
beachmimi
Leesburg, VA
age: 56
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Yeah, right, and your little "one eyed monster" has no say, see you have to understand something, if you are in a relationship, your Sig. other has to deal with this on a daily basis. What did it mean to you?????????????????????????????, is the question and how YOU respond. Relationship is why most of us are here.
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808_sm
Honolulu, HI
age: 40
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Okay I am back in school. I have been surrounded by, well mostly college age kids for a year now. I am in my 30's.
Two weeks ago I had a girl come up to me in one of my classes and and tell me "I am fascinated with you"
Now let me preface everything else. I am not of a single mind. I am not driven purley by sex, and my focus in school, well in my whole life right now, is school. I have a number of languages to finish learning and a lot of basic pieces to put into place at the moment.
Now to the Girl. She seems nice enough, but I have not had a conversation with her. She is attractive, and certainly seems to be intelligent. (Intelligence is far more important to me).
So really I am looking for a translation, from women. WHat does that mean? I was downright shocked. And I would guess she is close to 10 years my junior. Which for me raises concerns IF, I can't emphasize the IF enough, she is remotely interested in me, or is it mor like she is interested in what I have to say. It becomes obvious in discussion classes, which we have two that are the same, that I have been around the world a little bit.
For me, other than being totally shocked, I could see why I might be an interesting person to someone else. I admit I think I am rather boring, I just have had some interesting experiences and stories.
So for the women - any thoughts on what "I am fascinated with you" might mean??
I am not sure I have ever been so confused by a single statement in my whole life.
Thanks
D
Do you always think this much when you recieve a Complement/Invitation for conversation?
[Edited 6/9/2008 9:38:20 PM]
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calico47
Crossville, TN
age: 47
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She's attracted to you for some reason, either something you said, or your thoughts and mannerisms, and the fact that your not a bad looking guy may help. She's obviously watching you and likes what she sees.
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dark341
Salt Lake City, UT
age: 33
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Do you always think this much when you recieve a Complement/Invitation for conversation?
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daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54 online now!
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WAS THIS BEFORE OR AFTER YOU MENTIONED WINNING THE LOTTERY?
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muffycakes
Chanhassen, MN
age: 26
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It becomes obvious in discussion classes, which we have two that are the same, that I have been around the world a little bit.
I could see why I might be an interesting person to someone else.
"I am fascinated with you" might mean??
D
Well, I would be fascinated too if you have been around the world being that I study int. relations and two foreign languages. I probably would have said something around the lines of; "with all of those experiences, you must be a fascinating individual."
If you were curious to know if there was a hidden meaning behind her words you could have just asked something like "what is it that you find to be so fascinating?" Thats plain and simple enough.
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wnd_dragon
Morristown, TN
age: 29
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I believe pwin is on the right track. Because she has discussion classes with you, she's noticed that getting your attention requires more than the average smile and batting of the eyelashes. I also believe that asking her out to coffee is a VERY good idea. It will give the two of you a chance to discuss things in a quiet one on one setting that is non threatening.... BRAVO and GOOD LUCK!!
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