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WTF?!!! by jokingjude at 12/20/2015 9:00:03 PM Why is it that I have men tell. me how good looking n hot I am n the moment I tell them I am an amputee the no longer have interest?Do they think I am a freak at this point?Or that they are better than me?Trust me I never asked for this to happen to me.But I will be dambed if I am a lesser human being because it has.Shallow people piss me off.Thinking they are so much better or that if your not perfect that you have no place in thier world.Really?They need to wake up n smell the coffee or as a matter of fact after they have a cup or two n thier brains are awake they need to take a very long look in the mirror n maybe,just maybe they will realize that they are not so damb perfect afterall.

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misterbill11	12/20/2015 9:15:21 PM Slow down. And take it for what its worth.. You know better..
boomboom33030	12/20/2015 9:36:37 PM what misterbill said I second that
frfforever	12/20/2015 10:05:10 PM Fook em if they can't take a joke... or an amputee. I am sure it is probably just a shock to them when they find out. But you probably are not meeting/attracting the right class of men either IF they approach from day 1 is "OMG... you're the most hottest "thang" ever"/etc. And they OBVIOUSLY have not read your profile either. Another sign of that "impatient" type of men... a) Not reading your profile (seem to ONLY be interested in the pictures) b) calling you "Baby"/etc. from the start c) telling you how "hawt" you are from the start. Make someone earn it by getting to know you, as you get to know them. Don't settle or rely on those that through out compliments with nothing (or little) else. We are ALL not "purrfect" . We ALL have our faults. Funny how we think "our" own faults are sooo much worse than others. (Or at least it seems to work that way for me) Good Luck in your search. And don't forget to take those nice calming deep breathes when "dealing with the crazies" here.
zimzane2	12/20/2015 10:42:13 PM Calm down.
jokingjude	12/21/2015 12:28:08 AM Thank you all.Hello Zim,nice to see you.
jokingjude	12/21/2015 12:35:23 AM It is just the way some judge you. He doesn't know that I had not walkedfor over ten years,nor that I had lost over 160 lbs and I been battling cancer.But I do walk,dance and take damb good care of myself.His kind try to bring me down,but I don't go down easy.I am so proud of what I have overcome.Takes a strong person to handle all n keep on smiling.
jokingjude	12/21/2015 12:39:31 AM Fri,I wonder is it shock or just ignorance?Not sure.But I don't like the way some handle it.Thank you gor your kindness.
jokingjude	12/21/2015 12:40:54 AM Thank you as well Boom Boom.Some are miserable n can't help it.
jokingjude	12/21/2015 12:42:26 AM Mr.Bill,I am calm,just a couple ruffled feathers.
ontheloose69	12/21/2015 1:16:20 AM f**k em one less thing in way in the position to pound that ass.
gwinnie11	12/21/2015 4:57:58 AM He showed his true color seems no caring heart what so ever.
yetskimama	12/21/2015 6:02:25 AM op
ezzgoingru	12/21/2015 6:26:51 AM Hi Jude!! Yeah I agree with what's said here some are shallow minded fools, they don't deserve a woman like you!! Happy Holiday's!!
jokingjude	12/21/2015 6:45:32 PM Loose,possitins are many.lol.I am flexable n never had a problem in that dept...JS.Gwinnie heartless people are abundant it seems.Sad.. Mam,you got it.Ezz,so true.
cherrycola2015	12/21/2015 9:15:00 PM Dont let any man make you feel like you're less than because of your situation a real man would not care that you're an amputee.
jokingjude	12/22/2015 3:29:52 AM Well said Cherry