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It's been awhile. by zimzane2 at 6/20/2015 9:19:30 AM I have no complaints. I am not in control of what other people say or do here, but I can control myself. Accepting what you can or cannot change will reduce the stress out of you life 90 % or even more. After making the same mistakes in life over and over again, I finally woke up and smelled the rottenness that I brought upon myself and decided to change. It was I who made the mistakes. Nobody else. It was so easy for me to point a finger at people, places or things in my life. It's my life, my responsibility and I am held accountable. So it is with everybody else. All we have is here and now of our lives and I live this way each moment. Enjoy you day. Life is precious. Alan

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murda_vs_rapist	6/20/2015 9:31:20 AM No Zim, there are things that are entirely someone else's fault. And you should hold that person accountable.
happyladyme	6/20/2015 9:57:35 AM Allen..I wish more people could realize what you do now.Keep up the good work. I am proud of you..
zimzane2	6/20/2015 10:02:23 AM On the contrary murda I"m talking about my character. Each individual is responsible in how they respond regardless of what anybody else does. I have played a part in everything that has happened in my life and so has everybody else in their own lives. I hope you get it this time, perhaps I should have been more specific.
zimzane2	6/20/2015 10:03:05 AM Thank you happy.
yetskimama	6/20/2015 10:33:12 AM @ Allen You deserve to be happy great Job. Monika
001snatch	6/20/2015 10:39:44 AM happy weekend.
thepatriot1776	6/20/2015 11:06:39 AM Everyone fks up no one is perfect just look ahead enjoy life.
terry50sclassic	6/20/2015 12:29:37 PM zane. understand what you are saying. but hey sometimes the other person is just an a**hole. but how you respond to it , is up to you. hadn't been on in awail. computer down but got acess to one . take care all.
rumproast19	6/20/2015 1:11:06 PM Nice blog.
jimnastics online now!	6/20/2015 1:29:50 PM Responsibility for one's life and the paths one choose is both admirable and productive. Change is inevitable, but growth is only possible if one takes the actions necessary to do so.
ttrockz55	6/20/2015 2:11:57 PM Most of us here right now know this to be true! Thank you for the reminder!
zimzane2	6/20/2015 2:13:06 PM Hey Mz Giggle.
zimzane2	6/20/2015 2:14:26 PM TTrock, Jim, rump, terry, patriot, yet, snatch
ezzgoingru	6/20/2015 6:03:30 PM We all usually learn from our mistakes... just takes some a little longer than others!! Glad you can admit to some mistakes you've made and look at things differently!!
zimzane2	6/20/2015 8:23:14 PM Thank you ez.
purplesky56	6/21/2015 1:22:32 AM thank you for sharing that..
ausgezeitnet	6/21/2015 1:45:54 AM well said, continue to use introspection and your life will be one lived happily for you and as a living reminder to others, of how good we can all be if we so choose it live it and become it. The road to our happiness is paved, not by whom we come across, but often just by coming across ourselves along the way.
zimzane2	6/21/2015 1:25:53 PM Anggel, purple.
sweettlisa online now!	6/21/2015 5:26:29 PM Alan,yes that is true,I'm glad u realized that and changed.wish more people would!!
dravenarmon	6/21/2015 5:32:37 PM Well said zim, and that's how to play the game of life and DH...