| 12/18/2012 6:37:04 PM |
My first Christmas without my late husband will be hard |
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tigbones
Connellsville, PA
55, joined Sep. 2011
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hi you have my deepest sympathy.it was 1 year on july 28th my boyfriend died.he died suddeny here at home i was with him when he died.just try and remember all the good times you had with him and that will get you through the bad times.i feel sorry for you liveing in the country with no transportation.i live in the city and i had never had a drivers liscense but i just got my liscense i had to so i can get to work.my late boyfriend used to drive me to work everyday.i hope things get better for you.merry christmas.
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| 12/18/2012 10:53:47 PM |
My first Christmas without my late husband will be hard |
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harleyrider2090
Winston Salem, NC
75, joined Dec. 2012
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This will be my first christmas without my beloved wife of 53 years. Cancer took her the 6th of december this year...The last 2 weeks ALONE has been PURE HELL..
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| 12/19/2012 7:56:50 AM |
My first Christmas without my late husband will be hard |
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zzz51
Krum, TX
64, joined Apr. 2012
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Just want to say sorry for your losses.. This will be my 2nd Christmas without my best friend (husband).. Family being close helps but no one can fill the hole I have in my herat for him and all those that have passed (parents). There is a saying I read
" It's not that we stop loving someone. It's just that we have to learn to live without them" Wishing all a Merry Christmas..
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| 12/19/2012 8:02:23 AM |
My first Christmas without my late husband will be hard |
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zzz51
Krum, TX
64, joined Apr. 2012
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So sorry for your loss.. Hold on to your faith.. You are blessed to of had such an amazing wife.. Prayers to you & your family.. Merry Christmas..
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| 12/19/2012 9:59:36 AM |
My first Christmas without my late husband will be hard |
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mbslugger
Rock Hill, SC
47, joined Oct. 2012
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I buried my late wife Dec 26 2010..seemed as if i was in a daze..this will be my 3rd christmas without her!! Can't say that its easier..more tolerable?? I guess!! But i do have my moments of happiness..less painful but still hurts!! I miss her so so much!! My prayers are with you indeed because i truly know how you feel!! God makes know mistakes and you will truly find peace as time goes on!! God bless!!
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| 12/19/2012 5:59:37 PM |
My first Christmas without my late husband will be hard |
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gdaddy47
Columbia, TN
68, joined Sep. 2009
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God bless all of you. You're to be commended. Sounds like we have a group people who are really quality character types.
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| 12/21/2012 4:08:39 AM |
My first Christmas without my late husband will be hard |
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bottom75219
Dallas, TX
50, joined Dec. 2012
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The first everything wth your loved is going to be hard. Everything is going to remind of you him. Have you been going to therap. You need that a lot. Voiced of experience. Also, i am not trying to give advice but some suggestion that make your holidays not as lonely,
Find a church.There are usually good peopel tere, and you want be alone. Talk to the pastor and you will be surprised have a hug and an invite to a families home can be uplifting and kinda takes your mind of your loss.I would stronly susggest that. Or some ldiesgroup. Just check the groups you get invovled with. Even at church, you have to watch out for fanatics that don;t tell you the truth. Have a discerning spririt. You know when something is not right., Get the hell out of their. Go visit hi grave if possible, and tell your self the rest of the day is for nme and my new friends. This is what mt husband would want me to do. Or you go down and feed the homeless. Beets sittin at home alone. And it good give you a good feeling to go do something for someonelse christmas day. YOu may get a blessing and enjoy your day. You will see people might need to talk to you about their problem and how are you making it through the day. It alway makes one feel good doing for others. But get out of the house if you have to walk. But if call a facility they will be glad to come and pick you up.
Good luck, it's not easy and no one has the answers for a broken heart. But we all get a broken heart. and knowing someone cares about you and is thereto give a hug is great medicne. No one cal tell you anything you haven't heard , all need it company and love. swell on what you can do instead of being lonely and depressed. God bless and he will. You are never alone. Tell someone Merry Christmas when would rather slap them. and smile. It will give you a warm feeling. good look- get out of the house and be around people
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| 12/21/2012 7:59:00 AM |
My first Christmas without my late husband will be hard |
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sweetandwise
Great Falls, MT
73, joined Dec. 2012
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This will be my 2nd Christmas without my late husband and it is still hard. My deepest sympathies to all of you going through the same thing. I have been through 2 grief support groups and even facilitated one and I found them all very helpful. You form a bond with people who are going through the same thing and it definitely helps to know you are not alone. The most important thing I learned was not to try to push your grief away. In order to get through it you need to confront it and work your way through. I still allow myself to just sit down and cry if I feel like it. Tears are very healing. God Bless all of you going through this pain.
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| 1/12/2013 9:53:32 AM |
My first Christmas without my late husband will be hard |
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lytlemama
Billings, MT
40, joined Aug. 2012
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I am a recent widow since late January.It was my 8th Anniversary when my husband and I came home from being out.He had a previous outpatient surgerey earlier that month but on that night we came home and he never stopped bleeding.I was scared for him and my heart broke when he became unconcious.I was there by his side letting him know my heart was his.I still cry when I am alone. I live in the country,without transportation and it is so hard for me.I need some friends.Please pray for me.
As crazy as it is I got thru the holidays better than I figured I would. We incorporated the days with memories of my late husband and we were able to smile and laugh (we have 3 kids together oldest just having turned 18 another difficult day). What I found incredibly difficult is the one days I couldn't wait to arrive...NYE/NYD!! Mind you he worked jobs that often for our near 20yrs together that kept him working that night/day. I think I can count on one hand how many we actually celebrated being able to be together. I couldn't wait to see 2012 leave and see what 2013 has in store as I am beyond ready to move on.
Only NYE arrived and I was a complete mess. It hit me it was the last day of the last year we shared together. I was alone most of it but none the less I was about to hit another milestone a new year and he wouldn't be here physically. I never expected such feelings/thoughts. I do hope you survived Christmas....like I tell people to lose a soul mate is like a rollercoaster ride....or a ball of yarn when you drop it and it unravels only you don't have to start from the beginning you just pick it up and keep going. HUGS
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