Select your best hookup:
Local
Gay
Asian
Latin
East Europe

www usasexguide

It has 40 million members, and practically 20 million of them are from the United States. meet puerto rican singles After you have scrolled through its profiles and found someone who takes your interest, you are encouraged to send them a polite opening message and meet as soon as you can. For females, Pickable will need no photo, no name, no age and no description — female users will not even want to sign up. hook a fish dating site We cost free some bugs and improved the user expertise.

mega personal sign up

Send unlimited messages to matched profiles for Free of charge. miami personals This subject has 68 replies, 36 voices, and was last updated 1 year ago by Liolint. No representation is created that the good quality of the legal services to be performed is greater than the excellent of legal solutions performed by other lawyers. bachata clubs san antonio Right here, eight true stories about on the web dating that will give you all the feels.

Home  Sign In  Search  Date Ideas  Join  Forums  Groups





Forums: Dating General Discussion: What do I do
6/19/2008 9:38:03 PM What do I do  

italiastallion
Santa Rosa, CA
age: 19

 Been broken up with my ex for a couple months already and I'm still in love with her. And I can't get over her I find myself hurting a lot. Mostly from what happened but what the heck am I supposed to do? Want all this *@$^ to go away. Been trying all the things I am supposed to be doing after a break up but its not helping much.
6/19/2008 9:46:05 PM What do I do  

lildifferent
Sacramento, CA
age: 47 online now!

 some times you just gotta' waste some time honey. it WILL get better, 'specially when you meet someone else, somewhere down the road. hearts are resilliant. just keep doin' the things that are good for you, try to have some fun and it will get better. trust me.
6/19/2008 9:48:12 PM What do I do  

deniselaina
Chandler, AZ
age: 50 online now!

 awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww , i remember when young love was so painful , find another gurl friend ....
6/19/2008 9:57:43 PM What do I do  

dakwa
Tulsa, OK
age: 47

 I went through this, but I don't know how bad your break up was. Mine was pretty bad, including the christmas present from her.
The only thing I found that helped, was not dating, because I made a lot of bad choices, real bad ones, that just amplified things.
The best thing is just to keep busy and let time heal it.
6/19/2008 10:01:50 PM What do I do  

judit0606
Big Stone Gap, VA
age: 51

 Awwwww, hun!
I know now it feels like you're never going to heal. But, trust me on this one...you will. It'll take time. But, you're young and time can be your friend. My advice would just be to stay busy!! Whether it be through work, or just being with family or friends. Time heals broken hearts. That's all I can say and I hope it helps just a little.
6/19/2008 10:01:59 PM What do I do  

italiastallion
Santa Rosa, CA
age: 19

 Well I try to keep myself as busy as I can doing the things I enjoy.. Like working on my car, listening to music, hanging out with the few friends I have, dancing... etc..

But then I just can't help but think about her and wonder what she is doing with her life and all that crap and I get really down beat.

I dont really know.. at times I feel great other times I feel like shit.

I'm pretty shy and quiet also. Having a real time meeting new people and stuff. Especially girls!
6/19/2008 10:05:07 PM What do I do  

italiastallion
Santa Rosa, CA
age: 19
Quote from dakwa:
I went through this, but I don't know how bad your break up was. Mine was pretty bad, including the christmas present from her.
The only thing I found that helped, was not dating, because I made a lot of bad choices, real bad ones, that just amplified things.
The best thing is just to keep busy and let time heal it.


It was pretty bad. Everything kind of thrown out the window and stupid decisions made out of anger. A lot of hurtful things said and really took a beating on my self esteem and all. And the cheating part was the worst but whatever.

I hooked up with 2 girls.. only had sex with one. I thought it would help me get over my ex but it didn't do shit. Don't know whether finding a new girl would help or not...
6/19/2008 10:08:26 PM What do I do  

redneckhippy
Pottsboro, TX
age: 40

 Take I-80 East until you get to just the other side of Reno...
Take exit 23...


Wait! I'll be nice.
What you need to do, is find ways to occupy your
downtime, to keep your mind busy.
6/19/2008 10:11:03 PM What do I do  

tfortexas
Big Sandy, TX
age: 56

 You don't get rid of that feeling you just learn to live with it .
6/19/2008 10:17:43 PM What do I do  

italiastallion
Santa Rosa, CA
age: 19
Quote from tfortexas:
You don't get rid of that feeling you just learn to live with it .



That sounds like a handful

I guess your right though. I try to keep myself busy.

I just have these times where I feel like total crap. I just go from good to bad. I stopped talking to her under all circustances in hope that will let me heal faster..

6/19/2008 10:18:47 PM What do I do  

sitkarains
Sitka, AK
age: 48
Quote from tfortexas:
You don't get rid of that feeling you just learn to live with it .


dang I usually agree with you too...This time I have to disagree.
Have you heard that time heals all wounds. Well in the long run it will. It sounds like you have a great start, keeping busy. The one thing I did when I lost my husband years ago, was I took up a hobby I had always wanted to master. That led to another one. Heck I even learned how to make those ships in a bottle. I found when I could keep my mind redirected it became easier to fill up the time.

You already have experienced the rebound doesn't work so you know that. The one thing alot of people don't understand is alot of times a break up of a relationship is so similiar to a death but worse since the person is still alive. But you will go thru all the stages of grieving. Go thru them, celebrate each one of them as you pass thru them, pat yourself on the back and Say I made it. Because one day you will wake up and she won't be the first thing on your mind. Something else will or you will one day feel the sunshine on your face and really enjoy it agian. Right now you are still in the fresh throes of pain.

Good luck to you.
6/19/2008 10:26:33 PM What do I do  

knittinkitten
Lady Lake, FL
age: 71

 sitka, you are sooooo right.....grieving is grieving, it doesn't matter if death is involved or death of a relationship. In one case you know there was nothing you can do about it and the other person is gone. In the other case, you often wonder if you did everything you could to save the relationship, and, you may suffer more, because that person is still alive and not with you, AND you see them.

But, when I was told that time would heal.....5 years time.....I wasn't sure I would be able to make it. However, even though it was MANY years ago, I remember that I awoke one day and I felt better.....I looked at the calendar and, sure enough, it WAS 5 years after my divorce. The timing was right!

Just my thoughts.

KK
6/19/2008 10:33:27 PM What do I do  

italiastallion
Santa Rosa, CA
age: 19

 Well a lot of helpful information here. I was hoping for a quick fix but I guess there is no such thing for a broken heart. I'm trying my best and I really appreciate all the input so far from every single one of you.
6/19/2008 10:45:07 PM What do I do  

prednisonegirl
Sioux City, IA
age: 46

 My heart goes out to you. But you have been given very good advice. When I am down, I turn inward to myself and ask myself what do I need right now? Sometimes it's to sit quietly in my hot tub, sometimes take a nap and sleep it off, sometimes going to a good comedy movie, sometimes it's a brisk walk, sometimes it's a sad song to help me cry it out. Whatever you inner soul is telling you to do, then do it. Just remember that today will be the worst that it will be. Every day will be somewhat easier.