5/31/2008 11:52:16 PM |
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nambrosia
Fall River, MA
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OK, I know this may sound ridiculous, but I think I have an actual problem with my sex drive. Almost every day of the month I am so damn horny it's ridiculous. Yes, how is this a problem, you say. Well, I'll explain. It's a problem when I've had 3 hour long sex, gotten off 8-11 times, finish him off, rest for about 20 minutes and am crawling out of my skin like I haven't gotten any in years. This is becoming more and more of a problem. When I was younger I perfectly satisfied with one orgasm per sexual encounter, and one sexual encounter every 2-3 days. I'm getting older and wanting it more and more.
I think about it constantly. I get antsy, like I'm going to literally crawl out of my skin if I don't have sex right that second. I have to otherwise occupy myself with like...going for walks or writing or playing video games (yes, I am a major geek) and they don't really help. They just take my mind off it for a bit.
Best part, when I tell my BF that I'm horny all the time, he looks at me mildly horrified. I guess I"m supposed to be satisfied after 11 orgasms and near death or something, but when I want it again so soon he starts questioning whether I'm actually being satisfied. I AM!! Mind blowing orgasms every time.
I mean, men always claim they want a nympho, but they actually get one and are scared crapless. It's like "yes, I really do want sex THIS often". I swear, one day I'm going to just tell him every single time I'm thinking about having sex. I think men in general would be SHOCKED to learn that there really is a girl out there who not only THINKS about sex as much or more than them, but is actually in the mood for it waaaaaaaaaaaaaay more often than them.
Maybe I need Nympho's Annonymous, eh?
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6/1/2008 12:11:02 AM |
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lobo_corazon
Orleans, ON
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...or a good vibrator?
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6/1/2008 12:12:09 AM |
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nambrosia
Fall River, MA
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ok, it's not a lack of satisfaction. it's an excess of sex drive.
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6/1/2008 12:15:55 AM |
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chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
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I'm sure with this thread you'll get a lot of messages from undesireables.
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6/1/2008 12:17:17 AM |
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nambrosia
Fall River, MA
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what i want is advice. i seriously am concerned i have a problem.
btw, i'm invisible, so the undesirables can't get me. lol.
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6/1/2008 12:21:02 AM |
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chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
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what i want is advice. i seriously am concerned i have a problem.
btw, i'm invisible, so the undesirables can't get me. lol.
So you're on a dating site looking for dates but you are invisible so you can't get dates. Am I the only one not getting that???
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6/1/2008 12:24:22 AM |
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bruno59
Huddleston, VA
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Hello Dear,My ex was just like you when we were your age. She almost killed me from wearing me out then. We finally went to a sex therapist and were told too try one of those little egg type vibrators and when she felt the urge too turn it on and see if it would curb her desires. Actually it made it worse at first but with the egg and a tranquilizer she was able too curb her appetite for sex. Please consult a Doctor before you try anything we did.
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6/1/2008 12:29:03 AM |
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hugsnlaughter
McKeesport, PA
54, joined Jul. 2007
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I really don't think a date site would be the place to give you adivce about your overactive sex drive, do you? jmo
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6/1/2008 12:32:29 AM |
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lildevil19
Dothan, AL
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Well you could be a sex addict maybe you should go see a doctor or physchiatrist this is a real problem for some people and it can be treated.
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6/1/2008 1:28:44 AM |
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mia2008
Chandler, AZ
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You're like the lady said above me, you're not a nympho , you're a sex addicted . There is a difference.
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6/1/2008 1:33:29 AM |
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jdw1971
New Stanton, PA
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I have the same damn problem.
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6/1/2008 1:38:22 AM |
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mia2008
Chandler, AZ
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Nambrosia MEET JDW.....JDW MEET Nambrosia.
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6/1/2008 1:38:58 AM |
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rpmcowboy
Inola, OK
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There is such thing as sex addiction and its just as real as any drug addiction since it activates the same brain receptors as most drugs, seek out a support group
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6/1/2008 1:41:12 AM |
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jdw1971
New Stanton, PA
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Aww if she was in PA It just wouldnt be a problem anymore
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6/1/2008 1:44:10 AM |
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henriethe8th
Sacramento, CA
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i wish if shes a nympho theres no problem i haven't found a women that can take it as long as i can give iti think about wanting more after a olmypic effortshe hasn't even cought her breath yet and i am ready for another couple of hours rompi am still waiting for when its enough
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6/1/2008 1:47:11 AM |
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clockking
Canton, CT
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nambrosia
Maybe I can help you with your problem, maybe not?
I write very erotic love letters and was wondering if you might like to read one some time, there the kind of letter that will make have an orgasm reading them??
It's just a thought, it's up to you??
If you send me an email, from my profile, I will give you my email address.
I hope to hear from you soon.
Geoff
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6/1/2008 1:48:57 AM |
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westcoast_sam
Delta, BC
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hmmm I dont see the problem??
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6/1/2008 1:51:36 AM |
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ladyvirtue52
Redding, CA
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According to the dictionary, you are a nympho. which translates to having an excessive sexual desire...you also may be a sex addict. there are many variables to sex addiction and you haven't given all the information to acess that condition...you do need to see a sex therapist though...do you have different sex partners regularly? alot of one night stands? You would have been short on luck had you hook up with my ex though, he couldn't give me 2nds, ever!
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6/1/2008 1:54:42 AM |
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westender99
Phoenix, AZ
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Have you been like this consistantly over a long period of time? I wnt through a spell that lasted for 2 years that sounds like what you are describing. It was like a long period of mania.
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6/1/2008 2:06:53 AM |
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clockking
Canton, CT
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nambrosia
Maybe I can help you with your problem, maybe not?
I write very erotic love letters and was wondering if you might like to read one some time, there the kind of letter that will make have an orgasm reading them??
It's just a thought, it's up to you??
If you send me an email, from my profile, I will give you my email address.
I hope to hear from you soon.
Geoff
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6/1/2008 3:00:34 AM |
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mjkittredge
Nashua, NH
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nambrosia - there are a number of solutions.
One, is to try anti-depressants. The side effects are usually mild, doctors eagerly hand them out like soldiers throwing tootsie rolls to iraqi children, and here's the kicker - they may reduce sexual desire.
For a guy, the effect can be different. My experience was, it took me three times longer to finish, which allowed me to enjoy sex for a lot longer.
Personally, I've had a few sex crazy girlfriends who wore me out. Eventually, my penis starts hurting from all the friction and starts going numb. But until then, I'm loving it. I love the feeling of being desired and lusted after, of knowing a woman wants to f**k my brains out. I would say your boyfriend is happy, even if you wear him out, and that if you tell him your orgasms are multiple and mindblowing, he will believe you.
A lot of women are very good at hiding their sex drive and their sexual side - they don't want lots of undesired attention from undesirable men, which is very understandable. The problem this creates, is that guys in some situations can start to feel like women are less sexual and don't desire sex much if at all. Which is very discouraging when OUR sex drives are raging.
So good luck to you in dealing with your overwhelming desire. And thank you, for giving hope to all guys that they may one day find a woman who loves sex as much and as often as they do, or more!
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6/1/2008 3:28:24 AM |
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sweet_n_sassy1
Milton, FL
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A Useful Tool for Self-Assessment
Answer these twelve questions to assess whether you may have a problem with sexual addiction.
1. Do you keep secrets about your sexual or romantic activities from those important to you? Do you lead a double life?
2. Have your needs driven you to have sex in places or situations or with people you would not normally choose?
3. Do you find yourself looking for sexually arousing articles or scenes in newspapers, magazines, or other media?
4. Do you find that romantic or sexual fantasies interfere with your relationships or are preventing you from facing problems?
5. Do you frequently want to get away from a sex partner after having sex? Do you frequently feel remorse, shame, or guilt after a sexual encounter?
6. Do you feel shame about your body or your sexuality, such that you avoid touching your body or engaging in sexual relationships? Do you fear that you have no sexual feelings, that you are asexual?
7. Does each new relationship continue to have the same destructive patterns which prompted you to leave the last relationship?
8. Is it taking more variety and frequency of sexual and romantic activities than previously to bring the same levels of excitement and relief?
9. Have you ever been arrested or are you in danger of being arrested because of your practices of voyeurism, exhibitionism, prostitution, sex with minors, indecent phone calls, etc.?
10. Does your pursuit of sex or romantic relationships interfere with your spiritual beliefs or development?
11. Do your sexual activities include the risk, threat, or reality of disease, pregnancy, coercion, or violence?
12. Has your sexual or romantic behavior ever left you feeling hopeless, alienated from others, or suicidal?
If you answered yes to more than one of these questions, we would encourage you to seek out additional literature as a resource or to attend a Sex Addicts Anonymous meeting to further assess your needs.
http://www.sexaa.org/12ques.htm
This site may be of use to you.
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6/1/2008 3:36:46 AM |
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hsteveh
Warsaw, IN
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Nympho ????no such thing sex doctors claim...just what it is..higher sex drive then usall...
dont worry..all will work out in diue time..worrying over nothing and it just makes it seem worse then it actually is!!!!
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6/1/2008 3:52:35 AM |
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casinopitboss
Beijing
China
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I can relate. Its not a constant for me... but most of the time i feel much of the same way. I can have a masive marathon session of sex, get off 6-8 times, and be exausted, but i still feel like i want to keep going. Even if im getting myself off, i can literally just keep going. To me, it feels like its never enough. I have never really questioned it, i always just felt that i had a high sex drive. No one has ever complained. Sometimes i thought that maybe i thought about sex too much, cause i stay horny just about 24 hours a day, but it has never affected my life in anegative way, so i never thought about it as a problem.
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6/1/2008 4:23:41 AM |
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lettucemeat
Millersville, MD
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Perhaps, it is just your body's or your brain's way of saying, "It's time to procreate - in other words, to actually make babies and become a mother." Hormones...
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6/1/2008 6:26:53 AM |
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bobbyzip
Parker, AZ
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I don`t see you as having a problem as long as you have someone you care about and cares about you and your thoughts, feelings and desires. Take it all in and ENJOY... Bobby
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6/1/2008 7:05:53 AM |
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remington55
Merritt, BC
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It's so easy to give advice, however it may be very difficult to take most of anyone's advice to heart if you are in such an aroused state. If you're really interested in looking for a solution, you may want to do some research and go to:
www.sybian.com
Read the testimonials & go from there. You'll walk away weak kneed. The Sybian will certainly supplement/compliment what your bf gives you... As well as for women who have trouble reaching an orgasm, this will teach them... have an open mind, there's nothing like having a bunch of barriers that prohibit a healthy sex drive.
It's also useful for single women and there's one for men too. Bottom line, it does NOT replace a living & loving partner who can provide a healthy lifestyle or including and not limited to holding, kissings, cuddling, intimate conversations, etc...) For those who are curious, I don't have one, I just researched it. I believe that there is a strong correlation between people who are really cranky (PMS aside...) because they're frustrated & are not getting enough, however their barriers prohibit them from exploring different avenues. (And I don't mean anything kinky either)...
By the time a lot of people reach our age, their sex drives have waned considerably and/or ED sets it. Anyway, I certainly understand your plight. There's nothing like having a seven year itch & you can't scratch it (enough). I'm sure there are a few of us who would love to have the opportunity to compete with your bf and/or the machine. I thought having it 2-3 times a day was normal, let alone once every 2-3 days.
Good luck...
**~Remington55~**
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6/1/2008 7:24:50 AM |
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openhart
Salt Lake City, UT
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OK, I know this may sound ridiculous, but I think I have an actual problem with my sex drive. Almost every day of the month I am so damn horny it's ridiculous. Yes, how is this a problem, you say. Well, I'll explain. It's a problem when I've had 3 hour long sex, gotten off 8-11 times, finish him off, rest for about 20 minutes and am crawling out of my skin like I haven't gotten any in years. This is becoming more and more of a problem. When I was younger I perfectly satisfied with one orgasm per sexual encounter, and one sexual encounter every 2-3 days. I'm getting older and wanting it more and more.
I think about it constantly. I get antsy, like I'm going to literally crawl out of my skin if I don't have sex right that second. I have to otherwise occupy myself with like...going for walks or writing or playing video games (yes, I am a major geek) and they don't really help. They just take my mind off it for a bit.
Best part, when I tell my BF that I'm horny all the time, he looks at me mildly horrified. I guess I"m supposed to be satisfied after 11 orgasms and near death or something, but when I want it again so soon he starts questioning whether I'm actually being satisfied. I AM!! Mind blowing orgasms every time.
I mean, men always claim they want a nympho, but they actually get one and are scared crapless. It's like "yes, I really do want sex THIS often". I swear, one day I'm going to just tell him every single time I'm thinking about having sex. I think men in general would be SHOCKED to learn that there really is a girl out there who not only THINKS about sex as much or more than them, but is actually in the mood for it waaaaaaaaaaaaaay more often than them.
Maybe I need Nympho's Annonymous, eh? Pehaps what one is craving is the seritonan released when you do somthing pleaserable.Perhaps another way is to seek other things that can also give you a sence of well being too.That is to say you're on the right track to do those other things like the walk ect.BUT also sothing more directly pleasurable and stimulating may help as well.(I DO NOT MEAN DRUGS!)Sky diving or racing cars. CONSULT YOUR PHISITION.
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6/1/2008 7:44:18 AM |
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countreeman
Storm Lake, IA
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you need to get yourself pregnant. That's why you want it you know.
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6/1/2008 7:51:17 AM |
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pichick712
Aston, PA
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OK, I will try and not interject anything funny or mean here because that is not my way soooooooooooooooooooo I would in all seriousness tell you to see your Gynecologist and tell him/her what is going on.
I know when I was pregnant with my last child, he was "sitting" on a spot in my ueterus that made me horny all the time. I could have an orgasm in 30 seconds as often as I could in a day. It was unbearable after a while especially since my husband at the time and I were not having sex at all. Once I had the baby, that went away and I could function like a normal human being with a normal sex drive.
there could be an anatomical "something" going on inside you that is producing this effect as it did when I was carrying my son.
Food for thought.
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6/1/2008 8:44:06 AM |
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radiojt
Grand Junction, CO
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Have you seen a doctor? I would suggest a female doctor rather than a male if you do. NOt being familiar with the phyisiology of a woman, it sounds to me like this could actually become debilitating. I hope it all turns out ok for you.
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6/1/2008 10:46:35 AM |
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tfortexas
Big Sandy, TX
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Date a horse
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6/1/2008 10:57:22 AM |
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heyppl
Saint Louis, MO
33, joined Mar. 2008
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I have the sanme problem. You just need to stay busy. That has helped me but when I see a hot guy I try to plan it out to get to him. It doesn't work out so wel usually. Being a nympho is an addiction that we all have at some point. It really sucks but you need to control it.
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6/1/2008 10:59:41 AM |
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taylorpetty
Aurora, CO
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Seriously you have a problem. When your obsessed with something like you seem to beit can be a devasting thing. You dont need sex its just you mind telling you things. Overcome the mind its that same thing as quitting smoking.
I have the same problem with oreo cookies and milk. I mean i grab 5-6 of them and some milk and omg i am in heaven. But damn I feel like I gotta have 5-6 more oh the thought of their creamy filling caressing my hips ewwwwwwww mmmmmm. I can hear those bastards calling from the kitchen....oh taylore where in here come get of let us speak of that language of hedonistic desires Taylore...please do not deny us do not deny yourself we were made to have your succulent lips caressing our chocolate goodnes yes thats a good girl stick you finger in our soft creamy insides yes that feels good oh yes
Sorry I hear someone calling I got to go
And yeah you got a problem
SHUT UP you chocolaty bastards I will be there in a second
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6/1/2008 11:04:29 AM |
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sweethearted2
Lake Saint Louis, MO
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I have the same problem and I've found that most men say they want a lady with a high sex drive until they get one, then they run because they can't keep up. Always being aroused sucks, if you find a solution let me know, PLEASE.
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6/1/2008 11:09:28 AM |
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taytice
Aurora, CO
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Hey sweethearted i couldnt keep up with you but maybe I could apply for a part time position. Do you have medical/dental?
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6/1/2008 1:09:43 PM |
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radiojt
Grand Junction, CO
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I think IM in love.....
Seriously you have a problem. When your obsessed with something like you seem to beit can be a devasting thing. You dont need sex its just you mind telling you things. Overcome the mind its that same thing as quitting smoking.
I have the same problem with oreo cookies and milk. I mean i grab 5-6 of them and some milk and omg i am in heaven. But damn I feel like I gotta have 5-6 more oh the thought of their creamy filling caressing my hips ewwwwwwww mmmmmm. I can hear those bastards calling from the kitchen....oh taylore where in here come get of let us speak of that language of hedonistic desires Taylore...please do not deny us do not deny yourself we were made to have your succulent lips caressing our chocolate goodnes yes thats a good girl stick you finger in our soft creamy insides yes that feels good oh yes
Sorry I hear someone calling I got to go
And yeah you got a problem
SHUT UP you chocolaty bastards I will be there in a second
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6/1/2008 1:15:45 PM |
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db52
Shelton, WA
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My ex was had nympho problems but not with me,I was thier to give her a home and kids, She saved her sex drive for her string of partners that she had while she was cheating on me.
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6/1/2008 1:20:56 PM |
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doublesaint
Altoona, PA
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Yeah, a lot of guys think your problem is just what they want. What it leads to is a disaster later, not because you did a damned thing wrong, but because they are so fearful that you might look elsewhere to take care of the problem. Some of us just have a higher sex drive than others, when it becomes a problem like you are explaining, then some professional help is needed.
Wish I lived in Missouri again, Sweethearted.
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6/1/2008 4:26:22 PM |
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nambrosia
Fall River, MA
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Thank you for the sincere input. I know some people are nice and cynical and think I'm on here asking for some sort of attention and possible hook-ups to "help me" with my problem, but as I've stated numerous times on numerous posts...I'm taken. I'm here for the advice and for these very forums. I was on here before when I was single, and I stayed (putting the profile on invisible, et al) for the human contact. I am often home alone and have no one for company but a frickin computer. SO sue me that the extent of my social contact are some phone calls and DH most nights. I'm pathetic, I know this.
I honestly was trying to figure out if this was a hormonal thing, like around the time I should be ovulating, but when I say almost all month, I literally mean all month. It get's ridiculously bad right after my period and right before. Then I'm literally grabbing my guy and molesting him without even realizing I'm in like, say...Stop and Shop. He thinks it's great I'm so open about my sexual desires, but I don't think he understands that if society permitted such things, I'd be f**king him on the oranges. it's not even like I need it for the orgasmic satisfaction. I think this has a little to do with the fact that I'm obviously lonely (yes, lonely and in a relationship...not an oxymoron when the man can't be with me as much as we'd both like) but there is definate over abundance of sexual desire. Who gets so worked up at work from sexual fantasies that quitting so I can come home on the days he's home and attack him sound like the best idea I've had all frickin week? Or I get so sexually frustrated and I'm so afraid of initiating (my own issues) that I end up in tears in the bathroom because I just can't just say "hey, babe, if we don't have sex immediately I seriously might start slicing up my arms for a little f**king relief". No one wants to hear that. Hell, I don't want to hear it and it's in MY head.
I think I will check out the sites some of you mentioned. Maybe there'll be something there to help me figure this out.
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6/1/2008 9:27:38 PM |
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robo1400
Townsend, WI
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That's funny--the bf being horrified! I cuurntly have been with a woman with the nympho probel as well. In fact, I think I am somewhat respsposible because she spent the past three years not being with a`man. I love it!!!! Hours and hours of satisfying her. Maybe, I am just the same breed in a male version known as a satire. At any rate, women like you are never too much work as some guys put it, but a pleasure.
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6/2/2008 1:50:07 AM |
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major_tom
Brooklyn, NY
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Thank you for the sincere input. I know some people are nice and cynical and think I'm on here asking for some sort of attention and possible hook-ups to "help me" with my problem, but as I've stated numerous times on numerous posts...I'm taken. I'm here for the advice and for these very forums. I was on here before when I was single, and I stayed (putting the profile on invisible, et al) for the human contact. I am often home alone and have no one for company but a frickin computer. SO sue me that the extent of my social contact are some phone calls and DH most nights. I'm pathetic, I know this.
I honestly was trying to figure out if this was a hormonal thing, like around the time I should be ovulating, but when I say almost all month, I literally mean all month. It get's ridiculously bad right after my period and right before. Then I'm literally grabbing my guy and molesting him without even realizing I'm in like, say...Stop and Shop. He thinks it's great I'm so open about my sexual desires, but I don't think he understands that if society permitted such things, I'd be f**king him on the oranges. it's not even like I need it for the orgasmic satisfaction. I think this has a little to do with the fact that I'm obviously lonely (yes, lonely and in a relationship...not an oxymoron when the man can't be with me as much as we'd both like) but there is definate over abundance of sexual desire. Who gets so worked up at work from sexual fantasies that quitting so I can come home on the days he's home and attack him sound like the best idea I've had all frickin week? Or I get so sexually frustrated and I'm so afraid of initiating (my own issues) that I end up in tears in the bathroom because I just can't just say "hey, babe, if we don't have sex immediately I seriously might start slicing up my arms for a little f**king relief". No one wants to hear that. Hell, I don't want to hear it and it's in MY head.
I think I will check out the sites some of you mentioned. Maybe there'll be something there to help me figure this out.
I hope everything works out for you,sincerely so, I can see its effect & truly empathize.
I appreciated too the helpful posts here for you.. Hope all the best for you
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6/2/2008 2:02:19 AM |
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truckerjr
Pennington Gap, VA
48, joined Jun. 2007
online now!
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The only problem with nympho,s is that they just aint enouf of them, need one right here right now
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6/2/2008 2:43:54 AM |
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zuess244
Eastlake, OH
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I just think you need one great orgasm instead of 8-11 little ones and a great big woody... it never fails you should try one...
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6/2/2008 4:08:55 AM |
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russ01
Maryville, MO
49, joined Apr. 2008
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when she finds the right man to satisfy her needs she wont have such a high sex drive. when some lucky guy fills your needs the right way youll only need it once or twice a day... some of us guys have the same problem but not many ladys can handle it.. they think the man is abnormal...
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6/2/2008 4:14:14 AM |
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roggor
Merlin, OR
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If you think it's a problem, it probably is. Search for answers from professional sources.
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6/2/2008 8:45:25 AM |
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seth__89
Somerset, KY
26, joined May. 2008
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Ummmm Ask your doctor maybe he has a pill
But when I asked mine for anti-viagra he just laughed
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6/2/2008 12:16:00 PM |
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mjkittredge
Nashua, NH
33, joined May. 2008
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Whatever happens, please don't resort to slicing up your arms. I think a number of people must love you and care about you a lot, and I hope you can find comfort with them.
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6/2/2008 12:53:33 PM |
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pleasurepirate
Shreveport, LA
53, joined Nov. 2007
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It's a real problem when the thing you love becomes something you fear. There are plenty of SA chapters around the country. It's not about giving up sex. It's all about you controlling your desires instead of them controlling you. You should probably keep a little diary rating your urges from 1-10 with dates and times to see any patterns over weeks and months. Memory alone won't accomplish this. You don't even have to use a lot of words where someone finding it knows what you're talking about. It's just for you.
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Or I get so sexually frustrated and I'm so afraid of initiating (my own issues) that I end up in tears in the bathroom because I just can't just say "hey, babe, if we don't have sex immediately I seriously might start slicing up my arms for a little f**king relief". No one wants to hear that. Hell, I don't want to hear it and it's in MY head.
I've known a few cutters so I caught that. I get the thing about cutting for relief and not for suicide. Having any thoughts at all about hurting yourself, for any reason, is a huge red flag flapping in the breeze. You need to talk about that with someone qualified ASAP. Email me if you need to.
You can do a much better job of loving others when you learn to really love yourself. Don't keep hurting and doing nothing to get help. This thread was a good start.
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6/2/2008 2:38:23 PM |
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jaysinsp
Rowlett, TX
43, joined Aug. 2007
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Yaa that’s a problem! If filling sorry for your boyfriend. Yaaa Id say toys !
Even A guy that’s loves sex may want it 5 times a day. He is going to get burned out on you. fast! Id say toys and see a doc!
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6/2/2008 3:37:44 PM |
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afrolicious
Lawton, OK
34, joined Jan. 2008
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Man I'm horny now. I remember nambrosia that you were the first person that I picked on on DH LMAO and it's cool to see this side of you. If you have posted threads like this before well this one is the first for me. But you know what, I feel you. Guys always say they have a big sex drive but I think that women have it more than men do. When I have finished f**king a guy and want to f**k him again he looks at me like WTF is wrong with you we just finished doing it. I love f**king. I don't need a bunch of d*cks, because a d*ck is a d*ck no matter where it comes from. But I need a d*ck/man that has the same drive as mine that won't b*tch about doing it again.
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6/2/2008 3:41:10 PM |
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dakoske
Muskegon, MI
35, joined Apr. 2008
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yes...i would invest in a nice, thick dildo, some anal beads, a butt plug, lots of lube and some porn
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6/2/2008 5:30:24 PM |
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pleasurepirate
Shreveport, LA
53, joined Nov. 2007
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Afrolicious, sounds like you're saying a man is just a life support system for a d*ck. Damn, I feel like such a tool.
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6/2/2008 5:38:55 PM |
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william9_17
Kelseyville, CA
30, joined Mar. 2008
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Hey Nambrosia if you need more orgasisms after he gets off ask him to go down on you that's what I didn't with my ex. fiance I would have sex with her like four hours a night and then spend an hour just eating her out and if she still hadn't had enough I would have her have sex with me while I was asleep if I was too tired so why don't you just hop on his c*ck after he falls asleep and get a few more orgasms?
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6/4/2008 8:10:51 AM |
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mermaiden
County Armagh, N. Ireland
United Kingdom
61, joined Jun. 2008
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I think being a nymphomaniac towards your own loved one is a great thing when you think of all the fights going in marriages and relationships. It's only destructive when shared with more than one person: Make love not war...so many couples have lost each other and put up great walls and intimacy is impossible between them; true passion is a gift from God and He has actually condoned the oft-expression, knowing it's the gel He gave to keeps couples uniquely together; what else really matters more that true love and the expression of it? God put moral, not frequency limits on it, to be between two for our own safety. Two well-matched people can only benefit from such frequent closeness and each should be eager to give and not just take; don't class yourself like that, everyone feels much the same; we as humans are unique in that unlike rabbits, etc we have self-control.
Answering another point you made: men have no right to expect women to think about it any less than they do, which according to surveys is 99% of the time and other 1% of the time, we are eating. There is no difference between the male and female drive we all think of it concurrently with all our other thoughts, just don't beat yourself up about it, it's better than being celibate or fighting with people like a lot of people are.
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