tom is not the nice guy he PRETENDS to be! Trust me on that one! I have Ben stabbed in the back more times than I can count and yet I still took him back. That's over, no more, nada, niet! I have been ABUSED by Tom for the past 6 years. I am done!
ezzgoingru	6/15/2015 11:07:51 AM Phyllis I understand you and wish you the best you deserve it!! Only wish for what they deserve
charli2858	6/15/2015 11:09:56 AM I know it is hard but when it comes to Karma there is a fine line between seeing it happen and celebrating it's circular nature. When one revels in the face of another's misfortune, it could come right back at ya... oh that Karma!
mom_cat2	6/15/2015 11:11:57 AM EZ, you know me well. I know that I deserve better than Tom. In fact, when we broke up Tom told me that I deserved better than him also. He is so right, I do deserve better. Even our church members told me that they realized that Tom was the problem and that I deserved better. Its true! I do........See you on fb!
mom_cat2	6/15/2015 11:16:23 AM Charli, I had that for the past 6 years. I think I served my time in jail. Not really celebrating the karma but actually making note of it. I wish no harm to anyone, not even Tom or his brother. In fact,I just recently asked Tom if I could take his son to the movies but got no answer. Oh well....life goes on and so does mime.
ezzgoingru	6/15/2015 11:37:01 AM
happyladyme	6/15/2015 11:39:32 AM cat..As long as I have known you I have not seen you go in for drama of any kind. You are a kind, very nice person and I wish you all the best..
sweettxheart	6/15/2015 12:03:11 PM Phyllis, Karma is a wonderful thing and I'm a true believer! What you put out comes back whether it be good or bad!..I'm sorry that Tom is having a hard time..I wish him the best! Knowing you like a do, I know how much you have help him in the past and you continue to do so..That is what your heart is telling you to do...Don't listen to the negative comments from others..Especially those who have never cared for your well being to begin with..some just come to a blog and comment to stir up crap..I agree with Happylady...You know I live you and hope things just get better.
rumproast19	6/15/2015 12:11:14 PM This is your blog. I have Carol blocked. But you are right to wash your hands of Tom. May your skies be blue, your heart healed quickly and your future happy. You deserve it.
mom_cat2	6/15/2015 12:15:46 PM Heart, you know the real me. I have never been one to wish harm to another regardless of how they treat me. I have already decided that the negativity on my blog needs to go away. I just hope Carole does too! I am not going to allow her to get me all worked up like she wants to. I have always been a kind, sensitive and fiercely loyal to others I care about. That included, at one time, Tom but those days are over. I do all I can to avoid him at all costs. He works at my local supermarket and I refuse to go there now. I will go out of my way to go to another store now just to have back my peace and harmony back into my life. I have no regrets with trying to help Tom improve his life but I cannot do anymore for him even if I wanted to. So from now on its up to him. I pray to God, daily, thst he finds the it sneer peace that he is craving for. I am not al malace person by no means.
sweettxheart	6/15/2015 12:23:30 PM M9mcat, you don't need to explain it to me..I already know how it is and what's going on..Yoy owe us nothing..Just keep being you.Hope things get better...Keep the faith!
mom_cat2	6/15/2015 12:26:18 PM Rump....I have now blocked Carole also. First I deleted her comments and my comments to her. I don't like negativity and don't want to engage in it either. I am a pacifist and prefer a life of pacifism over and above all. Carole is of no importance to me and never was. You were smart to block her and now I am too!
rumproast19	6/15/2015 12:27:55 PM
mom_cat2	6/15/2015 12:32:06 PM Aww...heart, you are right! I actually do find that I am a far better person than before. I guess studying the bible did help quite a bit. Being a Catholic my entire life I was always curious about the bible. So Tom got me to go to a Christian church where I learned a lot about the bible. I have put what I learned into practice when Tom and I broke up and I continued to try to help him get into a better situation than he is in now. My efforts went unappreciated so I am done. On with being a peace lover again. I do volunteer work for 3 rescues. I keep myself busy and I am HAPPY. I also feel relieved that I no longer have drama in my life. The biggest drama I have is what to make for dinner. Haha.....
mom_cat2	6/15/2015 12:42:36 PM On to a brighter conversation! I am trying to figure out what to make for lunch!
fu_gazi	6/15/2015 1:49:28 PM Haha...no one likes Carole now she's all mad and butthurt that you blocked her she started a retaliation blog calling you out mom cat . Posted like 10 comments ....yep same old Carole the drama queen
ezzgoingru	6/15/2015 1:58:05 PM Sometimes "people" ACT like they've changed when they're trying to work their way in to some body else's bed (trying to impress)... I smell a new victim...
MariaAntoinetta	6/15/2015 2:06:01 PM I'm the same as ever but it sure gets hard watching the victims fall.
MariaAntoinetta	6/15/2015 2:09:01 PM Momcat, sorry that things didn't work out for the two of you but wishing each of you well. You look great, btw... and I'm sure you're enjoying the rescue work. Take care!
ezzgoingru	6/15/2015 2:10:46 PM They've already been warned... not thinking with the "head" that their brain's attached to!!
mom_cat2	6/15/2015 3:33:59 PM Sorry guys, I fell asleep after my tomato lunch. As far as Carole being pissed that I blocked her and created a retaliatory blog.....Soooooo classic Carole!!! She loves to start out by "pretendimg" to be someone she is not. She thrives on negative drama, I don't. She can keep her comments and opinions to herself as I don't care what she has to say. When she blocked me in the past, I was relieved that I didn't have to watch her drama. Tom even created a profile and followed her around when she was pretending to be Sybil. Those of us who have been on here for a long time all know what Carole is all about and don't care for her antics.....me included. Thanks fu_gazi for the heads up. Haha
mom_cat2	6/15/2015 3:37:15 PM Maria....I love doing my rescue work no matter what I am doing. I work for 3 rescues and just love it. This was what I wanted to do in life unfortunately my mother put a stop to it. Glad I got that second chance to be truly happy. Thanks for your well wishes. I know I am happy and just hope that someday Tom will be too.
mom_cat2	6/15/2015 3:42:08 PM Ez, yes, I see by the copy and paste from Fu_gazi that Carole is trying to play victim. She is the predator and certainly NOT the victim. She came onto my blog and attacked me, so who is the victim? I don't like playing the victim card though. Well, talking about Karma....I would hate to be in Carole ' s shoes when Karma hits her in the butt. I am at peace and happy. I have nothing to prove.
mom_cat2	6/15/2015 3:43:08 PM Ez, btw..LOVE your pic about Karma!
mom_cat2	6/15/2015 3:49:24 PM A thought just crossed my mind about Karma. For YEARS Carole blocked me for no reason, now that the tables are turned and I blocked her, she doesn't like it and is crying about it. She is trying to play the victim where in actuality she has been the DH wolf hiding in sheeps clothing. Shecwill start out sweet but very soon after the wolf comes out. Yes, Karma can be a b*tch!!!! Haha
mom_cat2	6/15/2015 3:50:44 PM Wawawa....Let me get the wambulance for Carole!
sweettxheart	6/15/2015 3:56:24 PM Rotflmao
mom_cat2	6/15/2015 4:18:34 PM Glad you liked that heart. Learned that one from my son! First time he used it was on Tom and his son. Haha.
mom_cat2	6/15/2015 5:47:04 PM In reading Carole's blog...who cares who is right or wrong in a disagreement between 2 people? Heck, I don't even care!!! So why should fellow DH'ers care? She is basically talking to herself on her blog. Herrre's SYBIL!!!! Oh yea, for those who didn't know one of her "mystery" profiles was when she called herself Sybil. Tom created a profile and mirrored her because he was pissed at how she put me down and her behavior towards others on here. Oh yea, she did not put in alot of what was said. Her blog is well, for lack of description...EDITED!!! She put out only what she wants DH to see, not what really was said.
rumproast19	6/15/2015 6:11:08 PM She is here to fight this time around. It's not going to be with me. I did stop by to support you a little on this. I know what you've been though.
mom_cat2	6/15/2015 8:00:47 PM Yes, she is here to fight and I am not going to give her the opportunity to do so, not with me anyway.
turkalurk82	6/16/2015 9:03:22 AM I don't care much for carol either. seems like a fake a** b*tch to me.
mom_cat2	6/16/2015 10:16:01 AM Turk, you have no idea what kind of nut she is. I have been here for years and I have see so many of her antics it's nauseating to watch.